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Student expelled for being gay

Reitsuki Kojima
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04-13-2006 12:27
From: Chip Midnight
Speaking out against something over which people have no control is intolerance, plain and simple. Sexual orientation and race would be two examples of things which are not voluntary. Speaking out against things that are voluntary, like philosophies, religions, or political positions is a different story.


I seem to recall clashing on this once before with you, Chip, but I'm never one to stay silent I guess...

Religion, IE, a belief, is not, per say, a choice. I chould choose not to practice my religion, or I could choose to go through the motions of practicing a religion if I were not religious, but the actual belief is not a choice. I could no more choose to stop holding the belief I do than I could choose to stop finding men attractive.

If you don't believe me, try it. Try believing absolutely in God for five minutes. Not saying you believe in God, or not going to church - believing, right down in the very root of your mind, that God exists.

Can you do it?

From: Chip Midnight
If this person was being prevented from voicing dissenting opinions about any of those things I'd agree with you, but what she's fighting for is no different than claiming a "right" to be a racist.


Well, you have a right to be a racist. You just don't have a right to ACT on those beliefs in most cases.
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Reitsuki Kojima
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04-13-2006 12:28
From: Picabo Hedges
What I am defending is the school's right to enforce its own rules.


...with public money.
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Chip Midnight
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04-13-2006 12:29
From: Picabo Hedges
If you are describing me, then you are seriously mistaken. What I am defending is the school's right to enforce its own rules. I didn't defend their religious position but their right to hold it.

If you want a discussion of a person's right to hold racist views, that might be an interesting discussion. But not in this thread.


No, I wasn't describing you. I was talking about the person in the article that Kevn posted. I actually agree with your argument in the technical sense, despite the fact that I think Christian views on homosexuality are indefensible. I also agree that if the school took tax dollars they're wrong legally in addition to be wrong morally.
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Jeska Linden
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04-13-2006 12:33
Just a reminder - I recognize this is a very high-emotion topic of discussion, but I'd like to remind everyone to please do not cross the line into personal attacks and insults while having these heated discussions.
Picabo Hedges
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04-13-2006 12:42
From: Chip Midnight
No, I wasn't describing you. I was talking about the person in the article that Kevn posted. I actually agree with your argument in the technical sense, despite the fact that I think Christian views on homosexuality are indefensible. I also agree that if the school took tax dollars they're wrong legally in addition to be wrong morally.
No problem. guess I misinterpeted it. (this was edited)

We obviously disagree on most everything afer "despite the fact" (above). :)
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04-13-2006 12:44
From: Reitsuki Kojima
...with public money.
It's all about money for you? Here's $1L. Feel better? :)
Kevn Klein
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04-13-2006 12:46
From: Chip Midnight
...........................I'd agree with you, but what she's fighting for is no different than claiming a "right" to be a racist.

As repugnant as racism is, I wouldn't dare suggest one doesn't have a right to be racist. I happen to believe everyone deserves the right to believe as they will, and to say what they think. But that's just my liberal side talking... :D
Picabo Hedges
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04-13-2006 12:49
Intellectually, I think that she does have a right to be intellectually racist.

However, that's not what I interpreted her point as being. She's arguing that she's a victim of reverse discrimination due to special treatment of others.
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04-13-2006 12:50
From: Juro Kothari
The difference, Kevn is that one is seeking a safe environment from harrassment - the other is seeking the right to harrass.


Hey, its their sim, they can harrass whomever they want.

:rolleyes:

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Reitsuki Kojima
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04-13-2006 12:54
From: Picabo Hedges
It's all about money for you? Here's $1L. Feel better? :)


Can I have a five hundred thousand USD of taxpayer money to set up a gay sex club?
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Picabo Hedges
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04-13-2006 12:58
From: Reitsuki Kojima
Can I have a five hundred thousand USD of taxpayer money to set up a gay sex club?
Couch your proposal in some sort of "organized religion" intermixed with education and there's a chance some legislator can work a deal for you into some state law somewhere.

But I already said I won't play the legal funding game on this issue.

All I can offer is the $1L. But I'm not inworld so you'll have to trust that I am good for it.
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04-13-2006 13:01
From: Reitsuki Kojima
Can I have a five hundred thousand USD of taxpayer money to set up a gay sex club?


Actually you'd be more likely to succeed in this if you work in a scientific study of the nostril sizes of aroused prairie dogs.
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Zuzu Fassbinder
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04-13-2006 13:26
From: Picabo Hedges
reverse discrimination

This is a doubleplus good term. I can only assume it means the same as "unbiased treatment"? Wouldn't that be the reverse of discrimination?
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Picabo Hedges
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04-13-2006 13:36
From: Zuzu Fassbinder
This is a doubleplus good term. I can only assume it means the same as "unbiased treatment"? Wouldn't that be the reverse of discrimination?
Uh. Nooooo.

It is generally considered to be defined as socially "approved" discrimination - generally justified as a means to compensate for previous wrongs. In this case, not being treated equally because consideration of another's race is deemed important while consideration her own individual concerns is not.... that's the essence of the "discrimination in reverse" that seems to be being claimed.

If you haven't heard the term before... where have YOU been? :)

If you have, can I have my leg back? :)
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04-13-2006 13:51
You've lost, Picabo. We've beaten you down with a deluge of counter-arguments, and you're down to trying to squabble over the definition of "reverse discrimination".

Answer our posts that you've ignored, leave quietly, or prepare to be seen by everyone as a common troll.

It's your choice.
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Paolo Portocarrero
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04-13-2006 14:22
From: Picabo Hedges

Hang on there bud. Are we speaking of all Christian schools or just this one? I thought we were speaking of a specific instance given the limited information in the news report.

First, I am not your "bud." What, exactly, prevents either of us from drawing on similar or related events, issues or anecdotes pertaining to the topic at hand? Regarding the latter, my policy has always been to err on the side of the accused and/or the powerless (i.e., the student in this case). I will give the student the benefit of the doubt until more information is provided.
From: Picabo Hedges

As for my questions extending the religious precept basis for the school to the general question of doesn't such a school have a right to promote its religion... and your response... I think that you have an indefensible position when you say that a private school doesn't have the right to expel anyone. Being a private school pretty much gives them that right.

Huh? I have such a hard time following your logic. Why not just plainly state your point? And when did I ever say that a private school (or a public one, for that matter) doesn't have the right (within specifically limited bounds) to expel anyone? I think you're the one skipping over valid points, as I said that the definition of "lewd" behavior was up for debate, and that there was no real evidence to suggest that Mr. Johnson was anything other than an unhappy gay student.
From: Picabo Hedges

Tarring this school's actions and policies with a "dirty" brush of "conservative sect" label doesn't suggest any distance from this issue on your part. Generalizing about "conservative sects" is pretty brazen prejudice if you ask me. I guess that means you don't want to discuss this but would rather assail something you apparently don't understand from a perspective which is not yours - and thus can't agree with it under any circumstance. That's okay. I wasn't trying to convince you of the rightness of my position or the wrongness of yours.

Laying it on a little thick, aren't we? I don't understand? Gimme a break. I lived it for more than 25 years, so don't you dare presume to know my level of understanding. I can agree that any university has limited powers by which to revoke a student's enrollment. I don't think this case comes close to qualifying. Gay sex on campus? Sure, I'd buy it (even though I may still not like it). Posting on MySpace? Not a chance.
From: Picabo Hedges

In case it's slipped your mind or you didn't know, not all Baptists believe the same thing. I am pretty sure the news report said this was a Baptist school - tho' I could be wrong; it's just not worth rereading it to find out. Point is, lots of Baptists do and do not accept homosexuality and homosexuals.... it varies based on synod and individual church in my experience. So, your "feed.. clothe.. pray" reference is equally judgemental and that pretty much ends this as far as I am concerned.

OK, Baptists don't have synods, they have "conventions." I was raised Southern Baptist and I attended a Baptist-affiliated University. The largest non-Catholic denomination in the US is the S. Baptist convention - Over 3 million members in my home state, alone. It is indisputable that Southern Baptist doctrinal statements take odds with homosexuality. Sure, individual adherents may differ in their views, but just like a political party's platform, this doctrinal position is fervently preached from the highest echelons of Southern Baptist leadership, and members are pretty much expected to tow the line.

http://www.adherents.com/largecom/com_sbc.html

http://www.religioustolerance.org/hom_sbc.htm
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04-13-2006 14:37
From: Kevn Klein
As repugnant as racism is, I wouldn't dare suggest one doesn't have a right to be racist. I happen to believe everyone deserves the right to believe as they will, and to say what they think. But that's just my liberal side talking... :D


I pretty much agree with you there as long as we're differentiating between thoughts and actions. We can't legislate opinion and we should never try, but discriminatory actions are legislated (and should be).
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04-13-2006 16:41
From: Picabo Hedges
can I have my leg back?

Uh. Nooooo.

I need it for my leg collection.

And just because the term is in common use doesnt mean it isn't stupid. Just call it discrimination and avoid oxymorons. If anyone gives you grief about it, explain yourself in clearly.
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04-13-2006 16:58
Well it seems to be if you go to a baptist school and see a code of conduct like the one cumberlands has. And then you post that you want to be kicked out, and indicate that you are gay in violation of the schools standards, it should not be a suprise that you get kicked out.

the school stated its policy and has taken a draconian approach to enforcement. But I fail to see the violation of the students rights.

I would question why he chose cumberlands to begin with. I would not have.

The sadder commentary is that a persons sexual activities, which should be a bastion of personal privacy, are standard of conduct for a student at a universtity of higher education. But then I am not a christian, so the concept is alien to me.

I hope this guy finds a better school.
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04-13-2006 17:16
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I hope this guy finds a better school.

Any move is a move up, in my opinion.
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04-13-2006 17:30
From: someone
When Jason Johnson enrolled at the University of the Cumberlands in 2004, he says he didn't worry about being kicked out for being gay.

After all, the school's code of conduct only barred "lewd and indecent conduct."

But Johnson, now a sophomore, said yesterday he has been expelled from the Baptist-affiliated college under a new sexual conduct policy that forbids engaging in or promoting homosexuality.




A new policy was put into effect AFTER he enrolled, not before. Looks to me like they changed things AFTER they found he was gay. How Christian of them....
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Susie Boffin
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04-13-2006 18:24
Now I get it. Being homosexual is the same thing as promoting homosexuality. The same as a person born white is promoting whiteness or a person born blind is promoting blindness.

I doubt if there are many converts.....
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04-13-2006 21:07
From: Kevn Klein
Then those who are against your intolerance of their moral statements are not actually intolerant?



Intolerance of moral statements? What on earth does that mean?
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04-13-2006 21:13
From: Kevn Klein
I thought you said "Nobody has a right not to be offended". Do gays get a special right not to be offended because that offensiveness might lead to discrimination at some future date?


By "some future date" do you mean now? Discrimination against gay people is legal in many states. It's enshrined in federal law. And if that weren't enough, there are bigots out there trying to put it in the US Constitution. Hell, in 49 of the 50 states gay people are treated as second class citizens.

Has anybody heard about "straight bashing" or "Christian bashing" or "Caucasian bashing"? But we all know what "fag bashing" is, don't we? For us, it's not about being "offended," it's about our safety, our security and our rights.
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04-13-2006 21:21
From: Picabo Hedges
Gee. Where did I say anything about Crhistian Conservatives? Or associate Christian with Conservativism? Methinks you did there, bud. I have enough words in my mouth without you speaking for me and muddying the waters even more than they are.

The one thing you've said that I agree with is that it's not a monolithic worldview.



I didn't say anything about Christian Conservatives. I said you are equating Christian with Conservative. This is where you did it:

From: Picabo Hedges
Liberal Tolerance is perhaps the primary challenge to certain "Christian worldviews" current in North American popular culture.


There are moderate and liberal Christians who support the "Liberal Tolerance" you seem to disdain. And, as I said before, that spirit of tolerance is a direct descendant of Christian teaching.
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