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Seola Sassoon
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11-08-2006 09:45
Some good points on Napster, and I agree, the law stuff is fascinating reading how it's defined and interpreted, but a couple of things I wanted to add. From: Ishtara Rothschild The Napster case was a little different in my opinion. Napster was more or less guilty of handling of stolen goods. Almost everything traded on that platform was clearly illegal. The Napster operators did clearly know what was going on and chose to ignore many crimes in progress. Adult content basically isn't illegal. It's only not allowed to knowingly expose minors to adult content. LL doesn't and can't know if an unverified user gave a correct birthdate information. With their birthdate question they already go one step further than a website disclaimer. No one reads the small print on the entry page of an adult website, everyone just clicks "let me in"; I can see that this is not much of a (legal) protection. But the birthdate question requires some thought; a minor has to knowingly commit a fraud in order to get past that registration point. This already makes a big difference, I think. I wrote "unverified" user - but the user's birthdate has clearly been "verified", as much as you can verify any information on the web. If LL would, for example, verify a social security number (impossible for an enterprise that operates world wide), they would let someone in on good faith only just as well. They can never verify if the social security # really matches the person who signed up. Same with a cc# or paypal account name. It could be anyone's ID, cc#... or birthdate. In addition, even after the account creation LL hints at the adult nature of SL in several ways. Adult areas are clearly marked as "mature", nudity and sexually oriented language/behaviour in PG areas is forbidden. They encourage their residents to report known minors. Their FAQs (knowledge base) also clearly mentions that LL won't tolerate minors using their adult grid and again asks the residents to keep their eyes open. All this is a lot more protection than a mere disclaimer already. But even more important: you won't see real nudity in SL. Everything the platform allows to depict is rendered (with the exception of uploaded pornographic web photos, which is against the TOS in the first place since the material is copyright protected). As far as I know, US law turns a blind eye on rendered art or manga / cartoon porn; there's clearly no naked flesh shown, there's no human model involved whose dignity would be debased (in cases of extremely violent or humiliating forms of pornography) and it's always unclear how far it can be considered artwork (is Michelangelo's David porn? Technically, it's a nude male). The platform as a whole can be considered artwork. It encourages the user to use creative talents, to produce art. There are no inherent sex mechanics aside from the possibility to undress a 3D avatar which, by standard, comes without genitals (like any barbie doll that can be undressed). Other than rendered toons, you'll only find "chatroom cybersex" in SL. This has never been considered illegal unless it involves the suggestion of an RL encounter towards a minor, in online environments which were not restricted to adults. Besides, when I use Google, I find a lot of cases where anti-porn provisions have been found to violate the first amendment, like http://www.answers.com/topic/reno-v-american-civil-liberties-union for example. These cases dealt with "real" porn, i.e. video material / photographies, not with rendered erotic material/artwork. I really think LL is legally on the safe side, as are their adult users. The Napster case may seem different in what was being done, but the thing is, the only law that could protect or prosecute LL is under the same umbrella. LL hosts the information and images on their server making them liable in the event that something happens. Just like Napster 'hosting' the songs. As was pointed out, it went through their system first, before heading off to the other peer. It's not specifically images either, it's also the interactions and such. I'd love to go with the pixel idea, but as we've seen in a few successful lawsuits of Grand Theft Auto, pixel sex is still much debated on whether it's 'porn' in a form. While I'd like to believe our court systems were smart enough on the chatroom cyber, there are also some cases that were won, for an adult engaging in cybersex with a 14 year old. Some blah blah about corruption of minors. As for this specifically: From: someone They can never verify if the social security # really matches the person who signed up. Same with a cc# or paypal account name. It could be anyone's ID, cc#... or birthdate. True, but in that case, most countries have laws against it, so they could still be prosecuted. Fraud dealing with anything financial is a lot more serious than checkmarking a box that you are 18. Most of what you say is totally common sense stuff, that I'm sure most would agree with, but given the recent history of the courts in digital media... common sense is lacking in the system.
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Seola Sassoon
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11-08-2006 09:51
From: Angelique LaFollette Can Anyone see where the suit against HHP might succeed where it would Fail against LL?
In My reading of Law (And it Really IS Fascinating) it strikes me that LL would prevail in it's case because LL was NOT the one providing the Images, Or placing them in the Minors access. HHP on the other Hand HHP is FULLY in control of ALL the content of their site, They are the Primary provider. The suit over the SL Content Might be more successful IF it were directed Specificly at the SL Player who set up his content. The suit over the HHP content would Fail If the suit were directed Not at HHP, but at the ISP that Carried them (Among thousands of Other Web Pages).
The distinctions under the Law May seem Very fine, But they Both (Napster Vs. KaZaA and SL Vs. HHP) hinge on points of Who has the greater responsibility. In terms of Suing KaZaA, or SL, you are suing the Maker of the Gun, Rather than the one wielding it, whereas in the case of Napster, Or the fictional HHP, the suit is directed At the Shooter Specificly.
That is my Understanding of the Law.
Angel. HHP is providing the content and could be more liable than LL, but LL still has liability. They host the images themselves. While 'we' collectively create it, they provide the easy access to the content, and host the content for viewing. Which takes us back to the MySpace lawsuit where 30 million was in the air for a checkmarked box not being enough in verification. MySpace doesn't even really host anything objectionable per se, like LL does. With HHP, they created the content, hosted it and passed it around. With Napster, they didn't create the content, but 'hosted upon transfer' temoporarily, which found them liable. To put it with the gun analogy, the maker shouldn't be sued no. But the store that sold it could be, if they sold to someone without doing the proper checks, since they had the gun and transferred it to the person who used it and shouldn't have gotten it. The shooter holds the greatest responsibility. That's the way I've been saying about kids too. The kids hold some of the responsibility for lying, but LL isn't doing enough in the first place to hinder them being here.
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Ayu Sura
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11-08-2006 09:55
What more do you think they should do? It might help if you provide concrete suggestions.
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Seola Sassoon
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11-08-2006 10:10
From: Ayu Sura What more do you think they should do? It might help if you provide concrete suggestions. Read back through the posts, the answers you seek have already been said, here as well as other threads regarding the issue.
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Lewbowski Ellison
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11-08-2006 10:16
From: Seola Sassoon
True, but in that case, most countries have laws against it, so they could still be prosecuted. Fraud dealing with anything financial is a lot more serious than checkmarking a box that you are 18.
But since the person committing this offense is by definition a minor that's not much of a threat, is it?
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Seola Sassoon
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11-08-2006 11:07
From: Lewbowski Ellison But since the person committing this offense is by definition a minor that's not much of a threat, is it? Actually, it is. Teens are prosecuted daily for credit card fraud and the like. However, by checkmarking a box or entering a birthdate, though techincally the teen lied, the courts wouldn't consider it a binding contract because a minor cannot do it without parental consent. Nullifying even the reasoning behind having the 'birthdate'. That's why I think our system is so backwards. I'm certainly not saying it's okay, or I agree with it, but I'm being a realist on our judicial system.
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Conan Godwin
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11-09-2006 05:54
From: ninjafoo Ng SL is a very very adult place, there is simply no way anyone under 18 should be on the main grid, period. QUOTE]
I'd prefer to see restrictions lifted than tightened personally. I know a lot of very mature under 18s. I know 17 year olds who are married with children - and are able to provide for those children financailly. I know a number of under 18s who have accounts on sl. I know one atleat who has a paid premium account too, paid for by themself (visa debit cards are available to 16 year olds in the UK, and can be used to get verified status on a PayPal account). None of them cause trouble. The one with the premium account owns land and makes clothes and is an upright member of the community. What exaclty goes on in Sl that teens can't see on tv anyway. Violent movies are available to 15 year olds legally in the UK, the age of consent for sex is 16, they can view porn on the internet if they want, in short I don't see how SL can damage them in any way. In fact, being exposed to sexually explicit and violent material in a safe environment can be very beneficial. Personally, I watched porn and violent movies at a young age and enjoyed every minute of it - it didn't do me any harm.
I suppose I should report the under 18s I know, but I'm not going to because they've done no harm.
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11-09-2006 08:24
From: Conan Godwin I suppose I should report the under 18s I know, but I'm not going to because they've done no harm. If your friends are under 16, you really really need to read the following http://www.opsi.gov.uk/acts/acts2003/30042--b.htm(and no, it doesnt matter squat if you 'think' they are 16 or over and they arent really - mud sticks, and this kind of mud is almost impossible to get off)
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11-09-2006 08:33
Conan, it's not about whether or not the kid is mature or not. The issue is liability. If something happens to a kid and their parents want to sue or say the kid wants to meet someone in real life, that person could be put in jail. That is very serious. From: Conan Godwin From: ninjafoo Ng SL is a very very adult place, there is simply no way anyone under 18 should be on the main grid, period.
I'd prefer to see restrictions lifted than tightened personally. I know a lot of very mature under 18s. I know 17 year olds who are married with children - and are able to provide for those children financailly. I know a number of under 18s who have accounts on sl. I know one atleat who has a paid premium account too, paid for by themself (visa debit cards are available to 16 year olds in the UK, and can be used to get verified status on a PayPal account). None of them cause trouble. The one with the premium account owns land and makes clothes and is an upright member of the community. What exaclty goes on in Sl that teens can't see on tv anyway. Violent movies are available to 15 year olds legally in the UK, the age of consent for sex is 16, they can view porn on the internet if they want, in short I don't see how SL can damage them in any way. In fact, being exposed to sexually explicit and violent material in a safe environment can be very beneficial. Personally, I watched porn and violent movies at a young age and enjoyed every minute of it - it didn't do me any harm. I suppose I should report the under 18s I know, but I'm not going to because they've done no harm.
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11-09-2006 08:37
From: Conan Godwin I suppose I should report the under 18s I know, but I'm not going to because they've done no harm. Yes you should. It's not about what those kids may or may not do, as individuals: it's about the risk you are running for SL, and for yourself, by not doing as you are supposed to. Once again (on this topic) the problem isn't the kids, it's how adults react to the issue. I too know exceedingly mature under-18's: however, I also know some shatteringly idiotic adults with over-active imaginations and a ravening thirst to be the Protector Of The Children, and I really can't be arsed to sit through the 21st century real-life version of Milller's Crucible just because they get involved here.
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Seola Sassoon
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11-09-2006 11:06
From: Conan Godwin I'd prefer to see restrictions lifted than tightened personally. I know a lot of very mature under 18s. I know 17 year olds who are married with children - and are able to provide for those children financailly. I know a number of under 18s who have accounts on sl. I know one atleat who has a paid premium account too, paid for by themself (visa debit cards are available to 16 year olds in the UK, and can be used to get verified status on a PayPal account). None of them cause trouble. The one with the premium account owns land and makes clothes and is an upright member of the community. What exaclty goes on in Sl that teens can't see on tv anyway. Violent movies are available to 15 year olds legally in the UK, the age of consent for sex is 16, they can view porn on the internet if they want, in short I don't see how SL can damage them in any way. In fact, being exposed to sexually explicit and violent material in a safe environment can be very beneficial. Personally, I watched porn and violent movies at a young age and enjoyed every minute of it - it didn't do me any harm.
I suppose I should report the under 18s I know, but I'm not going to because they've done no harm. There's something you are forgetting. LL's claim of base of operation is America. The laws and ages you gave us isn't applicable. LL has to follow American laws. Under 18, you can't do pretty much anything, though most states allow sexual consent between anyone over 16 up til the age of 21. At age 21, the other must be at least 18. It's not whether they are good, mature people or whether they are idiots. It's straight up liability, regardless of how they got here.
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Floyd Gilmour
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11-23-2006 14:57
As much as I agree that teens shouldnt be here. I do understand the views of some underage users.
During my time in SL, I have discovered several people to be underage, some very immature, and some mature upstanding citizens who can quite easily pass for adults, and they all tell me the same thing, the teen grid is not as enjoyable as the main grid, all the good stuff is on the main grid, such as RP's, Games and even Community's, from what I hear, the Teen Grid is a glorified chat room.
Unfortunately I have had to report several people for being underage, because in my opinion some people are far to immature to see the majority of SL's content, however on occasion I come across someone that I personally think is mature enough to stay.
Perhaps LL should just abandon the teen grid completely, merge both grids together, and create different types of regions.. such as...
U - Universal, Family Friendly, Suitable for all! PG - May contain some violence or unsuitable language, use with parental guidance, or if over the age of 16. Mature - 18+, contains adult content.
Teens have a great imagination and have things they could bring to the community, and personally if mature teens use the main grid, I couldnt care less, I am a firm believer that teens should be allowed on the main grid in certain regions that are suitable for their age.. and as for the excuse of not doing this already due to not being able to restrict adult content reaching minors, thats nonsense.
During construction there should be a permissions checkbox to select wether an object is PG or Mature, Mature objects would not be able to be traded or sold to a minor on the system, and perhaps if a system was implanted that would allow users to flag innapropriate items that were set to being PG it would even make the entire idea much more secure.
Theres my two cents, hope you enjoyed the read.
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Angelique LaFollette
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11-23-2006 18:46
From: Ishtara Rothschild I already wrote something about Napster in my previous post. Napster allowed the handling of stolen goods, something illegal by nature. Whereas adult content (adult artwork even, since it's rendered and no photographic/video material) basically isn't illegal, as long as no one knowingly exposes minors to such content. "Knowingly" is the important point here. Providing a false birthdate during account registration is fraud, just as providing a wrong / stolen credit card number. LL can't be blamed for underaged users attempting to get in at any cost, even by resorting to fraud.
The same case would occur if a minor climbs through my living room window and watches a porn DVD on my TV. Doesn't matter that the window was open - I'm allowed to own pornographic material, I'm allowed to air the room, but the minor isn't allowed to break in. In reference to the Emboldened Statement, It wasn't the fact that it"Allowed" the Paasing of Stolen Material, it was the Fact that the Stolen Material Passed Through Napsters Hands Legally making them theMiddle Man in the Transaction. In Napsters case the Illegal Material was In thier Posession. In the Case of KaZaA (And other P2P Programs) They only provided a Tool. At NO time what-so-ever does ANY transferred material pass through KaZaA's Posession. It's not though the Fine points of the cases that i am Pointing out so much as the Legal Principle behind the Ruling. And i see we Agree on that Over All Principle. It is the Minor, in the case of SL, that Bears FIRST Liability Because s/he has either Broken the Law, or Contravened the Civil Restrictions through Misrepresentation to Obtain access to Age Inapropriate Materials. Now i see (Posted in another thread) TOS has been Altered to state that LL makes NO Guarantee that all persons on the Adult Grid are Adult. Fair Enough, HOWEVER, they STILL have in place the Over 18 age restriction, and REPEAT it in Terms of Service. While they ARE Indemnifying themselves against Liability should a Teen enter the grid, and Civil Action be Initiated, it does not INCREASE the Liability of the Residents, It merely Reaffirms thier Responsibility SHOULD a Teen be exposed to Adult Material on thier Lot. If the Teen Gained access to the Material through Fraud, then the Land Owners Liability is Minimal. Angel.
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Susie Boffin
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11-23-2006 20:21
I don't really know what else LL can do except to use this new technology I just heard about. It's a little camera that can be installed on any website to watch whoever views that website! Hard to believe but true. LL could watch all players and immediately call 911 to report any player who appears to be under age 18. A Republican dream come true. 
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11-24-2006 09:10
To me, if you take away the flaming, it pretty much sounds like everyone is saying basically the same thing, aside from parenting techniques. The common ground here is, if LL can't verify that a resident is over the legal age to view adult material, then advertizing SL as an adult environment, designating areas of SL as specifically "Mature", and setting-up a Teen Grid (acknowledging that SL itself is indeed "Adult"  , is grossly irresposible on their part, regardless if teens are able to by-pass that verification. It is exactly the reason why the trickle of teens on the main grid has become an epidemic. By saying that they (LL) will bear no responsibility, we can now assume SL is an All-Ages show. But they won't tell you that directly or clearly because most Adults don't really want to go to an All-Ages show. If the real question of this thread was what is to be done about that epidemic, and not just a debate on parenting... at this point I would say it is unstoppable. It would be best to conduct yourself as tho every person you met was under-aged, set up your mature business on mature land only without visual access from PG land (just as you would in RL zoning), and realize then that the ultimate responsiblity for what some hack-happy 13 yr old sees or does in this world of ours isn't on your back and shouldn't impede your personal freedom. Allowing teens such free access to the adult grid is LL's cross to bear. What they see or do here is thier parents. How you conduct yourself with those teens is yours.
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Jenks Austinmer
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ok, my turn.
12-04-2006 10:04
Ok, now for my two cents,
I think that a parent should be responsible enough to teach their kid the right and wrong things to do. If a kid is getting on the adult grid and goin nuts in a strip club, then it's the parent's responsibility to stop them. LL shouldn't have to raise everyone's kids and teach them the right and wrong things to do. I basically have to blame parents who don't instill the right values in their children. The Lindens shouldn't have to pick up were the parents have slacked off and teach our children right from wrong.
It's the same things with schools nowadays, the parents are expecting the schools to teach the kids morals and things that they should be taught at home. And when something goes wrong with the kid they blame the schools.
We need to get all the parents to pick up the slack before they start blaming Sl for their kids over sexual or violent behavior. It's not LL's fault for having it there, it's the parents fault for not teaching their kids to not go there. Bad parents could ruin SL if we aren't careful. they could start blaming it for their kids bad behavior when in reality, it's a result of shit parenting.
basically, I think all the slacker parents need to have a more active role in their children's lives. If a parent is there to guide a kid, then for the most par the kid will behave. I understand things happen and kids can become exposed to things like the stuff in the sdult grid, but again, it's the parent's responsibility to keep track of what they're kids are doing and step in when these things happen.
Well dang, looks like I've gone into another Spottycat rant. Oh well, it needed to be said.
Jenks
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Janka Werribee
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12-04-2006 11:36
Newsflash part I: teens are not immediately traumatized for life if they see nude people. Even if they see them actually having sex. Not if they see a gun, either. Especially teens who purposefully lie to get access to adult material are unlikely to get much worse from actually succeeding. (Reference: personal experience.)
Newsflash part II: also people over 20 years of age can be and often are griefers. (Reference: personal observations of griefers.)
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Banking Laws
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12-04-2006 15:55
From: Cottonteil Muromachi If I have a kid. I send them to school. And the teacher periodically shows my kid some lewd photos. I'm the first one responsible? My kid walks past a porn shop in the city. The shop displays magazines and sex toys out at the storefront where people see them. I'm responsible for preventing my child from walking past that street? Back at home, when the kid switches on TV, and theres more of this stuff during prime time. I'm the one responsible to go switch it off and tell them not to watch it? For the TV, yes, you are. For the teacher, school is a place intended for children, Second Life's main grid is for 18+. They have to lie to get on the main grid, they'd don't need a fake ID to get into school. As far as I know porn shops don't display dildos in storefront windows.. but then I live in the US.
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bilbo99 Emu
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12-05-2006 02:59
From: Banking Laws As far as I know porn shops don't display dildos in storefront windows.. but then I live in the US.
nor the UK. Hell, even we brits have some propriety!
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Morwen Bunin
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12-05-2006 03:56
From: bilbo99 Emu nor the UK.
Hell, even we brits have some propriety! We Dutch... uhmmmm.... *walks off*  Morwen
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Angelique LaFollette
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12-05-2006 20:51
From: Banking Laws As far as I know porn shops don't display dildos in storefront windows.. but then I live in the US. Well, In Canada (Vancouver at least) I've seen such things on display in the adult store Windows, The Interesting thing is, Here, The Thought of it doesn't seem to send the Citizens into a Foaming Rage like it does elsewhere. My experience of Canadians (I'm an Immigrant from France Via the United States) is that they seem to have a Far more open and sophisticated attitude towards such things. I can't say Authoritatively whether it's a Good or Bad thing, But the over all lack of Fire, Brimstone, and/or other dire consequences seems to indicate at least that it is a Non Event. I agree with Bankings Other observations, In Particular comparing SL's Adults Only environment to a School for Children (Ok, Not commenting on peoples Maturity levels here). That is hardly a Fair, or accurate comparisson. Angel.
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Domneth Dingson
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12-05-2006 22:45
For legal reasons, a credit card should be required for sign-up. At least that way when a lunatic parent decides to put a lawsuit up against some mature content vendors/casinos/etc, There is proof that the under-age person used the parent's card and therefore had permission to play a game they weren't supposed to be in (against the rules for people under the age of 1  . It's similar to putting the mature rating on other computer games. It's not the maker of the game, it's the parents who must take responsibility. Although it's true a parent can only do so much, they must still try. Let me give it from another perspective as well. I'm not playing SL to hang out with someone's kid (although not me personally, but think of some of the content others participate in...I'm sure they wouldn't want to find out that 'consenting adult avatar' is actually a kid..or a guy, as a side note ^^) I am in an environment, that as far as I know, contains other like-minded adults. Let the kids play World of Warcraft. Keep them out of SL.
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Morwen Bunin
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12-06-2006 00:13
From: Angelique LaFollette Well, In Canada (Vancouver at least) I've seen such things on display in the adult store Windows, The Interesting thing is, Here, The Thought of it doesn't seem to send the Citizens into a Foaming Rage like it does elsewhere. My experience of Canadians (I'm an Immigrant from France Via the United States) is that they seem to have a Far more open and sophisticated attitude towards such things. I can't say Authoritatively whether it's a Good or Bad thing, But the over all lack of Fire, Brimstone, and/or other dire consequences seems to indicate at least that it is a Non Event.
Well, I used to live in Amsterdam. There (as in number of other big cities here) they are also rather open in matters like these. Allthough I cannot oversee all consequences, I tend to say that this is not real bad. With the given age clear in mind, I think it is good to be open about these things. And well... I mean... youngsters below a certain age shouldn't stray alone in a city as Amsterdam. Morwen.
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Yngwie Krogstad
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12-06-2006 00:39
There's a lot of debate going on here, clearly. I'm not even going to try to quote statements which have been made previously; which to choose? lol
So I'm just going to say what I see without directing anything at anyone or any comments that have already been posted.
It is extremely clear to everyone who has ever signed up with SL, that the main grid is reserved exclusively for us by people who are at least 18 years of age. Those of us who do have accounts do not have ANY tools whatever to verify that the person entering our property is at least 18 years old. Not one. If someone is acting like they're under 18, that may give us reason to wonder about them, and ATTEMPT to find out more; but unless said individual actually admits that they are 17, 16, 12, 8, whatever, we will always be left with nothing more concrete than a "feeling."
At this point, unless someone is admittedly under the age of 18 and therefore using the main grid illegally (no matter what country they are from, fraud is fraud is fraud everywhere!), it is not only appropriate, but mandatory, to proceed as if the individual who you are interacting with is, in fact, an adult. That's what you're using if you are on the main grid, a place where everything is made/owned/done by adults, and everyone you interact with is supposed to also be an adult. Those who are not, are committing acts of fraud, and that's not your fault.
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