Lies, Deception and Evilness

I wear my sunglasses at night

That sux, I hate to hear of people getting ripped off like that, it amazes me that people are firstly that gullable and secondly that there are so many con artists on the net....not cool

Did you know that there is no such word as *gullable* in the dictionary.

Pep (For once it is true!)

I guess god loves a spelling nazi, someone has to!

Itz beste too knot fead teh Pep. Hee gitz teh happie.

/me despairs of antipodeans and New Englanders both lacking a sense of humour . . .

Pep (. . . or perhaps over-sensitivity, paranoia, etc)

PS For your further education you might wish to look up the Urban Dictionary

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=gullable

Dang dawg! Don't be hatin all up in here. You be da only gangsta n shih. You iz da shiznit in dis hood yo.

I will echo that sentiment 18 months later living together with my SL now RL partner and we are happier now than ever and i left the UK to move to Holland to be with her and when we first met neither of us was looking for anything let alone a relationship as i was still married to the military when we met lol. So yeah it does work, i suppose it just depends what one wants from a relationship be it SL or RL O and im 50 and she is 35, what a lucky guy i am

Im glad it all turned out well for you, but my friend, well not so good. She feels RAPED, deceived..and yes, it has changed, because she does not want to be with a woman! This person was an actor, and told her everything she wanted to hear. And as long as Ive known my friend, which is many years..she's never fallen for anyone, so it was really devastating to her to fall for a lie. Even the pictures, were of some other person, so my friend fell for someone who doesnt exist! This person also told her that she prefers straight women, we asked her why she just didnt go to a sim that had lesbian women. Yea, as the SL turns, I know..lol

Wow, Honey, ty..i didnt even know there was such a place in SL!!

That's going far beyond any reasonable definition of "merely role-playing".

I really hope your friend will get through this....You know more I read what you wrote their
some very immature FTM's out there, this person sounds like one. I know you or your friend or most people don't get ts/tg issues...nor doesn't it make it better.
There some "guys" out there who think lesbians don't exist they just got to be with right man.
Then there is some, smaller group of "gals" or very immature and selfish individuals regardless sexual orientation and birth gender, even TS/TG folks who think if they present themselves the right way doesn't matter what the other person's values are they too can have them anyway they want or numerous other justifications i.e I am straight guy or gal inside, I don't want to be with lesbians, bisexual or gay men,etc...
None of what you or your friend would get and all she is thinking is she has been deceived....
I am not saying it is right or wrong, but often it is creepy, I personally don't get it.
Yeah not everyone feels they need to be honest, that can tell whatever story, be whomever they want to be here, seduce and play in whatever fashion without consequences but not everyone who Bio guy, Bio gal, or TS or TG is interested and when those do that it makes all of us look truthfully bad.
Yet some people are truly convinced no one will want them if they told the truth about themselves....which is pretty sad place to be in, if that's the truth maybe if its truth they should be doing something else? But we don't get to dictate what other's do here, the only thing we can do is protect our own conscious and hearts, hopefully do the right things when it comes to others like we would in our first lives.
Yet not everyone is capable of this sadly, I mean how many times have heard these stories about others deceiving, hurting,etc. We as Adults regardless of how handicapped or socially stunted we may be in our first or second lives all know people will lie, will do selfish things, people will disappoint us.
Yet why do we bother getting emotional about anything here, including opening are pocket books, our hearts or whatever else we open ourselves up to when their is risk of pain or disappointment in first place?
Are we that bored and craving the drama, the romantic or the sexual excitement or wanted to be in our SL version of the Jerry Springer show?
I often ask myself that when I find myself getting caught up in stuff similar or emotionally charged stuff over friends or others in sl and even in fl.
I don't have the answer but I know people will be hurtful, deceive and be selfish if given the chance. I choose or try to choose to not participate.

Raped, isn't that taking a tad to far?

I think she meant emotional rape.

Crickey, I hope so........the idea that people believe in virtual rape is almost as disturbing as prim babies and virtual perfume lol

Sorry to interject, but I met this one guy who invited me to a virtual rape sim and I thought he was sicker than sick!

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Sorry, I have to edit my posts a lot because I have very bad eyesight. I work with one eye here.

Exactly.

yes emotional rape..i suppose since she sent things to her/him in RL, gifts for his kids, lots of other things, even money..it just really was traumatic, and I know some of you dont understand that you can fall for someone in a virtual world, but it does happen. As you've seen by the success stories, also. Even yahoo isnt any different, or the online singles sites.