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Explicit Adult Chat on Mainland? & Other Worries Re: Lax Adult Content Restrictions

Belle Loll
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07-05-2009 15:39
From: Jig Chippewa
Thanks for your concern :)
I agree, I do take it personally. The trouble is things like forums are read EVERYWHERE and disseminate opinions that can be very dangerous and devious. It seems an odd habit to state one thing in a forum and be another person in real. Most people who read these threads for information or ideas must really come away from here shaking their heads at bigotry that is openly displayed.


Have you ever had to give a speech in front of a lot of people or have been in a play on stage and had terrible stage fright? And had someone tell you to imagine everyone in the audience is naked...thinking that will help you not be nervous?

That is how I look at some of the posts in forums. (NOT imagine them naked lol:) See the sad thing is most bigots don't even realize that is what they are. They either had it instilled into them from birth from their own upbringing and/or have never learned to open their minds. This is a sad thing and when I read mean, hurtful, spiteful and just plain stupidity on any forum...I imagine a poor lonely/angry/sad soul sitting behind their keyboard. I'm sure not all are that way at all...but it makes it easy for me to just ignore or not even read posts like that. It's not worth the time it takes to get upset.

I associate with cancer surviviors, people suffering with cancer, those who have loved ones (husbands, wives, partners, children, & friends) suffering, dying or dealing with cancer everyday of their lives. Cancer has no bigotry or prejudices... it doesn't care where you come from, what language you speak or what color your skin is. These people, with their strength, faith, hope, sadness and despair... make me look at life differently.

There are too many wonderful people in this world to listen to or read about and/or admire and remember. Don't let those poor, sad souls get you down. It really is not worth getting upset about... compared to life itself.
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07-05-2009 16:33
From: Jig Chippewa
Thanks for your concern :)
I agree, I do take it personally. The trouble is things like forums are read EVERYWHERE and disseminate opinions that can be very dangerous and devious. It seems an odd habit to state one thing in a forum and be another person in real. Most people who read these threads for information or ideas must really come away from here shaking their heads at bigotry that is openly displayed.

sorry for all that Jig..it was my fault for even bringing the subject up..
i kind of felt i had to say something when the OP mentioned the western founding and calling people anti-American ect..
I should have known better i guess than to even mention that subject..I'm sorry you ended up taking the brunt of it all..
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07-05-2009 17:02
From: Ceka Cianci
sorry for all that Jig..it was my fault for even bringing the subject up..
i kind of felt i had to say something when the OP mentioned the western founding and calling people anti-American ect..
I should have known better i guess than to even mention that subject..I'm sorry you ended up taking the brunt of it all..


You have NO NEED to apologize. I jump in to these things. You do the same. In a way I think some of us have to. SL isnt designed for bigotry and its not right people should express hate or prejudice. Forums should be for debate and knowledge but not opportunities for anger and malice.
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07-05-2009 17:03
From: Jig Chippewa
You have NO NEED to apologize. I jump in to these things. You do the same. In a way I think some of us have to. SL isnt designed for bigotry and its not right people should express hate or prejudice. Forums should be for debate and knowledge but not opportunities for anger and malice.


Exactly perfectly worded.
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07-05-2009 18:22
From: Jig Chippewa
You have NO NEED to apologize. I jump in to these things. You do the same. In a way I think some of us have to. SL isnt designed for bigotry and its not right people should express hate or prejudice. Forums should be for debate and knowledge but not opportunities for anger and malice.


Hi Jig. Some forum threads are indeed devoted to debate and knowledge. This wasn't one of those.

I agree with your position on how we really don't know one another here. I don't know you; you don't know me. I do, however, know Chris.

It is true that he can, at times, seem somewhat abrasive on these forums. He often has opinions that are not popular. He (like someone said about you) can be goaded into strong reactions easily, and some take pleasure into baiting him for this reason.

In reality Chris is a very sensitive and supportive man. He is one of three people that I have met in this strange little multiverse that I have been comfortable sharing my real life experiences with.

Two years ago this summer, Chris helped me with some really difficult times that I was going through in real life. It is in a large part due to him that I made some serious life changes that have resulted in helping me to view the world as a place I still want to be in.

He is such a classical style of gentleman, that I'm sure that your response to my post provoked him to come to my defense (as he always has). I am surprised that he didn't demand pistols at dawn.

So, I've had my say. I only checked back in because I will always have Chris's back, no matter what he lets people drag him into.
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Colette Meiji
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07-05-2009 18:48
From: Fred Hegel
LOL!

I'm not talking about police state fascism but simply putting into place some content filters on media that is socially reprehensible which more or less already exist in our society! Listen, I'm not saying these people should be wiped out from the Grid entirely... they can dwell in their own underbelly continent and let God do the judging! What I'm saying is make the Mainland more like the Main-Marketplace where kids aren't allowed to listen to curse words or trade pornographic stuff!

PS: Nancy Reagan, are you here with me?


I completely disagree with you, whether you are trolling or not.

I think it is our virtual-civic duty to not help Linden Labs in any way shape or form with this ridiculous Zindra idea.

I wont be ARing anyone for anything.

Neighbor opens up a All nude, XXX decorated Brothel next door to my mature non Zindra parcel? Oh well. No AR. Even if Zara Linden herself comes and visits me I would act like it wasn't even there.

People having naughty chat right in front of me on PG land? .. Oh well, thats nice. Wont even look up what menu the abuse report thing is on these days.

Jumping on Poseballs in sight of a (M) mall, heck in a mall? .. whatever floats their boat. Prince Philip in his sequined codpiece could be there and I would tell him how much I liked her flexi hair effect as her AV was bouncing making those stupid O mouth motions the animators always add to them.

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I think you all catch my drift.


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07-05-2009 18:52
Thoe last two post say enough for me. Well done, ladies.
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Cherry Czervik
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07-06-2009 00:19
From: Fred Hegel
Not sure what you mean by Troll Alert but if you're questioning my sincerity... believe me! Like many Americans I grew up with a strong religious background & moral correctitude is my prerogative! Like I stated in my original post - I'm quite satisfied... if not relieved that Linden Labs is banishing visually explicit content from the mainland (about time, right?) but my concern is that Linden Labs hasn't gone far enough. Please with your help we can put my suggestions in place and make the Mainland a better place!


We could also make Mainland a better place by insisting that everyone is not allowed to build in the air.

I'd kind of like to see anyone who feels they have a "strong moral correctitude" banned full stop.
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07-06-2009 00:56
From: Cherry Czervik
I'd kind of like to see anyone who feels they have a "strong moral correctitude" banned full stop.



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07-06-2009 02:22
From: Jig Chippewa
Truly agreed. Truly. This is the kinda reasoning that created Residential Schools to convert First Nations children.
Maybe these Christian moralists and Freedom of Speech advocates can provide excuses for White "ethnic cleansing" and desecration of First Nations peoples.

Maybe they weren't really first?
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07-06-2009 04:30
From: Jannae Karas
I agree with your position on how we really don't know one another here. I don't know you; you don't know me. I do, however, know Chris.

He is such a classical style of gentleman, that I'm sure that your response to my post provoked him to come to my defense (as he always has). I am surprised that he didn't demand pistols at dawn.

So, I've had my say. I only checked back in because I will always have Chris's back, no matter what he lets people drag him into.


In brief reply, "Chris" made an assumption about me that was very wrong. I am very glad he helped you in your life. I am sure he is a decent man to his friends. He and I however obviously rub each other the wrong way.
I wouldnt know what to do with a pistol at dawn. I havent seen one of those since I was 12 (the dawn, that is). I am not certain what a "classical style of gentleman" happens to be. That may make an interesting thread. Maybe its just a generation thing. Who knows?
Now let's end this. And move on.
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07-06-2009 05:19
From: Brenda Connolly


This was seriouslly the funniest thing I have seen in a long time.

(sigh) I miss playing Generals.
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07-06-2009 06:09
From: Brenda Connolly
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Thanks so much for the laugh :)
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07-06-2009 06:29
From: Eli Schlegal
This was seriouslly the funniest thing I have seen in a long time.

(sigh) I miss playing Generals.


The first time I saw it I was hysterical, for some reason, not being a gamer made it even funnier to me.
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07-06-2009 06:29
From: Lord Sullivan
Thanks so much for the laugh :)


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07-06-2009 06:38
From: Brenda Connolly
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I had to post it to the slapt forum as well :)
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