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Egon Rothschild
Never Enough Prims
Join date: 22 Apr 2006
Posts: 556
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11-01-2007 15:01
O.o Your main and alts each have separate partners? myself, i'm not the partnering type. did it once after knowing the other person for only a few days. big mistake. lasted less than a week. never again. i have had a lover for over a year, however. my alt on the other hand .. had been partnered .. divorced .. and re-partnered to the same avi during that same year. _____________________
“If you talk to God, you are praying. If God talks to you, you have schizophrenia.”
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Annabelle Babii
Unholier than thou
Join date: 2 Jun 2007
Posts: 1,797
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11-01-2007 15:49
Why am I picturing a mid-air ceremony with the happy couple strapped to the wings of Trout's biplane? "I doooooooooooooo........"<splat> |
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Colette Meiji
Registered User
Join date: 25 Mar 2005
Posts: 15,556
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11-01-2007 15:54
Dating yourself would be weird, even in second life. Sorry
My answer to the OP - If you want it to last. Wait. Make sure things are right. When its right you should know. - If you just want another SLmarriage? start a timer. Once 20 hours chatting have been reached. Ask. |
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Solanghe Sarlo
Gypsy Free Thinker
Join date: 19 Jul 2006
Posts: 644
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11-01-2007 16:10
Nothing. Never. Romance is dead. Marriage is stoopid. You should never ever ever propose cause he'll just leave you with tier and things to be done and land to sell and a wreck of a life where you feel jaded and miserable and tons of wedding snapshots that you look at now and wonder wth you were thinkin paying 12kLindens for a wedding that the whole time you were afraid you would crash or get lag from all your stoopid primmy friends coming with tons o bling. er... I would say at least a month. (that better?) Damn Jessy. Tell us how you really feel.  To OP: Whatever feels right to you. Same as RL. _____________________
The key to a contented life: Figure out who you are, what you are, fix what you can and make peace with the rest.
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Solanghe Sarlo
Gypsy Free Thinker
Join date: 19 Jul 2006
Posts: 644
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11-01-2007 16:14
I run away from anyone who proposes or says they love me on the first date. *running after Strife* Wait Strife, Why don't you love me???! _____________________
The key to a contented life: Figure out who you are, what you are, fix what you can and make peace with the rest.
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Colette Meiji
Registered User
Join date: 25 Mar 2005
Posts: 15,556
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11-01-2007 16:17
*running after Strife* Wait Strife, Why don't you love me???! If she runs, soon will she follow If she does not take gifts, soon will she give. If she does not take love, soon will she love. Despite herself.  |
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Oryx Tempel
Registered User
Join date: 8 Nov 2006
Posts: 7,663
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11-01-2007 16:19
*running after Strife* Wait Strife, Why don't you love me???!  Strife's MINE you wench! *running after Strife* Wait, Strife, why don't you love ME instead???? _____________________
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Nika Talaj
now you see her ...
Join date: 2 Jan 2007
Posts: 5,449
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11-01-2007 16:23
/me rezzes a rock for the cabbit to hide under, then leans back against it innocently munching her popcorn.
hare today, gone tomorrow |
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Solanghe Sarlo
Gypsy Free Thinker
Join date: 19 Jul 2006
Posts: 644
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11-01-2007 16:32
Strife's MINE you wench! *running after Strife* Wait, Strife, why don't you love ME instead???? *runs past Oryx and throws a cream pie at her to slow her down* Next time it'll be PECAN pie, so back off!  _____________________
The key to a contented life: Figure out who you are, what you are, fix what you can and make peace with the rest.
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Argent Asbrink
Registered User
Join date: 27 Jul 2007
Posts: 217
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11-01-2007 16:34
*runs past Oryx and throws a cream pie at her to slow her down* Heh. |
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Amaranthim Talon
Voyager, Seeker, Curious
Join date: 14 Nov 2006
Posts: 12,032
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11-02-2007 07:05
If she runs, soon will she follow If she does not take gifts, soon will she give. If she does not take love, soon will she love. Despite herself. Wow... _____________________
"Yield to temptation. It may not pass your way again. "
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Cole Riel
Registered User
Join date: 3 May 2006
Posts: 252
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11-02-2007 07:36
Not for nothing but:
If you need to ask then you're definitely not even remotely close to venturing into a sl relationship. |
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Colette Meiji
Registered User
Join date: 25 Mar 2005
Posts: 15,556
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11-02-2007 07:41
Wow... I didn't write that , its by Sappho @600 BC Just came to my mind reading the thread. Lol Becky used to say she chased women running away screaming with Sapphic poetry. |
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spinster Voom
Registered User
Join date: 14 Jun 2007
Posts: 1,069
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11-02-2007 07:53
SL is a very immersive experience. It's very easy to get carried away and to rush into things too quickly. The optimum time before proposal depends on the time that both parties have spent in SL. Time to proposal = A / (B*C) *100 / D ^3 Where A = number of months in SL for party.1 + number of months in SL for party.2 B = average hours per day spent in SL by party.1 C = average number of hours per day spent in SL by party.2 D = average hours per day spent in SL by both parties in each other's company The time unit is in minutes / hours / days / weks / months / years - depending on how you feel about each other. Alternatively, don't do it. well, i'm still stuck on this post - what does the pointy thing between the D and the 3 mean? |
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Oryx Tempel
Registered User
Join date: 8 Nov 2006
Posts: 7,663
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11-02-2007 07:58
well, i'm still stuck on this post - what does the pointy thing between the D and the 3 mean? I'm pretty sure that means "to the power of", i.e. D Cubed in this case.  _____________________
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Oryx Tempel
Registered User
Join date: 8 Nov 2006
Posts: 7,663
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11-02-2007 08:00
I didn't write that , its by Sappho @600 BC Just came to my mind reading the thread. Lol Becky used to say she chased women running away screaming with Sapphic poetry. Hey! Is that Becky from Becky's Sappho Gardens? I think I live next to her now, on Loepa? I think she sold a bunch of land, because I keep getting confused women tp'ing into the shop, wondering where the Gardens are... _____________________
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spinster Voom
Registered User
Join date: 14 Jun 2007
Posts: 1,069
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11-02-2007 08:01
Thx Oryx
/me scuttles away to play with windows calculator ... |
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Colette Meiji
Registered User
Join date: 25 Mar 2005
Posts: 15,556
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11-02-2007 08:07
Hey! Is that Becky from Becky's Sappho Gardens? I think I live next to her now, on Loepa? I think she sold a bunch of land, because I keep getting confused women tp'ing into the shop, wondering where the Gardens are... No, another Becky. It was a long time ago. /120/f7/41869/2.html Pie had the original Sappho's Garden. |
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Tegg Bode
FrootLoop Roo Overlord
Join date: 12 Jan 2007
Posts: 5,707
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11-02-2007 08:29
Hey! Is that Becky from Becky's Sappho Gardens? I think I live next to her now, on Loepa? I think she sold a bunch of land, because I keep getting confused women tp'ing into the shop, wondering where the Gardens are... Hey neighbour, I used to own land in Loepa and now live in sim next door Andraca _____________________
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Solanghe Sarlo
Gypsy Free Thinker
Join date: 19 Jul 2006
Posts: 644
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11-02-2007 09:38
Originally Posted by Colette Meiji:
If she runs, soon will she follow If she does not take gifts, soon will she give. If she does not take love, soon will she love. Despite herself. Wow... I know, that was deep right? I'm not sure I'm enlightened enough to understand it.  _____________________
The key to a contented life: Figure out who you are, what you are, fix what you can and make peace with the rest.
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Trout Recreant
Public Enemy No. 1
Join date: 24 Jul 2007
Posts: 4,873
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11-02-2007 10:01
Why am I picturing a mid-air ceremony with the happy couple strapped to the wings of Trout's biplane? QUICK! Say "I do". There's a sim crossing coming up and that wedding dress is way to prim heavy to make it. "Til death do us part" is imminent! Each wedding comes with a low altitude barrel roll and a crash landing into the front deck of the forum bar at the hangout. (The crash landing into the Hangout is going to be my signature entrance from now on, I think). Bilbo - no conflict of interest at all. Remember the state I was in when I got ordained? The Vegas-style chapel is a pretty good idea. I could run with that. _____________________
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Colette Meiji
Registered User
Join date: 25 Mar 2005
Posts: 15,556
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11-02-2007 10:19
Originally Posted by Colette Meiji: If she runs, soon will she follow If she does not take gifts, soon will she give. If she does not take love, soon will she love. Despite herself. I know, that was deep right? I'm not sure I'm enlightened enough to understand it. A woman running away from something she secretly wants but is afraid to admit, even to herself. |
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Conifer Dada
Hiya m'dooks!
Join date: 6 Oct 2006
Posts: 3,716
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11-02-2007 12:32
I'm a confirmed spinster in SL. I would think the only way to have a secure marriage is to get your RL to create an alt for you to marry. But I wouldn't even do that if the option was offered to me!!
In a virtual world like SL where the aim is to be able to do allthe things people can do in RL plus a lot more, te idea of marriages is not silly, it fits very well with the whole sheme of things. It's just not my personal pot of yoghurt, I value my freedom. _____________________
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Colette Meiji
Registered User
Join date: 25 Mar 2005
Posts: 15,556
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11-02-2007 12:33
I'm a confirmed spinster in SL. I would think the only way to have a secure marriage is to get your RL to create an alt for you to marry. But I wouldn't even do that if the option was offered to me!! sadly I know of people who have married their RL spouses in SL, and later separated in both lives. |
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Conifer Dada
Hiya m'dooks!
Join date: 6 Oct 2006
Posts: 3,716
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11-02-2007 12:36
sadly I know of people who have married their RL spouses in SL, and later separated in both lives. I wonder if any couples have separated in RL but remained married in SL. _____________________
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