From: FaTeke Wottitz
Hi FD, I wanted to address this because I do understand what you are saying. But I have a different perspective maybe.
In my RL I've had a very difficult time, I spend almost all of my RL completely alone because of the prejudice and bigotry and betrayal and just down right nastiness I have experienced in my life. So My RL sucks very badly.
I came into SL with no expectations that anything would be any different, but from the very beginning I have been greeted so warmly and openly and accepted by everyone that it has changed my RL perceptions and attitude.
I'm very thankful that I found SL and the wonderful people I have met along the way.
Sorry for the rambling nonsense. LOL
FaTeke
"So shines a good deed in a weary world."
Willy Wonka
I definitely relate what really surprised me was my friends and that wonderful people do exist at least in SL. Not saying all are, some are down right odd and I am pretty odd myself so it takes a lot for me to call someone odd.
Yet sometimes I wonder if my real life negative views of reality also seeps over to SL.
Yet in spite of that I have found some wonderful things too.
Yet most of time SL is either incredibly laggy, gray universe with no people, zombies.
When I was exploring sexual side briefly I realized it can be as boring and as stupid as rl sex.
I have experienced a lot of wild things in past but I must confess sex especially virtually in Second life I think I just don't really get it other then in brief hormonal charged moments, rest of time it just doesn't make sense to me.
Although sometimes I wish I had pose balls for me and my real life boyfriend in my first life but
it would hard to get him to accept the pop up screens there.
I don't get the romantic syrupy things one would write in one's picks either, nor see myself personally apart of that ever.
Yet I have more friends in SL that spent time helping me learn everything from Math to creating that I deeply appreciate, I love my time with several, especially when we make puns and humor about my grumpy moods.
They help me how to laugh at myself when I am feeling very grumpy.
Often are not judgmental when I am complaining about how I can't find the cancel account button for first life.