baaa baaa

So once again we have to kowtow to the males and their refusal to have control over their baser instincts? Rather than forcing them to admit that they are sapient and therefor should be able to have 'mind over instinct', we will cover up in burka's so that they do not have to control themselves?

I do agree though that if you wish to be strong enough to appear as you want to appear, then you need to be strong enough to tell the animals calling themselves men to go put their manhood in a meat grinder and make their own dinner!

Me personally, I'll be the first one to admit I dress like a total slut... no biggie really. I like dressing sexy and provocative. Yes, I would probably be considered "a walking sex advertisement" at times by your definition.. again, so what? I might whinge about getting swamped by horny noobs at times because I don't like noobs (as in unrefined, un practiced, clumsy avatars.. not as in people) and I say so right in my profile. Assuming I want sympathy for getting hit on, when the issue is nobody can be bothered to read a friggin profile before hitting me up, is way, way off the mark.
Even the angler who has fun catching and tossing back little fish all day long will bitch about not seeing the big keepers because there's so many little ones. It's part of life's perspective.

this is the same type of "logic" which, in RL, encapsulates into the utterly moronic belief that "women who get raped are asking for it".

Sometimes that's because that's what they *are*.

/me runs and hides.

BTW your last name was a really bad bad choice.

lmao!

What Utter Bullshit. Talk about clutching at straws. You are blurring the lines. For a start getting raped and being harrassed by an avatar are not even in the same ballpark. Nobody is blaming anyone for anything. Using an analogy about rape is completely blown out of proportion. No one deserves to be raped no matter what they wear. But its a fact that the woman who dresses like a street level prostitute is of course going to have a much higher chance of it happening than the woman who doesnt. Smear yourself in shit and attract flies. Walk around in crotchless lingerie designed for the bedroom and attract so called undesirable clumsy noobs with detachable penises.

I don't think you understand what that idiom means.



The clear inference is that you ARE blaming people of "reaping what they have sown" and yes that is the same line of thought that misguided people will use to infer that a woman who dresses in a sexually provocative way was "asking for it". Insisting that it isn't doesn't make it so even when accompanied by expletives.

Aw man why do you even CARE what others look like in SL? Mute them and they turn gray. Problem solved! Move on.

BTW you are SO wrong. The sexier your dress the more self-confidence you show, and the less idiots even dare to approach you. That applies both to SL and RL. Of course by sexiness I mean true feminity and not those oily skinned inflatable doll avatars that are usually droven around by males. I get hit on a lot, yes, as a furry, even as a tiny, but usually in a nice way, almost never in a rude way.

Besides that your posts show a very twisted view of womanhood and female sexuality, it is creeping me out. You sound very bitter. If you are male by any chance, ah well, you will eventuelly get over her.

at the risk of continuing a debate with a droll troll, not a single straw has been touched, much less clutched. i was speaking of your attitude, your, quite literally, ill logic.



this alone shows that you actually have no understanding of rape, no matter how much you care to claim your opinion to be a "fact".

I do NOT think dress choice has ANYTHING to do with being bothered...it has more to do with what's in your profile and picks...or a provactive name...even team it all together.

Thank God we have SL where us women can feel free to wear WHATEVER we like without being judged by others...well until now anyway.

Methinks u are taking SL far too seriously Lala. Where are all these shamefully dressed women complaining about perverts anyway? None have posted as yet.

I'm feeling discriminated against!

I (on occasion) dress like a hooker and even when I was a dancer (ie stripper), I NEVER had perverts after me. I still don't!

I want a pervert!!!!

I still stand by what Ive said and you can all keep twisting it into an "oh how judgemental lala is" story for all I care because the fact still stands that I have not judged anyone. Dress how ever you like I couldnt care less. Ive merely made a comment about an anti griefing product which declares it 'fends off perverts for female avatars'.
I reiterate my view which hasnt changed that if some women wear 'prostitute like' clothes (which is very common in sl) then they are playing a role in attracting the undesirable male avatars they claim are harrassing them. No they dont deserve to be harrassed but they do need to look at the consequence of their actions before declaring 'woe is me a poor helpless victim of second life sexual harrassment' Pffft!!
Yes perhaps the men are wrong in their actions but the women are no innocents either. It has nothing to do with rape as some of you are flinging around so readily. If you dont like my opinion then dont read it because its not going to change so move on lol. Thats all.

Then just post your own criterea as to how a women should dress to suit you. Length of skirt, type of jeans, neck line on the blouse, right color of the burqua. You were the one who started this troll thread just throwing out vague ideas but won't give specifics. You are entitled to your opinion but if you won't quantify you ideas then they have now value.

Wow you really are clutching at straws now arent you. Attempting to associate what Ive said with Islam is not only very ignorant but also racist. How low are you going to stoop to try and prove your point?
What Ive said is not vague at all its actually crystal clear. Ill reiterate one last time for those of you who feel the urge to distort what Ive said through the filter which is your own beliefs and views and spit it out the other end as something it never was.
Female avatars who choose to dress the same way as street prostitutes and then whinge about so called 'perverts'- (not my words for those who stupidly keep insisting that they are but as described in anti grief products) harrassing them need to perhaps reassess the role they play in attracting this unwanted attention because they do have a role in it. They may not deserve it but they do have a role thats just the reality.
You are free to express your opinion and im enjoying reading them. You are also free to dislike my opinion and decide its a troll post(this is what forum members choose to call posters they dont agree with) or wrong or whatever you like however you are powerless to change mine so if you dont like it too bad

Aside from all of that - how does "lala" know who is buying the product and how those customers dress in SL?

Trolleriffic.

ETA after he/she posted: lala, you must be thick. People DO understand your point. You do not understand theirs. Most people who've replied seem to think your logic is severely flawed, data lacking, and opinion inane.

Reposting your original post nearly word for word helps no one.

Ah yes stooping to flaming. Very intelligent Clarissa.
Lets stick to the topic shall we instead of getting personal. I have an opinion and thats all i am prepared to discuss with you. Reiterating my OP is a way of keeping my post on topic so that people like you fail in your silly attempts to derail. Flame on, but it will get you nowhere. Just weakens your point even more and shows just who the real trolls are

What topic would that be ??? Ive lost track. o well nevermind.

Anyways... dont suppose youve seen my sheep anywheres. Ive lost mine somewheres and I starting to worry about it. The poor wee thing. I starting to think someone maybe stole it or trapped it in one of them sheep pen thingys or something. Maybe they even ate it. ooo! I hope not.

LOL another silly failed attempt to derail. Im starting to think some of you not only dress like sheep but that you have the brains of sheep too. baaaa baaaaa byyyyeeee.

/me sends lala a burkha and a free ticket to a PG sim.

Sindy, thank you for the Sheep Ring! It's hilarious!!!!

Could I ask you to please send one to Trout Recreant? He isn't on much lately, and I bet he could use a good dose of slapstick to cheer him up.

Excuse me, I have to get the flock out of here.

I like toasted hot cross buns

Not every woman who has been harrassed by an idiot is "dressed as a prostitute". In SL or RL, for that matter. In SL , all one need do is spend 10 minutes in a welcome area in a reasonably put together female avatar for the games to begin. SL is full of pubescent knuckleheads who are looking for something they can't find in their mother's basement.

I was shopping recently in a newbie friendly area, and had several would be lotharios annoying me. I was hardly dressed as a prostitute:



There are definitely "teasers" in SL just like in RL, put there are far more mouth breathing troglodytes who will jump om anything remotely female in appearance.

Apparently you were.

I agree. For shame!

*giggles, then laughs*

The Sheep! The sheeeppp....