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How old does my avatar need to look to have sex?

alice Pinkerton
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05-13-2007 15:38
From: mcgeeb Gupte
And that is the problem. "If your Avatar looks like 16 or 17". Who decides this and that is the question. Alsol the answer shouldn't be, make it look older. I'm old enough in real life, I want to be young looking.


Yes, the answer "shouldnt" be make it look older, unfortunately.. LL have implimented a rule that requires your avatar to look older in order to engage in sexual activities...so you are sort of stuck arent you? I for one dont have a problem with young looking or even child AV's...I do however have a MAJOR issue with people depicting sex with children (ok..minors if you prefer).

As for who decides the look of an avatar, I am guessing that LL will make that decision..seems to be the sane choice seems they will be the final say on the issue.
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05-13-2007 16:18
From: alice Pinkerton
Yes, the answer "shouldnt" be make it look older, unfortunately.. LL have implimented a rule that requires your avatar to look older in order to engage in sexual activities...so you are sort of stuck arent you? I for one dont have a problem with young looking or even child AV's...I do however have a MAJOR issue with people depicting sex with children (ok..minors if you prefer).

As for who decides the look of an avatar, I am guessing that LL will make that decision..seems to be the sane choice seems they will be the final say on the issue.


I sure hope they make good decisions. My avatar height is only 30 and thats either 5' 4" or 5' 6" normal in real life. I don't really get out much around SL but I'm a lot of times pretty short in comparison when I do. I've never been told I look like a kid but I'm sure I could just be changing into some pigtails and a cute outfit. I own a shop and it would be crazy to get banned just because of height. I've had this shape for about a year and a half and won't change it no way!! I like the shape too much, it looks natural and not like some of these other crazy tall shapes which in my opinion are very unrealistic. In fact, its from Colette. If people get AR'd just because they look possibly like 16 to only a few people that is crazy!! We need to focus on the real issue and that is the really obvious stuff that is just wrong and thats the pre-teen child avatars having sex and the child porn photos.
Elinah Iredell
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05-13-2007 16:20
From: alice Pinkerton
Yes...some people MAY AR you for looking short but you know what..those same people might have already AR'ed you for looking like a griefer..or for suspicion of being underaged in game. People will always AR unnecessarily... and there isnt a think anyone can do about it. You seem to paint LL as a company that just reacts without first looking into things.. do you REALLY believe that is how they are? Do you really believe that they are just going to ban short avatars...for no reason? Of course they arent, Of course they will investigate first.
As I said in my other post...yes people have a right to be short. I totally agree with you there..and LL doesnt disagree either, they have never stated that you cant have a short avatar.. but thats doesnt mean that people who suspect you of being involved in ageplay arent going to AR you...so you have an option, you can make your AV a little taller... or you can have people ..quite wrongly.. abuse report you and have to find yourself doing a lot of explaining. but remember.. be short and be proud of it!! If you are going to stand up for your "young" looking "short" avatar..that isnt 15 but could be... then do it loud and proud!



I have the answer for any short adult avatar ! Create a group with the tag name " Not a child av" Or " Short adult avatar " and wear it over your head that way you wont get harassed and don't forget to say the same thing in your sl profile... if you still get an ar against you, well have done everything you could and they are in the wrong.Its a little silly I know but it will work.

Elinah
Susie Boffin
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05-13-2007 16:34
Why should I have to justify my 5'3" av to anyone? I've had it for many years and will not be changing it, adding nonsense to my profile or wearing a silly group title, just to satisfy some SL moralists who consider young and short looking people to be ageplayers. They are the ones with the problem, not me. I really can't believe what some people are suggesting in this thread.

SL would be a sad world indeed if all of the women were 6'5" and looked like MTV has beens. Now that I think of it.....

If someone doesn't like the way another person looks then don't look at them.
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05-13-2007 16:39
I couldnt tell you if your avie looks 15 or 18. But its real obvious when your two foot tall, flat chested, pigtailed, frilly skirted, shiny black shoes and little white socks kindergarten ragamuffin is crawling around on a sex-gen bed. Thats the kind of thing that gets the FANTASY GESTAPO all nervous. "Was ist dieses? Geschlecht mit Kindern?" They dont care if the participants behind the avies are middle aged kink enthusiasts. In reality the wife may toss on the frilly ragamuffin outfit and play the 'oh daddy' scene, but she just ends up looking kinda silly. In SL the costumes are more convincing. She can indeed morph into whatever charecter shes decided to play. Since some believe that playing a hardcore role in a fantasy realm is a precurser to RL experimentation, your no longer allowed to stretch your imagination to such edgy levels. So, grow up and have fake sex with somebody your own age.
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Elinah Iredell
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05-13-2007 16:43
From: Susie Boffin
Why should I have to justify my 5'3" av to anyone? I've had it for many years and will not be changing it, adding nonsense to my profile or wearing a silly group title, just to satisfy some SL moralists who consider young and short looking people to be ageplayers. They are the ones with the problem, not me. I really can't believe what some people are suggesting in this thread.

SL would be a sad world indeed if all of the women were 6'5" and looked like MTV has beens. Now that I think of it.....

If someone doesn't like the way another person looks then don't look at them.



I was talking about the girl with the 4'6" av who claimes she is banned all the time and accused of being a child av when she is just short. I dont want to see her get an abuse report thrown at her if she gets a boyfriend in here that's all.

Elinah
Murasaki Suisei
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05-13-2007 16:48
Mrs. Showdog Tiger is pretty darned short. No one ever confuses her for being a child. Perhaps her wonderful jargon and incredible grammar prevents people from thinking she's young. Plus, I've never seen her wear anything riske` unless she's wearing her dusting fairy outfit....and every body part is still covered.

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Har Fairweather
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05-13-2007 17:20
I had a conversation last week with a 4 foot high computer mouse. The subject of sex never came up - it was mainly teed off because it couldn't get its right-hand button to click - but I wonder if it would qualify as an ageplayer, being so short and all...
Tegg Bode
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05-13-2007 17:52
From: Har Fairweather
I had a conversation last week with a 4 foot high computer mouse. The subject of sex never came up - it was mainly teed off because it couldn't get its right-hand button to click - but I wonder if it would qualify as an ageplayer, being so short and all...


Hmm that might be the same one I saw USBing with an underspeed Modem last week in a PG shopping mall, disgusting behaviour......................
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Comeny Mokeev
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05-13-2007 18:20
From: Atashi Yue
So don't do it.


Ok I won't.
Comeny Mokeev
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05-13-2007 18:25
From: mcgeeb Gupte
Ask them. One things for sure its safe sex. What's disturbing about it?


ahaha

It ain't even sex.

Masterbating to a porn site with real naked girls is more sex than watching 2L avatars have sex. Just my 2 cents.

How many guys are browsing 2L with HOT SEXY girl avatars anyway.... aha Now that's something to think about.

If that turns you on, then I don't know what else to say.
Comeny Mokeev
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05-13-2007 18:26
But I do like walking around with big strap on penises though. ahaha Gets all the attention all the time.
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05-13-2007 18:49
This topic is/has gone off topic.

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