What do you look for in an escort / strip club?

Do you now? All this time and I had NO idea you had a foot fetish.

LOL! Ty Colette and Brenda - I can do with a good laugh on a Monday.

Now we are even for the Yiffing surprise you threw at me awhile ago. And it's a SHOE fetish. The only interest I have in feet is covering mine in cute shoes.

I see a male escort in the making. You go, stud!

Some sort of breast related attraction would high on my list.

ohh! I knew about the shoe fettish. False alarm.

One thing I like is truth in advertising..

for example:

escort - person who is paid to escort someone else as a date, as arm candy or just company

prositute - someone who has sex (virtual or real for this definition) for money.

I personally appreciate people who can be honest with themselves and not hide behind a 'prettier name,' a hooker is a hooker.

Naked men.

Hey, lets not be biased here.

LOL ... that argument predates the internet - I doubt that Second Life is going to unsully the reputation of the word "escort" now.

Escorts stopped being soley non-sexual dates sometime in the 70's .. blame phone books.

Yeah but I always call them what they are and don't beat around the bush.

Escorts, to me, always will be nonsexual. Call me old fashioned (and I wasn't even born in the 70s).

But the tradition of not calling Prostitutes what they are is so old now - IT is OLD fashoned.


From trying to make them sound not as sordid
Doxies, Painted ladies, Perfumed Doves, Ladies of the Evening ... Escorts

To the convienient
Call-Girls, Working Girls ...

To the derogatory
Trollips, Whores, Tramps, Hussies ...

It's only derogatory in nature if said that way. To me, when I reply to Bankings concubine I call her 'his little slut' but sluts not intended negatively, more as a person free in their sexuality.


Derogatory is all in how its said and how its taken, and honestly, if I call a prostitute a prostitute and she gets upset, to me, thats just her problem. At its base level theres nothing wrong with it, selling a service for cash. And if someones got a moral problem with being a hooker and being called out for it..what the f*** is she doing being a hooker in the first place?

I had an Escort in the 70's. Blue, used to overheat very easily, very responsive, was very good for picking up broken down motorcycles .. and motorcyclists for that matter!
did a lot of miles together we did! ... lovely ol' gal

Removing all vestiges of a more discrete, innuendo filled time for the point and click Internet porn styled world - Is not a good thing in my opinion.

While it likely gives many men what they are interested in - it removes much of the fantasy element for the women. As far as Prostitution in SL goes.

~shrugs~

If they are disillusioned about what they choose to play perhaps they take it too seriously?

You are thinking too black and white. Im not saying that the SL Prostitutes find those terms derogatory. Im saying that society does. Im not saying that The "escort" doesnt want to be called a "whore" in the right circumstances.

While many find the internet Porn site style apealing;

Others might find a more subtle approach to the matter more enjoyable.

Of course getting back directly on topic - other than using the word "Escort" most Strip/escort clubs follow exactly the line of thinking you have used. If they just crossed out "Escort" and replaced it with "Hooker" they would be exactly the same place.

What Linden Labs has done with Second Life graphically, considering the type of environment it is, is impressive. That being said, the graphics on a whole are fairly primative. Thus, the first rule is, your Second Life sexual entertainment has to offer something more than the movies and pictures one can grab for free off Usenet. From a purely visual standpoint, Second Life is no contest.

The second thing to remember is this: There are way, way, way too many strip clubs in Second Life. A person can't walk 2 meters without tripping over a stripper.

The third thing to remember is this: There is nothing inherently exciting about switching through different pre-programmed sex animations.

The fourth thing to remember is this: For the money it costs me to get a stripper out of his or her clothes for a few seconds, I can buy a nice outfit from a top Second Life designer.

The fifth thing to remember is this: A tip is something one pays a service provider after the service is provided as a reward for good service. If the money is demanded prior to the service, it is a fee, not a tip.

The sixth thing to remember is this: That which is effortless to obtain is not special. Such that, for example, a stripper can't do something special for a customer to earn an extra tip, when just about anything is allowed, normal, and regulated by a fee.

The seventh thing to remember is this: Whether your strip club or whore house will be fun depends on atmosphere and context. From a roleplaying standpoint, what makes some sexual roleplay fun is the "naughty" aspect of it. The sex industry in Second Life is so liberal that there is absolutely nothing naughty about it at all. That makes it no fun.

I'd like to see a strip club that actually looked like a strip club... not a dance club. I know it's pretty hard to run these things 24 hours so possibly some scheduled strip shows or something. It would be great if the dancer can have specific animations toward a particular seated customer and perhaps actual animations of taking off clothes instead of clothes just disappearing into thin air. Maybe throwing clothes at customers? That way a paying customer would have a bunch of underwear on his table compared to a non-paying customer. How about a shower show and that thing in Flashdance where she sits on a chair and pulls the chain...

Yes, an actual well done strip club would be neat.

If people would just like to see a good strip club build - take a look at Schmooze, its a very impressive looking club.

Its not often inhabited though - by design I beleive.

I love those .

Now there's an idea...a real burlesque type show would be neat. Maybe with a Fan Dance......

any idea that requires any sort of intellectual thought .. is doomed.

Ok, have One Pole dancer...

Wow. I wish. But it's back up again. It's again cutting into my patronage of the over eight-billion strip clubs in Second Life.

What do I look for in a strip club?

Brenda and Collette.