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*scratches her head a little* Why does everyone care all of a sudden?

Livinda Goodliffe
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06-02-2007 19:14
Now that I's read all of dis thread up to dis point, I tink I'll pick up my dolly and go play at the playground. MOMMYYYYYYYYYY.
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errUh Oh
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06-02-2007 19:16
From: VooDoo Bamboo
Well I was backing this part of it:

"I'm talking about possible pedophiles using "ageplay" as a means of meeting others of similar mind........comparing notes, maybe role playing to "learn" the other's interests and becoming so immersed in it as to decide that maybe it's "time". The visual part of SL would enhance that little game where text only would be a little flat for such a sick mind. A "meeting place" so to speak where they are free to gather up their fantasies. At some point someone will take the next step."




oh good another really sick mind. Thank you Voodoo for owning up to it. Anyone else?
Chris Norse
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06-02-2007 19:20
From: Peggy Paperdoll
. You're to freaking worried about your little selfish "rights" (rights you do not have in Second Life in the first place) to even consider the well being of an innocent (unknown and unnamed) child that could be a victim.



Wait just a minute, are you now saying thoughts, even if not acted upon should be made illegal? You use the word "could" for the status of the victim, that means the crime has not been committed yet.

If you want to say that people who harm children should face horrible punishment, I will agree, but thoughts should never be the subject of courts beyond being used to prove motive.
VooDoo Bamboo
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06-02-2007 19:20
Umm I think your confused, lol. I was backing what you said. Just because these sick minds do this crap in SL does not mean they won't end up doing it in real life. They need mental help.

Damn this is getting nuts on here. This entire forum is now about this crap.
Peggy Paperdoll
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06-02-2007 19:22
Where's Dr Phil when I need him? LOL
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06-02-2007 19:24
Dr. Phil hell, lol This stuff reminds me of something you would see on Jerry Springer.
Har Fairweather
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06-02-2007 19:25
It's clear that a number of posters here have not read or not learned from the earlier thread on this subject I referenced way back at page one. All of this stuff has been written before, including the name-calling. All of it. There is virtually nothing new here except Sohpia's original defense of rationality and topical references to things that happened after that thread. And frankly, those posters were generally better than the ones here.

"Those who do not learn from history are doomed to repeat it." Please look at that thread before posting here, so you won't think you were the first one to think of accusing the opposite side of being pathologically disturbed, or some other such gambit. Believe me, it is all old news. Really old.

http://uncensored.slexchange.com/modules.php?name=Forums&file=viewtopic&t=9741
errUh Oh
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06-02-2007 19:33
"And you're just the one to give me that help? "

oh GOD NO . . i have alot better things to do with my time then offer help to someone who is condescending judgemental and paranoid



"Actually, I'm fine, thank you"

yah first step is admitting you have a problem



"If you can't project the possibilities of such a scenario then I believe you have a much bigger problem than I"

Oh you think so huh? i have a problem because i dont sit and contemplate all the different evil scenerios that could play out as a result of what thoughts other grown adults (people i dont even know) are projecting into their own private environments within Second Life? I have a really big problem because i dont sit and sceme, invent and obsess over the pixel sex live of complete strangers? Should i apologize for not have the proper mentality to come up with anything as sick as what you have? I think im a little more concerned with you and your obsessive nasty little thoughts about what neighbors are doing then i am by anything else.

wow just wow
CobaltBlue Mill
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06-02-2007 19:35
I find it amazing how so many people automatically equate ageplay with pedophilia. Ageplay is the SL equivalently of a husband having his wife dress up as a cheerleader. Pedophilia is violence against helpless children. There is a huge difference between the two.
Peggy Paperdoll
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06-02-2007 19:36
From: Chris Norse
Wait just a minute, are you now saying thoughts, even if not acted upon should be made illegal?



No, actually, I'm not...........Mr Counselor. :) I'm saying that SL should not be a platform for any criminal to congrigate, converse, compare notes, get ideas, plan or otherwise develop strategies or ways to further a criminal act. Childsex, is a crime. Allow an unchecked place for such activities is complicity. And, if you think for one minute that pedophiles will not use such an unchecked platform for their sick ambitions you are even more stupid than I think your argument is.

Quit with the psycho, legal crap..............you are showing your ignorance. It's not about that. It's about "safe harbor" for freaks, and really nasty people.

You can think and plan anything you want.......but not in Second Life. At least not if they follow through with their plans. Which I applaud. But if you are planning or talking about a crime and I hear it, I WILL report it.......especially if it's about a child.
errUh Oh
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06-02-2007 19:39
"It's about "safe harbor" for freaks, and really nasty people."

wow . .
Peggy Paperdoll
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06-02-2007 19:41
From: errUh Oh
"It's about "safe harbor" for freaks, and really nasty people."

wow . .


Well, yeah it is. What other reason for Linden Labs to put it put for possible termination of accounts? :)
errUh Oh
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06-02-2007 19:43
You are smiling again in a condescending manner Peggy. Its really unattractive.
Peggy Paperdoll
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06-02-2007 19:47
How do you know it's condenscending?

I was actually amused. :)

Are we now the emotion police? LOL

I'm done..............this is getting really stupid.
errUh Oh
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06-02-2007 19:48
"Are we now the emotion police? LOL"

why not. we already have thought police telling us what to think

why shouldnt we have emotion police telling us how to feel too?
Chris Norse
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06-02-2007 19:49
From: Peggy Paperdoll
No, actually, I'm not...........Mr Counselor. :) I'm saying that SL should not be a platform for any criminal to congrigate, converse, compare notes, get ideas, plan or otherwise develop strategies or ways to further a criminal act. Childsex, is a crime. Allow an unchecked place for such activities is complicity. And, if you think for one minute that pedophiles will not use such an unchecked platform for their sick ambitions you are even more stupid than I think your argument is.

Quit with the psycho, legal crap..............you are showing your ignorance. It's not about that. It's about "safe harbor" for freaks, and really nasty people.

You can think and plan anything you want.......but not in Second Life. At least not if they follow through with their plans. Which I applaud. But if you are planning or talking about a crime and I hear it, I WILL report it.......especially if it's about a child.


And this will stop people from talking in IM exactly how?
You do know that planning and talking are not illegal until one step of the plan has been acted upon.

You are the one who used the word "could" in relation to a victim. Peggy words mean things. Could means that the crime still has not been committed.

You get no arguement from me about child molesters being scum. But in the absence of a crime thoughts are just that thoughts.
Har Fairweather
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06-02-2007 21:02
So far, it seems to me the reasons people give who are so opposed to others "participating in pseudophilic acts" in SL (the OP's original question) in this and other threads come down to the following, in no particular order, and without considering their relative validity just yet:

1. It is harmful to children in SL.
2. Performing, advertising, or soliciting it is deeply offensive to the overwhelming majority of the SL population.
3. It might inspire RL crimes against children.
4. It is illegal to some extent in some or many jurisdictions.
5. It harms RL children (through being photographed or otherwise victimized to create visual images used in SL).
6. It is "sick." (Quotes added only to signal that this term appears to need further definition, not to indicate any judgment of it.)
7. Its existence in SL validates or supports pedophiles, at least in their own minds.
8. Its existence poses a RL threat to SL.
9. It provides an opportunity for pedophiles to associate with each other, with concomitant opportunities for mutual encouragement, exchange of ideas and pedophilic materials, and possibly even planning.

And one last one, from personal observation, that is far from least:

10. Simply a fundamental, deep revulsion that springs from the "gut" and emotion rather than the mind and intellect. (Again, no judgment is intended here, at least not yet; emotions are valid too, and both reason and emotion can be correct or incorrect.)

Have I missed any? If so, please add them.
Susie Boffin
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06-02-2007 21:07
It matters because many people like to get on their soapboxes and preach to others about how morally superior they are to others.
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Peggy Paperdoll
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06-02-2007 21:12
From: Susie Boffin
It matters because many people like to get on their soapboxes and preach to others about how morally superior they are to others.



Or about how many are morally defiecent to others. Morals count despite your best effort to discount them. The human race would not exist without some morals.....we would devour each other.
Susie Boffin
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06-02-2007 21:21
From: Peggy Paperdoll
Or about how many are morally defiecent to others. Morals count despite your best effort to discount them. The human race would not exist without some morals.....we would devour each other.


My morals are mine and yours are yours. This is a subject that could go on forever but all I am asking is that people respect one anothers morals and don't try to regulate them with LL and government. Ones personal morals are not the same as ones actions. If someone does somthing illegal it is not a question of morals.
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AcidRaven Harrington
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06-02-2007 23:36
From: Ciaran Laval
Ageplay is not padeophillia. Where I have a problem is with child avatars, to me that's paedophillia. Two adults with adult avatar's, engaging in ageplay, is not paedophillia.

When you bring a child avatar into it, it's not an ageplay issue, it's a paedophile fantasy.

The two should be separate issues.


You must not have seen many age play photo's or GothLoli fashion. It is as close as you can get and some go to the point of getting cosmatic surgery done to press the limits even father. And isn't the whole point of Sl that you can look how ever you want to Look. Be it Human, Furry, Big, Little, Thin, Fat. Our world our imagination.
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AcidRaven Harrington
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06-02-2007 23:41
From: Zaphod Kotobide
There are always going to be fringe activities in Second Life, putting pressure on the outer edges of what the community as a whole, as well as what Linden Lab's policy makers deem acceptable. The closer to the edge the fringe players move, and the harder they push against it, the more likely it is that they will find themselves on the outside of the grid, unable to get back in.

Business Case:

Linden Lab management have an obligation to their Board of Directors, as well as their investors, to shape the Second Life platform into a product which is desirable by the mainstream mass of consumers, both corporate and individual. When media gets wind of something sensationally scandalous such as the sexual ageplay scandal in Second Life, they develop a hunger for more dirt. The very same media who highlighted Anshe Chung's admirable success late last year are now highlighting simulated adult-on-child sex in Second Life.

The web has never lost any steam dispite all the various fringe sex that happens. It is a Moment in time and sooner or later people should go yea so what, why did we even bother it is not all of what the SL is.
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Acidraven Harrington
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Heave ho, thieves and beggars,
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AcidRaven Harrington
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06-02-2007 23:46
From: Peggy Paperdoll
It just takes one.........only one.

I'm not willing to take that chance....but I guess you are.


Then lets Dispand the cathlioc church, and while we are at it Schools, Other organised Relgion, and lets put every child that is born into foster care where there will be at least 3 people watching them 24/7.

Shit Happens there is nothing in the world that can be done to stop it. Life is a chance and if you ever stop takeing chances you stop liveing.
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Acidraven Harrington
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Yo, ho, haul together,
hoist the Colors high…
Heave ho, thieves and beggars,
never say we die.
Freedom is for Everyone.
http://www.gopetition.com/petitions/full-reign-of-self-expression-for-consenting-adults-in-second-life.html
AcidRaven Harrington
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06-02-2007 23:50
From: Bree Giffen
Here's a small part of an article I read on the differences between a 'pedophile' and a 'fantasy user'. I'm no expert on these things but I kind of agree with what the doctor wrote. Please feel free to read it in full.

It's found at -http://www.netaddiction.com/articles/articles.htm
under the legal articles and is titled:
"Virtual Sex Offenders: Profiling Cybersex Addiction and True Online Pedophilia"

Here's an html version link:
http://72.14.253.104/search?q=cache:pOXNRdU-FPEJ:www.netaddiction.com/articles/eia_pedophilia_profile.pdf [this BBCODE is a POS, well go figure out how to read the html version thru google]


And we all should agree that SL is for those who are over 18 and if they are not it is the consern of the parents who are not watching there children, not linden labs.
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Acidraven Harrington
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Yo, ho, haul together,
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Heave ho, thieves and beggars,
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AcidRaven Harrington
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06-02-2007 23:56
From: Peggy Paperdoll
The visual part of SL would enhance that little game where text only would be a little flat for such a sick mind.


You must be jokeing, rich, not been in SL that long, or just lacking in imagination. The vast majority of people Text 90+% in SL. Pose Balls are so limited, and nothing can compare to a good typed dectiption of what is happening. That is how almost All role play in SL is. It is some minor props the the Mud, Muck, Mush, IRC rooms that people have been in for ages.
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Acidraven Harrington
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Yo, ho, haul together,
hoist the Colors high…
Heave ho, thieves and beggars,
never say we die.
Freedom is for Everyone.
http://www.gopetition.com/petitions/full-reign-of-self-expression-for-consenting-adults-in-second-life.html
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