Where are these flaming heterosexuals? Not in my town.
You bet there are. They're called "jocks" and they're offensive to many people.

though some people think they're mostly closet-cases. shh!
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04-13-2006 09:12
Where are these flaming heterosexuals? Not in my town. You bet there are. They're called "jocks" and they're offensive to many people. ![]() though some people think they're mostly closet-cases. shh! _____________________
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04-13-2006 09:13
You bet there are. They're called "jocks" and they're offensive to many people. ![]() Unless you like them dumb and cute. Most of them aren't even very cute these days though... stupid television stereotype. _____________________
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04-13-2006 09:14
Where are these flaming heterosexuals? Not in my town. But, if they are flaunting it, and an old lady yells at them to "get a room", I see no reason to hold it against the old lady who is yelling at them. you're kidding right? _____________________
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Kevn Klein
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04-13-2006 09:19
Nobody has a right not to be offended. Not sure where you got that idea. I'm against anyone "flaunting" their sexuality. Gay people being openly gay is not flaunting it, however. The person is fighting school rules forcing her not to offend gay people. So if "Nobody has a right not to be offended" as you say, then the rules that refuse her the right to speak out concerning her moral beliefs are wrong and should be changed, as she wishes. |
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04-13-2006 09:20
you're kidding right? Nopers, I'm for freedom of speech, it's true. |
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04-13-2006 09:20
The person is fighting school rules forcing her not to offend gay people. So if "Nobody has a right not to be offended" as you say, then the rules that refuse her the right to speak out concerning her moral beliefs are wrong and should be changed, as she wishes. What should actually happen is she should see a shrink. _____________________
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04-13-2006 09:22
What should actually happen is she should see a shrink. I'm sure she feels the same about you, but that's not the issue. ![]() |
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04-13-2006 09:24
So what? Your personal experience makes your opinion "right" and mine wrong? I don't think so. And I don't say that you should or must share my opinion. I said I don't see that the school is doing anything wrong. Liberal Tolerance is perhaps the primary challenge to certain "Christian worldviews" current in North American popular culture. Proponents of that viewpoint argue that it is intolerant and inconsistent with the principles of a free and open society for Christians (and others) to claim that their moral and religious perspective is correct and ought to be embraced by all citizens. Liberal tolerance is not what it appears to be, however. It is a partisan philosophical perspective with its own set of dogmas. It assumes, for instance, a relativistic view of moral and religious knowledge. This assumption has shaped the way many people think about issues such as homosexuality, abortion rights, and religious truth claims, leading them to believe that a liberally tolerant posture concerning these issues is the correct one and that it ought to be reflected in our laws and customs. But this posture is dogmatic, intolerant, and coercive, for it asserts that there is only one correct view on these issues, and if one does not comply with it, one will face public ridicule, demagogic tactics, and perhaps legal reprisals. Liberal Tolerance is neither liberal nor tolerant. I happen to have acquaintances who do not share my worldviews. I tolerate theirs to the same extent they tolerate mine - that is, I don't try to convert them to mine and expect the same in return, especially on issues of religious beliefs. Not being enrolled at that school, I don't know the exact details of the school's religiosity or their student codes -- other than what was in the news report. Given the information in the news report alone, it sounds pretty clear that I "could be" comfortable sending my children there while certain posters in this thread would think that would be fostering intolerance. On that, certain posters and I obviously differ. Your association of Christian with Conservative is troubling. There are Liberal Christians. The "Christian worldview" isn't a monolith decided by a few extremists on the right. In fact the "Liberal Tolerance" you rant about is the direct descendant of Christian teaching. And yes, the school can be as bigoted as it wants as long as it is a private school. It is a private school as long as it is privately funded. But, in America the citizens are allowed to talk about anything, and that includes the bigoted policies of private schools. And since this wasn't a private school, it received public funds, the public's interest in it's activities is quite legitimate. But it is ridiculous to claim that intolerance should be tolerated in the name of tolerance. It's an attempt by bigots to make their critics seem like bigots too. Sorry, but it's nonsense. Tolerance means one is opposed to intolerance. Being opposed to intolerance is not intolerant. The right wing extremists in this country running around telling the world that the liberals who don't accept their bigoted behavior are being intolerant is laughable. If you support intolerant behavior, fine. Just don't whine that I'm not tolerant of it. Because tolerance doesn't include supporting intolerance. The right wingers know that by making it seem so, the whole concept of tolerance is rendered ineffective. |
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04-13-2006 09:28
Tolerance goes both ways. ![]() I caught the smilie, but let's take this statment seriously. Does it? There are a number of things I won't tolerate and shouldn't. The law says I don't have to tolerate certain kinds of discrimination in certain situations. Schools which accept federal funds are one of those. Maybe you should have said the law cuts both ways. She doesn't get to "speak out" against gays at school, and people don't get to "speak out" against Christians (or whatever subset she is) I think the young woman is a narcissistic nut job. Oh... and can I say that the term Christian baffles me. The range and difference of beliefs in Christian sects seems to be so broad and so often at odds with each other that I wonder how you can say anything comes from "Christian values." _____________________
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04-13-2006 09:30
.............................. ..................................Being opposed to intolerance is not intolerant. .......... Then those who are against your intolerance of their moral statements are not actually intolerant? |
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04-13-2006 09:31
The person is fighting school rules forcing her not to offend gay people. So if "Nobody has a right not to be offended" as you say, then the rules that refuse her the right to speak out concerning her moral beliefs are wrong and should be changed, as she wishes. 's got nothing to do with "not offending" gay people. It's because all to often "speaking out against" gay people is only a hop, skip, and a jump away from intollerance against them, be it legal or physical. _____________________
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04-13-2006 09:32
I'm sure she feels the same about you, but that's not the issue. ![]() The difference here is -- She's a fucking whacko. _____________________
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Kevn Klein
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04-13-2006 09:36
's got nothing to do with "not offending" gay people. It's because all to often "speaking out against" gay people is only a hop, skip, and a jump away from intollerance against them, be it legal or physical. I thought you said "Nobody has a right not to be offended". Do gays get a special right not to be offended because that offensiveness might lead to discrimination at some future date? |
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04-13-2006 09:38
I thought you said "Nobody has a right not to be offended". Do gays get a special right not to be offended because that offensiveness might lead to discrimination at some future date? Again, it's not just about not being offended. _____________________
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04-13-2006 09:40
Again, it's not just about not being offended. shhhh. you're spoiling his logic. _____________________
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04-13-2006 09:48
Going to try approaching this a less direct way...
Kevn, answer this question: What is the point in a Christian who has a problem with homosexuality speaking up about it? _____________________
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04-13-2006 09:54
Your association of Christian with Conservative is troubling. There are Liberal Christians. The "Christian worldview" isn't a monolith ...(folowed by ranting). The one thing you've said that I agree with is that it's not a monolithic worldview. I won't get into the "taxes" and discrimination argument. It's beyond the scope here... It's a legal issue that could be changed tomorrow by the courts or the legislature or both just as the 14th Amendment was not the end all but the beginning of the "Separate but equal" argument in American society for quite some time. In case you aren't aware and I don't mean to "talk down" to anyone, the concept of "separate but equal" in the US was ruled legal in Plessy v Ferguson and then overturned in Brown v Bd of Education... So legal arguments and morality - well, one's ephemeral and the other, at least in my mind, isn't. I still feel that a school has a right to enforce its rules. The onus is on the student to know those rules and to follow them. No one forced him to attend. Anything past that is clouding an issue that is actually pretty clear. |
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04-13-2006 09:57
Going to try approaching this a less direct way... Kevn, answer this question: What is the point in a Christian who has a problem with homosexuality speaking up about it? I say let Christians who oppose homosexuality speak their piece. However, when the rhetoric shifts toward shaping public policy, don't expect flamers like me to just take it up the shoot. (OK, so I'm not a "flamer" and virtually no one would guess, just by looking, that I'm gay.) Even so, to deny one access to an education due to personal characteristics, which are pretty much out of that person's control, is policy-driven discrimination. _____________________
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04-13-2006 10:02
.. to deny one access to an education due to personal characteristics, which are pretty much out of that person's control, is policy-driven discrimination. Limit your considerations to this specific situation and it's a pretty clear issue. Generalize at your own peril... |
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04-13-2006 10:04
I still feel that a school has a right to enforce its rules. And any rules that discriminate by race, gender, religion, sexual orientation, etc, are superceded by the Federal rules for any school accepting Federal funding. This school has accepted millions of dollars, and could gladly enforce this expulsion if it returns its taxpayer money. ![]() How more cut and dry can this issue be? _____________________
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04-13-2006 10:11
(High handed horsepucky)...How more cut and dry can this issue be? : puts yet another troll on ignore |
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04-13-2006 10:13
And therein lies the major discomfort people like me have with your position. No one is denying anyone an education. The school has a position and rules to support that position. The student violated the rules. It's a private school. No one is preventing the kid from attending a different school. The kid himself wrote he's not happy at the Baptist school.... What's the real issue that you have here? Limit your considerations to this specific situation and it's a pretty clear issue. Generalize at your own peril... First, "so what" back atcha. The real issue that I have here? That the student was forced out. He wasn't happy there? Again, so what. Johnson had apparently taken no steps to disassociate himself with the University, other than to express his unhappiness on a MySpace posting. Violated the rules? How? By using gay-related terms to describe himself and by describing a relationship with another man? The schools' policy prohibits lewd conduct; again, it is by no means clear that this student acted in a manner contrary to this policy. Private schools/institutions are not above the law. Where their bylaws conflict with state or federal law, they must defer. Cumberland accepts tax dollars, so it pretty much gives up its right to promote discrimination. _____________________
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04-13-2006 10:26
Read post #67 again. Then feel free to ignore any more posts by me. I will certainly do the same when your name comes up since you don't really read mine anyway it seems. : puts yet another troll on ignore So basically, your argument is "Other laws in the past were struck down, therefore this law can be bad?" That's really laughable, considering your example. You cite the striking down of an obviously discriminatory law as some reason why your idea of this school discriminating against gays while taking federal funds is somehow legal? How backwards is that!?! Your argument though, has a more direct, logical flaw. If you assume that all laws can be held to this idea that they are equally fallible, you're bending to sheer relativism. While you "claim" to be arguing from a "moral" standpoint and not "legal", what you've done is take any moral or ethical weight out of laws themselves in claiming that they are equally fallible. In addition, if you do want to remove law from the picture, it's simple. There are tens of millions, if not hundreds of millions of americans who don't want their tax dollars funding schools who are discriminatory in this way. The government does not have a right to violate this trust. Go brush up on your debate technique before you call me a "troll". _____________________
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04-13-2006 10:31
... its right to promote discrimination. If you can agree on that premise, then what's the issue? That the news paper didn't satisfy your desire to have a cut and dried, blow by blow report on how the Administration decided that the student violated its rules and/or policies and exactly what wording was in the student code? If that's it... argue with the reporter. If not, then I repeat the question. What's the issue? The government funds and law issue. Great - you win. According to US law, you win. Doesn't change my opinion of what is right or wrong. Feel better? I disagree with a lot of laws on the books. Don't you? So, making this about a legal issue is silly. If you honestly believe that the school is promoting intolerance, explain how. How is it that a school policy which follows a specific religious belief (and let's assume that the news report on this aspect is correct for the purpose of discussion) promotes intolerance as opposed to promoting a religious belief as the school "claims"? Does your personal opinion on the value of religious beliefs trump the school's religious beliefs? How about lifestyle beliefs or preferences? How can you justify imposing your belief system on the school -- except for the legal-money argument? Answer that one please. That's the discussion of any interest here. The legal one isn't. At least as far as I am concerned. Oh, and I just thought of this one for you. Even IF a religious belief does promote intolerance, who are you or I to say that that religious belief is wrong, per se? What gives any "non-believer" justification to judge another's religious beliefs and practices? |
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04-13-2006 10:32
call me a "troll". |