Welcome to the Second Life Forums Archive

These forums are CLOSED. Please visit the new forums HERE

Is it just me..

Seven Okelli
last days of pompeii
Join date: 4 Dec 2008
Posts: 2,300
09-28-2009 11:41
Relationships aren't simple, and after they've come apart they are even less so.

Nobody knows what happens between two people except for those two. The rest of us just guess and have theories.
Smith Peel
Smif v2.0
Join date: 10 Jan 2005
Posts: 1,597
09-28-2009 11:43
From: Seven Okelli
Yeah, but, both of you are *assuming* a lot. And I think you both made your point already.


A nerve was hit. It's nothing personal.
_____________________
Smith Peel
Smif v2.0
Join date: 10 Jan 2005
Posts: 1,597
09-28-2009 11:45
From: Czari Zenovka
The day's still young ;)


LOL ;)
_____________________
Seven Okelli
last days of pompeii
Join date: 4 Dec 2008
Posts: 2,300
09-28-2009 11:46
From: Smith Peel
A nerve was hit. It's nothing personal.


Yeah, well, hugs to you, too, then.
Smith Peel
Smif v2.0
Join date: 10 Jan 2005
Posts: 1,597
09-28-2009 11:51
From: Seven Okelli
Yeah, well, hugs to you, too, then.


Thanks, Seven.
_____________________
spinster Voom
Registered User
Join date: 14 Jun 2007
Posts: 1,069
09-28-2009 12:06
From: Lindal Kidd
They do. The good ones, anyway. What makes it difficult is they often have problems expressing their feelings clearly. They may be hurt, but they can't say exactly WHY they feel hurt, sometimes even to themselves. All they know is that they're unhappy.

Closely related to this, lots of men find it difficult to express affection without sex. All that chaste, just-a-cuddle stuff can seem a bit unmanly.
_____________________
From: Rioko Bamaisin
Grunting is hard:(
Mickey Vandeverre
See you Inworld
Join date: 7 Dec 2006
Posts: 2,542
09-28-2009 12:12
Dang. There sure are a lot of generalizations and 50 year old stereotypes being tossed about in this thread.
Smith Peel
Smif v2.0
Join date: 10 Jan 2005
Posts: 1,597
09-28-2009 12:18
From: spinster Voom
Closely related to this, lots of men find it difficult to express affection without sex. All that chaste, just-a-cuddle stuff can seem a bit unmanly.


Well and cuddling is boner-producing :( LOLz

(Cuddle me after sex for maximum effect ;) )
_____________________
Rhonda Huntress
Kitteh Herder
Join date: 21 Dec 2008
Posts: 1,823
09-28-2009 12:20
From: Mickey Vandeverre
Dang. There sure are a lot of generalizations and 50 year old stereotypes being tossed about in this thread.

I blame it on the men :D
Mickey Vandeverre
See you Inworld
Join date: 7 Dec 2006
Posts: 2,542
09-28-2009 12:22
From: Rhonda Huntress
I blame it on the men :D


Yeah - evidently a few of them started their "explorations" in 1950.
Fifafan Schoonhoven
Registered User
Join date: 12 Dec 2007
Posts: 55
09-28-2009 12:22
From: Smith Peel


(Cuddle me after sex for maximum effect ;) )



Cuddling after sex? Isn't that when we're supposed to go catch the late show on the telly? Along with a smoke and a beer.................
Smith Peel
Smif v2.0
Join date: 10 Jan 2005
Posts: 1,597
09-28-2009 12:22
From: Rhonda Huntress
I blame it on the men :D


And let me guess... if we disagree, we ain't gettin' any? :D
_____________________
spinster Voom
Registered User
Join date: 14 Jun 2007
Posts: 1,069
09-28-2009 12:23
From: Mickey Vandeverre
Dang. There sure are a lot of generalizations and 50 year old stereotypes being tossed about in this thread.

Well then I must have just dated a lot of stereotypes :p (most of them younger than 50 tho). Vive la difference, I always say!
_____________________
From: Rioko Bamaisin
Grunting is hard:(
Smith Peel
Smif v2.0
Join date: 10 Jan 2005
Posts: 1,597
09-28-2009 12:28
From: Fifafan Schoonhoven
Cuddling after sex? Isn't that when we're supposed to go catch the late show on the telly?


Telly? Is that the thing that rots your brain that you can't click on?

From: Fifafan Schoonhoven
Along with a smoke and a beer.................


Don't smoke (one or two stogies a year doesn't count) and hardly drink. I'm all about cuddling... and more sex after that :D
_____________________
spinster Voom
Registered User
Join date: 14 Jun 2007
Posts: 1,069
09-28-2009 12:29
From: Fifafan Schoonhoven
Cuddling after sex? Isn't that when we're supposed to go catch the late show on the telly? Along with a smoke and a beer.................

Do what the hell you want, they'll be snoring their head off :D Oh ... hang on ... are you the guy?
_____________________
From: Rioko Bamaisin
Grunting is hard:(
Smith Peel
Smif v2.0
Join date: 10 Jan 2005
Posts: 1,597
09-28-2009 12:33
From: spinster Voom
Do what the hell you want, they'll be snoring their head off :D Oh ... hang on ... are you the guy?


LMAO :D
_____________________
Lindal Kidd
Dances With Noobs
Join date: 26 Jun 2007
Posts: 8,371
09-28-2009 12:46
From: Smith Peel
..Don't smoke (one or two stogies a year doesn't count) and hardly drink. I'm all about cuddling... and more sex after that :D


Are you a woman in RL? :D
_____________________
It's still My World and My Imagination! So there.
Lindal Kidd
1 2 3 4