Is this being faithfull in SL

Bisexual at least.

ARed by whomever that guy was that was running around ARing everyone yesterday.

*SIGH* And, there it is. I just can't get past that, no matter how I try. I actually wish I could, but it's just not me, in the long run. It makes me feel, naive and stupid sometimes, and 'not with it' but again, there it is. Like you, I don't judge others though if it's right for them. I know several married couples (rl) who are on SL not partnered with one another and have their own, seperate SL's with different romantic SL relationships, fully out in the open in the RL. Too confusing, and I know my heart would break. Maybe because I don't rp, and it really is just me out there.

Probably one and the same- just a little more Troll d'Jour- meh- enverybody needs a hobby

Annabel, are you dating exclusively or married in RL?

I explained in my other threads that I am married to a really jealous guy that is away a lot and I get bored. Honestly the life of 'Footballers Wives' is nothing like as exciting as the TV.

Even if your SL partner tells you something, you can't know for sure that it's true.

You can't tell for sure if they are married in RL
You can't even tell for sure what gender they are in RL
You don't know for sure what they are doing when you're not logged on
You don't know for sure what they are doing with an alt

What you CAN know for sure is how they treat *you*. My (very wise) partner calls this "emotional fidelity".

Do they keep their promises to you? If they say they'll meet you at a certain time/place, can you rely on them? And if they can't make it, do they call you and re-schedule? Are they consistent, and open, and honest?

I don't care if my partner is, in RL, someone other than what he or she appears. I don't care if they have a half dozen alts and other partners scattered all over the grid. If they're there for me, if they show that they care...that's "emotional fidelity", and it's all I have to go on...and all I need.

Hilarious.

If I had a dollar for every time a married guy came in here and wanted to lecture me, single.....on "monogamy" and "commitment".....and a dollar for every time I laughed my ass off at how ludicrous that would be to even have the audacity to go there........

Or a dollar for every time a married woman wanted to ask me for advice on how to handle her lover messing around on her.......and how ludicrous that discussion would be......

.....well.....do the math.



That's hilarious, too. People from forum are asking you for dates? LOL

OK.....you've presented your image in forum.....it didn't work out for you.....now you've created another one to use for your advantage.......and you've got questions to discuss or judgments to make about someone else doing the exact same thing?

For Real??? Throw some more dollars at me.......lmao.

I love "Footballer's Wives". I have all the DVD's. And "Mile High" and "Viva Blackpoo"'.

Hmm.. Brenda are those UK shows? Don't ring a bell, I'm afraid.. I googled one and it mentioned the BBC

Yes, they are. I watch a lot of BBC America, when it isn't baseball season.

Yay!!!!!

May I ask....do you use 2 L's to spell Faithful over there? I know you all over there spell some of the same words a bit differently than we do in US.....I try to keep up with that.....

Pardon me for veering off topic....it just kind of "jumped out" at me in the Headline.....a little "obvious"......and was just curious.....always learning......

......also didn't want our resident spell checker to come along and make mincemeat of you.....he tends to do that to the new ones....if he does show up to critique.....don't you let that bother you.....he does it to everyone.

I thought we were going to start being nicer to people, Mickey.

That was my version of "Nice", Oryx.......considering.....

Just poking fun.

I don't call you old-fashioned...I call you my kind of person.

oh Pep. you make a terrible woman, and an even worse liar!
kerplunk!

LOL!

complaining of being cheated on when you cheat yourself is awfully hypocritical. especially when you are a man pretending to be a woman so you can be with a man.

very popular in Wales.

"Is it cheating when the man, with whom I am cheating on-line behind my real husband's back, tells me he wants to virtually cheat on me with an alt?"

This has to rate as my favorite forum questions ever.

we won't get a response until his plane lands. please be patient.

Now 3Ring....you're going to cause some serious psychological damage to all those guys from forum asking Annabel for dates. Let's all be nice, now...you too, Annabel.....and show some empathy for all those forum guys.

*kicks curb* ah, okay.