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Nolan Nash
Frischer Frosch
Join date: 15 May 2003
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11-29-2004 12:14
I welcome your opinions on it Pen and I wholly support your right to advocate for N.berg. You're not quick to judge and have an open mind. There are a couple of central members who I feel are quick to judge and not so open-minded. One of them even referred to my girlfriend as a *moron* because she is a Giuliani supporter. That is not tolerance which is touted one of the precepts of N.berg. I am not a Giuliani supporter, but I still love her, and I can tolerate her views. Heck, if Carville and Matalin can be a couple, why not? I dunno what to say other than that Ulrika has made it very clear on many occasions that she thinks that this is good for all of SL. It couldn't be more clear to me. That, coupled with the fact that she is the most prolific member of the projekt makes people nervous. I won't say that it's 100% right that people feel that way, but, I will say I understand why they do.
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Shadow Weaver
Ancient
Join date: 13 Jan 2003
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11-29-2004 12:16
Its simple Pendari Im not saying to "Shut ULRIKA UP" What I am saying is debunk the percieved Association and that will satisfy social dynamics.
If enough people come out of your organization and say "We do not agree with ULRIKAon this topic" or what ever the topic may be. Then you have effectively Debunked the anti PR and thus silenced the LOOSE PR cannon. You have to understand a lot of people are wanting NBerg to succeed but when statments like: I consider this a grassroots effort to address the problem of ugly builds. Because there are no formalized avenues to address grievances concerning ugly builds, users must employ methods such as the one you described to express their dislike of ugly builds. It is perfectly acceptable and protected as free expression. Personally, I negatively rate people with a message such as "you build is hideous". If someone responds to me, I typically explain my position and then remove the negative rating as a courtesy. The point is to apply social pressure to improve the quality of builds. ~Ulrika~ It plays negatively against your organizational goals. Especially when your organization is trying to foster and promote creativity and learning. This one statment alone does more damage to tear down the very edifice of your organizational structure than you can possibly Imagine. By the members renoucing this kind of behavoir it bodes well on your overall PR outlook. So how is this confusing, She can Play SL anyway she wants to but right now she is imposing her thoughts as they were the thoughts of your organization since she is heralded as the Founder of NBerg. Anyway I digress if it doesnt get through this time that we are not out to stiffle anyone but to debunk percieved misperceptions of most people. Shadow _____________________
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Beryl Greenacre
Big Scaredy-Baby
Join date: 24 Jun 2003
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11-29-2004 12:30
If that's the case, ya'll might as well vote me off the island right now, because I've put up innumerable signs that are "worse" than the current topic's "violation". Chairman Mao says no! Welcome to Bobland! Chairman Mao says no to ugly clubs and bad spelling! ... Is it in bad taste? Does Chairman Mao say no to poor grammar, too? The proper terms are "poor spelling" and "poor taste." Judge not, lest ye be judged...everyone. ![]() |
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Pendari Lorentz
Senior Member
Join date: 5 Sep 2003
Posts: 4,372
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11-29-2004 12:30
Nolan and Shadow, I always knew there was a reason I liked you two!
Thank you for honestly listening to my thoughts and responding in kind and clarifing posts. *hugs*I think I now get the gist of what you are saying. Basically, right or wrong, people are assuming that Ulrika speaks for the whole of the Neualtenburg project. That her responses to other topics make people assume that she has some power over the project that mimics these beliefs of strictly her own (well, and a few others in the group). And because she has a very outspoken personality, it is hard for people to understand that this is not at all the case within the project itself. Understood. So the goal is not to hush Ulrika up (which I think would be horribly wrong), but to get others from the project to be more outspoken so that others can see the diversity that we have gathered. This is something I can work with! And will personally pass the word along to others in the project. I must also say that the fact that we have such diversity in the project is one of the things that makes it so exciting to me. There are many, *many* topics that individuals in the project do not agree on. But we are coming together and forming something that should cater to those diversities, while at the same time offer some structure. I only wish more could see it through my eyes. And as I said, I will make it a point to mention to project members that their diverse voices would be very welcome in discussions among the SL community. Thank you guys. ![]() _____________________
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Cristiano Midnight
Evil Snapshot Baron
Join date: 17 May 2003
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11-29-2004 12:33
Does Chairman Mao say no to poor grammar, too? The proper terms are "poor spelling" and "poor taste." Judge not, lest ye be judged...everyone. ![]() I don't often use this, but I have to say that I do believe Lordfly was just pwned ![]() _____________________
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Kendra Bancroft
Rhine Maiden
Join date: 17 Jun 2004
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11-29-2004 12:35
So how is this confusing, She can Play SL anyway she wants to but right now she is imposing her thoughts as they were the thoughts of your organization since she is heralded as the Founder of NBerg. Actually --Ulrika is speaking AS Ulrika. You're the one imposing N'burg on the subject --BTW --as co-founder of the Neualtenburg Projekt --one might apply equal weight to my words as Ulrika's. I find more often than not --people are ready to pounce on Ulrika without actually reading her posts --she said it's a grassroots movement. I agree. It is. She does not, however, imply that it's a good idea. Rather she advocates the building of player based dispute settlement as an alternative. I fail to see the problem with her post, I see more problems with your own. |
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Shadow Weaver
Ancient
Join date: 13 Jan 2003
Posts: 2,808
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11-29-2004 12:38
You are quite welcome hun, Im just glad you are able to see it from our perspective now as well.
Fundamentaly I have nothing against any organization trying to control itself and for that aspect I respect NBerg. However, I may seem negative at times and sometimes I can't get my point across as I have limited time to respond on here during the day. Lot of the times I write a little and have to come back to it till Im done. But Im just glad you see where we are comming from now as a whole picture which in the end may help your organization grow instead of being stiffled in its tracks ((hugs)) Shadow _____________________
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Cristiano Midnight
Evil Snapshot Baron
Join date: 17 May 2003
Posts: 8,616
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11-29-2004 12:40
Pendari,
Great response. What amazes me most is that it is not more obvious that one person posting their opinion is just that, their opinion, and not a collective press release from a group. You know, the whole "The views expressed do not necessarily reflect the views of this station" thing. How is this so complicated to understand, because it obviously is to some- I see it over and over again from the same people. Luckily I think most people do get the distinction, though the problem is that those who don't get the distinction jump on something someone says and uses it to malign and label an entire group, which is sad. BTW, these are my own opinions and do not represent the views of the Mile High Club, Pumpkin Sluts, or the Midnight Land Trust. I'm not sure how the There Refugees feel though, so perhaps you should be suspicious of them. _____________________
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Nolan Nash
Frischer Frosch
Join date: 15 May 2003
Posts: 7,141
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11-29-2004 12:55
Actually --Ulrika is speaking AS Ulrika. You're the one imposing N'burg on the subject --BTW --as co-founder of the Neualtenburg Projekt --one might apply equal weight to my words as Ulrika's. I find more often than not --people are ready to pounce on Ulrika without actually reading her posts --she said it's a grassroots movement. I agree. It is. She does not, however, imply that it's a good idea. Rather she advocates the building of player based dispute settlement as an alternative. I fail to see the problem with her post, I see more problems with your own. PLEASE, I am so tired of folks accusing people who see things differently of not reading. Not only is it assumptive it's dismissive in the worst way. Just because someone doesn't interpret things the same way as you doesn't prove they aren't reading or comprehending. I see the post as; *I told ya so, if we had a system in place SL wide, like Nberg's, they wouldn't have to post 'This one is fucking ugly build'.* Nice tolerance, after all, the group purports to be tolerant then you have a founder condone this. You two are the founders, you reflect upon your group when you make statements that correlate to its concept. A lot of people have a bad taste in their mouths around the globe with regard to the USA because of the war in Iraq. Same thing goes for the Catholic church and the pedophilia issue. If I were you I would start looking within rather than blaming those who see the incongruity of the projekt's mission goals and the actions of the founders. _____________________
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Catherine Cotton
Tis Elfin
Join date: 2 Apr 2003
Posts: 3,001
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11-29-2004 12:57
Well Said Nolan! I agree!
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Kendra Bancroft
Rhine Maiden
Join date: 17 Jun 2004
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11-29-2004 12:59
PLEASE, I am so tired of folks accusing people who see things differently of not reading. Not only is it assumptive it's dismissive in the worst way. Just because someone doesn't interpret things the same way as you doesn't prove they aren't reading or comprehending. I see the post as; *I told ya so, if we had a system in place SL wide, like Nberg's, they wouldn't have to post 'This one is fucking ugly build'.* Nice tolerance, after all, the group purports to be tolerant then you have a founder condone this. You two are the founders, you reflect upon your group when you make statements that correlate to its concept. A lot of people have a bad taste in their mouths around the globe with regard to the USA because of the war in Iraq. Same thing goes for the Catholic church and the pedophilia issue. If I were you I would start looking within rather than blaming those who see the incongruity of the projekt's mission goals and the actions of the founders. good thing you're not being assumptive. ![]() |
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Ergo Altman
Second Life Resident
Join date: 12 Nov 2004
Posts: 8
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why can't we all just get along?
11-29-2004 13:01
wow... as a noob, I am finding this thread fascinating.... both exciting and disturbing.
Just last week I bought land that had a great view and today I am being boxed in by large builds. Quite unintentionally, I am sure, two of my neighbors have flowers or trees that visually intrude onto my land. There is nothing ugly about any of my surrounding properties.... though I do think one is kind of like those giant houses in real life where they fill their plot to the brim in a way that is not appealing. Yet I find myself wondering about zoning laws... height restrictions? wondering if I such restrictions could be included in deeds.. say if I were to buy an adjacent property and sell it with the restriction that the new owner not build to obstruct my view.... Yet, as an outsider looking in (aware of but unfamiliar with the history and the relationships that are implied in this thread) I think I would not necessarily be accurate in thinking that my experience is directly relevant. Really, this appears to be a discussion of the very nature of Second Life: how do we organize ourselves, negotiate rights and responsibilities. And it's about power. I can't quite figure out what it all means, and I suspect that there is a view for a kind of benign facism of Linden's godlike authority, after all they right the real code around here. Another perspective that sees SL as a kind of libertarian state, in which nobody can tell you what to do, unless it was in the original agreement... There is yet another kind of worldview of a kind of commons in which avatars and properties are recognized as interdependent, this interdependence and the limitations of resources (prims per server, for instance) is seen as a compelling reason for self organization. And these issues are relevant not only in terms of how we "live" our second lives, they also have consequences for the power that individuals and groups weild in SL. And somehow I don' think that any of the status being negotiated here could ever be reflected in a "leader board." No, I don't think this is about a dispute between neighbors, or about aesthetics. It is about different ideas of what SL is or means.... And about who wins a very human game |
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Nolan Nash
Frischer Frosch
Join date: 15 May 2003
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11-29-2004 13:10
good thing you're not being assumptive. ![]() Yeah except you're assuming people aren't reading. I am assuming what seems to be very clear: I'll try not to hijack this thread and mention the g-word but if there were formal methods of conflict resolution in place one could address this problem. How else can this be interpreted? A) Ulrika is the original founder of Nberg. B) This land is not within the borders of a player run area. C) Therefore one can assume that Ulrika thinks it should be. D) Therefore it is an *I told you so* statement coupled with a justification for intolerant behavior. E) Ulrika wrote most of the charters for Nberg touting equality and tolerance among other things. F) See *A*. _____________________
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Cristiano Midnight
Evil Snapshot Baron
Join date: 17 May 2003
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11-29-2004 13:12
. I find more often than not --people are ready to pounce on Ulrika without actually reading her posts --she said it's a grassroots movement. I agree. It is. I read all of Ulrika's posts quite carefully, and many times agree and many times disagree with her. We have been on opposite ends of many things. In the case of this being a grassroots effort, one sign used to harass a player does not a grassroots effort make - I think that is giving way too much credence to their motivations for doing so. A grassroots effort is about affecting change on a small local scale that brings about a wider change. While in it loosest definition, you could say this player is trying to harass someone into changing their build, thus bringing about change, it seems all they are doing is being a jerk. There are many builds I may or may not like, hell I lived next to a giant black box for ages. However, putting up a sign on their own build crosses a major line of respect and taste, and that is what this thread was originally about. _____________________
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Kendra Bancroft
Rhine Maiden
Join date: 17 Jun 2004
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11-29-2004 13:26
Yeah except you're assuming people aren't reading. I am assuming what seems to be very clear: How else can this be interpreted? A) Ulrika is the original founder of Nberg. B) This land is not within the borders of a player run area. C) Therefore one can assume that Ulrika thinks it should be. D) Therefore it is an *I told you so* statement coupled with a justification for intolerant behavior. E) Ulrika wrote most of the charters for Nberg touting equality and tolerance among other things. F) See *A*. A) Ulrika is the original CO-founder of Neualtenburg. B) What's your point? C) When you ass-ume --- D) See *C*, or tell me why a Hegelian dialectic is often wrong. E) Decidedly untrue. The current policies in Neualtenburg are very much a group effort. F) See *A* |
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Kendra Bancroft
Rhine Maiden
Join date: 17 Jun 2004
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11-29-2004 13:28
I read all of Ulrika's posts quite carefully, and many times agree and many times disagree with her. We have been on opposite ends of many things. In the case of this being a grassroots effort, one sign used to harass a player does not a grassroots effort make - I think that is giving way too much credence to their motivations for doing so. A grassroots effort is about affecting change on a small local scale that brings about a wider change. While in it loosest definition, you could say this player is trying to harass someone into changing their build, thus bringing about change, it seems all they are doing is being a jerk. There are many builds I may or may not like, hell I lived next to a giant black box for ages. However, putting up a sign on their own build crosses a major line of respect and taste, and that is what this thread was originally about. I can agree with that ![]() Like I said before --The sign was wayyyyyyyy uglier than the build. (actually --I rather liked the build) |
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Adohan Zephyr
Bang bang
Join date: 20 Sep 2004
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11-29-2004 13:32
MY OPINION IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOUR OPINION
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Jonquille Noir
Lemon Fresh
Join date: 17 Jan 2004
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11-29-2004 13:32
What we can do, and what we should do, are too often confused. I can tell a stranger in the market that I find them physically grotesque and they have the fashion sense of a retarded circus clown, and yet, I don't. Most adults realize when their opinions are unwelcome, uneeded, and it would be arrogant and rude to express them. The creator of the sign obviously doesn't possess that wisdom or tact.
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Nolan Nash
Frischer Frosch
Join date: 15 May 2003
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11-29-2004 13:35
A) Ulrika is the original CO-founder of Neualtenburg. B) What's your point? C) When you ass-ume --- D) See *C*, or tell me why a Hegelian dialectic is often wrong. E) Decidedly untrue. The current policies in Neualtenburg are very much a group effort. F) See *A* Yeah, well you assume people aren't reading because they don't agree with your vapid points and self appointed righteousness. Regardless of what you think, your attitude does reflect on the group and you're not going to convince myself or a lot of other folks otherwise especially when you keep at it. You're about as civil as a pit bull trained for fighting. Now tell me how you're from Brooklyn or whatever.. like that has any bearing on anything. As far as Ulrika and Nberg goes, who do you think you're fooling? She started it. I remember reading as you signed on in the forums. She outlined the project and now the rest of you are helpers. Don't kid yourself. She will play sycophant to anyone to get what she wants. First you call my girlfriend a moron, now me an ass. How quaint. This is where my dealings end with you. You have a nice, delusional life. _____________________
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Pendari Lorentz
Senior Member
Join date: 5 Sep 2003
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11-29-2004 13:40
She will play sycophant to anyone to get what she wants. I just have to say that you are very wrong in this aspect Nolan. Within the group Ulrika has not at all acted like this. This project would fail if we allowed any one person to have all their own say. This thing is much more involved than you could ever imagine. _____________________
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Kendra Bancroft
Rhine Maiden
Join date: 17 Jun 2004
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11-29-2004 13:42
Yeah, well you assume people aren't reading because they don't agree with your vapid points and self appointed righteousness. Regardless of what you think, your attitude does reflect on the group and you're not going to convince myself or a lot of other folks otherwise especially when you keep at it. You're about as civil as a pit bull trained for fighting. Now tell me how you're from Brooklyn or whatever.. like that has any bearing on anything. As far as Ulrika and Nberg goes, who do you think you're fooling? She started it. I remember reading as you signed on in the forums. She outlined the project and now the rest of you are helpers. Don't kid yourself. She will play sycophant to anyone to get what she wants. First you call my girlfriend a moron, now me an ass. How quaint. This is where my dealings end with you. You have a nice, delusional life. Don't confuse when I signed onto "The Forums" with when I joined SL. It didn't occur to me to even post on a BBS like this until much later. I assume from your post that you carry a grudge against me that has little to do with this discussion and would most likely be best taken to private messages. |
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Ergo Altman
Second Life Resident
Join date: 12 Nov 2004
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so true
11-29-2004 14:57
MY OPINION IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOUR OPINION ![]() I couldn't agree more... we see things exactly the same way, because my opinion is more important than yours too |
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Devlin Gallant
Thought Police
Join date: 18 Jun 2003
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11-29-2004 15:58
Free speach, deal with it. ![]() I hope you aren't referring to the sign. THAT was NOT free speech. THAT was vandalism committed by a fucktard with an IQ 2 points lower than a rock. _____________________
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Devlin Gallant
Thought Police
Join date: 18 Jun 2003
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11-29-2004 16:02
Argh. When is it going to end? We can't put any protest signs on our land now, to express a harmless opinion? If that's the case, ya'll might as well vote me off the island right now, because I've put up innumerable signs that are "worse" than the current topic's "violation". Chairman Mao says no! Welcome to Bobland! Chairman Mao says no to ugly clubs and bad spelling! I look back and see the community more or less tolerating those things back in the day, even getting a mild modicum of support. Now, suddenly, if it's a negative opinion expressed on your land, you can't say it? There is such a thing as perceived free speech in SL, you know. If I had put up a Chairman Mao sign up there instead, it wouldn't even get a negative backlash, because I have the inertia of being here for over a year and a half. But a newbie? Perish the thought. BURN HIM AT THE STAKE. It's an opinion, expressed on his land, about his neighbor's building practices. As such, HE IS FULLY ENTITLED TO DO IT. Is it in bad taste? Probably, but so is a Bondage club going up next door to someone's house. Should we be rallying against bondage clubs now? After all, they make my virgin eyes bleed. Bah. LF Uhm, Lordfly. The sign was NOT on the club owners land. The assclown put it on his neighbors build. _____________________
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Devlin Gallant
Thought Police
Join date: 18 Jun 2003
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11-29-2004 16:05
Pen, I am giving you the benifit of the doubt hun, however, when a "Leader" of your oganization IE the spokes person that got it started makes idle inane commentary that is basically against human creativity and human judgment. It's hard to seperate the two especially when the signature you have states: Her commentary is not only a slap in the face of your fellow people in that group but also to you as its saying she speaks for you. It also gives people the view that the organization's (Since she is a spokes person) view is the same as a whole. Im glad that you posted that your view is sperate from hers and to be honest Id be happy to see the rest of Neualtenburg step up and take a stance for or against on this. Why because as long as a tyrant continues to speak in such a manor for your organization your going to have a bad taste left in the mouth of others and I know your a much more intelegent person than to let that assumption lie dormant for long. Pen to give you an impression that most people percieve. It kinda goes like this. Ulrika = Neualtenburg Ulrika spouts inane comentary about political justification of "Ugly Builds" Thus most think Neualtenburg spouted inane comentary about political justification of "Ugly Builds" Thus anyone in Neualtenburg supports the above commentary. Why is this its human nature to associate the political views of a party based on the singular responces of its spokes person. Thus I see two things that could possibly happen to rectify this basic assumption. #1 if the people in the party step up and speak their opposition to the tryanical commentary it will perchance change the mind of the masses views on that organization. #2 dispose of the Tyrant and reaffirm the organzational stance against the aforementioned commentary thus seperating them from the views of the tryant entirely. Pen you have taken the step to openly disagree and thats eases the pain a bit. However your only one amongst how many in that organization? I made a wise decision to "Call you out" in the previous thread as I knew you wouldnt let it go by without retort. Id rather see the rest of your organization refute the commentary made by its spokes person and for that matter maybe even have it rethought as to whom your spokes person should be because from what I see her commentary is not condusive to what your groups organizational goals are. Sincerely, Shadow Weaver PS still luv ya hun.. ![]() You will have to forgive Ulrika cause she is a leftist, a closet commie, and she wets the bed. ![]() _____________________
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