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Cherry Czervik

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01-18-2008 11:59

From: Yosef Okelly

I was thinking despot or despotisim. Imagine my disapointment when I read the post. Gee, talk about crushing someone's hopes.

Despot would be much more fun. Kim Jong Il, anyone? Mugabe?
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Yosef, believe me many of us empathise. Maybe not everyone handled it quite the same way but many of us have given our hearts freely to someone who is not who and what they presented themselves to be.

Hurts in this place take a while to dissipate just like RL or any other internet media.

Hugs.

Yosef Okelly

Mostly Harmless

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01-18-2008 11:59

From: Kira Cuddihy

-wraps her arms around Yosef, and holds Him gently- I am so sorry my dear. For some reason I feel if his/her love for you was genuine they would have eventually forgiven you. At least I would. I have felt that pain before but not because I am not who I claim to be. Just a simple misunderstanding in typed words can do the same thing.

I hope one day this person that means so much to you will find it in themselves to forgive you. Yes it is a genuine loss, but I do believe it is theirs.

/me kisses Him gently on the cheek while ruffling His hair

Thank you, Kira. I was just tyring to emphasize why I no long feel it matters. I did not mean to sound like a hurt puppy. *holds Kira in his arms and snuggles close, returning her kiss in kind* However, I do seem to be addicted to affection so I'll take what I can get.

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01-18-2008 12:01

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Solanghe Sarlo

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01-18-2008 12:29

From: Trout Recreant

OP: What's wrong with you? Seriously. Are you socially retarded or just a jackass? I'm so sick and tired of people coming in here and telling other people what a bunch of losers they are for doing things that the poster doesn't find enjoyable. I bet the OP has some interest that I wouldn't enjoy. That doesn't make him a loser or an idiot. There are apparently developmental steps he has missed in life which make him a loser and an idiot, but not the fact that he does things differently than I do.

People are individuals. They have different likes and dislikes. That doesn't give you license to abuse them and generally act like you are better than them. You aren't being funny. You're just being a dick. When you judge people or abuse them, you aren't "expressing an opinion" you're being a dick. There's nothing you're doing that deserves to be treated with respect. I don't want to hate you or pick on you or anything else. I just want you to stop being a dick and leave people be.

THANK YOU Trout! Dang. *sighs in frustration*.

*Ok, it's official: I friggin love you. Can I be yo baby mama, you pithy poster you?? *smooch*

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Kaira Davies

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01-18-2008 12:47

I always get a kick out of people that post stuff like this, accusing people of having no life for doing X, when they themselves have nothing better to do with their own time than make the post at all.

Lindal Kidd

Dances With Noobs

Join date: 26 Jun 2007

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01-18-2008 12:56

From: Solanghe Sarlo

THANK YOU Trout! Dang. *sighs in frustration*.

*Ok, it's official: I friggin love you. Can I be yo baby mama, you pithy poster you?? *smooch*

And Trout says he can't get a girl.

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Yosef Okelly

Mostly Harmless

Join date: 26 Aug 2007

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01-18-2008 13:29

From: Solanghe Sarlo

THANK YOU Trout! Dang. *sighs in frustration*.

*Ok, it's official: I friggin love you. Can I be yo baby mama, you pithy poster you?? *smooch*

/me sighs
How quickly they forget.

Claire Silverspar

Pokes Badgers With Spoons

Join date: 31 Oct 2007

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01-18-2008 16:04

From: Solanghe Sarlo

*laughs and snorts* Good one Claire.

Thankyou

I didn't mind, but i was hoping someone would notice lol.

For the record, and just to confuse things...I joined SL in September 07, but added payment info and joined the forums and upgraded to premium all in October. My join date is showing as October. *shrugs* dunno what that means but lemme know if you figure it out lol.

/me gives Yosef a big Clairebear huggle. Hope it gets easier for you soon hun.

(eugh, cannot beleive i just called you hun!

I hate using hun!)

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Solanghe Sarlo

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01-18-2008 16:30

From: Yosef Okelly

/me sighs
How quickly they forget.

LOL. Fickle Me.

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Damien Walworth

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01-18-2008 16:42

From: Booby Babenco

I really dont get how anyone can get turned on by second life sex.

Well, stop doing it then. It's not compulsory.

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Ciaran Laval

Mostly Harmless

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01-18-2008 16:44

Being turned on is all in the mind, so SL sex can fit the bill. It's imagination, if you have no imagination I can see why you'd be confused but all sex relies on imagination, RL and SL.

Raymond Figtree

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01-18-2008 16:58

I wish we'd all treat this troll with a great burst of indifference and stop commenting here. They hate to be ignored.

And thus ends my last post to this vile person.

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Brenda Connolly

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01-18-2008 17:04

From: Raymond Figtree

I wish we'd all treat this troll with a great burst of indifference and stop commenting here. They hate to be ignored.

And thus ends my last post to this vile person.

If you post again, would it be considered cheating?

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Raymond Figtree

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01-18-2008 17:07

From: Brenda Connolly

If you post again, would it be considered cheating?

Yes, but I have the willpower not to do that.

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Nyoko Salome

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01-18-2008 17:09

From: Nika Talaj

Boobie's long gone, lol! But yes, you're right, Urban Dictionary:

1. despos

plural: see despo

people who are desperate, who hang around waiting for something to happen.

darned, i thought i was gonna find out how many despotic dictators were logging in just to bang pixels.

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Brenda Connolly

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01-18-2008 17:11

From: Raymond Figtree

Yes, but I have the willpower not to do that.

No you don't.

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Alyx Sands

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01-18-2008 17:52

From: Nyoko Salome

darned, i thought i was gonna find out how many despotic dictators were logging in just to bang pixels.

Now I have visions of Adol-

DANG, Godwin'd.....

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Brenda Connolly

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01-18-2008 18:19

From: Alyx Sands

Now I have visions of Adol-

DANG, Godwin'd.....

Should I whip off my pants and wave them in salute?

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01-18-2008 18:22

*curtsys, ever so daintily*

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Beezle Warburton

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01-18-2008 18:42

From: Raymond Figtree

Yes, but I have the willpower not to do that.

I, for one, refuse to contribute to this thread at all.

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Susie Boffin

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Join date: 15 Sep 2004

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01-18-2008 19:45

What is a despos?

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Mickey McLuhan

She of the SwissArmy Tail

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01-18-2008 19:52

From: Brenda Connolly

Should I whip off my pants and wave them in salute?

YES, WOMAN! YES! We gotta get that 15 Trout Rating somehow!

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01-18-2008 20:06

From: Susie Boffin

What is a despos?

i mean, do you really care?

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Susie Boffin

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01-18-2008 20:10

From: 3Ring Binder

i mean, do you really care?

Not really. I was just trying to make conversation.

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01-18-2008 20:13

what did you have for dinner?

what's the weather like where you are?

how was work today?

all way more interesting than this thread.

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SL sex, is it for despos?
Cherry Czervik Came To Her Senses Join date: 18 Feb 2006 Posts: 3,680	01-18-2008 11:59 From: Yosef Okelly I was thinking despot or despotisim. Imagine my disapointment when I read the post. Gee, talk about crushing someone's hopes. Despot would be much more fun. Kim Jong Il, anyone? Mugabe? *** Yosef, believe me many of us empathise. Maybe not everyone handled it quite the same way but many of us have given our hearts freely to someone who is not who and what they presented themselves to be. Hurts in this place take a while to dissipate just like RL or any other internet media. Hugs.
Yosef Okelly Mostly Harmless Join date: 26 Aug 2007 Posts: 2,692	01-18-2008 11:59 From: Kira Cuddihy -wraps her arms around Yosef, and holds Him gently- I am so sorry my dear. For some reason I feel if his/her love for you was genuine they would have eventually forgiven you. At least I would. I have felt that pain before but not because I am not who I claim to be. Just a simple misunderstanding in typed words can do the same thing. I hope one day this person that means so much to you will find it in themselves to forgive you. Yes it is a genuine loss, but I do believe it is theirs. /me kisses Him gently on the cheek while ruffling His hair Thank you, Kira. I was just tyring to emphasize why I no long feel it matters. I did not mean to sound like a hurt puppy. holds Kira in his arms and snuggles close, returning her kiss in kind However, I do seem to be addicted to affection so I'll take what I can get.
SuezanneC Baskerville Forums Rock! Join date: 22 Dec 2003 Posts: 14,229	01-18-2008 12:01 There is a forum birth date field that is user editable. _____________________ - So long to these forums, the vBulletin forums that used to be at forums.secondlife.com. I will miss them. I can be found on the web by searching for "SuezanneC Baskerville", or go to http://www.google.com/profiles/suezanne - http://lindenlab.tribe.net/ created on 11/19/03. Members: Ben, Catherine, Colin, Cory, Dan, Doug, Jim, Philip, Phoenix, Richard, Robin, and Ryan -
Solanghe Sarlo Gypsy Free Thinker Join date: 19 Jul 2006 Posts: 644	01-18-2008 12:29 From: Trout Recreant OP: What's wrong with you? Seriously. Are you socially retarded or just a jackass? I'm so sick and tired of people coming in here and telling other people what a bunch of losers they are for doing things that the poster doesn't find enjoyable. I bet the OP has some interest that I wouldn't enjoy. That doesn't make him a loser or an idiot. There are apparently developmental steps he has missed in life which make him a loser and an idiot, but not the fact that he does things differently than I do. People are individuals. They have different likes and dislikes. That doesn't give you license to abuse them and generally act like you are better than them. You aren't being funny. You're just being a dick. When you judge people or abuse them, you aren't "expressing an opinion" you're being a dick. There's nothing you're doing that deserves to be treated with respect. I don't want to hate you or pick on you or anything else. I just want you to stop being a dick and leave people be. THANK YOU Trout! Dang. sighs in frustration. Ok, it's official: I friggin love you. Can I be yo baby mama, you pithy poster you?? smooch* _____________________ The key to a contented life: Figure out who you are, what you are, fix what you can and make peace with the rest.
Kaira Davies Registered User Join date: 31 Jul 2007 Posts: 62	01-18-2008 12:47 I always get a kick out of people that post stuff like this, accusing people of having no life for doing X, when they themselves have nothing better to do with their own time than make the post at all.
Lindal Kidd Dances With Noobs Join date: 26 Jun 2007 Posts: 8,371	01-18-2008 12:56 From: Solanghe Sarlo THANK YOU Trout! Dang. sighs in frustration. Ok, it's official: I friggin love you. Can I be yo baby mama, you pithy poster you?? smooch* And Trout says he can't get a girl. _____________________ It's still My World and My Imagination! So there. Lindal Kidd
Yosef Okelly Mostly Harmless Join date: 26 Aug 2007 Posts: 2,692	01-18-2008 13:29 From: Solanghe Sarlo THANK YOU Trout! Dang. sighs in frustration. Ok, it's official: I friggin love you. Can I be yo baby mama, you pithy poster you?? smooch* /me sighs How quickly they forget.
Claire Silverspar Pokes Badgers With Spoons Join date: 31 Oct 2007 Posts: 5,375	01-18-2008 16:04 From: Solanghe Sarlo laughs and snorts Good one Claire. Thankyou I didn't mind, but i was hoping someone would notice lol. For the record, and just to confuse things...I joined SL in September 07, but added payment info and joined the forums and upgraded to premium all in October. My join date is showing as October. shrugs dunno what that means but lemme know if you figure it out lol. /me gives Yosef a big Clairebear huggle. Hope it gets easier for you soon hun. (eugh, cannot beleive i just called you hun! I hate using hun!) _____________________ I'll miss this damn place. I'll be over at SCII after the end has come.
Solanghe Sarlo Gypsy Free Thinker Join date: 19 Jul 2006 Posts: 644	01-18-2008 16:30 From: Yosef Okelly /me sighs How quickly they forget. LOL. Fickle Me. _____________________ The key to a contented life: Figure out who you are, what you are, fix what you can and make peace with the rest.
Damien Walworth Neko boy Join date: 10 Nov 2007 Posts: 181	01-18-2008 16:42 From: Booby Babenco I really dont get how anyone can get turned on by second life sex. Well, stop doing it then. It's not compulsory. _____________________ ,,,=^.^=,,,
Ciaran Laval Mostly Harmless Join date: 11 Mar 2007 Posts: 7,951	01-18-2008 16:44 Being turned on is all in the mind, so SL sex can fit the bill. It's imagination, if you have no imagination I can see why you'd be confused but all sex relies on imagination, RL and SL.
Raymond Figtree Gone, avi, gone Join date: 17 May 2006 Posts: 6,256	01-18-2008 16:58 I wish we'd all treat this troll with a great burst of indifference and stop commenting here. They hate to be ignored. And thus ends my last post to this vile person. _____________________ Read or listen to some Eckhart Tolle. You won't regret it.
Brenda Connolly Un United Avatar Join date: 10 Jan 2007 Posts: 25,000	01-18-2008 17:04 From: Raymond Figtree I wish we'd all treat this troll with a great burst of indifference and stop commenting here. They hate to be ignored. And thus ends my last post to this vile person. If you post again, would it be considered cheating? _____________________ Don't you ever try to look behind my eyes. You don't want to know what they have seen. http://brenda-connolly.blogspot.com
Raymond Figtree Gone, avi, gone Join date: 17 May 2006 Posts: 6,256	01-18-2008 17:07 From: Brenda Connolly If you post again, would it be considered cheating? Yes, but I have the willpower not to do that. _____________________ Read or listen to some Eckhart Tolle. You won't regret it.
Nyoko Salome kittytailmeowmeow Join date: 18 Jul 2005 Posts: 1,378	01-18-2008 17:09 From: Nika Talaj Boobie's long gone, lol! But yes, you're right, Urban Dictionary: 1. despos plural: see despo people who are desperate, who hang around waiting for something to happen. darned, i thought i was gonna find out how many despotic dictators were logging in just to bang pixels. _____________________ Nyoko's Bodyoils @ Nyoko's Wears http://slurl.com/secondlife/Centaur/126/251/734/ http://home.comcast.net/~nyoko.salome2/nyokosWears/index.html "i don't spend nearly enough time on the holodeck. i should go there more often and relax." - deanna troi
Brenda Connolly Un United Avatar Join date: 10 Jan 2007 Posts: 25,000	01-18-2008 17:11 From: Raymond Figtree Yes, but I have the willpower not to do that. No you don't. _____________________ Don't you ever try to look behind my eyes. You don't want to know what they have seen. http://brenda-connolly.blogspot.com
Alyx Sands Mental Mentor Linguist Join date: 17 Feb 2007 Posts: 2,432	01-18-2008 17:52 From: Nyoko Salome darned, i thought i was gonna find out how many despotic dictators were logging in just to bang pixels. Now I have visions of Adol- DANG, Godwin'd..... _____________________ ~~I'm a linguist. RL sucks, but right now it's decided to be a little less nasty to me - you can still be nice to me if you want! ~~ ->Potestatem obscuri lateris nescitis.<-
Brenda Connolly Un United Avatar Join date: 10 Jan 2007 Posts: 25,000	01-18-2008 18:19 From: Alyx Sands Now I have visions of Adol- DANG, Godwin'd..... Should I whip off my pants and wave them in salute? _____________________ Don't you ever try to look behind my eyes. You don't want to know what they have seen. http://brenda-connolly.blogspot.com
3Ring Binder always smile Join date: 8 Mar 2007 Posts: 15,028	01-18-2008 18:22 curtsys, ever so daintily _____________________ it was fun while it lasted. http://2lf.informe.com/
Beezle Warburton =o.O= Join date: 10 Nov 2006 Posts: 1,169	01-18-2008 18:42 From: Raymond Figtree Yes, but I have the willpower not to do that. I, for one, refuse to contribute to this thread at all. _____________________ Though this be madness, yet there is method in't. -- William Shakespeare Warburton's Whimsies: In SL Apez.biz
Susie Boffin Certified Nutcase Join date: 15 Sep 2004 Posts: 2,151	01-18-2008 19:45 What is a despos? _____________________ "If you see a man approaching you with the obvious intent of doing you good, you should run for your life." - Henry David Thoreau
Mickey McLuhan She of the SwissArmy Tail Join date: 22 Aug 2005 Posts: 1,032	01-18-2008 19:52 From: Brenda Connolly Should I whip off my pants and wave them in salute? YES, WOMAN! YES! We gotta get that 15 Trout Rating somehow! _____________________ 0.0 Where there's smoke, there isn't always fire. It might just be a particle display. -Mari-
3Ring Binder always smile Join date: 8 Mar 2007 Posts: 15,028	01-18-2008 20:06 From: Susie Boffin What is a despos? i mean, do you really care? _____________________ it was fun while it lasted. http://2lf.informe.com/
Susie Boffin Certified Nutcase Join date: 15 Sep 2004 Posts: 2,151	01-18-2008 20:10 From: 3Ring Binder i mean, do you really care? Not really. I was just trying to make conversation. _____________________ "If you see a man approaching you with the obvious intent of doing you good, you should run for your life." - Henry David Thoreau
3Ring Binder always smile Join date: 8 Mar 2007 Posts: 15,028	01-18-2008 20:13 what did you have for dinner? what's the weather like where you are? how was work today? all way more interesting than this thread. _____________________ it was fun while it lasted. http://2lf.informe.com/

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