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Chris Norse
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05-23-2009 11:30
From: Chav Paderborn

Yes, reading books = being fed propaganda.

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Most nonfiction books aren't propaganda of one kind or another?
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Ian Nider
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05-23-2009 11:33
From: Amity Slade
Short answer: I disagree with the notion that bdsm be banned from Second Life.

Longer, more thoughtful, more time-consuming, and apparently more boring answers in this thread:

/327/96/321867/1.html#post2436078/327/96/321867/1.html#post2436078
/327/96/321867/4.html#post2436182/327/96/321867/4.html#post2436182
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/327/96/321867/20.html#post2437745/327/96/321867/20.html#post2437745


You have some good points there, I remember reading some of those posts as they came up in this thread.
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05-23-2009 11:33
From: Chav Paderborn
Dissent would also be protected. People seem to miss that.



Unless it is dissent you think is racist or sexist or what ever "ist" you are against that day.
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05-23-2009 11:33
From: someone
Originally Posted by [another poster in post 424]
That is what the paedophiles said about their 'ageplay'.


From: Qie Niangao
Note the tactic of asserting-by-assumption: those who argued against a ban were themselves pedophiles.



This is an incorrect reading of what the other poster asserted.

The other poster asserted

*****those who are paedophiles said something about ageplay*

This is not equivalent to your reading of what was asserted:

*****those who said something about ageplay are paedophiles


You have given the converse of what the other poster gave.


*The 'something' is contained in the post that 424 was a reply for. It was a claim to the effect that 'SL is pretend not real and therefore nothing that happens in SL can hurt anyone'.
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05-23-2009 11:37
From: Rock Vacirca
"Everything she does is..." 'she'?? Wow, you really are naive, aren't you? How many of the 'women' posting in this thread would pass a voice verification test? (Now listen to the multitude of reasons they will give for not doing so, - outrage, don't have a mike, who are you to ask, change the subject)


Now you imply that any woman who disagrees with you is not a "real woman". And preemptively mock anyone who is not comfortable disclosing personal information.

Well--I'm not a woman, but I'm happy to stand behind what I say with my RL identity:

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You--on the other hand--have a promising future in cable news.

From: Rock Vacirca
I am all in favour of sex in SL, sex is not banned in RL and should not be banned in SL either, however, in RL:

a) Child sex is illegal,
b) Rape, torture, mutilation and murder of women is illegal,
c) Animal sex is illegal

All the above are sick, practiced by sick people, and when their activities are curbed in RL they bring their sick 'games' into SL.


May I present the "slippery slope" in action. Be on notice; they are coming for the furries next.
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05-23-2009 11:37
From: Ponsonby Low
This is an incorrect reading of what the other poster asserted.

The other poster asserted

*****those who are paedophiles said something about ageplay*

This is not equivalent to your reading of what was asserted:

*****those who said something about ageplay are paedophiles


You have given the converse of what the other poster gave.


*The 'something' is contained in the post that 424 was a reply for. It was a claim to the effect that 'SL is pretend not real and therefore nothing that happens in SL can hurt anyone'.



From: someone
The cries of 'this is not real, it is just pixels' does not wash now, as the same cry from the paedophiles did not wash back then



Seems to be implying all that defended the right for consenting adults to do something that was the digital equivalent of dressing up were in fact guilty of doing it... and being pedophiles

Just like in every other point it was raised up as a statement.
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05-23-2009 11:38
From: Carl Metropolitan

May I present the "slippery slope" in action. Be on notice; they are coming for the furries next.



They have been trying that since the first one showed up... you think the uproar now is bad...

they have no idea how tight knit and accepting the furry fandom is... and how sharp those teeth can be when threatened.
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05-23-2009 11:38
From: Argent Stonecutter
Have you seen the comic or movie "Fritz the cat"? Have you read the graphic novel "Maus"? How about the book "Who Censored Roger Rabbit" or the movie "Who Killed Roger Rabbit" inspired by it? Using "funny animals" as a metaphor for race has a long history, going back to the middle ages and no doubt earlier.


I really love Robert Crumb, he's a sexist prick they say too. Maybe he is, I dunno or care, it's comics. I unashamedly love the arses on his women.
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05-23-2009 11:38
From: Ephraim Dalglish
Another excellent way to "rally others to your cause" is to impute to them motives and intentions that they no where assert, support, or even imply. Why bother addressing what was actually said, including statements that EXPLICITLY deny such motivations or intentions, when you can just fictionalize your opponent by turning her into something she is not?



An accurate description of the tactic of choice for many here.

(In reading this thread I've found new respect for that tiny handful of posters who've been able to express their reservations about the OP's position without resorting to the tactic you expose so clearly in your post.)
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05-23-2009 11:40
From: Ponsonby Low
An accurate description of the tactic of choice for many here.

(In reading this thread I've found new respect for that tiny handful of posters who've been able to express their reservations about the OP's position without resorting to the tactic you expose so clearly in your post.)


It's called research, when you do research and find the same person posting an agenda and then denying it...

You call them out on it.

edit:

much like researchers being called out for sloppy or outright biased research in papers. Like only talking to niche fetish street hookers, and then using that as representative of all sex workers.
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05-23-2009 11:41
From: Denise Bonetto
There is a reason furries are not allowed in Gor and nothing to do with racism. Gor is based on a set of books which furries did not exist in, if you wonder around themed roleplay areas as a charactor that does fit it disturbes the whole atmosphere.
Oddly, this doesn't seem to bother the "furry gorean" community.

From: someone
You wouldn't be able to go to a medieval roleplay sim as a robot.
I might, and I have certainly been in medieval role-playing sims as a ferret, despite the fact that there is a distinct lack of historical documentation of four foot tall bipedal ferrets. I have been in historical Roman sims without a problem. I put on a historically accurate tunica, no problem, but I didn't have to wear a human masque.
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05-23-2009 11:41
From: Rock Vacirca
I am all in favour of sex in SL, sex is not banned in RL and should not be banned in SL either, however, in RL:

a) Child sex is illegal,
b) Rape, torture, mutilation and murder of women is illegal,
c) Animal sex is illegal

All the above are sick, practiced by sick people, and when their activities are curbed in RL they bring their sick 'games' into SL. I for one do not want them here, and I have every right to say so, and I do. Let the majority decide, not the vociferous few.
Too bad, furries: no more cross-species yiffing--it's *unnatural*. And heaven forfend if one of those species might be a furless human--then it would be *illegal*.

Cripes. Can we please catch up with the last slide before we're pushed even further down the slope?

From: Ponsonby Low
This is an incorrect reading of what the other poster asserted.

The other poster asserted

*****those who are paedophiles said something about ageplay*

This is not equivalent to your reading of what was asserted:

*****those who said something about ageplay are paedophiles


You have given the converse of what the other poster gave.
On the contrary, I don't think there was even the thinnest veiling of the implication that anyone who might stand up against the ageplay ban would be accused of pedophilia within a post or two--with the clear implication that there was something not quite right about anyone who might oppose banning any other fantasy of which the poster does not approve.
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05-23-2009 11:42
From: Shane Roxan

From: Carl Metropolitan

May I present the "slippery slope" in action. Be on notice; they are coming for the furries next.



They have been trying that since the first one showed up... you think the uproar now is bad...


Bloody oath they will, they have fur, this logic dictates they therefore must be havin' sex with other furry things!

Dunno how they will fix that with the r/l furrys I know, who don't usually have fur.
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05-23-2009 11:49
From: Ponsonby Low
This is an incorrect reading of what the other poster asserted.

The other poster asserted

*****those who are paedophiles said something about ageplay*

This is not equivalent to your reading of what was asserted:

*****those who said something about ageplay are paedophiles


You have given the converse of what the other poster gave.
English is not formal logic. "That's what the paedophiles said about their ageplay" carries a distinct implication that the speaker believes (or wants you to believe) the people who were saying X were paedophiles. I certainly saw that implication in it... it's a textbook example of innuendo.
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05-23-2009 11:50
From: Amity Slade
I agree that rape is a complex problem (hence why it should be studied), and think it is pointless to blame any particular group. And I would agree that it is wrong to stereotype individuals based on affliation with a particular group (e.g., bdsm community, or a "cabal" or "pack" of liberal feminists).


If that referred to my term - I did not mean "pack" in that way. I also did not 'stereotype' anyone. Pack is a group - and a group did come in here, members of SLLU.

Some of the group members did sound amazingly alike, but that's as much as I 'stereotyped' anyone. It was an observation, not a statement that "all liberal feminists are like ____" (fill in the blank) which would be a blanket statement/stereotyping. I spoke about four or five screen names posting in these two 'SLLU agenda' threads.
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05-23-2009 11:51
From: Qie Niangao

On the contrary, I don't think there was even the thinnest veiling of the implication that anyone who might stand up against the ageplay ban would be accused of pedophilia within a post or two--with the clear implication that there was something not quite right about anyone who might oppose banning any other fantasy of which the poster does not approve.
Well, I made a post in response to that suggesting that ageplay was less harmful than paedophilia. I don't know if he came back and accused me of being a paedophile... as I said I've missed a lot of messages in this thread.
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05-23-2009 11:57
From: Argent Stonecutter
Well, I made a post in response to that suggesting that ageplay was less harmful than paedophilia. I don't know if he came back and accused me of being a paedophile... as I said I've missed a lot of messages in this thread.
Ashamed to admit that I missed your post. You're a braver ferret than I.
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Melita Magic
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05-23-2009 11:58
In response to Lindal's quite reasonable post:

From: Rock Vacirca
"Everything she does is..." 'she'?? Wow, you really are naive, aren't you? How many of the 'women' posting in this thread would pass a voice verification test? (Now listen to the multitude of reasons they will give for not doing so, - outrage, don't have a mike, who are you to ask, change the subject)


What do *women in this thread* being on mic or not, or being 'real women' or not, have to do with the price of beans? People here are talking about roleplay in Second Life, although you have a way of turning it round to all number of irrelevant and unrelated topics and 'studies'.

And for what it's worth any of those reasons you just ridiculed are perfectly reasonable and others have every right to voice or not to voice. Or are you just generally judgmental and intolerant?

And before you insult me too I am 'really female' and will voice if you insist upon it. Are you going to go to that ridiculous length? Especially as it has *nothing to do with the topic at hand*?

Now if you had said that most of the 'women avatars' are not real life women that would be a tad more relevant, although it still has nothing to do with proving the correlation/causation between consensual VIRTUAL roleplay and real life "silencing of women." And isn't that SLLU's claim? So isn't that the thread topic or core topic at least?

I'm not even going to read your post beyond the first paragraph. I think you have lost the plot (in this thread).

regarding 'anti furry avatars' in Gor sims:

From: Shane Roxan
Well it is racism of sorts, but mostly based on gender (panther vs the city folk etc... )

It's more racism in regards to regions (Say everyone was purple and the people of city 1 had prejudice against city 2 because of their laws)


*quiet voice* But...that isn't...racism.
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05-23-2009 12:01
From: Argent Stonecutter
English is not formal logic. "That's what the paedophiles said about their ageplay" carries a distinct implication that the speaker believes (or wants you to believe) the people who were saying X were paedophiles. I certainly saw that implication in it... it's a textbook example of innuendo.




How easily you dismiss the value of using logic to facilitate clear communication!

So can we take it that you have no problem with anyone taking the converse of any statement you've ever made----anywhere on these Forums or in life for that matter----and publicly claiming that you said that converse and stand by that converse? Since, here, you defend such an action?

(This could be interesting!)
Melita Magic
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05-23-2009 12:10
From: Argent Stonecutter
Have you seen the comic or movie "Fritz the cat"? Have you read the graphic novel "Maus"? How about the book "Who Censored Roger Rabbit" or the movie "Who Killed Roger Rabbit" inspired by it? Using "funny animals" as a metaphor for race has a long history, going back to the middle ages and no doubt earlier.


Fritz the Cat, no. Maus? I believe I have all of Art Spiegelman's books (even ones he edited), and they are all also signed - in person. ;-) "Who Killed Roger Rabbit," yes.

Those are analogies, though, Argent. (And works of art, especially "Maus.";)

Someone else named Robert Crumb. I love him too (although Max creeps a bit), and have many of his comics also, and one signed collection. Bring on the subversives and artists, I say.

But those examples you named of 'funny animals' are analogies or rather, used as analogies to human behavior.

Someone excluding a furry or animal (some Gor sims do not allow animals of the four legged kind either, even Gorean ones; I've visited a variety of Gor sims as OOC observer) is not 'racist' - it's an animal so it is another species not another race of human.

Also I believe to be 'racist' one must believe one's own race is superior, though I'm not completely sure on that definition and it's not really pertinent to the thread...Some allying with the OP(s) opinions have chosen to sandbag with emotional examples such as racism, but it isn't relevant to their main assertion, in my opinion.

/me shuts off the computer for now. Happy Holiday Weekend everyone.
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05-23-2009 12:30
"Do we have special places in RL where it is "ok" to be a racist?"

Yes, the privacy of your home and land.

Also:

"In a rare 9-0 decision, the Supreme Court extended the full protection of the First Amendment to the Internet in Reno v. ACLU, a decision which struck down portions of the 1996 Communications Decency Act, a law intended to outlaw so-called "indecent" online communication (that is, non-obscene material protected by the First Amendment.) The court's decision extended the same Constitutional protections given to books, magazines, films, and spoken expression to materials published on the Internet. Congress tried a second time to regulate the content of the Internet with the Child Online Protection Act (COPA). The Court again ruled that any limitations on the internet were unconstitutional in American Civil Liberties Union v. Ashcroft (2002)."

While the Politically Correct crowd would like to curtail everyone elses actions and speech, who is it that gets to decide what is right, moral, wrong, immoral?

Thus, if you don't like what goes on at someone's private land and they are not breaking the law, then stay away from them.
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05-23-2009 12:32
From: Ponsonby Low
How easily you dismiss the value of using logic to facilitate clear communication!

So can we take it that you have no problem with anyone taking the converse of any statement you've ever made----anywhere on these Forums or in life for that matter----and publicly claiming that you said that converse and stand by that converse? Since, here, you defend such an action?

(This could be interesting!)



The problem with your tireless defense is that she made statements and then denies that her agenda is the same still.

She has had the proof found that she had the agenda, she claims it's not relevant...

So show us where her stated aim on the blog and such is the false reason, because she is asking for something to be banned from SL while posting from the get go she has no agenda...

Which is immediately suspect. Because if she did not have one she wouldn't have had to claim not to have one... or she knew that her agenda would be found and sought to try and prevent it from being brought up.

It's not a very successful tactic to try in this age of google where any and everything you have about yourself online will come back to get you.

So show us where her stated agenda is magically voided by claiming she has none in this thread?
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05-23-2009 12:36
@ Jackie and Amarinthim

Sorry, but I think you have misunderstood where I am coming from. I can see that this post, on its own, could give the wrong impression. Perhaps a little context might help ...
From: spinster Voom

Pets? Oh how sweet of you to spend your time pampering, cherishing and protecting all those "vulnerable" women. Not exactly empowering for them, though, is it?

I am not having a dig at your kink, honestly, as long as it's all consenting adults that's great! It does seem, though, that your kink has coloured your entire world-view (that all women are vulnerable and in need of protection), or perhaps it's the other way round and your kink has grown out of the general way you view women. Perhaps that's why you think nobody else can tell the difference between sexual fantasy and RP and real life? Just trying to understand where you are coming from.

From: Jackie Silverfall
I hate to jump into this thread, but you might look at my profile. Being or having a pet can be an extraordinarily liberating experience for both people

I absolutely agree.
From: Jackie Silverfall
I can guarantee that the RP in many cases in no way reflects the real life attitudes of the players.

Exactly.
From: Jackie Silverfall
To take this particular "kink" and generalize it into a "world view" is a bit narrow, in my opinion.

Couldn't agree more. Yet this is what Rock is doing. He sees women, ALL women, as vulnerable creatures in need of protection from themselves. He puts us all in the same category as children...
From: Rock Vacirca

Is it in all our interests for SL to die to satisfy the 'freedoms' of a sick few?

Please answer this question explicitly: Would you support these freedoms if it meant the demise of SL?

I am 100% behind all the laws we have in Britain that ban the depiction, in whatever form, of the abuse of women or children.

What people do in the privacy of their own home I generally support, but not when it comes to minors, and not when it comes to vunerable women.

Rock

and ...
From: Rock Vacirca
I condone Pet relationships, not Slaves. Huge difference.

As our notecard states, we only pamper in our RP sim. No punishments of any kind. No abuse of any kind will be tolerated.

Slavery is anathema to us in Anubia. Girls come to us willingly, usually from Gor, sick of the humiliation and ill-treatment, and we provide precisely the opposite, merciless pampering, kindness, and affection.


If you are still unsure where I am coming from, please look over my posting history in both of these threads (among many others), but perhaps especially this one:

From: spinster Voom
OP is involved in a campaign to get LL to ban sexually violent RP (at least against women) altogether. I know this because of a notecard I received thru the feminists group advertising said campaign.

I have identified myself as a feminist since my early teens and when I first came out as a Very Kinky Person I tied my brain in knots trying to reconcile my sexuality with my political views. What I think now is (and this is an ongoing process) that everybody has a right to their sexuality no matter how strange or un-PC, as long as what they _actually do_ only involves consenting adults. I will continue to identify as feminist as long as there are women in the world who lack control over their lives or who are oppressed or abused because they are women (and there are plenty of those), but I reject any philosophy that says that I, or anybody else, has to suppress such an important part of themselves in order to be acceptable. That's not freedom, that's just oppression from a different source.

(sorry for the speech, I think that notecard set me off)

this is from p.7 of the other thread and was, incidentally, the first alarm call sounded about this misguided campaign (just saying).

hope you get my drift ... I AM ON YOUR SIDE :)
Sorry to drag up stuff from many pages back but I felt this needed saying.
Thank you for listening.

p.s. if you really want to know, and missed it the first time round ...
From: spinster Voom
As a good old-fashioned masochist, I don't indulge in play in SL as I find the lack of any actual pain a bit of a let-down.

but I have a splendid RL thing going on ;)
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05-23-2009 12:37
From: Shane Roxan

the one it reminds me of wasn't me... but a friend who had been raped by her ex bf.

I overheard the PHD and the assistant DA talking like she was some thing in there and how it would be good copy in the news and an example for pushing an anti-porn ordnance on the city...

They were going to use her as nothing but a mascot, no real compassion... just saw her as a tool for what they wanted.


Interesting reasoning.


Assistant D.A.: This new puppy mill is the fifth we've found this week. It was really horrendous. The dogs were being bred for fighting and treated with extreme sadism to make them aggressive, and those that didn't perform well were shot. Dogs considered no longer useful were being starved and...it was unbelievable. The disease, the sadism.

D.A.: Yes, but if we mention these dogs in our campaign to get a law against such puppy mills, we'll be using them as nothing but mascots.

Assistant D.A.: Obviously we can't mention them, then.

D.A.: I'm afraid not. The puppy mills must be allowed to operate unimpeaded, because it would be just plain WRONG to use the dead, starving and diseased dogs as mascots for our campaign.

Assistant D.A.: Yes, it would certainly be a failure of compassion if we mentioned them.
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An aside concerning the Fur/Gor subplot
05-23-2009 12:40
Gor seems ideally suited for confusing any argument. There may possibly be Goreans who are genuinely anti-furry, but I'd be very surprised if it's at all common.

It's rather my impression that Goreans are just hyper-strict about the roleplay environment. It's not just furries who are commonly banned from Gorean sims, but also nekos, elves, vampires, mechs, winged humans--even humans wearing zippered clothing (which technology never made it to the other side of the sun... or something like that). There are some pretty fanatical Gor "lifestylers", but I doubt many of them are actively prejudiced against people with zippers, and I'm stumped what would be the analog in a zipper-wearer allegory.

It may not be especially smart to have such strict rules about the roleplay environment. It can't help with recruitment, being anything but an "inclusive community" (remember the purported topic of this thread?). But considering what goes on in Gor, inclusiveness wouldn't really seem the biggest problem. I mean, if the visitor to Gor has a problem shedding the fur, wings, and robot prims, probably the mountains full of secret giant golden insect overlords will be a bigger problem. Or the slavery. Or the emoting houseplants.
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