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Love Hastings
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Join date: 21 Aug 2007
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04-28-2009 22:00
Did I get it?

EDIT: Oh yeah!
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3Ring Binder
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04-28-2009 22:00
yes! :D
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LittleMe Jewell
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04-28-2009 22:01
BTW - the NOW that I am enjoying is very very nice indeed.
:)
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Love Hastings
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Join date: 21 Aug 2007
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04-28-2009 22:02
From: LittleMe Jewell
BTW - the NOW that I am enjoying is very very nice indeed.
:)


Glad to hear you are doing well, Lil!
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Damien1 Thorne
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04-28-2009 22:03
/me shakes fist at Love.
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LittleMe Jewell
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04-28-2009 22:04
From: Love Hastings
Did I get it?

EDIT: Oh yeah!
Saved for proof:

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-Lil

Why do you sit there looking like an envelope without any address on it?
~Mark Twain~

Optimism is denial, so face the facts and move on.
♥♥♥
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LittleMe Jewell
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Join date: 8 Oct 2007
Posts: 11,319
04-28-2009 22:06
ok - night night all
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-Lil

Why do you sit there looking like an envelope without any address on it?
~Mark Twain~

Optimism is denial, so face the facts and move on.
♥♥♥
Lil's Yard Sale / Inventory Cleanout: http://slurl.com/secondlife/Triggerfish/52/27/22
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Nina Stepford
was lied to by LL
Join date: 26 Mar 2007
Posts: 3,373
04-28-2009 22:06
i really wish somebody hadnt mentioned the tatemae.
i am again becoming obsessed with the tatemae, finding its evidence everywhere i look.
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Nina Stepford
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04-28-2009 22:07
see i didnt even realise we were here for 66,666. i figured everyone was here for me :(
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learn to shut up and nod in agreement... or be banned!
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3Ring Binder
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04-28-2009 22:07
From: LittleMe Jewell
BTW - the NOW that I am enjoying is very very nice indeed.
:)

*smiles*
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3Ring Binder
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04-28-2009 22:09
From: Nina Stepford
i really wish somebody hadnt mentioned the tatemae.
i am again becoming obsessed with the tatemae, finding its evidence everywhere i look.

errrr...... feeling generous enough to save me a google/wikipedia expedition and explain what tatemae is? :o
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3Ring Binder
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04-28-2009 22:10
From: Nina Stepford
see i didnt even realise we were here for 66,666. i figured everyone was here for me :(

we are. now turn that frown upside down. :)
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Nina Stepford
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04-28-2009 22:16
http://www.mynippon.com/RomanceNews0201/story12.htm
tatemae!
From: 3Ring Binder
errrr...... feeling generous enough to save me a google/wikipedia expedition and explain what tatemae is? :o
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pro-life? gtfo! slu- banning opposing opinions one at a time
http://www.sluniverse.com/php/vb/zomgwtfbbqgtfololcats/15428-disingenuous.html
learn to shut up and nod in agreement... or be banned!
http://www.sluniverse.com/php/vb/off-topic/1239-americans-not-stupid.html
Nina Stepford
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Join date: 26 Mar 2007
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04-28-2009 22:23
an example of tatemae:
table 5 orders a rare steak. table 10 orders a well-done steak. the waitress takes the wrong steaks out to the two tables. she realises this too late, so she asks them how their meals are. they both nod and smile, saying 'its fine'. BUT they are actually unhappy about their meals. one feels like hes eating raw meat and the other thinks his steak is like shoe leather. the waitress knows they have the wrong steaks, the tables know it too, but they all play a part in a charade for no other reason than to get along, be polite, and avoid conflict. they are even aware they are both playing a charade, but you know... its life.
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~~GREATEST HITS~~
pro-life? gtfo! slu- banning opposing opinions one at a time
http://www.sluniverse.com/php/vb/zomgwtfbbqgtfololcats/15428-disingenuous.html
learn to shut up and nod in agreement... or be banned!
http://www.sluniverse.com/php/vb/off-topic/1239-americans-not-stupid.html
Nina Stepford
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Join date: 26 Mar 2007
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04-28-2009 22:27
i just realised that by looking at my sig it shouldnt come as a surprise that the tatemae would fascinate me ;) is this the 'hive-mind' i have mentioned in the past on occasion? to a degree, yes i believe it is. is it the 'mind-virus' that caused such drama? no, i think its something different.
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pro-life? gtfo! slu- banning opposing opinions one at a time
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learn to shut up and nod in agreement... or be banned!
http://www.sluniverse.com/php/vb/off-topic/1239-americans-not-stupid.html
Tex Nasworthy
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Join date: 2 Sep 2006
Posts: 1,330
04-28-2009 22:29
/me staggers in late with beer on his breath.

Hiya Zena,
Nice to see you here. Some of the earlier post got me to thinking "What ever happened to those pesky kids of ours"?

/me hiccups! :o
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Bith Wierwight
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Join date: 26 Feb 2008
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04-28-2009 22:30
From: Treasure Ballinger
Lexxi was turned into a tiny frog inworld tonite.


/me is suddenly interested and is snapping her beak.

(heh, just a little revenge for yesterday -- when Lexxi was cracking me up)
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Nina Stepford
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04-28-2009 22:31
you have interrupted my public pontificating with drunken antics?
thats as bad as interrupting masturbation.
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pro-life? gtfo! slu- banning opposing opinions one at a time
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learn to shut up and nod in agreement... or be banned!
http://www.sluniverse.com/php/vb/off-topic/1239-americans-not-stupid.html
Amaranthim Talon
Voyager, Seeker, Curious
Join date: 14 Nov 2006
Posts: 12,032
04-28-2009 22:32
From: 3Ring Binder
errrr...... feeling generous enough to save me a google/wikipedia expedition and explain what tatemae is? :o

Go read the last few pages of Yumi's thread. Oh walked about Eku's build today- so pretty!
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Tex Nasworthy
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04-28-2009 22:33
On a slightly more serious note.

Congrats, to Love on the 66,666!

To everyone else, WOW, you folks were on a roll tonight!!!:D
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Amaranthim Talon
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04-28-2009 22:33
POD showed up and Hera is sleeping contentedl- which is wehre i will be too- night Threadworld- Congrats Love!
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Lexxi Gynoid
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Join date: 6 Aug 2007
Posts: 3,732
04-28-2009 22:38
From: Nina Stepford
an example of tatemae:
table 5 orders a rare steak. table 10 orders a well-done steak. the waitress takes the wrong steaks out to the two tables. she realises this too late, so she asks them how their meals are. they both nod and smile, saying 'its fine'. BUT they are actually unhappy about their meals. one feels like hes eating raw meat and the other thinks his steak is like shoe leather. the waitress knows they have the wrong steaks, the tables know it too, but they all play a part in a charade for no other reason than to get along, be polite, and avoid conflict. they are even aware they are both playing a charade, but you know... its life.

I have, and would say it tasted like crap. or more politely that it tasted like undercooked meat or shoe leather depending on what had been expecting and what wanted at time.

I would not say it tasted ok, or fine, or good, or whatever.

Then again I have limited, few, disappointingly small social skills.
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Lexxi Gynoid
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04-28-2009 22:39
From: Amaranthim Talon
Go read the last few pages of Yumi's thread. Oh walked about Eku's build today- so pretty!

Read Yumi's thread. Still had no idea what they heck tatemate was about.
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Her Royal Highness Buttercup Meow the XXI
Malia Writer
Unemployed in paradise
Join date: 20 Aug 2007
Posts: 2,026
04-28-2009 22:58
From: Lexxi Gynoid
Read Yumi's thread. Still had no idea what they heck tatemate was about.

Here ya go: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tatemae
Yumi's thread actually seems to be more about self-esteem than about tatemae, but this is where the term comes from.

Edit: Sorry 3Ring, I know you didn't want a wiki, but this one is actually a very good explanation and not too wordy.
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04-28-2009 23:06
Drat, I missed 66666.

@Love - Congratulations, you are now Satanic... erm... yeah...

@Raymond - welcome back! Still happy with my land thanks to your good advice way back when. :)

@Tex - keep meaning to say that the photo you posted of the hubcap is fantastic. As for the beer breath...
/me passes Tex a tin of Altoids.

Goodnight all!
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