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when you are having sex in SL, do you ever fake orgasm?

Bee Mizser
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01-14-2008 13:17
From: Bradley Bracken
Uh..uh....ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh



How's that?



Please.... This is a PG forum :P
Okiphia Anatine
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01-14-2008 13:20
From: Colette Meiji
Okay so you meant IRL you dont have sex to HAVE AN orgasm.

Big difference between that and saying you dont have sex to orgasm.

In how I read it.

I don't have sex to orgasm. At all. I'm fine with not having an orgasm during sex, doesn't bother me one bit, really. I also dont need sex to have one. SO..both
From: someone


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I think you are missing the intent of my coments. My intent isnt that you should orgasm during any type of sex.

My purpose was that if you don't enjoy it, you should tell the person you are having cyber sex with.

If they think you are having a RL orgasm and you aren't, then that is a communication shortfall.

It is analogous to someone faking an orgasm IRL (which many of us have done) If you truly are comfortable with your partner you wouldn't find that necessary.

I do enjoy it. Immensely so. I even get sexual pleasure from it. But I don't masturbate. For me to masturbate, it takes quite a bit of want to.. alot of people just do it when they feel like doing it.. I hold off until I almost HAVE to. Make it feel better usually. And cybersex usually doesn't provide me with enough lust or w/e to get there anyway.

And my partner DOES know that I'm not masturbating in RL. She's fine with it, because she knows that I'm still getting pleasure from it. I've had more fun not orgasming than I ever have orgasming. Truly.

I don't have sex with anyone but my Family.. so I don't generally have to warn people 'hey.. I'm not really gonna orgasm from this. Just so ya know'
From: someone

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As an aside -

Plenty of people are totally shallow about cyber sex - thats cool. But they shouldn't lead on those who aren't. They should stick to messing around with people of similar shallow perspective


I hope I'm not coming off as shallow ;)

Oh, also.. if I don't respond, I'm doing stuff in RL and will respond later today, or tomorrow... ^_^
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01-14-2008 13:21
From: Colette Meiji
Okay so you meant IRL you dont have sex to HAVE AN orgasm.

Big difference between that and saying you dont have sex to orgasm.

In how I read it.

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I think you are missing the intent of my coments. My intent isnt that you should orgasm during any type of sex.

My purpose was that if you don't enjoy it, you should tell the person you are having cyber sex with.

If they think you are having a RL orgasm and you aren't, then that is a communication shortfall.

It is analogous to someone faking an orgasm IRL (which many of us have done) If you truly are comfortable with your partner you wouldn't find that necessary.

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As an aside -

Plenty of people are totally shallow about cyber sex - thats cool. But they shouldn't lead on those who aren't. They should stick to messing around with people of similar shallow perspective


I agree, with the caveat that if a rugby match is kicking off on tv in 5 mins all that goes out the window.
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01-14-2008 13:23
From: Okiphia Anatine
I don't have sex to orgasm. At all. I'm fine with not having an orgasm during sex, doesn't bother me one bit, really. I also dont need sex to have one. SO..both


The term "having sex to orgasm" or "having sex to climax"

is often used meaning "having sex until you reach orgasm" or "having sex until you reach climax"

Thus my original confusion with your comment.
Okiphia Anatine
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01-14-2008 13:25
From: Colette Meiji
The term "having sex to orgasm" or "having sex to climax"

is often used meaning "having sex until you reach orgasm" or "having sex until you reach climax"

Thus my original confusion with your comment.

Well.. I meant it as that AND I don't have sex because I hope to orgasm.
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01-14-2008 13:26
lmao, where did this thread come from, how did it get so many replies and I never saw it? hahahahaha... I don't have SL sex...but I do randomly fake orgasms on mic
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01-14-2008 13:27
From: Gaybot Blessed
lmao, where did this thread come from, how did it get so many replies and I never saw it? hahahahaha... I don't have SL sex...but I do randomly fake orgasms on mic


Poor mic; does he mind?
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01-14-2008 13:28
From: Gaybot Blessed
lmao, where did this thread come from, how did it get so many replies and I never saw it? hahahahaha... I don't have SL sex...but I do randomly fake orgasms on mic

I think I heard one of those once o.o

I walked into a free sex club once (Back in my newbie days of 'what can I do here?') and heard like.. 5 people orgasming.. or faking it.. all at once. Scared the hell out of me XD
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01-14-2008 13:34
From: Okiphia Anatine
I think I heard one of those once o.o

I walked into a free sex club once (Back in my newbie days of 'what can I do here?') and heard like.. 5 people orgasming.. or faking it.. all at once. Scared the hell out of me XD


You just gave me reason #22 why I don't use Voice.
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01-14-2008 13:35
From: Bradley Bracken
You just gave me reason #22 why I don't use Voice.

I use voice lol.. though never speak if on Okiphia Rayna.. only Anatine has a voice =P

And that almost made me leave SL lol.. It was like the second place I ever went.. if all of SL was like that I wouldn't be here
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Ange Jacobus
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01-14-2008 13:37
Warning: Probably a TMI post.

It's been awhile since I've had sex in SL, and I never masturbated during it. I'm not into the SL partner thing, but I did have one person on there who I would get intimate with. He was aware of the fact I was not masturbating at that exact moment, I told him whatever happens I just take to bed with me that night and think about then...which was true, most the time I would end up laying in bed that night thinking about it and then "taking care if it".

When having SL sex we would still act out the orgasm as the finale to our little session. He was an excellent conversationalist, intelligent and could type out a sex scenario that would get me typing and carrying on like no one else had. He was fine with the fact I wasn't doing it at the moment and knew I was "acting" out the orgasm at the end, he'd ask the next day "How was it after you signed off? As good as when you were logged in?"...so we had fun with it and thats whats important to me.

I agree with Colette when saying I think it's important the other person know...especially should they ask (and it seems most men do) "are you really touching yourself?". I don't see any reason to lie and say you are, I don't think anyone is going to say "well then I don't want to do it with you".....well then again, there are some shallow people out there.
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01-14-2008 13:39
From: Bradley Bracken
You just gave me reason #22 why I don't use Voice.

QFT
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01-14-2008 14:27
From: Hiro Queso
I wonder if this thread will end up sticky.
/fixed
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01-14-2008 15:05
I tried faking an orgasm once.

It got me so excited I did orgasm.

Does that count?
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01-14-2008 15:14
I'd like to thank everybody for sharing.
I really would.
However, I have to ease back on the level of thanks. Otherwise I could be fairly accused of faking it.
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01-14-2008 15:22
It sometimes surprises me the level of disclosure people give on threads like these.

As much as I like chiming in on any thread on this forum, I would never talk about what I do when it comes to the subject of sex. That information is for me and my nubile, submissive three-tailed spider monkey only.
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01-14-2008 15:29
From: Raymond Figtree
It sometimes surprises me the level of discloser people give on threads like these.

As much as I like chiming in on any thread on this forum, I would never talk about what I do when it comes to the subject of sex. That information is for me and my nubile, submissive three-tailed spider monkey only.

ROFL
Thats the first time someone has actually made me spray coffee on my screen. Guess I was unprepared. :D /me wipes screen
no more coffee drinking while reading thread...

(she says, while carrying on drinking her coffee) :rolleyes:
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01-14-2008 15:31
From: Claire Silverspar
ROFL
Thats the first time someone has actually made me spray coffee on my screen. Guess I was unprepared. :D /me wipes screen
no more coffee drinking while reading thread...

(she says, while carrying on drinking her coffee) :rolleyes:
Were you laughing at the way I spelled "disclosure"?

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01-14-2008 15:37
You mean you have to ask? Just listen for the chain saw motor in the background....


Actually, that would probably ruin the mood, huh?

oh baby yes, okay, hang on one second..

Whaaaaa bunga bunga bunga bunga Waaahhh wvvvvrrrooom wvrrrrrmmmmm

k, now *putta putta putta putta* where were we baby? :P

hahahahahahahahahah

I'm so silly today :P
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01-14-2008 15:38
oh, and you know there are some shops that carry hands free versions for continued typing...right? :P


better living through battery power :) hah
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01-14-2008 15:46
I haven't but others have ;)
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01-14-2008 15:46
Apparently you burn more calories faking it:

http://www.c4vct.com/kym/humor/csex.htm

:D
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01-14-2008 15:57
From: Raymond Figtree
It sometimes surprises me the level of disclosure people give on threads like these.


I am an offender of disclosing too much info...but at least I labeled it with a TMI warning from the start.
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01-14-2008 16:00
From: Raymond Figtree
That information is for me and my nubile, submissive three-tailed spider monkey only.


I love it when you call me your little spider monkey.
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01-14-2008 16:10
From: Danielle Harrop
oh, and you know there are some shops that carry hands free versions for continued typing...right?
Hands free versions of what? My monkey is curious.
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