08-05-2005 08:12
From: Aimee Weber
My trust varied a lot with time. I started out paranoid of all you internet freaks :D. Now my RL photo is available and I am a lot more casual about my RL info. I don't know if that's a good thing. Sometimes I feel like I'm deceiving myself about how safe the exposure is, especially with the appearance of an enemy that could best be described as obsessed. I make a very focused effort of separating my RL from my SL.

Aimee, it's been my long experience that you have more to fear from random spyware than you do from nutjobs -- but then, a higher percentage of whackos drive large fast automobiles on your streets than hunt you online.

I had a stalker in college. He never said a word to me, just showed up at my dorm or my classes and stared at me. My boyfriend at the time, a football linebacker, had to have a little talk with him and encourage him to avoid having spontaneous facial reconstruction :)

But online, I'm careful enough that I have never had any problems. I don't give out much RL info, if any, but that's just to make myself feel more secure. More people are after my credit card numbers than are after my body. Dammit.
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