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An End to Division

Catherine Cotton
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06-16-2005 19:06
From: Lo Jacobs
Yeah, but it sure doesn't make me like her any better.


I don't think that was necessary.

Cat
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06-16-2005 19:07
From: Cristiano Midnight
Excellent post. This is about rexamining our own actions, and the actions of others in a new light, and just learning to let it all go and go back to enjoying this incredible opportunity we all have. Those who are coming into this thread and posting negatively should look inward instead of lashing outward - no one is blameless in this, not me - not any of you. We all need to move on, or it just will remain this ugly vicious circle that serves no one.


You're right Cris. I think I need to buy myself some posting mittens. When I start to get overly annoyed by something I'll put them on, then even if I can't summon the willpower not to respond it will just be unreadable gibberish.
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06-16-2005 19:13
From: Cristiano Midnight
Enabran,

Excellent post. This is about rexamining our own actions, and the actions of others in a new light, and just learning to let it all go and go back to enjoying this incredible opportunity we all have. Those who are coming into this thread and posting negatively should look inward instead of lashing outward - no one is blameless in this, not me - not any of you. We all need to move on, or it just will remain this ugly vicious circle that serves no one.

There will be disagreements, and not everyone has to like each other, but we can at least try to coexist without beating each other up. The best response often is just to say nothing at all, no matter how much we might want to. It is hard when you feel something is a personal affront to you - but that is precisely the time to do so. In the end, it will help us all individually. Everyone believes they are right and just in their own minds - that is human nature. In the end on 99% of the stuff we talk about, it doesn't even really matter who is right or wrong - we generally are not going to convince anyone anyway.

It becomes a fool's errand and downward spiral to try to win an argument in the forums, especially with people who refuse to listen to you or acknowledge their own mistakes. I certainly have made them, and reevaluate myself all the time. I would much rather get back to enjoying SL and not spending so much time being concerned what fresh hell is going to be levelled in the forums. I hope it can return to some level of civility and normalcy, and that even damaged relationships can be repaired. It's not worth all of this negativity.


I, pandastrong Fairplay, will henceforth refrain from any pernicious pillory in all efforts to not ruin anyone's Christmas this year. This includes not punching Santa in the nose.



</gloat> :D
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Weedy Herbst
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06-16-2005 19:23
From: pandastrong Fairplay
This includes not punching Santa in the nose.



</gloat> :D


You'll find a way......... :D
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Enabran Templar
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06-16-2005 19:23
From: Cristiano Midnight
Enabran,

Excellent post. This is about rexamining our own actions, and the actions of others in a new light, and just learning to let it all go and go back to enjoying this incredible opportunity we all have. Those who are coming into this thread and posting negatively should look inward instead of lashing outward - no one is blameless in this, not me - not any of you. We all need to move on, or it just will remain this ugly vicious circle that serves no one.


Thank you, Cristiano, for being among the few who have taken my post in the spirit intended. It's regrettable that our wounds aren't going to heal overnight, as demonstrated by some of the continued negativity from a minority. But I think we'll get better eventually.
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Cocoanut Koala
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06-16-2005 19:33
Incredible.

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Catherine Cotton
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06-16-2005 19:52
From: Enabran Templar
Thank you, Cristiano, for being among the few who have taken my post in the spirit intended. It's regrettable that our wounds aren't going to heal overnight, as demonstrated by some of the continued negativity from a minority. But I think we'll get better eventually.


Huh? Ok I'm seriously confused now.

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06-16-2005 19:54
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When the routine bites hard
And ambitions are low
And the resentment rides high
But emotions won’t grow
And we’re changing our ways,
Taking different roads
Then love, love will tear us apart again
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Lo Jacobs
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06-16-2005 19:54
From: Catherine Cotton
I don't think that was necessary.


I am not inclined to like someone who -- while I don't know her -- comes here and insults a wide range of people.

While I do not know her, she does not know me, and she has the added disadvantage of attacking people she does not know.

I took her comments personally. She has no idea what she's talking about. She is rude and ignorant. Therefore, I'm happy to say I'll have nothing to do with her.

I like the goal of Enabran's post, but I fear the seeds have already been sewn, as shown by Kelley, and several other people, though not necessarily in this thread.

I DO NOT SEEK TO DIVIDE. I give everyone a chance. If you met someone who insulted you to your face, would you be inclined to be nice to them? I don't think so.
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Enabran Templar
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06-16-2005 19:57
From: Lo Jacobs
I like the goal of Enabran's post, but I fear the seeds have already been sewn, as shown by Kelley, and several other people, though not necessarily in this thread.

I DO NOT SEEK TO DIVIDE. I give everyone a chance. If you met someone who insulted you to your face, would you be inclined to be nice to them? I don't think so.


Aye, Lo. The poison seeds are bearing fruit. I was foolish to think we could be free of this pettiness. Even look what this olive branch has become. Were it in my power, I'd lock the thread now. Not much point. :(
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Cristiano Midnight
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06-16-2005 19:59


There should be no confusion, Catherine. I asked you to please practice what you are preaching, to comment on the ideas, not the person. By continuing to have a harassing siguature quote that you purposely truncated, you continue to attack me with every post you make. That is not an attack on you, it is a statement of how you are making me feel by doing that.
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Oliphant Ming
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06-16-2005 20:00
When it comes to questions of us or them, count me out...

I'm one of them... always have been, always will be.

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Catherine Cotton
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06-16-2005 20:08
From: Cristiano Midnight
There should be no confusion, Catherine. I asked you to please practice what you are preaching, to comment on the ideas, not the person. By continuing to have a harassing siguature quote that you purposely truncated, you continue to attack me with every post you make. That is not an attack on you, it is a statement of how you are making me feel by doing that.


Really it seemed a hypocritical post to me.
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Cristiano Midnight
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06-16-2005 20:08
From: Catherine Cotton
Realy it seemed a hypocritical post to me.
Cat


As did yours, given what you are doing.
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Eboni Khan
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06-16-2005 20:11
From: Catherine Cotton
Realy it seemed a hypocritical post to me.
Cat



The word is "really".
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Catherine Cotton
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06-16-2005 20:13
From: Cristiano Midnight
As did yours, given what you are doing.


I posted your complete quotes one cancels out the other. Seeing that difference might be part of the solution.

If you dont like my sig. you should of never said it.

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Enabran Templar
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06-16-2005 20:14
*sigh*

Please just lock this thread, Jeska.

No good deed goes unpunished. :(
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Cristiano Midnight
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06-16-2005 20:22
From: Catherine Cotton
I posted your complete quotes one cancels out the other. Seeing that difference might be part of the solution.

If you dont like my sig. you should of never said it.

Cat


* sigh * Catherine why do you purposely have to make me call you on a lie - you truncated the quote in mid sentence, you know it. The original post was removed, but the entire quote that truncated said that I am extremely broadminded - I have no tolerance for Prokofy's smugness. It is really really sad that you can't be adult enough to move beyond it and stop this.. It is abusive to truncate a quote to misrepresent what it said, and I would have thought that even beneath you.
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Chip Midnight
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06-16-2005 20:29
From: Enabran Templar
No good deed goes unpunished. :(


The sentiment is still appreciated muchly.
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Nolan Nash
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06-16-2005 20:30
I saw the original quote. It was as Cris says.

I am not sure why, if Jeska saw fit to edit that line from the original post, Catherine is allowed to have a truncated form of the edited quote in her sig.

Catherine, that is low. Lower than I thought you were capable of, but hey, you never stop suprising me, so I guess it's par fot the course.
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Cristiano Midnight
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06-16-2005 20:31
From: Enabran Templar
*sigh*

Please just lock this thread, Jeska.

No good deed goes unpunished. :(


Sorry Enabran, I will bow out of this post - I meant what I said - it just pains me to have Catherine attack me with every single post with a faked quote.
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Enabran Templar
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06-16-2005 20:38
From: Cristiano Midnight
Sorry Enabran, I will bow out of this post - I meant what I said - it just pains me to have Catherine attack me with every single post with a faked quote.


Cristiano, I know it's infuriating to you. But we all know what game is being played. You're one of our most decent. It'll take a bit more than that to soil your name. :)
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Pendari Lorentz
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06-16-2005 20:48
From: Enabran Templar
Aye, Lo. The poison seeds are bearing fruit. I was foolish to think we could be free of this pettiness. Even look what this olive branch has become. Were it in my power, I'd lock the thread now. Not much point. :(


Nah.. Don't feel that way Enabran. Your post was what you felt, and it was well meant and well put. And well received by most I am certain. :)

Just remember, Rome wasn't built in a day.. :D
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Eboni Khan
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06-16-2005 20:49
From: Catherine Cotton
I posted your complete quotes one cancels out the other. Seeing that difference might be part of the solution.

If you dont like my sig. you should of never said it.

Cat



Catherine you are telling a flat out lie. It is nice that the lackluster moderation here has assisted you in telling your lie since the original post is missing, but everyone who read the original post knows that you are telling a flat out lie.
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06-16-2005 20:52
From: Pendari Lorentz

Just remember, Rome wasn't built in a day.. :D


But I think it was burned down in one ;)
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