Old Age is Getting on Top of Me
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Deira Llanfair
Deira to rhyme with Myra
Join date: 16 Oct 2006
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09-16-2009 03:05
From: Pserendipity Daniels You'll probably be horrified to hear that proscribed literature in our house is any and all chicklit that might suggest that marriage arrangements should be based on some non-existent concept called "love". Pep (That's 'proscribed' *not* 'prescribed' for those over-emotional over-reacting speed-readers amongst you.  ) I did not mean to imply that (and you know I did not)! Only that bringing up a girl to consider that her future depends upon marrying a rich man is no guarrantee of a happy, healthy and fulfilled life - less so IMO, than supporting the view that marriage should be based upon mutual respect and affection - or "love" as it may be called. If Jig's relationship is based on mutual respect and affection they will be happy - other differences can be accepted. If it is based upon money, they don't stand a hope!
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Pserendipity Daniels
Assume sarcasm as default
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09-16-2009 03:11
From: Deira Llanfair I did not mean to imply that (and you know I did not)! Only that bringing up a girl to consider that her future depends upon marrying a rich man is no guarantee of a happy, healthy and fulfilled life - less so IMO, than supporting the view that marriage should be based upon mutual respect and affection - or "love" as it may be called.
If Jig's relationship is based on mutual respect and affection they will be happy - other differences can be accepted. If it is based upon money, they don't stand a hope! I am simply raising my daughter to demand high standards of any beaux that might have the temerity to court her. Pep (She is picky, like her Dad; she has better taste than I do, however.)
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Gummi Richthofen
Fetish's Frasier Crane!
Join date: 3 Oct 2006
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09-16-2009 03:14
From: Ralektra Breda so whenever I see someone post about how young, sexy, and beautiful they are, I form a mental picture:  methinks thou dost protest too much (no I'm NOT as old as Shakespeare) I keep thinking about Rick Moranis is Spaceballs when that comes up. The irony is that a lot of devastatingly sexy people are incredibly lonely; they can't stop people hitting on them, or picking them up as a trophy and dropping them again... SL is a natural place to hide from all that crap. (I have been described as both "dangerously smooth" and "really sexy, you know, like Nigel Planer in "the young ones" - two unsolicited testimonials which contain enough ambiguity and sly irony to keep me with a shrink for *decades*...) Oh, yeah, age. The one thing that absolutely guarantees the end of a nice chat-up is if you reveal that you were being a very very bad person, in RL, when the other person was just about in kindergarten. It stings. Really badly.
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Deira Llanfair
Deira to rhyme with Myra
Join date: 16 Oct 2006
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09-16-2009 03:15
From: Pserendipity Daniels I am simply raising my daughter to demand high standards of any beaux that might have the temerity to court her.
Pep (She is picky, like her Dad; she has better taste than I do, however.) Ah, she is still daddy's little girl - that will change! You will become Mr Nasty soon enough. For goodness sake, just see she has the education and skiils she needs to make her own way in the world - whatever she may choose to do. (You won't like her boyfriends, whoever they are.)
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Gummi Richthofen
Fetish's Frasier Crane!
Join date: 3 Oct 2006
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09-16-2009 03:20
From: Jig Chippewa One thing I think older men excel at is having better taste than younger dorkier types. In real, my lover knew art galleries and cafes and restaurants in France and Italy. He took me to see shows and theatre and concerts. He watched over me and protected me. He always treated me with respect and honour. He gave me my REAL "polish". He is still a best friend in real. Still my "East End Boy" though he is now a 67 year old man. Jig... the SL forum is no place to play at being Belle de Jour. Just get yourself a blog like he did, and fake it up (or otherwise) there. Cults of personality do not really require an audience who are here to discuss other stuff. PS, watch out for those personal details - I'm in the same town as you and from what you've been revealing, I don't think it would take me very long to work you out: and I'm a nice honest person with your best interests at heart. Think about what others, less well motivated, might do with your soul-baring exercises. Serously.
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Fax Fellini
Here to watch the ending
Join date: 5 Sep 2008
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09-16-2009 03:21
From: Gummi Richthofen a lot of devastatingly sexy people are incredibly lonely; they can't stop people hitting on them, or picking them up as a trophy and dropping them again... SL is a natural place to hide from all that crap. *sobs* SOMEONE UNDERSTANDS ME!!
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Phil Deakins
Prim Savers = low prims
Join date: 17 Jan 2007
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09-16-2009 03:22
From: Haldir Meskin Somehow I think the age difference thing isn't the *only* thing being considered here.. you may peruse the OP's posting history at your lesiure. I think that age difference *was* the only thing being considered in the post I replied to, and the comment in it was small-minded, nasty, and revealed more about the author of it than anything else.
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Pserendipity Daniels
Assume sarcasm as default
Join date: 21 Dec 2006
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09-16-2009 03:54
From: Laurin Sorbet The 2 of you are ruining my Mrs Robinson gig! Think of how many fantasies you are torpedoing Ok, the segway is nearly charged. I am off to restock the Ben Gay. Now that Spin is borrowing my young man, I had better keep the necessities topped up. Regards, Mrs Rob I'm not 40 yet either mate!  LOL! But . . . but . . . but . . . you told me your rl name was Anastasia, and Google stalking suggested that this was you:  Pep (Now whose fantasy is being torpedoed?) PS Fax - No-one understands *ME*!!! *sobs*
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Laurin Sorbet
Stroppy Bollock-Chopper
Join date: 10 Aug 2008
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09-16-2009 04:06
From: Fax Fellini *sobs* SOMEONE UNDERSTANDS ME!! Here, have some Ben Gay. But don't rub your eyes 
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Laurin Sorbet
Stroppy Bollock-Chopper
Join date: 10 Aug 2008
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09-16-2009 04:08
From: Pserendipity Daniels But . . . but . . . but . . . you told me your rl name was Anastasia, and Google stalking suggested that this was you:  Pep (Now whose fantasy is being torpedoed?) PS Fax - No-one understands *ME*!!! *sobs* OMG. I am way taller than that and nopt so transvestite-y  And unless it is a weird camera angle, I think skim boards are boring and bad for my knees. I just end up needing more Ben Gay!
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Haldir Meskin
Altoholics Anonymous
Join date: 18 May 2009
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09-16-2009 06:13
From: Phil Deakins I think that age difference *was* the only thing being considered in the post I replied to Ok, so you think it was the only thing being considered. I'll certainly say the first thing that came to my mind when reading the thread was "Not again! How much attention for how many issues can one person beg for?".. and I'm sure I'm not the only one. Then again it's likely she's still "strategically posting" in an attempt to keep her name on top of the forum.. getting everybody to drink her koolaid. Last bump from me.. already way more attention to that than it's worthy of.
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Jig Chippewa
Fine Young Cannibal
Join date: 30 Oct 2006
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09-16-2009 06:54
From: Haldir Meskin Ok, so you think it was the only thing being considered. I'll certainly say the first thing that came to my mind when reading the thread was "Not again! How much attention for how many issues can one person beg for?".. and I'm sure I'm not the only one. Then again it's likely she's still "strategically posting" in an attempt to keep her name on top of the forum.. getting everybody to drink her koolaid. Last bump from me.. already way more attention to that than it's worthy of. Woe, I like that. Yeah, and I got the koolaid reference too. But I'm not messianic in my messages. More iconoclastic, I hope. I bet it's not the last bump I'm gonna get from you Mr. Elf. By the way, how's Lothlorien these days?
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sable Valentine
AU United
Join date: 30 Apr 2006
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09-16-2009 07:03
From: Pserendipity Daniels I am simply raising my daughter to demand high standards of any beaux that might have the temerity to court her. Exactly and I applied the same to my son.
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Jig Chippewa
Fine Young Cannibal
Join date: 30 Oct 2006
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09-16-2009 07:05
From: Rioko Bamaisin So you dated this man when you were about 14? (I recall you saying your age was 26 now and said he was 55 when you dated him.)
Pssst that's not a relationship,that is a pedophile. My math was completely off
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Jig Chippewa
Fine Young Cannibal
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09-16-2009 07:19
Going off line for a little bit - got some thinking to do - you've all been very kind and very funny.
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Phil Deakins
Prim Savers = low prims
Join date: 17 Jan 2007
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09-16-2009 08:41
From: Haldir Meskin Ok, so you think it was the only thing being considered. I'll certainly say the first thing that came to my mind when reading the thread was "Not again! How much attention for how many issues can one person beg for?".. and I'm sure I'm not the only one. Then again it's likely she's still "strategically posting" in an attempt to keep her name on top of the forum.. getting everybody to drink her koolaid. Last bump from me.. already way more attention to that than it's worthy of. You seem to have got things somewhat screwed up. I posted a response to one post in particular, and I quoted it so there can't be any mistake. It was not about the thread, the topic of the thread, any other posts in the thread, the OP's posting history, opinions, nature, etc. etc. etc. Perhaps you'd like to go back and see - then you'll realise that you've got it screwed up.
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Windsweptgold Wopat
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Join date: 24 May 2007
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09-16-2009 16:44
The memory of Anna Nicole Smith lives on
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Jig Chippewa
Fine Young Cannibal
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09-16-2009 16:59
From: Windsweptgold Wopat The memory of Anna Nicole Smith lives on I hope so, for her family's sake. I think older men are sexy. I HOPE young men find older women sexy. I think you can love the old and the new.
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Melita Magic
On my own terms.
Join date: 5 Jun 2008
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09-17-2009 01:56
From: Gummi Richthofen Jig... the SL forum is no place to play at being Belle de Jour. Just get yourself a blog like he did, and fake it up (or otherwise) there. Cults of personality do not really require an audience who are here to discuss other stuff.
PS, watch out for those personal details - I'm in the same town as you and from what you've been revealing, I don't think it would take me very long to work you out: and I'm a nice honest person with your best interests at heart. Think about what others, less well motivated, might do with your soul-baring exercises. Serously. QFT. If Jig exists.
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Pserendipity Daniels
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Join date: 21 Dec 2006
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09-17-2009 02:53
From: Jig Chippewa I HOPE young men find older women sexy. You have to be more specific. When women are 30-40 is the only decade worth bothering with them. 1. They can be desperate, to get married and/or to have a baby before the biological clock stops ticking, which makes them conveniently credulous. 2. Their looks haven't got too jaded and they usually haven't yet had to resort to surgery to unsag. 3. Occasionally, their brains have switched on, although this doesn't last long; for a short period they realise that they can't change men, although this tends to revert after a while. 4. When they exclaim "Oh God!" in bed, it doesn't yet mean that they have realised the ceiling needs repainting. 5. They have generally got enough money that you don't need to be subsidising their every whim. If they haven't . . . well, forget them. Pep (So your "Golden Years" are imminent Jig. Make the most of them. It is downhill for women, but not for men - thereafter.)
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Fax Fellini
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09-17-2009 03:06
From: Pserendipity Daniels When women are 30-40 is the only decade worth bothering with them.
1. They can be desperate, to get married and/or to have a baby before the biological clock stops ticking, which makes them conveniently credulous.
2. Their looks haven't got too jaded and they usually haven't yet had to resort to surgery to unsag.
3. Occasionally, their brains have switched on, although this doesn't last long; for a short period they realise that they can't change men, although this tends to revert after a while.
4. When they exclaim "Oh God!" in bed, it doesn't yet mean that they have realised the ceiling needs repainting.
5. They have generally got enough money that you don't need to be subsidising their every whim. If they haven't . . . well, forget them.
Pep (So your "Golden Years" are imminent Jig. Make the most of them. It is downhill for women, but not for men - thereafter.)
Hell, considering this sample, *I* understand you. Heh, sorry. 
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Jig Chippewa
Fine Young Cannibal
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09-17-2009 06:49
From: Melita Magic QFT.
If Jig exists. IF "Jig" exists!!!!!!?????? Yes, I do! Bug*er me! IF??
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Windsweptgold Wopat
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09-17-2009 06:59
From: Jig Chippewa IF "Jig" exists!!!!!!??????
I get excited is four letters and I love shock value of statements and behaviours). I dont think it shocks I think it shows a lack of maturity
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Jig Chippewa
Fine Young Cannibal
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09-17-2009 07:05
From: Windsweptgold Wopat I dont think it shocks I think it shows a lack of maturity My real statements Windswept are what I was referring to - "SL Jig" is unable to be as shocking as in real and my voice and "persona" does not translate to here. we all need to lighten up and not take ourselves too seriously.
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Mickey Vandeverre
See you Inworld
Join date: 7 Dec 2006
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09-17-2009 07:13
From: Gummi Richthofen Jig... the SL forum is no place to play at being Belle de Jour. Just get yourself a blog like he did, and fake it up (or otherwise) there. Cults of personality do not really require an audience who are here to discuss other stuff.
PS, watch out for those personal details - I'm in the same town as you and from what you've been revealing, I don't think it would take me very long to work you out: and I'm a nice honest person with your best interests at heart. Think about what others, less well motivated, might do with your soul-baring exercises. Serously. Jig - you really, really need to pay attention to this, and remove some of the information you've supplied, and tone it way down on any RL info....hopefully it wasn't quoted. Considering some of the troubles you've had recently, and how it affected your SL....you certainly do not want it to roll over into RL. I would send that advice to you privately....but there's quite a few other people who need to take note of that here. I cringe every time I see something like that come up, because I had someone show up face to face based on a few very tiny tidbits in a private conversation....and there are people here giving far more than a tiny tidbit in a venue that is read by 100's....1000's....and is archived as well....and that goes with any posting made anywhere on the Internet in any venue. Major Mistake.
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