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Old Age is Getting on Top of Me

Jig Chippewa
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09-14-2009 22:39
I am always in how other people cope with older partners.

Most prolly know that my partner - "Hal", I call him - is 66 in reality. I am under 30. REALLY under 30. That means that there are limitations we must always be aware of. Sometimes his kettle isnt always "on the boil", if you get my meaning. I am a busy woman also. No time for a real affair or a marriage at the moment. Though all of that can change can't it? I think I'm a good catch anyway. Witty, sexy, financially stable, etc.

So, its an interesting mix for us.
But,
I don't get to hear much about other sl people who have much older partners or who have to contend with younger ladies and gents as their lovelie.
So, tell us what you think - is sl a raver's paradise for oldies and newbies in age? Or are we still conflicted by age-old issues.
Is old age getting on top of you (which is a fairly regular occurence for me) - or are YOU riding for that wave on top of it?
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maihem Sinister
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09-15-2009 01:34
add you to my ignore list i will! hmmmmmmm
Lula Svoboda
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09-15-2009 02:40
From: Jig Chippewa

Is old age getting on top of you (which is a fairly regular occurence for me) - or are YOU riding for that wave on top of it?


hey... we just go with the flow... top... bottom or side by side.

(I do love your posts Jig... sooner or later, I had to respond to one!)
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Rioko Bamaisin
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09-15-2009 03:24
For someone so busy, you sure do have a lot of time to post nonsense on these forums.
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Pserendipity Daniels
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09-15-2009 03:30
I thought most of the males in SL (and quite a few women) were Dirty Old Men? ;)

Pep (still just practising to be one. :p )
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Windsweptgold Wopat
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09-15-2009 03:54
Did you know how old he was when you started getting together?
DId you think ahhh a sugar daddy?
In my view he would be better off with someone more mature than you who can see past the "on the boil" to a more meaningful R/s

Get over yourself and let him be there are many of us out here who can remember the Beatles maybe you need to find a toy boy who can be "on the boil" all the time and not need to have deep meaningful chats
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Bear Jharls
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09-15-2009 04:27
Pixel sex is a bit like blue movies. After you've seen the first thousand or so it tends to get a bit boring. Something that can never be said about a nice cuppa tea, a pipe and a good book.
Vance Adder
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09-15-2009 04:58
My girl is 10 years my senior, but we still get along great and can relate just fine. I suppose 10 years isn't much though.
Imnotgoing Sideways
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09-15-2009 05:08
My RL marriage has a 22 year age gap. We've gotten along fine for quite a while. There's tumult right now that may eventually split us, but, it's by no means age related. (>_<;)

I'll keep it simple... There's FAR more to a relationship than what your partner or yourself is physically capable of. Take it from the young one. We met when I was 17. (^_^)y
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Laurin Sorbet
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09-15-2009 05:25
My last 2L 'relationship' was with a guy about 15 years younger than me. OMG. Thanks Jiggy, now I feel like an ancient dirty old lady :eek:
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Windsweptgold Wopat
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09-15-2009 05:27
From: Laurin Sorbet
My last 2L 'relationship' was with a guy about 15 years younger than me. OMG. Thanks Jiggy, now I feel like an ancient dirty old lady :eek:

Not a dirty old lady but a hot cougar
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Pserendipity Daniels
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09-15-2009 05:32
From: Windsweptgold Wopat
Not a dirty old lady but a hot cougar
There are times when I wish I *was* younger! ;)

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Eli Schlegal
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09-15-2009 05:35
From: Jig Chippewa
Most prolly know that my partner - "Hal", I call him - is 66 in reality. I am under 30. REALLY under 30. That means that there are limitations we must always be aware of. Sometimes his kettle isnt always "on the boil", if you get my meaning.


This poor fricken guy. Does he really need his most intimate details thrown out in the forums for everyone to read? Next you'll tell us he has a small penis and wets the bed.
Marianne Little
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09-15-2009 05:40
From: Rioko Bamaisin
For someone so busy, you sure do have a lot of time to post nonsense on these forums.

This. You also have to point out that you are "really" under thirty, "really" attractive, "really" a good catch and "really" always interested in sex. Who do you try to impress? I think you are shallow and probably ugly as hell in RL. Attractive people don't have to talk about how attractive they are, others do it for them. Welcome to my ignore list, I've had it with you and your stupid posts here.
spinster Voom
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09-15-2009 05:48
/me shuffles into the thread on her zimmer frame but then can't remember what she came in here for ...
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Laurin Sorbet
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09-15-2009 05:49
From: Windsweptgold Wopat
Not a dirty old lady but a hot cougar


I feel so much better now as I push my zimmer frame down the the hall, shouting, "F*x! Where are you boy! My hip needs another coat of the Ben Gay!"

:D
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Laurin Sorbet
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09-15-2009 05:50
From: spinster Voom
/me shuffles into the thread on her zimmer frame but then can't remember what she came in here for ...


Oh snap! Want me to send my Portagee hottie over with the Ben Gay when I get done with my treatment? :o
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09-15-2009 06:01
From: Laurin Sorbet
Oh snap! Want me to send my Portagee hottie over with the Ben Gay when I get done with my treatment? :o

:D
I'm not sure - what's Ben Gay?
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Pserendipity Daniels
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09-15-2009 06:03
Is a Zimmer frame one of those frightening bits of BDSM equipment . . . :eek:

Pep ( . . . that I see from the distance as I pass by Zindra dungeons looking for a nice coffee shop to have a chat in?)

PS Has anybody seen a Stannah stair-lift or a walk-in bath in sl?
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Laurin Sorbet
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09-15-2009 06:06
From: spinster Voom
:D
I'm not sure - what's Ben Gay?


A rickety old lady rub that stinks of mint, similar to Deep Heat. It makes you hot, and at our age we have to take what we can get, eh? ;)
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Laurin Sorbet
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09-15-2009 06:07
From: Pserendipity Daniels


PS Has anybody seen a Stannah stair-lift


Dunno, is it like a Hoyer lift? They may sell them with the diapers :eek:
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Deira Llanfair
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09-15-2009 06:14
From: Jig Chippewa


I think I'm a good catch anyway. Witty, sexy, financially stable, etc.



Jig, I really do not like to see a young woman describe herself as "a good catch"! I think it is old fashioned and demeaning and I should not want my daughter thinking like that. I thought the days when a woman's main purpose in life was to get a man were long gone!

Honestly, the younger generation make me wonder why I burnt my bra! Think of the Suffragettes! You should be ashamed of yourself!
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09-15-2009 06:15
From: Laurin Sorbet
A rickety old lady rub that stinks of mint, similar to Deep Heat. It makes you hot, and at our age we have to take what we can get, eh? ;)
A rub that makes a woman hawt? Put me down for a dozen to send as Christmas presents!

Pep (wants his daughter to marry a rich man - of any age!)
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Pserendipity Daniels
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09-15-2009 06:17
From: Laurin Sorbet
Dunno, is it like a Hoyer lift? They may sell them with the diapers :eek:


Pep (Guesses on the models' relationship, anyone?)
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09-15-2009 06:20
From: Deira Llanfair
Honestly, the younger generation make me wonder why I burnt my bra!
pixplsthxbai

Pep (Not of the ashes. :p )
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