SL sex, is it for despos?

Ummm, I think someone else here needs the specialists....

Careful, Say his name too many times and he might just appear. Kinda like beetlejuice. Only wierder...and much more harmless.


Back on the thread subject, with all due respect Boobie, I don't think you know what you are talking about. Sure, you may not like it, but others do. Leave them to it. Next time rather than attacking the people who want to have SLex with you, leave them alone! They might just like it is all. you attacking them may even turn them into a greifer. It is possible to use SL without the SLex.
I don't give a fig (Sorry Ray, for using your name in vain) how annoying it is when you get the 'mak sexies now' comments, but you can't use just your opinion to colour an entire grid of people, sorry but you just can't.

I was only using it as an example of the type of person who might need sl sex as an outlet. It wasnt meant to insult anyone.

LOL 'mak sexies now' thats hilarious. What about 'you show me how to do sex' that ones quite funny too.

So you tried it with a presumption. Such a shame you didn't try it with an *open* mindWith this you insult most of us.


There is a huge 'sex industry' in SecondLife. Live with it.

Yet another thread started by someone not really asking for information but wanting a soapbox to spout their own, judgemental opinion on. Too many threads going this way.

And before anyone says, not 'cliquey' .. just trying to save Resident Answers.

Those of us gifted with sensuality and the abilty to express it in the written word find the animations amusing - often distracting. That being said, I am very sparing with whom I would share the really good stuff.

Maybe that's the problem for the OP, he's never been further than poseball humping. Which is amusing for a day, tops, unless you're finding other people amusing with it!

Yes.

Jumpy has the grand title of being the only one to make my ignore list. I find nothing humorous about him at all. A total lack of creativity. He's the goofy kid in the back of math class that was funny for about 30 seconds but then doesn't know when to stop. And trying to just stir things up for the sake of stirring things up is damned pitiful.

Booby looks like she's going to make number two. So far she's bored me to tears but I'm waiting to see what develops for now.

Does anyone else see the irony of someone named "Booby" starting this thread?

I could of sworn I had made your top 3...

I think in rl Jumpy works for the UN and is making major process working towards peace in the Middle East and in his spare time saves dolphins from those brutes who catch our tuna!

Sexual Fact: Sex between two willing mature partners, takes place in the mind, in the imagination. being "in touch with ones inner slut" does not mean you are a good lover/sexual partner. no one "needs" sl sex as an outlet, and i have to wonder why, when there are so many other issues at hand, the trolls pick sex, and all its various forms to be offended over.

methinks the op doth protest waaay too much.

Yes, that is much more normal behavior than peacefully enjoying a "slow dance v3" with a good friend. You must be a cool guy to hang out with

i think booby is female....

All I can say is, don't knock what you haven't experienced. And don't say you you've done it, because you obviously haven't. I've always said that avatars simulating sex is nothing more that people operating animated graphic puppets, but that's not it. You should get around more

I think SL sex could be the best contraceptive EVER!!!

Should be shown as part of sex education classes to minors, then they'll probably never want to have sex EVER in their lives.

Yep. Very much so.

Sex is important on Second Life because it's more or less the key activity for a lot of role-playing. That's because it's a consensual activity, that has an enjoyable RL effect on those who choose to join in, where there is little or no chance of one partner "losing", and where there are good reasons not to want to do it IRL.

Most other fantasy-based activities on SL are missing one or more of these. Feeling like a powerful fighter by killing goblins, as people do in MMORPGs, can't be done on SL because the goblins would have to be players too and it would not be consensual. If you play a fighting game (like a scripted combat system) with the goblins instead, then you could lose twenty times in a row - so much for being a great fighter. And if you just play the fantasy role socially, and so you just go to a castle-type hangout and talk to others about fighting, then for many people that lacks the necessary RL stimulation (it doesn't make you _feel_ anything more than regular social interaction would), as well as the RL separation (since after all, in most cases you could just talk to people in real life - I'm aware some people can't, and I'm glad SL can be a help to them, but they aren't the majority or the mainstream)

Sex, on the other hand, doesn't have those problems. You can feel sexual arousal, or feel sexually powerful, so the need for an RL emotion is satisfied. Most people would not want to become an escort or exotic dancer, or to have sex with strangers IRL, so the need to be different from RL is satisfied too. The other person wants to have sex as well, so it's consensual, and it isn't a competitive activity, so there's no losing.

I don't enjoy cybersex myself but I think it's intriuging that it turns out to be the most popular and functional activity on many social virtual worlds..

ya Know I read this post, ppls contemplating & recall recently in the news,
"Man who had sex with bicycle sentenced" <--- sentenced!
pft Who knows what excites ppls!

It's kind of funny, I use to have a bird who used to talk, carry on, screech, abuse, cuddle sweetly a mirror in his cage.
I caught myself one time calling him a birdbrain, turning back to computer monitors to a heated convos I was playing ref in to resolve and thought hah whose the birdbrain?!

Nothing like forums troll alts with a poor ability to communicate.

Familiar with the SL forums even though only having registered from them this month.

The simple fact they went from May till Jan without putting payment on file helps you guess they probably used the same alt for other similar useless purposes.

Not to mention the irony that someone would name themselves "Booby" which is obviously a juvenile sexual reference and then complain about people who might be more mature about the subject.


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Sex in SL isnt for everyone. Thats fine. Some people like it though. Thats their choice. Any mature adult could see that.

Which obviously leaves the Original Poster Out.

No respect due, methinks.

Regarding the OP's comment about dancing: Obviously something else he's not actually tried for himself. Some people are perfectly capable of dancing and carrying on a conversation (and other things) at the same time. Did you really think the 'dancers' just stare at their monitors?

Maybe you should crawl back into whatever MUD you came from and leave the cartoons to people who know how to play with them.

Oops, ranting now....

B.

I think perhaps Oxford is closer than Harvard to "Martowski's" physical location ... just a guess.

Booby ... hmmm ... yes ... could be a badly formed shill for Martowski's research, lol! Or, one of many such alts attempting to drive the Lindens to directly intervene, by closing or moderating themselves, the forums.

I don't think guerilla war is the right tactic here. And I very MUCH think that pushing this agenda so aggressively without considering the other posters here, many of whom enjoy it very much and would grieve if they were to close, is mind-bendingly selfish.

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Does anybody have a Strife Symbol, like the Bat Symbol, that we can project onto the clouds above Gotham city?

Strife - if you're out there - if you can hear us - we need you now more than ever.

And your utility belt.

Sandy, I think you'll find that banging noise in the wind is the stable door, bereft of the horse which once was there, with an inviting but ultimately redundant bolt.

To appreciate SL sex, it takes an imagination.

For most humans, imagination is the most important source "G-spot".

Get the implication?

Regardless, enjoy what you like, but don't be so daft as to cast aspersions on the tastes of others, and so ignorant as to assume you have a clue about who enjoys SL sex and why.

I know a number of people who engage in SL sex and enjoy it, while also having active and satisfying RL sex lives, including many whom I know beyond all doubt are very attractive -- knockouts even -- in RL.

Regardless, one of the great things about SL is you can be whatever you can make of yourself. If you happen to be someone who's generally considered hideous in RL, and enjoy being beautiful in SL, the OP seems to think that you must be depraved or pitiable. I pity the OP for his or her inability to see past superficialities.

Let's have a pity party for the poor OP. Awwwww.

Will there be wine and nibbles?

This is probably true. The AV, however, was created this month. I was born May 1, 1961 but my AV is much younger.

You really blew your cred right there. Still, I'll bite. If you are keeping score for trool points that's another one in your favor, I'll give you that.

The attraction? It really depends on how you view sex in generl. To me, sex is the ultimate from of communication. What you just used as arguments against are the arguments I use for it. There is no touch, no smell, it's totally untactile. Any thing that is done, is done with words. Thoughts are what count. One mind to another. One human to another. Completely seperated from this meat shell we all live in so there is nothing to hide behind or get in the way. You can touch the person where they truly are; inside. You do not even need to be having sex on a pose ball to do this, it is just the intamancy associated with physical sex ehlps the perticipants open themselves up to each other. The same can be said of slow dancing or even sitting on a park bench. After all, once it becomes totaly untactile all you have left is communication; this is where true feeling lay waiting. Why do you think people "fall in love" so easily in SL? They are experiencing a level of communiation that is not normal in RL.

If, on the other hand, sex is just your ability to bust a nut then you don't need a person, just a body. In that case then a partner is superflous anyway.