AR this person or what?

based on what I've watched a few female friends go through, I'm kind of wondering if the rule is "if a women is attracted to a jerk, odds are he's a guy".

You know, Argent and Pep, it sometimes happens - oh so rarely - but SOMETIMES men make bad choices too.

PS Ah yes, just remembered that I can only speak for the straight guys.

Poor buggers.

LOL I am whip smart this am. You must admit Pep that wit and sensibility are my forte on forum. What would you do without me??

Despair less at people's lack of self-awareness?

Pep (It's Friday; surely you can do better. )

based on what I've watched a few female friends go through, I'm kind of wondering if the rule is "if a women is attracted to a guy, odds are he's a jerk".

And being told "yeh, you told me so" and watching them latch on to another jerk...

[...]
Oh, was there a man (but where shall I find
Good-sense and good-nature so equally joined?)
Would value his pleasure, contribute to mine;
Not meanly would boast, nor would lewdly design,
Nor over severe, yet not stupidly vain,
For I would have the power, tho' not give the pain.

III

No pedant, yet learned; nor rake-helly gay,
Or laughing, because he has nothing to say;
To all my whole sex obliging and free,
Yet ne'er be he fond of any but me;
In public preserve the decorum that's just,
And shew in his eyes he is true to his trust;
Then rarely approach, and respectfully bow,
But not fulsomely pert, or foppishly low.

IV

But when the long hours of public are past,
And we meet with champagne and a chicken at last,
May ev'ry fond pleasure that moment endear;
Be banish'd afar both discretion and fear!
Forgetting or scorning the airs of the crowd,
He may cease to be formal, and I to be proud,
Till lost in the joy, we confess that we live,
And he may be rude, and yet I may forgive.

V

And that my delight may be solidly fixed,
Let the friend and the lover be handsomely mixed,
In whose tender bosom my soul may confide,
Whose kindness can soothe me, whose counsel can guide,
From such a dear lover as here I describe,
No danger should fright me, no millions should bribe;
But till this astonishing creature I know
As I long have liv'd chaste, I will keep myself so.

So basically i was seeing this guy in secondlife and i dumped him because he was never around so in retaliation he wrote some pretty nasty stuff in his profile

Pigs, really. They're all pigs . . .

Or ferrets . . .

Screw it, I am gonna AR everyone in this thread, just because.

I hope the Lindens aren't busy.

I am a Lion. RRRWWWAAAOOLLLL

LOL

If I had a dime for every time I've heard THAT one, or variations thereof, I'd be able to buy Zindra outright . . .

I wouldn't be so hard on the poor guy.

Remembering a few exchanges with the OP in the past.....poor guy has already had more than his fair share of punishment......guaranteed. Give him a week or two to shake it off and take him out for a beer.

More important, Dove, is that you should look inside yourself and try and work out your own inadequacies; is your taste and perception so bad that you thought this guy was your type? Or do you express yourself in such a way in sl that your opportunities to make friends are limited, so that you find yourself taking obviously unsuccesful chances on potentially deranged personalities?

I think that you need to take stock of what you are expecting of others in sl, take a little timeout to look more carefully at your interactions with others, and take more time before you commit yourself to anything more than a superficial relationship.

Pep (notes that we haven't heard the other side of the argument either, although he doesn't think he wants to.)

.poor guy has already had more than his fair share of punishment......guaranteed.