Underage

its more akin to the do-gooder that cant resist poking her nose into the streetgangs affairs, constantly investigating, looking thru curtains, phoning the police, then wondering why the gang turns around and targets her.
let sleeping dogs lie.
im ECSTATIC that a brownshirt, AR filing, sticky beak, daniel linden fan is getting shafted.
maybe she will learn to leave ppl alone and to mind her own pot.

This kid came to Mily and outed herself. Mily followed her heart, with a great deal of thought and regret. It wasn't like Mily was out looking for underage people and reporting on them. All you people giving her grief can back off. Come insult me a little bit.

Come insult me a little bit.

Your Santa suit makes your butt look big.

Your Santa suit makes your butt look big.

This kid came to Mily and outed herself. Mily followed her heart, with a great deal of thought and regret. It wasn't like Mily was out looking for underage people and reporting on them. All you people giving her grief can back off. Come insult me a little bit.

... jesus people what would you do to a 16 year old in real life asking for help?

I would make a comment about needing a big hammer to drive a long nail, but that may not be PG so I won't.

I was talking about your butt. Where're you driving that nail, buddy?

Do we really want that answered?

if she was in an 18+ bar or club I would expect the owners to ring her parents or guardians, either of which she surely has, and ask them to come and take her home. Failing that, Youth Services would be my next call, and the Police to deal with the owners.

its more akin to the do-gooder that cant resist poking her nose into the streetgangs affairs, constantly investigating, looking thru curtains, phoning the police, then wondering why the gang turns around and targets her.
let sleeping dogs lie.
im ECSTATIC that a brownshirt, AR filing, sticky beak, daniel linden fan is getting shafted.
maybe she will learn to leave ppl alone and to mind her own pot.

I've learned a lot from people in the forums, I've asked for advice many times and I've done things I didnt think of until somebody in the forums pointed me in the correct direction. Excuse me if I am not as intelligent as you are, I will keep on posting questions and getting advice even if I get slapped by a few.

Who is Daniel Linden? Am I supposed to be his fan? Do I wear brown shirts? Have I filled out an AR?

Nina, I've been reading your posts slowly, trying to digest your words, trying to understand the hatred you pour out, and I dont get it.
Let's get the facts straight.
1 I didnt poke into anybody's business, this girl came to me, she begged to be adopted into my family, I didnt want to get involved in any problems, but she kept asking for weeks, I had all the doubts in the world because her behaviour was not a normal one (supposing she was an adult), but I welcomed her into my home. She was there for 3 or 4 days BEFORE she told me she was 16.
2. I didnt fill any AR, as there was no abusive behaviour from her. She simply needed to be where she belonged and where she would be as SAFE as possible. I talked to her to move to the teen grid and told her I would try to contact Linden staff to see if she could have her inventory transfered. (It wasnt much, a few dolls and her bike and some outfits)
I cried my eyes out while talking to her as she was so sweet when she said she didnt want to go anywhere and that she felt safe with us.
3. My friends said it was necessary to talk to a Linden when she came back the same night as they said we could be in real trouble, even legal, if we didnt. I couldnt get anybody and they did while I was gone. They did it again when she came back with another name.
So, no poking my nose into strangers business, no ARs, no looking through the curtains, no constant investigation, no phoning the police, and all the rest of the accusations have as much weigh as the ones I just replied to.
Maybe you're the one that's poking your nose into strangers businesses right now, I asked for advice when I couldnt get hold of a Linden, got great replies and thanked for all of them, but your reply seems to be just a flame, and shows all the hatred you have inside for people that try to be good but also try to stay safe themselves.
You're ECSTATIC at my being harassed or griefed? well, thank you. Just remember that we're on the road and the stone that's hurting me now, can be the same one that hurts you somewhere along the way.
Good day Nina, and I hope you good, I cant wish bad not even to people like you.

The girl went to the teen grid, she didnt like it and came back the same night, so we talked to a Linden and he cancelled her account. I went to work rl next day and by the time I came back, my friends told me she had come back changing her name just a little, so they talked to this Linden again and the account was cancelled again.
This should be the end of the story, but the fact is that its just the beginning.
I've been getting "visitors" in my home. One left me a doll picture with the conversation I had with her when I told her she needed to go to the teen grid where I said 2 years went fast and that she would be welcomed if she came back after that time.
Last night I had a horrible visit to my house while my kid av (I use her to build kids furniture) was "sleeping/camping" in my bedroom. I have an adult bed, with all the functions deactivated (needs to be reset and never did do that), my kid av was on the bed in one of those cover me pillows that rezzes a blanket over, when I came online this morning the blanket on the bed had been moved and the balls (that never had been rezzed) were visible, so I opened the chat history to see who had come into the house, and what I read there was totally sick, wont tell what it was only that they asked for her, b I can tell you that at my age I blushed and felt my stomach turning. After this visit last night, we had a visitor this afternoon that came, asked a lot of questions and started shooting us (freeze, eject and ban was my inmediate reaction), seeing his profile, I found that he also was romanian. Coincidences? They might be, but I dont believe in too many coincidences happening to the same person.

I'm starting to feel kind of uncomfortable over all this. I've tried to do the right thing, I've tried to protect an underage, but we residents cant do this by ourselves unless we isolate totally becoming our own prisoners.

Thank you all for your comments.

It really depends on the type of help. If someone under 18 walked into a bar to ask directions to the nearest bus stop, and didn't look to be in any other trouble, I'd just give them the directions.

... The girl went to the teen grid, she didnt like it and came back the same night, so we talked to a Linden and he cancelled her account. ...

Linden only do this to avoid legal liabilities

Who is Daniel Linden? Am I supposed to be his fan? Do I wear brown shirts? Have I filled out an AR?

... I've been getting "visitors" in my home. One left me a doll picture with the conversation I had with her when I told her she needed to go to the teen grid where I said 2 years went fast and that she would be welcomed if she came back after that time. ...

... I opened the chat history to see who had come into the house, and what I read there was totally sick, wont tell what it was only that they asked for her, b I can tell you that at my age I blushed and felt my stomach turning. After this visit last night, we had a visitor this afternoon that came, asked a lot of questions and started shooting us (freeze, eject and ban was my inmediate reaction), seeing his profile, I found that he also was romanian. Coincidences? They might be, but I dont believe in too many coincidences happening to the same person.