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SL sex, is it for despos?

Jig Chippewa
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01-18-2008 20:14
From: Booby Babenco
I really dont get how anyone can get turned on by second life sex. Its cartoon sex. I suppose when people first discover second life they are curious about this side of things but Im sure for the average person the novelty soon wears off when they realise how silly it is.
It can backfire sometimes though cause some of them like it LOL but most are scarred for life LMAO


Nothing silly about sex, Boobs. Cybah or BedBounce N'Grope its all about "self" and "Thou". Luckily its Friday and I suspect you're Bradley cum to haunt me again:)
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01-19-2008 02:48
From: Solanghe Sarlo
THANK YOU Trout! Dang. *sighs in frustration*.


*Ok, it's official: I friggin love you. Can I be yo baby mama, you pithy poster you?? *smooch*


I'll SLex you down (I'm really good at it, trust me) but no babies. The screw up my persona as mysterious playboy degenerate.

Solanghe is hot! I'm definitely down for some baby momma action.
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01-19-2008 02:54
From: Yosef Okelly
/me sighs
How quickly they forget.

:D


That's what Chris and I were thinking when you sjhowed up and knocked our forum women off their feet. Little pangs of jealously followed by rembering that we were Chris Norse and Trout - goddamn Alpha males around here.

/me beats chest and tears up foliage. Mrahhhhhghh bleah bleah bleah woogs wooga!

We win.

It's ok Josef, you fit in great. In about two months some buck id going to come in and you are going to IM Chris or me with your frustration about how the forum girls like the new guy and not you. Welcome to the club. It's the circle of life.
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Ava Glasgow
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01-19-2008 08:14
From: Trout Recreant
/me beats chest and tears up foliage. Mrahhhhhghh bleah bleah bleah woogs wooga!

Oh my goodness, I think I just ovulated!
Nika Talaj
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01-19-2008 09:09
From: Trout Recreant
I'll SLex you down (I'm really good at it, trust me)
!!

/me looks forward to seeing Trout & Chris lounging around in shiny suits with big lapels soon, idly betting diamonds on which of they ho's will win in the mud wrestling pit next Friday.

(I believe there's a fully equipped one at the Animation Warehouse, let me know if you want the LM)

<- ever helpful

:D
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Lear Cale
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01-19-2008 10:26
From: 2k Suisei
Does it matter to you whether the person behind the avatar is male or female?. Or even human?.


Yes and no.

Sentient is necessary; I'm not interested in having sex with entities devoid of consciousness. Got enough of that back in my college days. ;)

And I confess that if I know the person behind a female av is a male, it detracts from my ability to imagine as intended. I consider that my own shortcoming. So, clue to any future lovers: if you're not as you appear, the best policy for me is "don't ask, don't tell". Don't lie, but feel free not to share certain details.

Same with RL appearance. I'd like to think it doesn't matter to me, but I do find that if I learn that a lover is quite a hotty in RL, it enhances the experience. I've had lovers who've professed to be unattractive and that doesn't bother me at all. Of couse, most women vastly underrate their own attractiveness, and I'm happy to say that I can find beauty most faces, so I don't really take them too seriously when they say that.

But yeah, it matters a little to me -- not terribly significantly, and not intentionally, but it does affect me.
Raymond Figtree
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01-19-2008 10:45
From: Trout Recreant
That's what Chris and I were thinking when you sjhowed up and knocked our forum women off their feet. Little pangs of jealously followed by rembering that we were Chris Norse and Trout - goddamn Alpha males around here.

/me beats chest and tears up foliage. Mrahhhhhghh bleah bleah bleah woogs wooga!

We win.
I like being the Beta male. Less pressure.
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Emmalouise Mills
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01-19-2008 11:01
Having read the majority of this thread, with a mixture of amusement, and dread. I would just like to add my 2lindens worth,

Some enjoy sl sex, some don't, its all in the imagination of the people involved, if it helps their experience of this virtual world, more power to them.

Is the RL genetics of the people involved important, to some yes, to others no. To me i have to say it isn't, as long as the persona they are trying to portray is at least to them correct, i am not really interested in the RL of the person i am interacting with, the only thing to me is the SL experience, and to know that it has maybe in some respects enhanced both our experiences, of the world we love to be involved with
Maihem Randt
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01-19-2008 11:12
From: Lear Cale
To appreciate SL sex, it takes an imagination.

For most humans, imagination is the most important source "G-spot".

Get the implication? ;)

Regardless, enjoy what you like, but don't be so daft as to cast aspersions on the tastes of others, and so ignorant as to assume you have a clue about who enjoys SL sex and why.

I know a number of people who engage in SL sex and enjoy it, while also having active and satisfying RL sex lives, including many whom I know beyond all doubt are very attractive -- knockouts even -- in RL.

Regardless, one of the great things about SL is you can be whatever you can make of yourself. If you happen to be someone who's generally considered hideous in RL, and enjoy being beautiful in SL, the OP seems to think that you must be depraved or pitiable. I pity the OP for his or her inability to see past superficialities.

Let's have a pity party for the poor OP. Awwwww.


this is the best answer so far to the OP.
if you think SL sex sucks, it is simply because you are not doing it well and lack an imagination or are too hung up on your own insecurities in life to enjoy it.
Ricardo Harris
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01-19-2008 11:24
From: Booby Babenco
Of course Ive tried it and in all honesty I didnt expect it to turn me on and I was right, it didnt.



Must be a bitch being frigid. And I mean this in a nice way of course.




While I don't really want to go there I just can't resist adding this is where voice makes a difference. Phone sex? There, I said it.

The freaks come out at night.
Ricardo Harris
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01-19-2008 11:28
From: 2k Suisei
Does it matter to you whether the person behind the avatar is male or female?. Or even human?.




Strange comment.

But of course not if you're bi it don't.
Ricardo Harris
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01-19-2008 11:35
From: Lear Cale
Yes and no.

Sentient is necessary; I'm not interested in having sex with entities devoid of consciousness. Got enough of that back in my college days. ;)

And I confess that if I know the person behind a female av is a male, it detracts from my ability to imagine as intended. I consider that my own shortcoming. So, clue to any future lovers: if you're not as you appear, the best policy for me is "don't ask, don't tell". Don't lie, but feel free not to share certain details.

Same with RL appearance. I'd like to think it doesn't matter to me, but I do find that if I learn that a lover is quite a hotty in RL, it enhances the experience. I've had lovers who've professed to be unattractive and that doesn't bother me at all. Of couse, most women vastly underrate their own attractiveness, and I'm happy to say that I can find beauty most faces, so I don't really take them too seriously when they say that.

But yeah, it matters a little to me -- not terribly significantly, and not intentionally, but it does affect me.



Beauty in the eye of the beholder and all that..
Chris Norse
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01-19-2008 11:43
From: Nika Talaj
!!

/me looks forward to seeing Trout & Chris lounging around in shiny suits with big lapels soon, idly betting diamonds on which of they ho's will win in the mud wrestling pit next Friday.

(I believe there's a fully equipped one at the Animation Warehouse, let me know if you want the LM)

<- ever helpful

:D


I have one in inventory. :D

And Trout, sure they go to the flashy new boy for a day or two, but when it all said and done....... Us old bulls still rule the pasture.
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2k Suisei
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01-19-2008 12:04
Well I don't care how desperate I was, I would never get any satisfaction from watching my SL avatar screw another. So no, SL sex is not for "despos".
Solanghe Sarlo
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01-19-2008 12:51
From: Ava Glasgow
Oh my goodness, I think I just ovulated!



LOLZ! xD
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Solanghe Sarlo
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01-19-2008 12:54
From: Trout Recreant
I'll SLex you down (I'm really good at it, trust me) but no babies. The screw up my persona as mysterious playboy degenerate.

Solanghe is hot! I'm definitely down for some baby momma action.


/me leaps into the air and floats down slowly

He thinks I'm hawt!! *said ala Rudolph the rednosed reindeer "she thinks I'm cuuuute!"


rawwwrrr :p
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Ann Launay
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01-19-2008 16:41
From: Mickey McLuhan
YES, WOMAN! YES! We gotta get that 15 Trout Rating somehow!


Wait, the max is 15 now? Damn it!!!

*contemplates new pics*
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Congratulations and shame on you! You are a bit of a slut.
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01-19-2008 16:48
Yes letting Alpha males loose is good for morale and leadership in the troops, as long as they don't touch my consorts they get to keep their heads and superannuation plan :)
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01-19-2008 16:59
From: Ann Launay
Wait, the max is 15 now? Damn it!!!

*contemplates new pics*


Max is still 10, but with myself, Brenda and her panties all together? That'll smash the barrier, baby!
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Elora Lunasea
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01-19-2008 19:41
From: Ann Launay
Wait, the max is 15 now? Damn it!!!

*contemplates new pics*



I'm only half way to 15! The hell with new pics!

/me begins practicing all my best tactics in seduction in order to bed Trout to gain those extra points :D
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Lear Cale
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01-20-2008 11:48
From: Maihem Randt
if you think SL sex sucks, it is simply because you are not doing it well ...
reminding me of a Monical Lewinsky era joke ... the French position being, if Americans think that oral sex isn't sex, they're obviously not doing it right!

Applies here too. :)
Xio Jester
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01-20-2008 15:34
From: SuezanneC Baskerville
If you said "huge" when you mean "huge" instead of saying "big" when you mean "huge", you wouldn't having to add any explanatory clauses about what you mean when you say "big".



ARRGH MY BRAIN!!!


I'm betting the name "Booby" could have something to do with any events that led up to you getting mad enough to post this topic Booby :confused:

....not that's it's an irrelevant issue or anything, I have wondered the same thing to an extent. Thinking back though, when I was a kid (pre-teen & teenager) I knew people who got turned on my cartoon "babes" so I guess it's the same "Jessica Rabbit fetish" type thing
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Pixieplumb Flanagan
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02-14-2008 02:03
From: 3Ring Binder
what did you have for dinner?

what's the weather like where you are?

how was work today?

all way more interesting than this thread. :p



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Bright but cold

Busy, gearing up for this years tour.

I agree.

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02-14-2008 05:23
From: Booby Babenco
Then I say "whats the matter sweety havent you ever heard of chicks with dicks" I then dissappear never to be seen again. Im sure next time they try to pick up theyll think twice LMAO
It can backfire sometimes though cause some of them like it LOL but most are scarred for life LMAO


Oh what is the matter sweetie...?? Can't contact me inworld? That is because I just added you to my BAN List. What a cruel and heartless person you are. :p
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Lana Tomba
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02-14-2008 06:36
From: Booby Babenco
I really dont get how anyone can get turned on by second life sex. Its cartoon sex. I suppose when people first discover second life they are curious about this side of things but Im sure for the average person the novelty soon wears off when they realise how silly it is. Theres no touch , no smell, its totally untactile so whats the attraction? Same can be said for second life dancing. Its not really dancing its sitting at home on your pc moving your finger if that. Nothing beats real dancing and real sex no matter how good graphics ever get.
If youre that desperate for sex and so ugly you cant get any go get a porn flick or better still a prostitute at least you'll get some real satisfaction.
It can backfire sometimes though cause some of them like it LOL but most are scarred for life LMAO


SL sex has never ever been about the physical primarily. Just like RL sex 95% of it is mental. the biggest sexual organ is?............anyone?..........

The brain. Thats right. so..forming an opinion about cybering by stating that avatars are cartoons and "not real" and the person enjoying cyber sex is tragically ugly. Well hun..your'e missing the point.

Just like all relationships in RL..you're making a mental and emotional connection((or atleast you should be))
Using your attitude about online relationships; roleplayers should really get nothing from roleplaying..cause its not real?!...right??...wrong....its roleplaying.

You easily and effortlessly recommend porn...and it doesn't strike you that these avatars involved in cybersex couldn't be construed as having their own interactive porn?

It's scary to think one could suggest that a physical non emotional act of sex in rl with a prostitute is somehow better than entertaining your fantasies with an avatar online who you have atleast gotten to know..or like because of their avatar choices.

It's like this. when I meet someone in rl..I form opinions about them..their choice of shoes..socks..hairstyle..cologne...more indepth..movies ..music they like etc..and then if there's chemistry there...I allow my mind to entertain the possibility of intimacy.

on the other virtual side of the coin...
when I meet someone in SL..I form opinions about them..their choice of shoes..socks..hairstyle..skin or avatar...more indepth..movies ..music they like etc..and then if theres chemistry there...I allow my mind to entertain the possibility of intimacy.

so...it's more of a mind thing than anything else...and what really concerns me about the OP is that they know this..they realise this..but they choose to ignore it and abuse a trust. You are mind F**ing people and thats not right on any level.

~Lana Tomba
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