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Argent Stonecutter
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11-19-2009 13:13
From: Talarus Luan
I know! That, or FIX them so that they are more enjoyable. :D
Remember Melee and Wizard, and The Fantasy Trip?

I modded the traveller skills and weapons tables for the melee and wizard rules and characters. That made things SO much better.
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Talarus Luan
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11-19-2009 13:20
From: Argent Stonecutter
Remember Melee and Wizard, and The Fantasy Trip?

I modded the traveller skills and weapons tables for the melee and wizard rules and characters. That made things SO much better.


Yeah, our main Traveller GM pretty much had gutted part of the game system and substituted his own for it. I don't know if it was from another game or not, as I was just getting into SOMETHING OTHER THAN AD&D at the time. <.<

Later on, someone tried to run a Traveller game using the core rules from the small books, and it didn't work out so well. I think they cleaned up a bit when they made the big sourcebook version some years later. I have it somewhere in storage.
RockAndRoll Michigan
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11-19-2009 15:01
From: Yumi Murakami
And that's the practical problem. As I discovered, what I found is that people were being pulled into groups where they _didn't _really like what was going on, because they couldn't possibly make a group interesting enough to compete with the advantages that others offered. Thus you ended up with the situation - and this was with a particular RP sim, which I won't name for obvious reasons - where up to 75% of the people involved resented it, because they didn't like the way things were done there, but had no ability to compete because in order to do so they'd have to pay for a sim, build it from scratch, etc - when most of the really good such builders and participant were already "settling" for the existing one. And let's face it - if you're having to "settle" for a group you don't like, you aren't going to leave it in order to "settle" for another group you don't like run by someone else who didn't like settling!


Nobody has to settle for membership in any group. They remain in that group through their own choice, 100% of them. This is very much a straw man argument on your part.
Yumi Murakami
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11-19-2009 16:38
From: RockAndRoll Michigan
Nobody has to settle for membership in any group. They remain in that group through their own choice, 100% of them. This is very much a straw man argument on your part.


You're arguing that they can just walk away and do nothing. Many do not want to do that, and therefore settle for a non-ideal group.
Talarus Luan
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11-19-2009 16:43
From: Yumi Murakami
You're arguing that they can just walk away and do nothing.


No, they can CHOOSE to walk away, and do SOMETHING ELSE. OR they can CHOOSE to walk away and do "nothing". Why do you ALWAYS have to assume the worst possible choice is the ONLY possible choice (and argue that it isn't even a choice)?

From: someone
Many do not want to do that, and therefore settle for a non-ideal group.


Again, you completely missed the point.

They still CHOSE to remain, to SETTLE for a "non-ideal" group.
Yumi Murakami
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11-19-2009 17:01
From: Talarus Luan
Again, you need to get out more and collect more evidence before rendering such judgments.


How would you know when I had gotten out enough?

From: someone

That's not how delayed gratification works. Delayed gratification doesn't mean you ignore feedback and fail to improve. It means you don't expect a reward until AFTER you've put in a requisite effort, rather than getting the reward and putting no effort into getting it afterwards (a la "instant" gratification).


Exactly. So delayed gratification people will put a lot of effort into _doing the wrong thing_, but won't change immediately because a little more effort might be necessary.

From: someone

Me? If I found a cool RP place, I'd talk with the owner to find out why it was empty, and then make him a deal to bring in an RP group to occupy it, probably even paying something to help sustain it, as long as we could use it to RP "our way", at least to some degree. I would then get some friends together that I know who might be interested in that kind of RP, and get a group started to use it.


Yes, that's because you have the ability to bring in a group. Once I did ask a sim owner about that, and I offered to do what I could, but nobody ever turned up to the sim and anyone else was already in their own RPs, so I couldn't do anything.

From: someone

I am not going to say this again. YES, I EFFING DO KNOW THEY MADE CHOICES, BECAUSE EVERY DAMN PERSON IN THE UNIVERSE MAKES CHOICES ABOUT EVERYTHING THEY DO OR DON'T DO.


Nobody even really understands exactly what choice IS.

From: someone

Talent can be acquired/learned. Oh, did you mean "they are too lazy to acquire talent" amongst the myriad of other excuses for such anti- or non-social behavior? If so, then too bad for them, then; that is their own problem.


You're the first person I've ever met in SL who has said that. Pretty much EVERYONE I've ever asked about it - and it isn't a small number - has said that talent cannot be taught nor learned.

From: someone
So a person's GENES are responsible, now?


That's where talent lies.

From: someone
EVERYTHING starts out small and insignificant. NOTHING is created perfect and complete in an instant. I know that is a serious blow to instant-gratification types out there, but tough noogies; that is life. Suck it up and put forth the effort to be a winner, and you'll have a shot at it. Sit back and whine about how it is too hard, and you'll ALWAYS be a loser.


Everything starts out small and insignificant, but it doesn't necessarily start out in the shadow of something big and significant.

From: someone
Thank goodness I am such a "cool kid", then, eh? :rolleyes:


Yes!

From: someone
Ah, selfishness. Yeah, I am not surprised. Why should anyone bother to help someone else achieve something that everyone wants if they can't do it by themselves? Well, except to actually achieve something else that everyone wants, INCLUDING themselves. So, no one bothers because they can't see past their own unenlightened self-importance. Natch.


It's not "that everyone wants". Probably, of those 75% of people, every single one of them has a different idea about how it should ideally work.

From: someone
If something is important enough to bother, someone will choose to bother. If it isn't, then they will choose otherwise, and shouldn't expect to reap the results of choosing to bother in that case. Most obstacles can be worked around, given time and consideration.


So you can "work around" another person's choices?

From: someone

But, they aren't involved. Even assuming you can get such a magic AI to work in the first place, someone watching it interact in their place does nothing for them. What happens when they switch off the AI? Are they going to just parrot the responses? What? You think people won't notice that they've been talking with an AI the whole time when all of a sudden the behavior changes from what appeared to be an experienced pro to that of a newbie?


Well, in that case the AI would have to continue, but modifying the user's typing instead of replacing it entirely.

From: someone
Besides, I have to ask, WHO has ever done that? That's, like, such an extreme edge case that it would almost have to be a singular event. If someone said to me how great it was to RP Dragons in SL, and then took me to a HUMAN night club, then just ran the dance machine for a few hours to exemplify that, I'd conclude the person either didn't know 1) what RP is, 2) what Dragon RP is, or 3) was playing a stupid prank on me. No matter which it was, I would likely not interact with that person again, without some other redeeming quality.


As I said, there's a thread on rpg.net where someone posts how great he found rpg.net for roleplaying a ninja, and it turns out he was going regular clubbing and calling it an "undercover mission". I've met other people who say similar things, usually along the lines of "I _am_ an X, whatever I am doing".
Yumi Murakami
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11-19-2009 17:03
From: Talarus Luan
No, they can CHOOSE to walk away, and do SOMETHING ELSE. OR they can CHOOSE to walk away and do "nothing". Why do you ALWAYS have to assume the worst possible choice is the ONLY possible choice (and argue that it isn't even a choice)?


Because they want to do what they want to do. And it's not right for their choice to be "do it someone else's way, or don't do it".
Talarus Luan
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11-19-2009 17:06
From: Yumi Murakami
Because they want to do what they want to do.


That's right. They WANT to do what they WANT to do, and CHOOSE to do so.

From: someone
And it's not right for their choice to be "do it someone else's way, or don't do it".


Beyond the fact that it has NOTHING to do with being "right", IT IS NOT THEIR ONLY CHOICE.
Argent Stonecutter
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11-19-2009 17:43
Talarus wrote that delayed gratification doesn't mean you don't observe, learn, and act. You responded with:

From: Yumi Murakami
So delayed gratification people will put a lot of effort into _doing the wrong thing_, but won't change immediately because a little more effort might be necessary.
Delayed gratification doesn't mean "you don't act". It doesn't mean "you don't change".
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RockAndRoll Michigan
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11-19-2009 21:45
From: Yumi Murakami
You're arguing that they can just walk away and do nothing. Many do not want to do that, and therefore settle for a non-ideal group.


Nope. I'm not arguing anything of the sort. I'm saying those who are not happy with their membership in a specific group are welcome to walk away from that group and either find or form another group that is more to their liking.

Once you have joined a group there isn't a Linden Lab employee standing next to your computer with a gun to your head ordering you to remain in that group or die. You are not forced to stay in that group. There are absolute no ties whatever keeping you in that group you have "settled for" that are not of your own making and of your own choosing.

By remaining in a group, you do choose to be there. By remaining in a crowd where you feel you are being ignored, you choose to remain there. By leaving one of those groups or crowds and doing nothing, it is your choice to do nothing.

You can continue to pretend to be the victim to justify your reasons for choosing to do nothing, or you can take some proactive steps and create your own place in the world. Earlier you asked a question of how long do I do this? The answer to that is simple. For the rest of your life, same as the rest of us, including Talarus and Argent.
Talarus Luan
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11-19-2009 21:52
From: Yumi Murakami
How would you know when I had gotten out enough?


After you have actually acknowledged that things exist outside of your worldview.

From: someone
Exactly. So delayed gratification people will put a lot of effort into _doing the wrong thing_, but won't change immediately because a little more effort might be necessary.


You're not listening, again. (See Argent's response as to why)

From: someone
Yes, that's because you have the ability to bring in a group. Once I did ask a sim owner about that, and I offered to do what I could, but nobody ever turned up to the sim and anyone else was already in their own RPs, so I couldn't do anything.


I don't have any more ability than you or anyone else does to bring in a group. I would simply try, regardless of the outcome. Failing that, if it was important to me, I would still try again, after changing something, likely learned from the previous failure(s).

From: someone
Nobody even really understands exactly what choice IS.


If nobody = everyone else but you, then you're probably right.

From: someone
You're the first person I've ever met in SL who has said that. Pretty much EVERYONE I've ever asked about it - and it isn't a small number - has said that talent cannot be taught nor learned.


You misunderstand. Talent is a natural ability that someone has. The vast majority of talents are untrained. That means you have to train them for them to develop, and that requires both learning and practice. The vast majority of humans have similar capacity to develop just about any kind of talent ever expressed by another human being. There will always be a few superlatives in each type and category of talent, but the vast majority of humans can be happily competent and functional in most any of them.

For example: I am not an artist. I "can't" paint or draw. Well, no, I haven't been taught or trained to paint or draw. If I learned and practiced, I am certain I COULD paint or draw. It isn't for a lack of talent, but a lack of refinement of said talent. I may never be a Picasso or a Da Vinci, at least with a paintbrush, but I do believe I could do decent to nice work, if I set my mind to it.

I don't buy into the dogma about how people "can't do X", because they lack "talent". The vast majority of the time, the talent is sitting right there in them, waiting to be discovered; they simply haven't practiced or learned enough to refine it YET. Another example: When I was in high school, I was graded harshly by an overbearing twit of a composition teacher who basically told me I would never be able to write anything of substance because my papers were "so bad". It wasn't until college where I had an AWESOME composition professor that I actually learned the truth of the matter that gave me a reason to TRY to develop the writing talent that he saw in me.

As such, for those who tell you that you can't do X unless you have "talent" to do X, to hell with them. TRY ANYWAY. Why let someone else dictate your life and ruin a shot at happiness because of their own limited (and often grossly incorrect) beliefs?

From: someone
That's where talent lies.


If so, it is in the same genes the vast majority of humans have.

From: someone
Everything starts out small and insignificant, but it doesn't necessarily start out in the shadow of something big and significant.


So? Step out of the shadows.

Nothing is ever so large and significant that it casts a shadow over the whole universe. If that were true, there would only ever be one of anything.

From: someone
It's not "that everyone wants". Probably, of those 75% of people, every single one of them has a different idea about how it should ideally work.


You said "everyone wants" something better than that for which they are currently "settling". If they can all quantify what it is they want which they aren't getting, and agree to it, then either the game owner can change it, or someone can go make another game which provides it.

Everything is a trade-off. The only place where you live your dreams is, well, in your dreams. Reality forces you to cut corners from your dreams. Sharing with other people forces you to cut corners from your dreams. That said, there is obviously a limited amount of corner-cutting that is tolerable to you, and another amount of it which is likely tolerable to any-size group of people. If the current "game" is not optimal for the group, and someone comes up with one that is, one that cuts less corners for everyone involved, then they can/should try to make it happen.

From: someone
So you can "work around" another person's choices?


Easily! As far as virtual worlds go, their choices aren't my choices; if I choose not to subject myself to them, they have no effect on me. I'm not talking about choices which control their domain, either (like ignoring/banning me).

From: someone
Well, in that case the AI would have to continue, but modifying the user's typing instead of replacing it entirely.


Well, I wish you (or whomever) the best of luck in its development. In the meantime, I'll just stick to the old-fashioned way that works just fine, and has for tens of thousands of years.

From: someone
As I said, there's a thread on rpg.net where someone posts how great he found rpg.net for roleplaying a ninja, and it turns out he was going regular clubbing and calling it an "undercover mission". I've met other people who say similar things, usually along the lines of "I _am_ an X, whatever I am doing".


So? If his activities aren't your bag, do something else with someone else.
Yumi Murakami
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11-20-2009 14:22
From: Talarus Luan
After you have actually acknowledged that things exist outside of your worldview.


Oh, I do. But I won't accept the argument "it might be that way for you, but it isn't for others". That can be applied to pretty much _any_ argument; and, if it's that way for me, then chances are it's so for a number of other people too.

From: someone

You're not listening, again. (See Argent's response as to why)


I think you're misunderstanding, though. Person A wants instant gratification, but person B will delay by 3 months. Both of them try to achieve something, and both (unknown to them) are actually using a wrong approach that will never work.

Person A immediately notices the absence of gratification, and might consider changing. Person B, on the other hand, wasn't expecting any gratification until 3 months pass, so they will wait 3 months before considering a change.

From: someone

I don't have any more ability than you or anyone else does to bring in a group. I would simply try, regardless of the outcome. Failing that, if it was important to me, I would still try again, after changing something, likely learned from the previous failure(s).


You do have more ability than I, certainly.

From: someone

If nobody = everyone else but you, then you're probably right.


No, NOBODY understands choice. Philosophers have debated the questions of choice and free will for thousands of years and nobody has resolved anything; scientists have no idea how choice even _could_ exist, given that the brain is a physical system. Most people's meaning of the word "choice" is driven by political self-interest rather than any actual understanding.

From: someone
There will always be a few superlatives in each type and category of talent, but the vast majority of humans can be happily competent and functional in most any of them.


Which has the problem that once one superlative person has moved into the field you're interested in, you can't compete, no matter what you do.

From: someone
As such, for those who tell you that you can't do X unless you have "talent" to do X, to hell with them. TRY ANYWAY. Why let someone else dictate your life and ruin a shot at happiness because of their own limited (and often grossly incorrect) beliefs?


Many do, and many of those play SL. I also notice that you didn't mention this point on any thread where this claim about talent was used to block my requests for help.

From: someone
So? Step out of the shadows.


You can't. Everyone's paying attention to the existing large place, because.. there's a crowd there.

From: someone
You said "everyone wants" something better than that for which they are currently "settling". If they can all quantify what it is they want which they aren't getting, and agree to it, then either the game owner can change it, or someone can go make another game which provides it.


No, because every one of them has a _different answer_ to what they want that they aren't getting.

From: someone

Everything is a trade-off. The only place where you live your dreams is, well, in your dreams. Reality forces you to cut corners from your dreams. Sharing with other people forces you to cut corners from your dreams.


.. Unless you're the "cool kid" who's running the sim..

From: someone
So? If his activities aren't your bag, do something else with someone else.


And sooner or later the someone elses run out.
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