when you are having sex in SL, do you ever fake orgasm?

ok I will admit that i am the lurker lol. But i ain't answering the question... lol

though I have a feeling this will turn out to be a very interesting thread.

Lol @ Brann. i did that with a thread last week. Answered the phone in a fit of giggles. Not very professional lol.

it's called a wedding ring

The way around the prim problem is to move the camera to a scene that doesn't show the issue.

As for spelling - many people begin to spell more poorly when they are aroused, I'd think that would be a turn on, not a turn off.

If they misspell badly ALL the time - they probably wouldn't be the best choice for text-based sex partner. This is why good text conversationalists are better cyber-lovers than good looking avies.

If it doesn't do anything for you, it doesn't. But if you are with someone who cares about you and likewise you might want to let them know it doesn't. Its only fair.

I know If I was with someone who wasn't even aroused and enjoying it, Id stop having cybersex with them.

After all, what would be the point?

Of course NOT, I've never faked it
Smiles...

But then its not as sexy a scene half the time... thats no good =P

I'm faithful to my Family.. and at least one doesn't spell well. Be kinda hurtful if I said 'Hey, you suck at spelling, no more sex.'

I do enjoy it.. but I'm not going to masturbate to it. Just seems silly to me I guess.

I do it, same reason I do it in RL. I don't have sex to orgasm, I have sex to be closer to the person physically, and often mentally. Just.. virtually physically in this case. Besides, if I was masturbating, and came in-world when I did out-world, it would take a LONG time

There's sex in SL??? I need to get out more.

Sex?

There is sex in sl? - I knew I was missing something!

Not to derail the thread or anything... If you fake it ALL the time.. would it still be considered cheating?



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This is just like asking, "Do you still beat your wife?"

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Remembering the sad thread about pretty AV skins, I just wanted to reiterate

Whoever your lover is, they're not doing it right.

Unless (ok, I'm being serious for a moment) you aren't psychologically "letting go," and abandoning yourself to the moment.

From what you describe your situation isn't difficulty reaching orgasm during cybersex.

Its reaching orgasm at all.

It could be that you don't mean to sound that way, but that is how i read what you describe.

You should be honest to your partner - if they are fine with you not getting into it (to whatever level) then thats up to them.

Well of course it's a fake orgasm. The whole act is fake!

Imagine when you guys finally get to have sex with real people...shit will blow your minds!

In RL, the answer is simple. Just start thinking of macroeconomics. Works every time.

One of the great gender levelers in SL. males that can convincingly fake an orgasm.

You don't watch MSNBC, do you?

I think you are assuming both hands are on the keyboard.

I finally understand my vague lingering suspicion of folks whose microphones actually work.

/me bangs on computer desk "YES, YES, YES, OH OH, YES!!!!

I can reach orgasm fine. My difficulty isnt even reaching it during cybersex. I could if I wanted to, or at least tried. I have before. Felt good, just like an orgasm should, but... I don't do it. I think it has no point really... I've had phone sex.. don't really like it honestly.. makes me uncomfy.

I can orgasm during cybersex... I just don't want to I suppose.

And the bit about it taking a long time.. its not hard for me to orgasm, it just takes me a while, but damn it feels better than any fast orgasm I've ever had. Try it =P

And besides, I think my partner would like the longer cybersex honestly.. lol

If I wanted to masturbate during cybersex, and orgasm relatively quickly, so as not to bore my partner or w/e, I could. But it doesn't feel as good, which kinda ruins the purpose in my eye anyway.

I don't do it, essentially, because I don't want to. I don't want to masturbate to be interrupted every inute to type something, while watching some not-quite-choreographed sex scene, reading jumbled messages.

Oh.. forgot one thing. if they spell badly because aroused, that is a turn on. However, its just like reading a sex story.. if something silly is misspelled, its not helping.

I wonder if this thread will end up stickied.

This one is easy for me, since my SL partner is my RL husband....lol. No, I don't fake orgasms in SL since anything sexual in SL, to us, is just foreplay. We might watch one of our porn movies, laugh over animations when we put on our excite bits, and then log off. What happens after that log off......well, let's just say that faking isn't necessary.

ewwwwwwww

Ha. Clever.

Okay so you meant IRL you dont have sex to HAVE AN orgasm.

Big difference between that and saying you dont have sex to orgasm.

In how I read it.

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I think you are missing the intent of my coments. My intent isnt that you should orgasm during any type of sex.

My purpose was that if you don't enjoy it, you should tell the person you are having cyber sex with.

If they think you are having a RL orgasm and you aren't, then that is a communication shortfall.

It is analogous to someone faking an orgasm IRL (which many of us have done) If you truly are comfortable with your partner you wouldn't find that necessary.

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As an aside -

Plenty of people are totally shallow about cyber sex - thats cool. But they shouldn't lead on those who aren't. They should stick to messing around with people of similar shallow perspective

Oh! MMMM. I'm faking it, right, now!