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04-13-2006 10:36
From: Picabo Hedges
Troll.

Great, so call me a troll "for not responding to every part of your thread" and then ignore my entire thread in response? Isn't that a tad hypocritical?
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04-13-2006 10:36
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I wasn't referring to him specifically tho, the way it was presented, you may have taken it that way. Sorry for the confusion. And yes you are right, he probably will be happier somewhere where he is able to be himself.


I should have read more carefully, my goof. :)

From: Spinner Poutine
As far as your comments on christian concepts, I agree with you. I am totally against organized religion myself...when I was younger, I had acquired a drug problem and went to the church my parents were members of and was told that they didn't want me in their congregation if I was on drugs. I haven't set foot in a church since then.


That's a shame and their behavior was certainly not in line with their own christian ideals. My son is currently in line to become a youth pastor (he and I have very differing views on religion but fortunately we manage to argue respectfully heh) and one of his recent battles was when he and the head youth pastor stood against a large number of parents and refused to kick a girl out of the youth group because she is a lesbian. THAT's the way it's supposed to be. Religious institutions, whether we personally agree with their ideals or not should at least be expected to be consistent in those ideals.


(and sidenote, i've only taken two sips of my coffee this morning so far so forgive me if i'm only barely making sense.... off to finish the coffee)
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04-13-2006 10:43
From: Picabo Hedges
Enforcing its rules is not promoting discrimination... that seems to be the core difference we have. I feel any school has the right to set its own policy. Can you agree on that premise?..Leave the scholarship money out of the discussion for a minute...

By your logic: If I start a school, and accept Federal funds, it would okay to have a rule banning Jews and Arabs?

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If you honestly believe that the school is promoting intolerance, explain how. How is it that a school policy which follows a specific religious belief (and let's assume that the news report on this aspect is correct for the purpose of discussion) promotes intolerance as opposed to promoting a religious belief as the school "claims"?

If my religious belief is "Jews and Arabs and blacks are all going to burn in hell", would this be okay to promote, too?

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Does your personal opinion on the value of religious beliefs trump the school's religious beliefs? How about lifestyle beliefs or preferences? How can you justify imposing your belief system on the school -- except for the legal-money argument? Answer that one please.

How the hell do you claim that, a school imposing its belief system on its students is somehow having another belief system "imposed" on it by requiring them to not discriminate when it accepts federal money?


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Even IF a religious belief does promote intolerance, who are you or I to say that that religious belief is wrong, per se? What gives any "non-believer" justification to judge another's religious beliefs and practices?

/me smacks head against wall over and over
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04-13-2006 10:48
From: Hiro Pendragon
/me smacks head against wall over and over
: stands back, watches and laughs. Thinks better of it and then offers a hammer to do more damage... oops, I'd prefer you not harm my hammer. Give it back please.

My decision to not engage you is based on your trollish posts in other threads as much as it is on your posturing and ignorance of my posts in this one.

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04-13-2006 10:50
Jeez, who has time to even address reams and reams of illogic like this let alone post it?
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04-13-2006 10:54
From: Picabo Hedges
: stands back, watches and laughs. Thinks better of it and then offers a hammer to do more damage... oops, I'd prefer you not harm my hammer. Give it back please.

My decision to not engage you is based on your trollish posts in other threads as much as it is on your posturing and ignorance of my posts in this one.

Watch out... the sun's coming up. Be stoned with ye!


You're a marvel.

Of projection, that is.
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04-13-2006 10:59
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You're a marvel.
Thanks.

As for the other part of your post... Pot. Where's the fire? I wanna burn!
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04-13-2006 11:05
From: Picabo Hedges
Enforcing its rules is not promoting discrimination... that seems to be the core difference we have. I feel any school has the right to set its own policy. Can you agree on that premise?..Leave the scholarship money out of the discussion for a minute...


The problem is you can't. Once you insert governmental funds, you loose certain things. A governmentally-funded school can not, for example, descriminate against black people. Hell, even a privatly funded school would have a rough road to travel if it tried that.

Enforcing it's rules may not be descrimination - provided the rules are enforced evenly - but the rules themselves ARE discrimination.
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04-13-2006 11:08
Just to repeat something, because I'm sure your response to me will be something along the lines of "don't think about the federal money for a minute"...

You can't seperate the two. You're trying to defend a real situation as if it were a hypothetical situation that it isn't. There IS federal money involved, that DOES change things, and no, you can't pretend the money doesn't exist when considering it.
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04-13-2006 11:08
From: Picabo Hedges
: stands back, watches and laughs. Thinks better of it and then offers a hammer to do more damage... oops, I'd prefer you not harm my hammer. Give it back please.

In this quote, you acknowledge that debating with you is like hitting one's head into a brick wall.

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My decision to not engage you is based on your trollish posts in other threads as much as it is on your posturing and ignorance of my posts in this one.

Which is a logical fallacy. You are avoiding my arguments and using good ole' red herring.
Other posts have nothing to do with this post.

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I'll tell you this once, Picabo, in the hopes that you just don't get it:
What you are saying in this thread borders on open intolerance and hate-speech.
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04-13-2006 11:09
From: Picabo Hedges
Enforcing its rules is not promoting discrimination... that seems to be the core difference we have. I feel any school has the right to set its own policy. Can you agree on that premise?..Leave the scholarship money out of the discussion for a minute...

OK, so what rule was broken? That a student wrote about being gay? How is that breaking the lewd and indecent conduct provision of the policy? Anyway, lewd and indecent are in the eye of the beholder. Unless there is an objective standard, supported by law, conflicts will arise.
From: Picabo Hedges

If you can agree on that premise, then what's the issue? That the news paper didn't satisfy your desire to have a cut and dried, blow by blow report on how the Administration decided that the student violated its rules and/or policies and exactly what wording was in the student code? If that's it... argue with the reporter.

My issue is that a student was expelled from a school that receives public funds.
From: Picabo Hedges

If not, then I repeat the question. What's the issue? The government funds and law issue. Great - you win. According to US law, you win. Doesn't change my opinion of what is right or wrong. Feel better? I disagree with a lot of laws on the books. Don't you? So, making this about a legal issue is silly.

And Brown v. Board of Education hasn't stopped racial discrimination. Making this about a "legal" issue attempts to establish a fair standard by which these disputes can be adjudicated.
From: Picabo Hedges

If you honestly believe that the school is promoting intolerance, explain how. How is it that a school policy which follows a specific religious belief (and let's assume that the news report on this aspect is correct for the purpose of discussion) promotes intolerance as opposed to promoting a religious belief as the school "claims"? Does your personal opinion on the value of religious beliefs trump the school's religious beliefs? How about lifestyle beliefs or preferences? How can you justify imposing your belief system on the school -- except for the legal-money argument? Answer that one please.

By expelling a gay student for speaking publicly about his being gay. My personal opinion is also backed up by evolving legal doctrines that seek to safeguard various minority groups from majority harms. I don't have any problem with the school having a platform against homosexuality. They err when they use that "religious opinion" to deny equal opportunity.
From: Picabo Hedges

That's the discussion of any interest here. The legal one isn't. At least as far as I am concerned.

Oh, and I just thought of this one for you.

Even IF a religious belief does promote intolerance, who are you or I to say that that religious belief is wrong, per se? What gives any "non-believer" justification to judge another's religious beliefs and practices?

And vice versa. I believe each individual is free to believe and express whatever relgious thought or ideology they so choose. When they start to force that worldview upon others, that's where I have a problem.
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04-13-2006 11:15
From: Reitsuki Kojima
Just to repeat something, because I'm sure your response to me will be something along the lines of "don't think about the federal money for a minute"...

You can't seperate the two. You're trying to defend a real situation as if it were a hypothetical situation that it isn't. There IS federal money involved, that DOES change things, and no, you can't pretend the money doesn't exist when considering it.
The story mentions state funds, not federal. See, I can be VERY specific in what I consider.

As I said, I won't argue the legal-money issue. That's bound to change over time based on the history of it already having changed over time, IMO.

A private school can and should follow its religious precepts if it's a religous-based school. If you don't agree with that, then there's no further discussion possible.

If you disagree with the religious precepts, regardless of how repugnant to you they are, don't they have the right to promote those precepts? AFAIK, in America, they do. That and the fact that this is a private school makes it very simple for me to separate the discipline/enforcement issue from the funding issue that you say cannot be separated.
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04-13-2006 11:29
From: Picabo Hedges

As I said, I won't argue the legal-money issue.

Which is the central, important issue. So, you're basically not arguing the issue.

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That's bound to change over time based on the history of it already having changed over time, IMO.

Wrong, and wrong. This country was founded on a seperation of Church and State. That hasn't changed.

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A private school can and should follow its religious precepts if it's a religous-based school. If you don't agree with that, then there's no further discussion possible.

And that's fine. In the same thought, the school should not accept public funds because they require the school to break its precept.

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If you disagree with the religious precepts, regardless of how repugnant to you they are, don't they have the right to promote those precepts? AFAIK, in America, they do.

Tell that to the islamic extremists in GITMO. They have a firm believe that "destroying America" is "sanctified by Allah". Right.
(not to be seen as an endorsement of GITMO, which be all independent accounts is commiting torture, violating citizens' rights, and holding people prisoner for ambiguous reasons. But there are some bad people there that probably should be locked up.)

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That and the fact that this is a private school makes it very simple for me to separate the discipline/enforcement issue from the funding issue that you say cannot be separated.

What makes a private school a private school? Funding. But you said you weren't going to discuss the funding? See, it's central to the debate. You're wrong. We're right. Go home. KTHXBYE.
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04-13-2006 11:30
From: Picabo Hedges
The story mentions state funds, not federal. See, I can be VERY specific in what I consider.

As I said, I won't argue the legal-money issue. That's bound to change over time based on the history of it already having changed over time, IMO.

A private school can and should follow its religious precepts if it's a religous-based school. If you don't agree with that, then there's no further discussion possible.

If you disagree with the religious precepts, regardless of how repugnant to you they are, don't they have the right to promote those precepts? AFAIK, in America, they do. That and the fact that this is a private school makes it very simple for me to separate the discipline/enforcement issue from the funding issue that you say cannot be separated.

There are plenty of Christian sects that do not agree with Cumberland's worldview. There is not universal agreement by religious scholars regarding homosexuality.

And, if by promotion you mean expelling students for expressing themselves, you bet they don't have that right. Most of the more conservative sects have totally abandoned the art of persuasion. They'd rather just ramrod a worldview down others' throats than do stuff like: Feed the hungry, clothe the poor and pray for their leaders.

http://www.religioustolerance.org/hom_bibi.htm
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04-13-2006 11:32
From: Picabo Hedges
The story mentions state funds, not federal. See, I can be VERY specific in what I consider.

As I said, I won't argue the legal-money issue. That's bound to change over time based on the history of it already having changed over time, IMO.

A private school can and should follow its religious precepts if it's a religous-based school. If you don't agree with that, then there's no further discussion possible.

If you disagree with the religious precepts, regardless of how repugnant to you they are, don't they have the right to promote those precepts? AFAIK, in America, they do. That and the fact that this is a private school makes it very simple for me to separate the discipline/enforcement issue from the funding issue that you say cannot be separated.


States tie funding to non-descrimination too.

I agree, a private school should follow its religious precepts. All they have to do to be able to make their own rules on this subject is to not take government money. Many schools do that.

If you break the law you get tried, sentenced, etc. based on what the law was at the time of the offense. Not what it was two weeks prior or five years later. Works the same for civil and criminal.
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04-13-2006 11:37
Just shows how little rights homosexuals have in America. Can you imagine what would happen if they did this to a black person...oh wait they did, 50 years ago!

I hope no pork is served in their canteen, black people are only there to do the serving and no women are allowed near anything during menstration.... I mean they gotta follow God's laws and not pick and choose what to follow from the Bible.
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04-13-2006 11:43
But if we all remember this thread unless we live in Kentucky, we probably shouldn't be commenting on this at all, right? :rolleyes:

Seriously, government money is involved, discrimination is a big no-no when government money is involved. Discrimination is not a basic tenet of Christianity... but it seems that many so-called Christians have forgotten that. I was raised as a Christian. I certainly remember many things from church: tolerance of my fellow man... that sort of thing.
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04-13-2006 11:50
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There are plenty of Christian sects that do not agree with Cumberland's worldview. There is not universal agreement by religious scholars regarding homosexuality.

And, if by promotion you mean expelling students for expressing themselves, you bet they don't have that right. Most of the more conservative sects have totally abandoned the art of persuasion. They'd rather just ramrod a worldview down others' throats than do stuff like: Feed the hungry, clothe the poor and pray for their leaders.
Hang on there bud. Are we speaking of all Christian schools or just this one? I thought we were speaking of a specific instance given the limited information in the news report.

As for my questions extending the religious precept basis for the school to the general question of doesn't such a school have a right to promote its religion... and your response... I think that you have an indefensible position when you say that a private school doesn't have the right to expel anyone. Being a private school pretty much gives them that right.

Tarring this school's actions and policies with a "dirty" brush of "conservative sect" label doesn't suggest any distance from this issue on your part. Generalizing about "conservative sects" is pretty brazen prejudice if you ask me. I guess that means you don't want to discuss this but would rather assail something you apparently don't understand from a perspective which is not yours - and thus can't agree with it under any circumstance. That's okay. I wasn't trying to convince you of the rightness of my position or the wrongness of yours.

In case it's slipped your mind or you didn't know, not all Baptists believe the same thing. I am pretty sure the news report said this was a Baptist school - tho' I could be wrong; it's just not worth rereading it to find out. Point is, lots of Baptists do and do not accept homosexuality and homosexuals.... it varies based on synod and individual church in my experience. So, your "feed.. clothe.. pray" reference is equally judgemental and that pretty much ends this as far as I am concerned.
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04-13-2006 11:51
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But if we all remember ...unless we live in Kentucky, we probably shouldn't be commenting on this at all, right?
Nah. Just you.
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04-13-2006 12:12
And this is the part of the thread where I point out how silly religions are to ban people who commit one "sin" and don't ban people who commit other "sins".
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04-13-2006 12:15
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Tolerance goes both ways. :D

Ya, right.

The difference, Kevn is that one is seeking a safe environment from harrassment - the other is seeking the right to harrass.
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04-13-2006 12:19
From: Picabo Hedges
A private school can and should follow its religious precepts if it's a religous-based school. If you don't agree with that, then there's no further discussion possible.

If you disagree with the religious precepts, regardless of how repugnant to you they are, don't they have the right to promote those precepts? AFAIK, in America, they do. That and the fact that this is a private school makes it very simple for me to separate the discipline/enforcement issue from the funding issue that you say cannot be separated.


Sure.

Until they take government money to do so.

Then they have to play by government rules.

They can absolutely follow whatever discriminatory laws they want, so far as I'm concerned...

...when they give back the public money they got. Until then, no.
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04-13-2006 12:21
From: Kevn Klein
Tolerance goes both ways. :D


Speaking out against something over which people have no control is intolerance, plain and simple. Sexual orientation and race would be two examples of things which are not voluntary. Speaking out against things that are voluntary, like philosophies, religions, or political positions is a different story. If this person was being prevented from voicing dissenting opinions about any of those things I'd agree with you, but what she's fighting for is no different than claiming a "right" to be a racist.
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04-13-2006 12:26
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Speaking out against something over which people have no control is intolerance, plain and simple. Sexual orientation and race would be two examples of things which are not voluntary.

And therein lies the great debate, Chip. Social conservatives don't think homosexuality is tied to genetic predisposition.
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04-13-2006 12:26
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Speaking out ...what she's fighting for is no different than claiming a "right" to be a racist.
If you are describing me, then you are seriously mistaken. What I am defending is the school's right to enforce its own rules. I didn't defend their religious position.

If you want a discussion of a person's right to hold racist views, that might be an interesting discussion. But not in this thread.
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