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Kylie Jaxxon
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11-06-2009 05:44
Slightly OT for SL but curious...what is it about guys wanting to slap your ass during the act in RL??

*Someone hurry up and answer before the lock :p
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11-06-2009 05:47
do we? i (as a male) don't recognize this slapping myself, nor have heard about my male friends doing it to their companions..

I guess it's a small percentage of oversexed men.

A normal man, would not just do that, because he knows many women do not prefere this "slapping" at all.. (and it might also feel degrading to them, or even hurting)
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11-06-2009 05:51
clearly you've been naughty, Kylie. :p
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11-06-2009 05:55
I am *NOT* going to post in this thread, because I'll only come out with something about a horse avatar.

.... and that would just stirrup trouble.
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Kylie Jaxxon
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11-06-2009 05:57
From: say Moo
do we? i (as a male) don't recognize this slapping myself, nor have heard about my male friends doing it to their companions..

I guess it's a small percentage of oversexed men.

A normal man, would not just do that, because he knows many women do not prefere this "slapping" at all.. (and it might also feel degrading to them, or even hurting)


Well, maybe I phrased that wrong...just one slap---not slapping throughout ;)
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Kylie Jaxxon
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11-06-2009 05:58
From: 3Ring Binder
clearly you've been naughty, Kylie. :p



lol, first time in a long time ;)

I am happy today :D
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Kylie Jaxxon
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11-06-2009 05:59
From: Sling Trebuchet
I am *NOT* going to post in this thread, because I'll only come out with something about a horse avatar.

.... and that would just stirrup trouble.



LOL ;)
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Ephraim Kappler
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11-06-2009 06:00
I'll slap *any* arse that appeals to my eye and I've had my own butt is slapped, nipped and whacked often by females so it isn't just a guy thing directed at women. Neither is it necessarily a violent thing - more like a hearty gesture of appreciation - and in my experience, a fair number of partners appreciate it. It's not as if we're talking about a donkey punch or something dangerous like that.

Then again, if you're not into it, you're not into it and nothing on earth will explain it. Like any other sexual matter, I guess.
Alvaro Zapatero
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11-06-2009 06:05
I'm not an ass slapper myself.

Sorry I can't be more helpful illuminating this issue.
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Kylie Jaxxon
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11-06-2009 06:08
From: Ephraim Kappler
I'll slap *any* arse that appeals to my eye and I've had my own butt is slapped, nipped and whacked often by females so it isn't just a guy thing directed at women. Neither is it necessarily a violent thing - more like a hearty gesture of appreciation - and in my experience, a fair number of partners appreciate it. It's not as if we're talking about a donkey punch or something dangerous like that.

Then again, if you're not into it, you're not into it and nothing on earth will explain it. Like any other sexual matter, I guess.


I didn't take it as being violent at all, a slap...not a hard slap...I don't think it was even audible. But what is the reason behind it? Is it suppose to benefit the guy or the girl? ;)
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Tiffy Vella
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11-06-2009 06:09
oo..ive just logged off after delivering an arse slap..I'm fairly happy also :)
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11-06-2009 06:10
From: Kylie Jaxxon
Slightly OT for SL but curious...what is it about guys wanting to slap your ass during the act in RL??

*Someone hurry up and answer before the lock :p


*flips through his dog-eared copy of How To Be a Real Guy*

*flips through his dog-eared copy of How To Be a Real Guy again*

Erm.... *raises hand* I can't find that page. I think my book is broken.

*flips through his dog-eared copy of How To Be a Real Guy again*

*flips through his dog-eared copy of How To Be a Real Guy again*
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11-06-2009 06:16
A lil mutual ass slapping is like chicken soup for the soul. :p
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Kylie Jaxxon
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11-06-2009 06:20
Ahhhh....thank you for that, Sable :D

I'm not saying anything is wrong or right about it or whether I enjoyed it or not...just wondering why it's done :p
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11-06-2009 06:24
Can't help you sorry.

Pep (Any sort of violence is anathema to me.)
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Ephraim Kappler
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11-06-2009 06:30
From: Tiffy Vella
oo..ive just logged off after delivering an arse slap..I'm fairly happy also :)

See what I mean? Tinker.

From: Kylie Jaxxon
I didn't take it as being violent at all, a slap...not a hard slap...I don't think it was even audible. But what is the reason behind it? Is it suppose to benefit the guy or the girl? ;)

Both. Likewise the guy or the guy or the girl or the girl or the girl or the guy. You know how it is. It certainly isn't a gender thing but it is a matter of personal taste. Forgive the pun but you're on a hiding to nothing if you hope to get a straighter answer than that.
Kylie Jaxxon
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11-06-2009 06:32
Lol, thanks Ephraim :)
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Isablan Neva
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11-06-2009 06:57
From: Kylie Jaxxon
Slightly OT for SL but curious...what is it about guys wanting to slap your ass during the act in RL??

*Someone hurry up and answer before the lock :p



Answer: they've seen it in porn movies and think this is "how it's done."


(Really, I asked once and the response was "that's what they do in porno movies.";)
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11-06-2009 07:10
They're confusing your ass with a Midnight Mania board?
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Milla Janick
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11-06-2009 07:14
This is clearly a topic demanding further in-world research.
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sable Valentine
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11-06-2009 07:26
From: Milla Janick
This is clearly a topic demanding further in-world research.


LOL as well as more indepth rl research.
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Novis Dyrssen
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11-06-2009 07:28
From: say Moo
A normal man, would not just do that, because he knows many women do not prefere this "slapping" at all.


You have no idea.
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Jig Chippewa
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Join date: 30 Oct 2006
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11-06-2009 07:30
Okay this is my kinda thread!
Men love spanky.
It all about control and being a naughty girl.
also it enhances a man's thingie. They get really aroused after a few spanks and go "grwwoof!" and its all good after that.
Just dont let them get overly enthusiastic or remember wrongs you may have done to them.
Other positions also suggest a few spanks.
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Scylla Rhiadra
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11-06-2009 07:30
"Slapping"? Meh. Not so much (although maybe in the right context . . .)

But "tapping," on the other hand . . . :D
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Jig Chippewa
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11-06-2009 07:32
From: Scylla Rhiadra
"Slapping"? Meh. Not so much (although maybe in the right context . . .)

But "tapping," on the other hand . . . :D


Tapping workss. But get yourself over a man's knees and kinda wiggle and that's when he gets snaffy.
I should warn all of you not to get too carried away with the arousal. I once tried to help a guy really get aroused in my swimming pool. Anyway, I showed him to "jet intake" and he loved it. Unfortunately it was way too strong and after a few minutes we both noticed it was kinda bending his whatsit. Anyway, after about ten minutes he was very limp and we dashed up to the doctor. The poor guy was all moany and worried I'd castarted him and was threatening all type of consequences.
The doc just grabbed him and gave him a whopping dose of B12 (or B14 - I forget which) Anyway, it was a B - and that night he was right as rain. But he slept on the sofa.
That is an absolutely true Jig History.
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