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Teen Grid - Is it what Linden Lab promised?

lana Birdbrain
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06-12-2006 23:42
From: Groucho Mandelbrot
The reason I think you've taken it personally is that you took my general observation about overprotective parents and turned it into a personal attack.

Actually as my posting history in other threads as well would show, though I have responded with emotion at times, I make it a habit to try not to turn anything into a personal attack. (well unless I'm dealing with a certain freebie reseller) If you took something I said that way then I'm sorry. But that isn't what I do.

I quoted you in the same way I quote anyone, to respond to a statement. You said, Is there any evidence... I offered a link I felt was evidence and made this statement in response......"They can't even keep adult grid content out of the teen grid. A reasonable person should assume they're having just as much trouble keeping the adults out."

I'm not seeing any attack here... you do?


From: someone
You stated "Adult predators are getting in to the teen grid as easily as anyone gets into the adult grid."

Yes that is what I'm saying. That is my position and I stand by it. If adults can easily access the teen grid (and I pointed out that they have and are) then not all of those adults will be doing it for innocent reasons. SOME will yes, some will be there just to be with their own child, some will be there to sell inventory they shouldn't (different issue) and in the mix there will be some who are there to seek out potential victims. To say it isn't happening is to choose to stick your head in the sand.

From: someone
That is an alarmist statement, IMO. I don't deny that it's possible for adults to get in the grid, but to state that you have proven that there are preditors on the grid is a big stretch. To be frank, the term "predator" is so broadly used that it is meaningless anyway. While there no doubt will be some adults who log on for prurient interests, that is a far stretch from implying that there will be any real physical interaction.


Ok you feel I am making an alarmist statement. I feel it is a true statement and should be looked at. I do not feel it is a stretch at all to say that if they can get in they will get in. You're as entitled to your opinion as I am to mine. :)

From: someone
For clarity, can you post the original claims that LL made about the teen grid? I didn't see anything in the OP that differs greatly from the reports of current activity.
No. For two reasons. 1) If you're curious do your own search and 2) While I recall statements made at the time the teen grid was being considered, I'm actually referring to assurances made to me personally when my daughter asked me to call and look into it because she was interested in playing. In the end I decided I saw flaws in LL's logic and didn't feel they could live up to the promises of security they made to me and I elected not to allow her to open an account until I actually saw the thing in action. I am now glad I didn't.
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lana Birdbrain
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06-12-2006 23:50
From: Groucho Mandelbrot
Here are the obvious problems with your teen grid proposal:

1) it would severely limit the number of new users
2) it would be very expensive
3) it wouldn't keep out serious predators anyway

LL is a business and I, for one, don't believe them to be complete idiots. I'm sure they've evaluated variations on your proposal and I think they've concluded that your proposal is not practical. I don't work for them and I can't say for sure, but I imagine one of the primary reasons for the teen grid is to keep kids off the main grid. I don't think they're planning on making a lot of money off of it, and if the cost is prohibitive to maintain it they will probably drop it altogether.


As for removing CC authorization, that is another business decision. I don't have as much info as they do, but it seems like it could be a reasonable way to grow their userbase quickly.


LL is a business, you're right. They made a business decision based on their desire to inflate their numbers. I understand it. But I also feel it was irresponsible.

In the end yes they will do what they choose to do and I will make my own decisions for my family accordingly. But the way things are right now, I certainly won't be recommending SL to anyone under 18 or their parents.
As to your points 1, 2, & 3..... 1) So...2) So... 3) It is at least an effort as opposed to simply making no effort at all.
By going with the logic that it won't keep all of them out so why bother.... you could apply that to anything else.. say a youth center for example. Well despite any security or back ground checks we might try, out of all the youth centers there is still the possibility some perv could slip through the cracks so we should just forget about checking anyone out anymore? So again, the youth centers have the right to choose to go with that logic and I have the right to not allow my child to spend time there.
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Jack Harker
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06-13-2006 00:45
From: Groucho Mandelbrot
I don't know what that thread is supposed to demonstrate. Clearly it's not impossible for someone to show their boobies and take a picture, that's not the point.

But I guess if your teenager is going to be traumatized by the occasional boob or sexual slang then you should probably not let them on the teen grid. Or the web. Or in a movie theatre. Or a bookstore. Or in front of a TV. Oh just lock them in a closet until they're 18 and magically become adult.

BTW, is kissing banned from teen SL? Haven't seen anything about. Not that i've looked too closely.


Well, they had sure as hell keep them out of *school*.

I remember having a conversation with my english teacher when I was back in school, about a parent who complained about the word "goddamn" being in a book that her daughter had been assigned. We both laughed about it since if the woman had heard the way that her daughter talked in the school bathroom in the morning with her friends she probably would have had a heart attack.

Any parent who's upset about trivia like this should go out and rent "Kids" and see what their children are *actually* dealing with IRL.
Groucho Mandelbrot
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06-13-2006 01:41
From: lana Birdbrain
But the way things are right now, I certainly won't be recommending SL to anyone under 18 or their parents.
As to your points 1, 2, & 3..... 1) So...2) So... 3) It is at least an effort as opposed to simply making no effort at all.
By going with the logic that it won't keep all of them out so why bother.... you could apply that to anything else.. say a youth center for example

No, that is not the logic. The logic is that it is very expensive to implement the policies you suggest and it is doubtful that it will keep out the determined predator. It will keep out the casual pervert, but they are mostly harmless IMO.

How much do you think it would cost per teen to do this check of yours? How much do they make per registered user? What percentage of accounts do they lose because of the tedious authorization process?

The math may work out in the case of doing background checks at a youth center. I don't think it does here and so far it looks like LL agrees.

This is especially true when we are talking about a very low probability risk, and IMO the process is mostly to placate concerned parents (overly concerned parents). The proper business decision is to let those overly concerned parents find another way to entertain their kids.

If it's truly irresponsible, let the government shut them down. I'm sure LL has factored that remote possibility into the equation as well.

From: someone
In the end yes they will do what they choose to do and I will make my own decisions for my family accordingly.

Exactly, and give them constructive feedback about why you're making those decisions and it will inform their policy. Some people tend to rant and rave over a minor issue (again, I'm not targeting you!) and think that it will change a business policy. That kind of feedback is often counter productive IMO, because businesses would often just rather get rid of customers who are impossible to please.
Kyevan Thurston
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06-13-2006 06:12
From: Vares Solvang
... It's also equally silly to think that there won't be any sex in the teen grid. Teens have sex in rl, why would they not have sex in the teen grid? Teach your kids to be responsible and ask them questions about what they are doing in the teen grid.
Personaly, I'd rather teens (and irresponsable adults) have sex in SL (whichever grid applies to them) than in real life. Cuts down on STDs, unwanted pregnancys, and abortions(I think it should be the womans right to choose, but it's still kinda tragic when it happens as often as it is these days)
Rose Bradley
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06-13-2006 12:24
From: Groucho Mandelbrot
Thousands of children die every year in auto accidents. Don't you think something should be done about that? How many more have to die in swimming pools before someone takes action and enacts a national ban on those death traps?

Won't somebody think of the children?


Your statement has nothing to do with this debate. It is competely off topic, and pointless.
Groucho Mandelbrot
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06-13-2006 13:05
From: Rose Bradley
Your statement has nothing to do with this debate. It is competely off topic, and pointless.

You think I don't care about children because I'm not working harder to make sure they're absolutely safe from some exaggerated threat you imagine. I think you don't care about children because thousands die from car crashes and swimming pools and yet you do nothing.

Need I mention how many millions of kids die worldwide from malaria or polluted water supplies? Do you know how many lives you could save with your $9.95 a month?

I think you're on very precarious ground with your accusations.
Vares Solvang
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Yay for common sense!
06-14-2006 19:28
From: Groucho Mandelbrot
You think I don't care about children because I'm not working harder to make sure they're absolutely safe from some exaggerated threat you imagine. I think you don't care about children because thousands die from car crashes and swimming pools and yet you do nothing.

Need I mention how many millions of kids die worldwide from malaria or polluted water supplies? Do you know how many lives you could save with your $9.95 a month?

I think you're on very precarious ground with your accusations.


Groucho, you just made my "favorite people" list! :)

I have always been amazed at just how much tiny amounts of money can do in 3rd world countries. Skip two lattes each month and the money can support a child in Bangladesh for a month.
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