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Someone Spreading Nasty Rumours About Me Inworld, What Do I do?

Brenda Connolly
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04-10-2008 05:38
From: Phil Deakins
For once, I agree with Colette.
/me faints.

But...will she agree with you agreeing with her?
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04-10-2008 05:41
From: Brenda Connolly
/me faints.

But...will she agree with you agreeing with her?
The short answer is no. The long answer is no no no no no definitely NOOOOoooooooo. She'll probably go back to bed, thinking it was a nightmare :)
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04-10-2008 06:28
From: Phil Deakins
The OP also said in a later post, that he is open about his real gender in SL, so what's the problem? To be honest, I don't even see why there was a flurry of drama at the time, since the OP says that he is is open about his real gender in SL.
What happened in SL isn't really what upset the OP as far as I understand things, it just acted as a trigger for a deep RL fear.

A trigger is usually something that is at the core relatively harmless, but it can drag up very strong emotions regardless and that's what counts for empathy, not that we all understand the why, what or how.
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04-10-2008 06:44
This thread is a cry for help.
Lindal Kidd
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04-10-2008 06:46
From: Susanne Pascale
I'm TG too. I started by coming out to just a few close friends in world. I even broke off an engagement with a wonderful guy because I felt so dishonest about not telling him. Now, just about all of my friends know and I don't think I am treated any differently.

There will ALWAYS be a few idiots but we can deal with them. After all, they ARE idiots and have plenty to deal with, thereselves.

If you need a friend in world, I will be happy to meet you.

Sooz


Sooz! I've seen you over at SLU, I think. You should post here more often. :)
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04-10-2008 06:50
From: Snark Serpentine
This thread is a cry for help.


Aren't all threads in Residents Answers a cry for help?.
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04-10-2008 06:52
From: Ricardo Harris
Seriously, no offense but do we really need to know this?

If Sooz feels comfortable revealing it, why not? It's not much different from me saying I'm female.
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Congratulations and shame on you! You are a bit of a slut.
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04-10-2008 07:36
From: 2k Suisei


Btw - Ricardo is really a girl, everybody!.





Got me laughing.
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04-10-2008 07:37
From: Ann Launay
If Sooz feels comfortable revealing it, why not? It's not much different from me saying I'm female.



At least you didn't say cat.
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04-10-2008 07:37
From: 2k Suisei
Aren't all threads in Residents Answers a cry for help?.

A request for real answers presupposes an honest and valid question. Facts are not rumors. Tired coming-out dramatics are not earnest distress or curiosity.

This thread is the Uwe Boll of Resident Answers.
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04-10-2008 07:37
From: Snark Serpentine
This thread is a cry for help.



This is even funnier.
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04-10-2008 07:39
From: Morgaine Alter
Maybe thats the good thing that came out of this you are now showing everyone who you are?




And?
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04-10-2008 07:43
From: Ricardo Harris
At least you didn't say cat.

That's only in SL...I was talking about RL.
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I am bumping you to an 8.5 on the Official Trout Measuring Instrument of Sluttiness. You are an enigma - on the one hand a sweet, gentle, intelligent woman who we would like to wrap up in our arms and protect, and on the other, a temptress to whom we would like to do all sorts of unmentionable things.

Congratulations and shame on you! You are a bit of a slut.
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04-10-2008 07:44
From: Ann Launay
That's only in SL...I was talking about RL.



So was I.
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04-10-2008 07:47
From: Snark Serpentine
A request for real answers presupposes an honest and valid question. Facts are not rumors. Tired coming-out dramatics are not earnest distress or curiosity.

This thread is the Uwe Boll of Resident Answers.

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Colette Meiji
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04-10-2008 07:50
From: Brenda Connolly
/me faints.

But...will she agree with you agreeing with her?


I am a little more concerned that Phil seems obsessed with me "going back to bed" this is the 3rd time hes used that same expression.
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04-10-2008 07:53
From: Colette Meiji
I am a little more concerned that Phil seems obsessed with me "going back to bed" this is the 3rd time hes used that same expression.

Maybe he is lonely :D
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04-10-2008 08:09
From: Colette Meiji
I am a little more concerned that Phil seems obsessed with me "going back to bed" this is the 3rd time hes used that same expression.





Let's play Connect The Dots.

Colette

Jumpy

Phil

Wedding

Groom
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04-10-2008 08:15
From: Ricardo Harris
Let's play Connect The Dots.

Colette

Jumpy

Phil

Wedding

Groom



Jumpy is Colette and Phil's love child?
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Jezabell Barbosa
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04-10-2008 08:18
Oh poor baby.
People can be nasty sometimes, can't they?

Can you not just take pleasure in knowing someone is thinking so highly of you (prolly cause you are fab and shim isnt, or your skin is better, or you have better hair, or you are just so dayum nice), that they invent rummors and drama?

Forget thoes little people darling and embrace your inner bisssh.

BTW I lost a my very good friend last night who happens to be a Tgirl. I could have cared less if she was a typing monkey, I loved her and I miss her.


Muah™,
Jez
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04-10-2008 08:27
From: Jezabell Barbosa
Oh poor baby.
People can be nasty sometimes, can't they?

Can you not just take pleasure in knowing someone is thinking so highly of you (prolly cause you are fab and shim isnt, or your skin is better, or you have better hair, or you are just so dayum nice), that they invent rummors and drama?

Forget thoes little people darling and embrace your inner bisssh.

BTW I lost a my very good friend last night who happens to be a Tgirl. I could have cared less if she was a typing monkey, I loved her and I miss her.


Muah™,
Jez


Wow, you have won first prize in 'The most condescending post ever submitted in the history of the world' competition.

You win a massive crown, velvet cape and jewel encrusted sceptre.
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04-10-2008 08:29
From: Snark Serpentine
This thread is a cry for help.

You can tell by the way people are spamming it.

:rolleyes:
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04-10-2008 08:30
From: AlexLee Saunders
Wow, you have won first prize in 'The most condescending post ever submitted in the history of the world' competition.

You win a massive crown, velvet cape and jewel encrusted sceptre.


Hmmmm ...

You must not have read the post by Victor1st then.

From: Victor1st Mornington
Ya know what makes me SICK?

Folks in this thread saying "ohhhhhhhhhhhhh thats baaaaaaaaaad you cant have RL things interfere in sl"

Yet the SAME HIPPOCRITIAL MORONS are now saying to the land owners who have been ripped off suck it up".

YOU people ARE hippocrits, ya really are...

To the tranny, heres the simple home truth, ya cant handle the FACT you are a tranny in SL? Then ya shouldnt be one in RL! I'm bisexual, ive had a few folks who know me in RL and in the website i know follow me here and rib me about it or shout it in a public place, i didnt hide i agreed with them, you wanna run, hide and follow the hippocritts in THIS thread who are telling land owners who just lost over half a grand to "suck it up" then quiet frankily you shouldnt be on here...

Its not the lindens driving this place into the ground, its the BRAINLESS hipopocrits of the population driving this place into the ground, and YEAH, im one of them!
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04-10-2008 08:34
From: Macphisto Angelus
AR them. There is a rule in the TOS about outting a person's real life details.

Sorry this is happening to you. Put the person on ignore too, you don't need to hear from them anymore.

Also, you may edit your post and remove the person's name from it. That is against the TOS and will only get you in trouble that you don't need from the Lindens.

Good luck.


FTW.
I hate f%^kers who think they can spread s%£t like that.
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04-10-2008 08:34
From: Ricardo Harris
Got me laughing.

Is that why you wouldnt marry me when I proposed? :(
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