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Kris Ritter
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02-24-2006 00:03
From: bladyblue Bommerang
There is nothing surreal about your watermelon statement. It is as clear as day.

There's no getting through to you - you have thrown up your 30 foot wall of ignorance and insensitivity.


What the fuck are you on? And no, I REALLY don't want any.

And to the rest of you - people like this are a shining example that proves, no matter what you say or do, someone will always seek to be offended. So as long as you know in your own mind that they're talking out of their rear ends, treat posts and accusations like these with the contempt they deserve. I rarely AR posts, but I've AR'd these as a baseless personal attack on Torley. I hope I'm not the only one.
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bladyblue Bommerang
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02-24-2006 00:12
From: Kris Ritter
What the fuck are you on? And no, I REALLY don't want any.

I expect you all to come running to Torley's rescue. I am glad to see a wonderful sense of community in the SL Forums. Please continue your attack. I have said my peace on the subject. I wil just sit back and watch. I am just as entertained with all of your rants as you are.
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CrystalShard Foo
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02-24-2006 00:29
Bladyblue, as far as I see it - you are the one who require a lesson in culture insensitivity.

The watermelon is a sign of great cultural significance to Torley. Demanding that he removes this symbol would be offensive to his culture - a culture which has nothing against you or your own culture.

Torley has apologised for the possibility of mis-understanding. He explained the meaning of the symbol, which is not there to offend you or has anything to do with the African American culture. Therefor, honestly - maybe you need to be alittle more conciderate about the social backgrounds of others before pointing fingers.
Patroklus Murakami
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02-24-2006 00:30
Oh puurleese!

Mention of watermelons = racism? No way could any reasonable person think that Torley intended some racial slur by his forum post. To find that there you must be *seeking* to be offended. This reminds me of the mayor's aide who was disciplined for using the word 'niggardly' by some imbecile who didn't know the etymology.

If you're offended by Torley's love of watermelons, build a big bridge and get over yourself!

This is without doubt the most ridiculous thing I've read on these forums or anywhere else.

This *trivialises* racism. Fight on issues that matter: racial bias in hiring and promotion, casual racist stereotyping by the police and media, racial slurs, assaults and murders in the real world. But for crying out loud keep your powder dry for something real. Attacking Torley for some fantasised racist intent behind his watermelon reference weakens the anti-racist cause.
Ordinal Malaprop
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02-24-2006 01:13
Honestly, this must be a joke, because I can't see how anyone could have missed the Torley Watermelon Thing.
Kris Ritter
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02-24-2006 01:17
From: Ordinal Malaprop
Honestly, this must be a joke, because I can't see how anyone could have missed the Torley Watermelon Thing.


I don't see anyone laughing. Well, not at the 'joke', anyway.
Selador Cellardoor
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02-24-2006 02:42
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Oh Garnet!!! Many's the day at the beach wearing a hankie hat!! Memories!
For those not blessed with the UK's "golden sands....and seaside amusements", the hankie hat is a HUGE part of growing up! The first time you realise that your father is embarrassing you when he wears one to the fish and chip shop on the seafront, is the first step to puberty..;)
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Reitsuki Kojima
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02-24-2006 02:44
From: bladyblue Bommerang
There is nothing surreal about your watermelon statement. It is as clear as day.


You are desperately in need of a cultural sensitivity class.


Cultural sensitivity class = enforced groupthink quasi-racism, just so we're all clear.

I've been forced to take them before.


From: bladyblue Bommerang
This was not a response to a thread about 'My favorite Fruit'. It was a response to a thread about racism. You read a thread about racism and you automatically think 'I love watermelon!' and then you quickly post how the watermelon isnt a symbol of a negative racial streotype but a yummy fruit. To many African Americans it means both. And in a forum thread about racism it is definitely a negative stereotype. There was no mention of watermelons and their meaning in this thread until you mentioned it. And to add insult to injury - after I suggest that your watermelon comment was a bit insulting - you change your forum title to 'Watermelinden' (passive agressive). When we spoke in-world you let me know that you have 'black friends'. If these 'black friends' happen to read your watermelon comments and see your forum title you won't have these friends for long. As a member of the community team you should have some knowledge of other cultures and what is considered a racist remark.


Torley and watermellons are like college professors and bad fashion sense. They just go together. You can't seperate them. If you *at all* knew Torley, you would know that.

The whole watermellon thing is a *very* weak stereotype. I had never even *heard* of it until I was forced through one of those fucked up brainwashing classes you aspouse.

Do you get it?

Prior to being "educated" about how to be sensative, I could never have used "watermelon" as a racial sterotype. It's still the most dumbass thing I think I came away from that class with. *Black people* in the class (Its a college requirement where I go to that you take SOME sort of racial sensativity class, and since there is no "white people sensativity class, minorities have to be trained to be sensative to themself, apparently) thought it was the silliest thing they had ever heard.It's people like *you* who empower the sterotype. It has no real meaning to the world at large.

From: bladyblue Bommerang
There's no getting through to you - you have thrown up your 30 foot wall of ignorance and insensitivity.


Sterotype and hyperbole much?

The fact that you said that after one post shows your true intention here.
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Selador Cellardoor
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02-24-2006 02:50
This thread is wonderfully surreal.
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Reitsuki Kojima
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02-24-2006 02:52
From: Selador Cellardoor
This thread is wonderfully surreal.


Torley has that effect. It's like the story about the guy where everything he touched turned to gold, except torley has the touch of surreality.

That's a good thing, mind. :D
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I am myself indifferent honest; but yet I could accuse me of such things that it were better my mother had not borne me: I am very proud, revengeful, ambitious, with more offenses at my beck than I have thoughts to put them in, imagination to give them shape, or time to act them in. What should such fellows as I do crawling between earth and heaven? We are arrant knaves, all; believe none of us.
CrystalShard Foo
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02-24-2006 03:46
The effect Torley has on conversations can be compared to a fractal stereogram mints lost in the depth of outworldly photonic baobab trees as delicious as a lemon pie.
Reitsuki Kojima
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02-24-2006 03:47
From: CrystalShard Foo
The effect Torley has on conversations can be compared to a fractal stereogram mints lost in the depth of outworldly photonic baobab trees as delicious as a lemon pie.


See? CrystalShard has been TorleyTouched.
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Katt Kongo
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02-24-2006 17:50
Wow bladyblue, I am absolutely stunned by your accusations. I don't often subscribe to hero worship, but I'll admit to being a huge fan of Torley's. Torley is unfailingly positive, charmingly upbeat and quickly responds to any question or concern one might have. I have NEVER heard Torley express any form of racism, or any type of negative comment in regards to anyone. Not only that, but as another poster stated, watermelons are synonymous with Torley Torgeson Linden.

You owe him an apology.
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Traxx Hathor
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02-24-2006 18:51
From: bladyblue Bommerang
...how the watermelon isnt a symbol of a negative racial streotype but a yummy fruit. To many African Americans it means both.


Seriously some of us didn't know that. It's an international group here on the forums.
Aliasi Stonebender
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02-24-2006 19:15
From: Traxx Hathor
Seriously some of us didn't know that. It's an international group here on the forums.


And Torley's RL self is also not American, I seem to recall. I may be wrong.
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Amber Stonecutter
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02-24-2006 19:38
From: Aliasi Stonebender
And Torley's RL self is also not American, I seem to recall. I may be wrong.

Canadian I believe.

That was craziness. Torley is the last person I can imagine ever making an intentionally racist statement. :eek:
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02-24-2006 21:27
From: Reitsuki Kojima
Again, I'd just be careful with your judgement. The confederate flag (It's actually the battle flag, not the national flag) is not inherently a sign of racism, and a lot of people who display it would be *deeply* offended at the implication.


IME, almost everyone who uses it is a racist scumbag. They'll claim "it's just about heritage" only when confronted by people who aren't intolerant scum. They're "offended" only to the extent that they've been outed in their petty inbred bigotries, and realize that all decent people would hold them in contempt for such views.

Just put yourself in their shoes, and it's obvious. Why would anyone want to fly the Confederate flag? What was going through their mind when they chose this decoration? What message could they possibly think anyone would ever take from it?

Don't apologize for racist, slavery-wanting villains, it makes us wonder if you have a white robe and hood in your closet.
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David Cartier
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02-24-2006 21:34
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David Cartier
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02-24-2006 21:42
From: bladyblue Bommerang
I made my subtle comment because I was appalled to see you respond to a post about the Confederate flag and racism by referring to the negative connotations associated with watermelons and African-Americans. Your response to my post is to change your title to 'Watermelinden". So now I get your racially motivated insult in my face everytime I browse through the forums.

As a leader in the community team I would think you would be a little more considerate of the poeple that pay your salary. I respectfully request that you remove all mention of watermelons from your forum title. Thank you.


I've heard that referring to someone as a melanzana (eggplant) is racist, but how is a watermelon racist? They are red green and black, the colours of most African flags, if you think about it. Does eating watermelon make one racist? Perhaps throwing one into the shopping cart is a symbol of hatred to the black cashier? This has to be one of the craziest things I've ever heard of.
Aliasi Stonebender
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02-24-2006 22:32
From: Kami Harbinger

Just put yourself in their shoes, and it's obvious. Why would anyone want to fly the Confederate flag? What was going through their mind when they chose this decoration? What message could they possibly think anyone would ever take from it?

Don't apologize for racist, slavery-wanting villains, it makes us wonder if you have a white robe and hood in your closet.


I was born in West Virginia, and my family has been kicking around that general area for centuries. My family background was a classic example of the "brother against brother" nature of the American Civil War, quite a few sided with the Confederacy. But I also had relatives who were in the Underground Railroad, and of course WV was created when the western counties of Virginia refused to secede from the Union, and John Brown at Harper's Ferry was an important point in history classes at school when we covered the Civil War.

In either case, while I'm sure my family tree had its share of bigots, I'm fairly sure none of them owned slaves, if only because they were poor Appalachian farmers. I am not in the habit of displaying flags of any type, but I'd appreciate it if you'd refrain from calling half of my ancestors "racist, slavery-wanting villains" when it was rather more likely they objected to Federal troops invading their land. Save your contempt for those that deserved it; the rich slave-owners who sold a bill of goods to the citizenry.
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Reitsuki Kojima
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02-25-2006 02:29
From: Kami Harbinger
IME, almost everyone who uses it is a racist scumbag. They'll claim "it's just about heritage" only when confronted by people who aren't intolerant scum. They're "offended" only to the extent that they've been outed in their petty inbred bigotries, and realize that all decent people would hold them in contempt for such views.

Just put yourself in their shoes, and it's obvious. Why would anyone want to fly the Confederate flag? What was going through their mind when they chose this decoration? What message could they possibly think anyone would ever take from it?

Don't apologize for racist, slavery-wanting villains, it makes us wonder if you have a white robe and hood in your closet.


How dare you?

You make a blanket assumption about a ton of people, calling them "racist scumbags", suggesting if they deny they are racist scumbags they are just lying to hide their "petty inbred bigotries", then then 'kindly' have the hypocritical gall to hint that if I defend them it suggests I'm a KKK member or other similar mindset?

If you want to ignore reality and call anyone who doesn't agree with your preconcieved world view a lieing inbred bigoted scumbag, fine. But next time kindly leave me out of your snide sterotyping.

I'll tell you *exactly* what the flag means for a lot of people. "Don't tread on me". That's *it* for many people.
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02-25-2006 05:33
From: Aliasi Stonebender
In either case, while I'm sure my family tree had its share of bigots, I'm fairly sure none of them owned slaves, if only because they were poor Appalachian farmers. I am not in the habit of displaying flags of any type, but I'd appreciate it if you'd refrain from calling half of my ancestors "racist, slavery-wanting villains" when it was rather more likely they objected to Federal troops invading their land. Save your contempt for those that deserved it; the rich slave-owners who sold a bill of goods to the citizenry.


Here you have put into words what I've been thinking. My farm in Western Virginia, almost in West Virginia was a small town until the War and the people who lived there were Quakers, all of them. That was actually pretty common in that part of the Shenandoah Valley. Being Friends and non-slave owning farmers, probably pro-Union didn't help them a bit. The Federal troops rode in and burned the town, killing most of the people who lived there. Not every Southerner owned slaves and a good percentage were never much in favor of secession. Judging them now, for something they believed was right, it really serves no purpose. They are old bones now and we live in a different time and culture.
Jonas Pierterson
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02-25-2006 05:46
I love watermelons. I love the confederate flag.

Am I racist? No.

I am just a fan of my heritage who likes a succulent fruit.
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02-25-2006 08:28
From: Jonas Pierterson
I love watermelons. I love the confederate flag.

Am I racist? No.

I am just a fan of my heritage who likes a succulent fruit.


The Stars and Bars or the Confed Naval Ensign?
Jonas Pierterson
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02-25-2006 09:18
The battle flag of the confederacy (stars and bars if you will). A relative from my fathers side fought and died in that war.
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