Is this being faithfull in SL

I am sorry Ralektra but I can not explain Eloras story. I have been looking at her posting history and she jokes about not having enough coffee or drugs and has said that her eyes are bad and she has just been made unemployed so perhaps she is unhappy anyway. I know it would be silly to suggest that she is making all this up just to have fun with a newbie but I have seen worse on other boards I have been on in the past. Why me though. Is it because she doesnt like Pep and I do.

I dont have a clue why you are saying this either but I think it is you that is making a mountain out of a molehill here. I am not trying to post "counter opinions" on anything. I am trying to understand what the way is that things happen in sl and to sort out the conflicting advice I am being given. You are making things much more complicated than they are.

It's not my problem. It's their problem. You can easily turn off a tirade....and you can easily move on.



I don't care who I respond to....as long as they are not a complete ass.

There are days when I might respond as an ass, sort of accidentally....so I cut some slack on some slip-ups from others. No slack if you intentionally try to hurt someone with personal attacks.....repeatedly.

If what's-his-name has become in touch with his feminine side.....and it helps him to communicate without being a complete ass....I have no problem with that. If he wants to come in here....and try a different angle, turn over a new leaf....as long as it doesn't hurt anyone....I have no problem with that.

If Annabel has befriended what's-his-name.....and they have common ground....no problem.

I'm not savvy enough to make a judgment call on who is using alts. I will "test" it.....as I did earlier in this thread....and have done in others.....but I won't make the call. What if your call is wrong.

it's because she caught you dead to rights You can try to discount it all you like. You can question Elora's sanity, eyesight, memory or state of emotional health, you can try to bring doubt into the minds of the readers by suggesting that she has a drug problem but ya know what? I believe her, and I'm pretty much willing to bet that I'm not the only one here who would take her word over yours You didn't just get owned, you got WTF PWNED

edit: BY A GIRL

I can understand that you would prefer to believe someone who has been around longer than me and I feel the same way about my grandma but I would not rely on her telling me what was on TV without checking with the Radio Times. Either she has made an honest mistake and is too stubborn to admit it or she is deliberately trying to cause me trouble. If you want to support your friend I cant stop you but you should be careful or you might be next.

don't make me get my bow lol

OK - that's a personal attack....that's where I draw the line.

I don't care who you are.....I don't care what your questions are.....or why you ask the questions. I don't care if you are a woman that speaks in a masculine way. I don't care if you are a man that wants to experiment.

If you're new (or old).....and want to ask questions....you simply can't respond that way to people and get good results. You've done it before. It does not appear to be a "slip-up."

If you're new.....and didn't get off to a good start....no problem....change it.....but don't respond to people that way.

If you're being judged as someone who is messing with people's heads......you gave plenty of ammunition to warrant that. Several have given you benefit of doubt....and answered your question thoughtfully. If you truly aren't messing with people's heads....run with that.....and adjust.

I am getting even more confused. You are accusing me of a personal attack because I am trying to work out why Elora has made up a ridiculous story about me for no reason that I can work out except I have admitted to taking Peps advice.

Its not worth me trying is it. You have decided how you feel and are rejecting someone because they are new and upset how you think things should be. Well Annabel will wave goodbye and I will create another avatar who will pretend to be a spiteful sick middle aged woman. That means I will fit in perfectly with people here. Goodbye.

Bet they're in my sofa that after 9 months is STILL missing...

But is she going to be a faithful in SL?

oh Pep. this alt isn't going to work either. try again.

I was MORE than tolerant. On several occasions.



You've captured that quite well....pretending or not.....no need to create another av for that.....your results will be the same.

/me gets out my duct tape so my head doesn't explode from reading that through a few times.

ROFL! You always make my day, Mari!

Piedmont is celebrating its first anniversary sometime this month!

/me raises his hand.. I question Elora's sanity all the time.. (Joking!)

I take her word over the OP any day.

Annabel, I don't care who you or your alt are. If you came here looking for answers/opinions you got some good ones. If you came here looking to stir up crap you got what you deserve.

.d

OK. I feel that I am savvy enough now to make a Call on this one.

The lime green fluffy princess dress did not work for you well at all..... at the dance club last night, Pep. Try something sleek and stylish next time. And the hair.....oh my. Landmarks ladies?

Pictures?

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No pic. And my apologies to the dance club owners for clearing out half the male population. Bit risky....isn't it?

Who said i hadnt? Also did i not suggest that she get professional help to make things better in RL or to get out if that is what is for the best

How about this: you just demonstrated why it's a bad idea to use alts in the same place as your main, if you're not going to be open about it.

If it's a roleplayer he probably considers each alt a separate life.

Most important thing, how do YOU feel about it. It takes two in a relationship to be happy and make it work.

Continuing to read the pages, through other responses I found this:



*Whoa*

Way to smack the face of all the good people who took the time to respond. Sorry now I ever answered your question. Really your answer isn't found on the forums anyway. It's your relationship, it's how you feel about what happens, that matters.

/me goes back to spending too much time here while Annabel goes about her much more exciting 'real life' *rolls eyes*

I could be cruel and say some might apply the same judgment to anyone taking SL relationships this seriously, but I wo...oh, I just said it. FWIW I don't think that, though - there is room in SL for everyone. It's just that your prim little insult bugs the crap out of me.