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                         04-06-2009 09:05 
                        From: Marianne McCann What you are doing is coming into an existing place, with already established expectations (such as they are) of its members, and trying to change long-standing traditions (also such as they are) through a subtle form of blackmail. That's not a "deal." What's the main cause of change? Pep (Breaking a twenty)  
                        
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                         04-06-2009 09:06 
                        And on a lighter note- just saw this- it is sooo cool! /196/63/315278/1.htmlThey both are - but the Dutch oven is genius!  
                        
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                         04-06-2009 09:07 
                        From: Love Hastings Who? Nevermind, you're a troll.    Anyway, I've just received a PM. The count is now at least two people who have left this thread solely because of you. /me looks for a hair shirt in his inventory . . . Pep (Congratulations on receiving a PM; is it such an unusual event for someone to want to communicate with you that you feel you have to proclaim it publicly ?)  
                        
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                         04-06-2009 09:10 
                        From: Pserendipity Daniels   Pep (Congratulations on receiving a PM; is it such an unusual event for someone to want to communicate with you that you feel you have to proclaim it publicly ?)
 Perhaps you could address the issue of people leaving this thread because of you, instead of hurling pathetic insults?  
                        
                    
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                         04-06-2009 09:15 
                        yuck. fighting.
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                         04-06-2009 09:16 
                        From: Love Hastings Perhaps you could address the issue of people leaving this thread because of you, instead of hurling pathetic insults? Why address unsubstantiated rumour? Pep (Insults? Just seeking clarification of your own ambiguity)  
                        
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                         04-06-2009 09:16 
                        Actually, nevermind. I've (more than) accomplished my goal this time around. So I shall *try* to leave it be. 
                        
                    
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                         04-06-2009 09:17 
                        From: Love Hastings Actually, nevermind. I've (more than) accomplished my goal this time around. So I shall *try* to leave it be. Ah, an admission of culpability! So it *was* your intent to stir up trouble for me in this thread eh?     Pep (Innocent party)  
                        
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                         04-06-2009 09:18 
                           An exercise for the reader. And if you decide it's me, that's perfectly fine.  
                        
                    
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                         04-06-2009 09:20 
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                         04-06-2009 09:22 
                        From: Ylikone Obscure Is there a prize for reading this entire thread? Free lobotomy.  
                        
                    
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                         04-06-2009 09:23 
                        From: Ylikone Obscure Is there a prize for reading this entire thread? Nope, but welcome- pull up a chair. Sweep the dust out of the way. There is some coffee over there ------> and lunch should be up soon    
                        
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                         04-06-2009 09:23 
                        From: Love Hastings An exercise for the reader. And if you decide it's me, that's perfectly fine.      Pep (I have no delusions, so I guess the answer's obvious.)  
                        
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                         04-06-2009 09:28 
                          Stop it, you two! FFS, just drop it.    
                        
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                         04-06-2009 09:32 
                        From: Love Hastings Actually, nevermind. I've (more than) accomplished my goal this time around. So I shall *try* to leave it be. Here, this'll help    (Or  http://forums.secondlife.com/profile.php?do=addlist&userlist=ignore&u=569978 for those who cant see the link above)  
                        
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                         04-06-2009 09:37 
                        Great pictures Mari - as always.  And congrats on the new kitty. I like the name Ruby. But I agree that you should get to know her and figure out her perfect name.  
  And I agree with your "blackmail" assessment.
  For the record I rather enjoy the Lol cats and am disturbed by images of animals being abused - I had to make my donations to shelters anonymously for ten years before I stopped getting appeals with sad stories and pictures.
  Jokes about dead cats don't necessarily bother me so much - if they are funny and don't include any suffering.  But I wouldn't post them myself and certainly not where I know  people would be bothered by them. 
                        
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                         04-06-2009 09:38 
                        From: Ylikone Obscure Is there a prize for reading this entire thread? No...but you get a gold star for stopping by..     
                        
                    
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                         04-06-2009 09:48 
                        Tod, I'm so sorry this is happening to you. It's so painful.  I think you've gotten good advice from 3-Ring and everyone else here.  Just in case my two cents might help you think things through here it is - I understand if you ignore it.
  When you talk about what *she* needs and what *she* deserves and when you can't talk about getting over her without replacing her with another woman it sounds to me more like addiction than love.
  When you can give her back the responsibility to take care of her own needs and you can accept that only you are responsible for your own happiness you'll be on the road to recovery.  
  I don't think you can expect to ever have a really good relationship with a significant other until you have learned to be happy on your own without a partner. 
                        
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                         04-06-2009 09:56 
                        From: Pserendipity Daniels Pep (I'll do a deal; LOLCATs don't get posted and I won't post more realistic photos of cats) sorry, we don't make deals with blackmailers and terrorists.   
                        
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                         04-06-2009 09:57 
                        I'm not going to say who I feel is wrong or right, although we have all been wrong at some point   I also don't want a comment either way on what I state, I don't feel like arguing back and forth with anyone... 1.  Pep is a member of the forums and has been known to many of us for a long, long time.  He is who he is, this is the Pep that we have all come to know and like (perhaps love to hate?)  Whoever thinks he's wrong, he will not change for you or any of us. 2.  Those that have been slighted by his comments, should be able to defend themselves if they were so insulted.  I don't think anyone else needs to jump into the fray. 3.  I myself, have a deep admiration for Maureen.  She has somehow become step-mom to this thread and puts in endless time keeping up with who has posted before or not, endless breakfasts, etc... She doesn't have to do this.  So, for that reason alone, anything she asks, I abide by.  I would hope others do as well.     @Pep-please ignore grammatical or spelling mistakes this one time...I am upset    
                        
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                         04-06-2009 09:59 
                        From: Pserendipity Daniels    Pep (I have no delusions, so I guess the answer's obvious.) Gee...I wonder if I could respectfully ask that both of you just take a deep breath and call a temporary cease fire?  It's getting hard to follow some of the other discussions here.  I know neither of you owes me any favors...Just a personal request?  Please?  Jackie.  
                        
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                         04-06-2009 10:04 
                        This is actually the only thread I read on this board for the most part. My interest in SL is pretty much zilch these days and the rest of the threads usually turn into crap by some troll or another. I read this thread every day though because I like the people on it and would miss you threaps otherwise.    Can't you two go make your own thread and argue? I don't even care why you two are arguing. It hurts my eyes and makes me rather read wow forums. That is bad when pre-teen's with acne and nerd rage look more appealing... 
                        
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                         04-06-2009 10:04 
                        From: Jackie Silverfall Glad you could sneak on yesterday.  It was good to meet you in person.  Jackie.    nice meeting you too.  i was SUPPOSED to be doing yard work, but i stayed in extra long after bandaging a cut on my hand....     
                        
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