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Blu Cazalet
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10-12-2008 12:17
Ok...suddenly, SL does not work for me. It does a constant freezing up, every 3-4 seconds and in fact, freezes up everything, including my mouse. It makes participating in Sl impossible. Don't ask me about my computer or monitor or anything...I have NO clue as I am not a computer wizard by any means. I just know...one day it works, the next, and from then on out...it doesn't...at all. EVER. I am ready to call it completely quits. In fact, I just uninstalled it altogether! AHHHHHHHHHHHHH...ok...so...the mandatory question...has anyone else just said, forget it? I am DONE????


-Blu- (OH SO DONE)
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Annabelle Babii
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10-12-2008 12:19
Can I have your stuff?
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Novis Dyrssen
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10-12-2008 12:21
Yeah, they have. Usually they come back after a few days of bemoaning the fact that nobody bemoans their leaving. *shrugs*

Get a computer savvy friend then to read out and post your system specs so we could possibly help you. If you don't even want to bother with that... can I have your stuff? :D

Edit: Darn, too late! :p
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Rhaorth Antonelli
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10-12-2008 12:38
those who say they are done and mean it, don't bother advertising it in the forums
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Osprey Therian
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10-12-2008 12:44
Take a break, then come back and try an alternate client. You sound fed up, and I don't blame you, but problem-solving when you are frustrated is usually not productive.
Blu Cazalet
SL 2 RL? CROSSING BORDERS
Join date: 28 Jul 2007
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10-12-2008 12:47
From: Osprey Therian
Take a break, then come back and try an alternate client. You sound fed up, and I don't blame you, but problem-solving when you are frustrated is usually not productive.

Thanks...I will try that...and Rhaorth...I ain't advertising...more like venting...sheesh..you never get fed up???? What are you a saint er something???

-Blu- (looking for a shoulder to vent on!!)
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Rhaorth Antonelli
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10-12-2008 12:51
From: Blu Cazalet
Thanks...I will try that...and Raorth...I ain't advertising...more like venting...sheesh..you never get fed up???? What are you a saint er something???

-Blu- (looking for a shoulder to vent on!!)


welcome to my world
I came here to vent and got blasted for it, you are not alone

venting is one thing, saying you are leaving is another (and if you did not notice, I am not the only one who made a comment pertaining to folks leaving SL)

saint, far from it

and yes I do get fed up (or frustrated or whatever one wants to call it)
however, when I decide to leave a game (as I have done in the past) I just simply... leave
I don't post to the forums that I am leaving

If your post had been along the lines of I am fed up, can't get SL to work, not computer savvy but will do what I can to help someone help me

then that would have been more along the lines of venting (and not telling everyone you are leaving)

after all, your post does say you are leaving, you even uninstalled it, if that is not "advertising" that you are done, then I am sorry and misunderstood

not trying to get into a flame war with you, just saying it how I see it, there was no need for you to get snippy with me.

Good luck with whatever you decide to do, I am not gonna bother to check here again, as you are frustrated and I am sure you will flame something back at me. Neither of us need the headache
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Briana Dawson
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10-12-2008 12:54
From: Blu Cazalet
Ok...suddenly, SL does not work for me. It does a constant freezing up, every 3-4 seconds and in fact, freezes up everything, including my mouse. It makes participating in Sl impossible. Don't ask me about my computer or monitor or anything...I have NO clue as I am not a computer wizard by any means. I just know...one day it works, the next, and from then on out...it doesn't...at all. EVER. I am ready to call it completely quits. In fact, I just uninstalled it altogether! AHHHHHHHHHHHHH...ok...so...the mandatory question...has anyone else just said, forget it? I am DONE????


-Blu- (OH SO DONE)



awww.

You should let someone try and help you with you some tech-talk to see what your system is and maybe any changes you can make.

LL says a lot of random crashes that are not hardware related come from other things installed on your machine.

Let's talk about it and maybe we can figure something out.

Maybe you just need to use an older version like so many others user.
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10-12-2008 12:54
From: Blu Cazalet
Ok...suddenly, SL does not work for me. It does a constant freezing up, every 3-4 seconds and in fact, freezes up everything, including my mouse. It makes participating in Sl impossible. Don't ask me about my computer or monitor or anything...I have NO clue as I am not a computer wizard by any means. I just know...one day it works, the next, and from then on out...it doesn't...at all. EVER. I am ready to call it completely quits. In fact, I just uninstalled it altogether! AHHHHHHHHHHHHH...ok...so...the mandatory question...has anyone else just said, forget it? I am DONE????


-Blu- (OH SO DONE)

yeah, i've been so over-the-top frustrated-to-the-point-of-anger when i can't get something to work that i've undone it, screamed and yelled to anyone who would listen about it and quit it, telling everyone I HATE IT I'M QUITTING! I'M SO DONE!

sure, everyone does that.

then, when i began to remember it fondly, i tried again, with more composure.

cool down and try again. sux tho. i feel bad for ya! good luck! you're normal. ignore the self-righteous lecturers and jsut get over it on your own pace, in your own way... even if it means changing your mind after you've swore to something. bfd. everyone does it, and they are liars if they deny it.
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Briana Dawson
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10-12-2008 12:59
From: Rhaorth Antonelli

Good luck with whatever you decide to do, I am not gonna bother to check here again, as you are frustrated and I am sure you will flame something back at me. Neither of us need the headache.


Not everyone flames back every time.

I understand that you were tromped in that one post, but to be honest that was a concerted effort from a 3rd party site where "help" was specifically requested to come do just that.

I am sorry that happened to you.
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Rhaorth Antonelli
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10-12-2008 13:04
From: Briana Dawson
Not everyone flames back every time.

I understand that you were tromped in that one post, but to be honest that was a concerted effort from a 3rd party site where "help" was specifically requested to come do just that.

I am sorry that happened to you.

I removed the post you quoted as I realized I had another knee jerk reaction and IM'd the OP explaining why my first post was a knee jerk reaction (decided best to keep it private)

but did not delete the first post as it was already quoted, thought I deleted the second one quick enough LOL guess I didn't
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FD Spark
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Join date: 30 Oct 2006
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10-12-2008 13:06
Blu, I totally get your frustration if your computer is as old as mine
the only real recommendation most will get is say you need to add
more memory or get newer one but for some of us this is just
not option.
I had similar problem for few days.
This is what I did after two days of nonstop can't get in for more
then few seconds.
At login screen before even logging in I went to preference in graphics I
turned every down on lowest I could.
I turned off media settings off all the audio and media settings.
In general tab I cleared my cache.
Close login screen.
Re-open, hopefully it will say something like clearing cache if not
restart your entire computer and then try again hopefully it will
say now its clearing cache.
Login and hope it worked. It worked for me but it was because
of something with media settings and my low ram computer.
Later I was able to turn back on the audio to listen to music but
it tends to cut off a whole lot on my computer.
I am no computer expert or even close but I have learned few things over
time.
If you want to know what your computer specs are you can click
the about second life tab and it should tell you what is on your computer too.
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3Ring Binder
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10-12-2008 13:09
From: Rhaorth Antonelli
I removed the post you quoted as I realized I had another knee jerk reaction and IM'd the OP explaining why my first post was a knee jerk reaction (decided best to keep it private)

but did not delete the first post as it was already quoted, thought I deleted the second one quick enough LOL guess I didn't

you mean this one? post #7 at the time.
From: Rhaorth Antonelli
welcome to my world
I came here to vent and got blasted for it, you are not alone

venting is one thing, saying you are leaving is another (and if you did not notice, I am not the only one who made a comment pertaining to folks leaving SL)

saint, far from it

and yes I do get fed up (or frustrated or whatever one wants to call it)
however, when I decide to leave a game (as I have done in the past) I just simply... leave
I don't post to the forums that I am leaving

If your post had been along the lines of I am fed up, can't get SL to work, not computer savvy but will do what I can to help someone help me

then that would have been more along the lines of venting (and not telling everyone you are leaving)

after all, your post does say you are leaving, you even uninstalled it, if that is not "advertising" that you are done, then I am sorry and misunderstood

not trying to get into a flame war with you, just saying it how I see it, there was no need for you to get snippy with me.

Good luck with whatever you decide to do, I am not gonna bother to check here again, as you are frustrated and I am sure you will flame something back at me. Neither of us need the headache

true it was a little harsh, but everyone has a right to their own opinion.
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10-12-2008 13:18
When I get that frustrated, I log out for a while, go kill some pixels in other games and otherwise, do something other than bash my head into the wall.

I think when you love something so much, it's occasionally gonna get on your nerves.
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Rhaorth Antonelli
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10-12-2008 13:21
3ring don;t you think what you just did was a little over the top?

the post was removed because I did not wish to upset the OP any further, by you posting it, all you have done is just shown how spiteful you can be

why in god's name you thought it would be a good idea to copy and post a deleted post is beyond me

are you just trying to be nasty to me? are you trying to hurt the OP
are you trying to stir up some drama?

all you have done is shown you for who you really are

to the OP I apologized in the PM and I apologize here now

I am sorry I said those words, I tried to take them back but someone felt it was better to put them back here (against my wishes and it has been reported)

I am sorry about it all

(and yes I checked in again, so sue me)
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Blu Cazalet
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10-12-2008 13:22
From: 3Ring Binder
you mean this one? post #7 at the time.

true it was a little harsh, but everyone has a right to their own opinion.


Naw, Rhaorth, I read the original one you wrote..but it's ok...I don't wanna flame you...and I even understand where you were coming from to some degree. It's cool. I am more calm now :). I have decided to try to reinstall the evil, addictive program from the depths of he....oh...nm...and see if maybe I had a corrupted version first....then...I will try to recruit someone with a bit more computer knowledge then I have..which is not hard to find...my kids for example. Sigh....I think I need a rehab house for SL.

-Blu- (feeling better)
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Tarina Sewell
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10-12-2008 13:23
From: Rhaorth Antonelli
those who say they are done and mean it, don't bother advertising it in the forums



I'm done with it! No Im not.. Wait yes I am.. Oh nvm no Im not.. Omg Yes I am! No no wait... ok.. No Im done! I will sign on now on my kids pc.. cause of course mine is funked..
Rhaorth Antonelli
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10-12-2008 13:25
From: Blu Cazalet
Naw, Rhaorth, I read the original one you wrote..but it's ok...I don't wanna flame you...and I even understand where you were coming from to some degree. It's cool. I am more calm now :). I have decided to try to reinstall the evil, addictive program from the depths of he....oh...nm...and see if maybe I had a corrupted version first....then...I will try to recruit someone with a bit more computer knowledge then I have..which is not hard to find...my kids for example. Sigh....I think I need a rehab house for SL.

-Blu- (feeling better)



I am sorry Blu, that I said the things I did, hopefully you saw the PM I sent and you understand why I reacted the way I did

I wish you the best with getting it to work

I am sure someone who has the know how, and answers will be along to help you

as for whether you read the original one or not, still doesn't make it right that 3ring copied and posted a deleted post

that is so wrong on so many levels and so obvious that she was trying to make a dig at me (why else do it?)

I would never dream of copying a post someone else deleted sheesh (especially after comments were made as to why it was removed)

I am not really surprised, but at the same time I am.
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Blu Cazalet
SL 2 RL? CROSSING BORDERS
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10-12-2008 13:31
From: Rhaorth Antonelli
I am sorry Blu, that I said the things I did, hopefully you saw the PM I sent and you understand why I reacted the way I did

I wish you the best with getting it to work

I am sure someone who has the know how, and answers will be along to help you

as for whether you read the original one or not, still doesn't make it right that 3ring copied and posted a deleted post

that is so wrong on so many levels and so obvious that she was trying to make a dig at me (why else do it?)

I would never dream of copying a post someone else deleted sheesh (especially after comments were made as to why it was removed)

I am not really surprised, but at the same time I am.


Well, ya know...I been around these forums awhile and tend to read past most of 3 Rings posts as usually her sole intention is to be a mixer...imo...so no worries. And yeah...read the PM, and sent one back...it's all good hon.

-Blu- (The clouds are lifting)
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10-12-2008 13:31
Such an odd and unexpected turn.

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Briana Dawson
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10-12-2008 13:33
Hey Blu...

Can you do a full windows re-install on your computer and keep the software you install trimmed down to see how SL runs?
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10-12-2008 13:34
From: Blu Cazalet
Don't ask me about my computer or monitor or anything...I have NO clue as I am not a computer wizard by any means.
Don't worry! Here is an easy-peasy way to find out what your specs are and how they work with SL:
1. Go to "Can you RUN it?" at http://www.systemrequirementslab.com/referrer/srtest.
2. Select Second Life from the drop down menu.
3. Click the button.
4. Copy and paste the results here.
5. HOPEFULLY, we can help you. :D
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Blu Cazalet
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10-12-2008 13:35
From: Briana Dawson
Hey Blu...

Can you do a full windows re-install on your computer and keep the software you install trimmed down to see how SL runs?


Oh jeez....I am afraid I don't speak that language! LOL...No, I know what you said...just no idea where to start...my kids have gone fishing...lol...I will have to wait til later to ask them to decipher.

And yeah...a very strange turn indeed.

-Blu-(la, la land)
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10-12-2008 13:40
It might be just easier because with some computers they have built in software
with weird names that will not let you uninstall them.
Removing your current OS in windows and reinstalling for someone who doesn't know very much about computers is totally dangerous things to do.
I suggest if you can figure out create guest section in login on
your computer with minimal things running too and only use Second Life.
I heard it works better that way but I haven't really noticed difference when
you got low memory computer but some of my friends who computer engineers
swear by it.
It takes time to figure out things and how to problem solve and I totally
get why some of us don't want to do it who aren't computer savvy but
eventually your sort of forced too if you do anything with computers.
One thing I figured out after using computers for bit is with certain
things be it Second Life or other things is their is patterns when things
don't work. Sometimes the patterns don't make sense and can be bit
intimidating sometimes its experimenting with what resolves the problem.
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Briana Dawson
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10-12-2008 13:40
From: Blu Cazalet
Oh jeez....I am afraid I don't speak that language! LOL...No, I know what you said...just no idea where to start...my kids have gone fishing...lol...I will have to wait til later to ask them to decipher.


Oh wow Blu, you remind me of myself in 2003. Everyone held my hand and walked me through everything. I guess people still do for somethings :p I am not computer savvy or SL tech savvy, but I get by and eventually you will too if you do not give up. ;)

I am sure someone around here knows enough about Windows and is helpful enough to walk you through some sort of help.
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