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A Modest Proposal - Concerning "The Pornfield"

Qie Niangao
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02-03-2009 14:07
From: Marianne McCann
Am I the only one who remembered that "A Modest Proposal" was a satire by J. Swift about cannibalism of kids?
See Elanthius @#7. But beware: It cost Brenda a cup of coffee @#10.
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02-03-2009 14:16
From: Treasure Ballinger
Hello! This post is in reference to all of the comments/posts about spelling/grammatical errors. When I lost my hearing, well into adulthood, I had already learned to speak. As my hearing loss progressed, over time, I've become an advocate for Deaf (Cultural), deaf, (hard of hearing) and late deafened people.

Mostly in culturally Deaf society, you find people who never learned to speak english as you, the listener, expect to hear it. These people think in American Sign language syntax, sentence structure, etc, which is, essentially, backwards to english sentence structure. Therefore, that is how they type, in that same structure. Being fluent in both english and american sign language, I am often called on, in SL, to interpret for some Deaf person who is somewhere trying desperately to make themselves understood, to an english speaker, who thinks they are either foreign, or stupid. I quickly make it clear that we are not stupid. One man on SL that I regularly 'terp' for, is a Gallaudet graduate with an engineering degree; however, he has never heard english the way a listener expects to receive it. American sign language is english, somewhat abbreviated, somewhat turned around as far as where nouns and verbs appear, etc, within the sentence.

I will admit that the frustration is huge for the Deaf person trying to communicate with someone who thinks he is an idiot. I will also say that, I am very glad, that I have not summarily dismissed someone who isn't speaking english on the level that I feel is up to my particular standards. I would have missed out on some very worthy friends, had I walked away. I am eloquent, you (the royal 'you', not you in particular) may not be. Luckily, I will not count that as criteria in deciding whether you are worth my while, or to discount your opinions, because your english is not as clearly understood as mine. Because, I am not walking in your shoes, nor do I know what devils may be beleaguering you as you walk your journey. Therefore, my only charge is to be kind, because everyone you meet, has just gone through something, or is going through something, or is about to go through something. I know this is long. Thanks if you read this far.

Oh, this is supposed to be about Porn. Ok, next post........:) Just wanted to speak to this because this type of thing shows up on so many RA forum threads.


Great post!
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02-03-2009 15:49
From: Treasure Ballinger
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Very well said!

The difference, I think, is English as a second language (as would be the case for someone who primarily speaks ASL), or your native tongue. The standards certainly differ, and non-native speakers tend to have certain easily-identifiable traits.

Lack of fluency in a second (or third or nth) language is to be expected, and understood. Lack of fluency in your native (and in many cases only) language is less tolerable.

I doubt even Pep holds non-native speakers to the same standards he expect of native speakers.

But, like it or not, in a textual medium, a person's perceptions are based on how one communicates with the written word.

Or how one communicates with creative, artistic pr0n. (just to mention the topic) :D
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02-03-2009 16:00
From: Jerboa Haystack
Very well said!

I doubt even Pep holds non-native speakers to the same standards he expect of native speakers.

But, like it or not, in a textual medium, a person's perceptions are based on how one communicates with the written word.

Or how one communicates with creative, artistic pr0n. (just to mention the topic) :D


Maybe. But for the most part, we don't really know on SL who we are talking to, the person behind the ava, what 'things' are stepping in to make them appear certain ways to us. And since that is the case, I just don't understand being so judgemental. If you knew the person in rl, knew they were just being lazy and choosing to speak in a lazy manner 'just because' then sure, have at it. But, we don't know. On my sim, I met a man who wanted to buy land. OMG he typed so slowly. I fidgeted and fidgeted waiting and waiting. Finally we did our business. Later I found out he types with his feet as he has no arms. *I* felt like the idiot, he was doing the best he could and I was just impatient, probably wanted to go buy hair or something. So unless you (the royal 'you' again) are sure who the typist is and what issues are behind that annoying behavior, (is it ESL? Do you know for sure that it is or is not?) then again I just don't see being quick to jump.

I am sorry for taking up this thread with this. It's just that, these grammar/spelling complaints are in most threads at some point. So, I just picked one. Again sorry, I am wordy, verbose, and I apologize.

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02-03-2009 16:00
From: Jig Chippewa
How do we promote goodness here and a world worthy of teh arts and offers accessible relationships taht are not scarred by labels or behaviours that attract the attention of serious journalists and demean ourselves as members of sl? What limits must we endure if we are to be regarded as a viable "Brave New World"?

I disagree with the basic premise that sl is not worthy of the arts. I am not so sure that the so called "Arts" are worthy of the the creativity that exists in sl. I still don't know who you think is worthy to decide what is acceptable and what isn't. You let the arts world decide and you will have more garbage in the name of art than now exists. If you let a government decide, well I don't know of any governments that I trust to decide what I can and can not see.
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02-03-2009 16:02
From: Damien1 Thorne
I disagree with the basic premise that sl is not worthy of the arts. I am not so sure that the so called "Arts" are worthy of the the creativity that exists in sl. I still don't know who you think is worthy to decide what is acceptable and what isn't. You let the arts world decide and you will have more garbage in the name of art than now exists. If you let a government decide, well I don't know of any governments that I trust to decide what I can and can not see.
As they endow it with our tax money.
Cenau Cazalet
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02-03-2009 16:04
Jerboa Haystack said:
"The thing is Jig, that when you leave "teh" and "liek" and such in your posts, the point you are making is overshadowed by how you make it. I don't criticize grammar as a matter of course. But I do make assumptions about the poster, and the poster's message, based on how that message is presented. To me, sloppy presentation indicates a sloppy argument, and many times will skip over those posts in favor of others better written. Something to think about".

(Sorry I haven't quite got the hang of using this Quote button)

Just wanted to say that I agree with Jerboa. I skip those posts too.
Allegria Kanto
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02-03-2009 16:58
From: Jerboa Haystack
I would ask, why the obsession with the depiction of sexuality?

The most popular games today involve the depiction of horrid acts of violence against others. Blood, death, gore, dismemberment, taunting of victims, and celebrating over the broken and mangled bodies of the vanquished. Even the looting of the dead. I'm thinking of WoW, Halo, GTA, and other similar games.

And yet, society as a whole, turns a blind eye to engaging in that activity. It is entertainment.

But heaven forbid there be a bewbie! A man and woman in scanty chain armor with giant swords, knocking each other senseless? That is good clean fun (if you ignore the blood spatters flying). The crowds clamor for more! But let them engage in anything resembling intercourse and the creators will be pilloried.

That...dear readers...is the real commentary on modern popular culture.

Human sexuality is an embarrassing "dark underbelly". Human violence is celebrated.

I haz sadz every time I think of it. :(


This...

Thanks, Jer, for some perspective.
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02-03-2009 17:01
From: Marianne McCann
Am I the only one who remembered that "A Modest Proposal" was a satire by J. Swift about cannibalism of kids?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A_Modest_Proposal


no... :)
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02-03-2009 17:14
I have not seen the said article that was spoken of ( Not from Canada) but as I am one of those people from the "dark side " of Second Life I will add my 2 cents worth.
Not sure I would call what goes on in Second life porn, some of the art work hanging in places defiantly is though. I don't come to SL to act out fantasies as I am D/s ( dominant/submissive) in RL ( real life) I dont go looking for sex with some stranger a few mmms and aahhh whilst sitting on a ball does nothing for me. A fair amount of my time in SL is taken up by socialising and by talking about the D/s lifestyle.
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02-03-2009 19:01
From: Jig Chippewa
...our world is little more than a clearing house for socially inadequate people who indulge in dark fantasies or sad relationships...

Dang it, they've been spying on me again. I better get a bigger tinfoil hat!
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02-03-2009 19:03
From: Cenau Cazalet
To me, sloppy presentation indicates a sloppy argument, and many times will skip over those posts in favor of others better written. Something to think about".

If this were a job interview... okay. If this were an english class... I get it.

But this is a forum for computer game!!!

Do you disregard people who say "cool" instead of "splendid"? Do you think that anybody who speaks with a southern accent is an idiot? Oh... well, I do... but that's NOT the point!

What matters is that we understand what a person means, not how they choose to express themselves, especially in an environment as (supposedly) free, artsy and edgy as SL.

Wading through a few "tehs" is a small price to pay to share in a conversation. I for one would be very sorry to see Jig give up her quirky speech just to quiet you lot.
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02-03-2009 19:05
From: Alvaro Zapatero
Do you disregard people who say "cool" instead of "splendid"?
I think they're ripping, chum. Weirding language is awfully smashing, don't you know?
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02-03-2009 19:06
Quite!
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02-03-2009 19:16
From: Alvaro Zapatero
If this were a job interview... okay. If this were an english class... I get it.

But this is a forum for computer game!!!

Do you disregard people who say "cool" instead of "splendid"?


No, but if they say "kewl" all bets are off.
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02-03-2009 21:51
From: Pserendipity Daniels
QFT.


I don't take seriously people who don't appear to want to be taken seriously.

Pep (My son thinks you are at least ten years too old to be hip by the way)


I actually am enjoying this; can you possibly get more condescending? Hip? Lol! Sorry, Grandpa. I'm not a wrinkly yet.
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02-03-2009 23:25
From: Alvaro Zapatero
What matters is that we understand what a person means, not how they choose to express themselves
The core of the problem! Most of the quarrels on the forums are caused by people NOT understanding what another means, for all sorts of unchangeable reasons (age, culture, language etc) so augmenting that with "voluntary" complications, whether they are lexiphanic, lazy or attempts at individual differentiation, will inevitably lead to even more misunderstandings. A previous poster said they took time to prevent the meaning of their post from being sullied by errors of spelling and grammar or unclear presentation. Hear! Hear! (NOT "here here" by the way) I also violently agree with a previous poster that the way in which someone chooses to express an opinion or argument is an inextricable component of that opinion or argument, and I retain the right to believe that an apparently lazy presentation reflects the incoherence of the thinking processes underlying the content.

Pep (Jerry - Of course I give slack to non-native English speakers - as long as they identify themselves as such; not doing so is lazy too)
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02-03-2009 23:30
From: Jig Chippewa
I actually am enjoying this; can you possibly get more condescending? Hip? Lol! Sorry, Grandpa. I'm not a wrinkly yet.
I can't help your feelings of inadequacy. If you choose to revel in them then please feel free to continue with your "father figure" fantasy.

Pep (My son is 13, so "Grandpa" is way off the mark, and you *are* a wrinkly as far as he is concerned)
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02-03-2009 23:37
From: Pserendipity Daniels
I can't help your feelings of inadequacy. If you choose to revel in them then please feel free to continue with your "father figure" fantasy.

Pep (My son is 13, so "Grandpa" is way off the mark, and you *are* a wrinkly as far as he is concerned)


You must have just woken. I have no fantasy about you. In sl my partner fulfils any fantasy. he is 64 and brilliant. He satisfies that part of me that demands that. You lack his intelligence. You lack his humanity. Your self-absorption is narcisstic. I am glad you are proud to have a son. I dont have a child but I bet he is much fun for you. Will you answer the question I propose or will you just be a "windigo" forever?
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02-04-2009 00:26
teh?
Classic troll language from last century, old hat call for attention, didn't bother reading past the first few lines, have better use of my time on earth :P
I can't type for s*it myself but at least I'm random about it.
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02-04-2009 01:30
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teh?
Classic troll language from last century, old hat call for attention, didn't bother reading past the first few lines, have better use of my time on earth :P
I can't type for s*it myself but at least I'm random about it.
It's true: If I were to pick a typo *not* to make, it would be "teh". The problem is that it just isn't perceived as a typo anymore, especially if it appears multiple times (or worse, every time).

Doesn't everybody use Firefox or Chrome or some browser that shows those dotted red underlines suggesting something may be amiss? Between that and the helpful suggestions of the search box, it's pretty easy to get the typing and spelling mostly correct.

Is it important to do that? No, not if the communication is just to ask and answer factual questions. But if it's a call to action or an attempt to convince others, effectiveness will depend on all sorts of cues. Most readers will detect and discount the effects of English as a second language, for example, but when they detect "teh" over and over, it's perceived as a message, and one that's carried a lot of freight for a long time.

It's a telltale sign, like a fresh Boy Next Door avatar with scalp showing through the freebie prim hair. We may wish we didn't jump to conclusions, but we do.
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02-04-2009 02:06
From: Pie Psaltery

Now that's funny!
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02-04-2009 03:38
From: Jig Chippewa
You lack his intelligence. You lack his humanity. Your self-absorption is narcisstic.
You don't actually *know* any of that.

Pep (But as I say, you must manage your own delusions)
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02-04-2009 05:59
From: Qie Niangao
It's true: If I were to pick a typo *not* to make, it would be "teh". The problem is that it just isn't perceived as a typo anymore, especially if it appears multiple times (or worse, every time).

Doesn't everybody use Firefox or Chrome or some browser that shows those dotted red underlines suggesting something may be amiss?

No. ;)
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02-04-2009 06:06
From: Pserendipity Daniels
The core of the problem! Most of the quarrels on the forums are caused by people NOT understanding what another means, for all sorts of unchangeable reasons (age, culture, language etc) so augmenting that with "voluntary" complications, whether they are lexiphanic, lazy or attempts at individual differentiation, will inevitably lead to even more misunderstandings. A previous poster said they took time to prevent the meaning of their post from being sullied by errors of spelling and grammar or unclear presentation. Hear! Hear! (NOT "here here" by the way) I also violently agree with a previous poster that the way in which someone chooses to express an opinion or argument is an inextricable component of that opinion or argument, and I retain the right to believe that an apparently lazy presentation reflects the incoherence of the thinking processes underlying the content.

Pep (Jerry - Of course I give slack to non-native English speakers - as long as they identify themselves as such; not doing so is lazy too)



Helping Pep:

The core of the problem! (<--fragment) Most of the quarrels on the forums are caused by people NOT understanding what another means, for all sorts of unchangeable reasons (age, culture, language (you need a comma here, and rethink the idea that language is unchangeable) etc (you need a period here)) so augmenting that with "voluntary" complications, whether they are lexiphanic, lazy or attempts at individual differentiation, (<---reread this series for parallel structure) will inevitably lead to even more misunderstandings. A previous poster said they took time to prevent the meaning of their post from being sullied by errors of spelling and grammar or unclear presentation. Hear! Hear! (NOT "here here" by the way) I also violently agree (violently agree? colorful, but not very clear. Could you please be more specific when playing with the language?) with a previous poster that the way in which someone chooses to express an opinion or argument is an inextricable component of that opinion or argument, and I retain the right to believe that an apparently lazy presentation reflects the incoherence of the thinking processes (so you're assuming more than one process of 'thinking' in each opinion or argument?) underlying the content.

Pep (Jerry - Of course I give slack to non-native English speakers - as long as they identify themselves as such; not doing so is lazy too) (Again, a missed period. Pregnant or lazy?)
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