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Billybob Goodliffe
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08-25-2006 13:19
From: Coyote Momiji
I had to receive spousal permission for a tubal ligation and even with that, the doctor refused to provide one to me.

It's frequently a CYA thing for doctors - they don't want to be sued by either you after you develop a case of "snipper's regret", or by your spouse.

I think it's a lot of bullshit, personally.

I agree that its bullshit. I "took the bullets out of the gun" because my wife brought my 2 sons into the world. I didn't think it was fair for her to go through the childbirth process twice and then have a tubal ligation. We don't want anymore kids (sometimes I want to give away the ones we have ;)) and I figured this was the least I could do. I know someone is going to say its not even comparable, and their right.
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08-25-2006 13:24
From: Vares Solvang
Following your logic it should be ok for a mother to kill her 10 year old child any time she likes.

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From: Kiamat Dusk

Now that we have this readily available, can we have a serious discussion about banning abortion after the first trimester?

Looks like a "no" to me Kiamat. :(

Why do you say that?

Because I do not think it is possible to have a rational discussion with a person who can not understand the difference between a 10 year old child and a second trimester fetus.
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Billybob Goodliffe
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08-25-2006 13:25
From: Zuzu Fassbinder
Because I do not think it is possible to have a rational discussion with a person who can not understand the difference between a 10 year old child and a second trimester fetus.

the only difference is 10 years
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08-25-2006 13:25
From: Vares Solvang
Of course it's arbitrary. How is a baby that is 10 minutes from birth less worthy of life than a baby that is 10 minutes after birth?

There is no logic to it.


It's the definition of worthy that's arbitrary. The developmental changes between conception and birth are not.
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08-25-2006 13:26
From: Billybob Goodliffe
I agree that its bullshit. I "took the bullets out of the gun" because my wife brought my 2 sons into the world. I didn't think it was fair for her to go through the childbirth process twice and then have a tubal ligation. We don't want anymore kids (sometimes I want to give away the ones we have ;)) and I figured this was the least I could do. I know someone is going to say its not even comparable, and their right.


I respect you for the choice you made. My husband is in the process of getting approval from doctors for the operation but didn't require my permission to do it (even though I was required to obtain his, heh!)
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Billybob Goodliffe
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08-25-2006 13:26
From: Coyote Momiji
I respect you for the choice you made. My husband is in the process of getting approval from doctors for the operation but didn't require my permission to do it (even though I was required to obtain his, heh!)

varies by state I guess
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08-25-2006 13:27
From: Billybob Goodliffe
the only difference is 10 years


And a flaming crapload of neurological and physical development, not to mention the ability to live outside the womb. ;)
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Billybob Goodliffe
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08-25-2006 13:27
From: Coyote Momiji
And a flaming crapload of neurological and physical development, not to mention the ability to live outside the womb. ;)

you seem to have forgotten what 10 year olds are like ;) :p



yeah I know, bad joke given the topic.
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08-25-2006 13:28
From: Billybob Goodliffe
you seem to have forgotten what 10 year olds are like ;) :p


I say they're fair game until they can get a job ;)
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08-25-2006 13:29
From: Billybob Goodliffe
varies by state I guess


Actually, it varies by doctor, I think.
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08-25-2006 13:29
From: Zuzu Fassbinder
Because I do not think it is possible to have a rational discussion with a person who can not understand the difference between a 10 year old child and a second trimester fetus.


So explain the difference. If you can.

Frankly I don't think you can come up with a logical explaination.
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08-25-2006 13:29
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I say they're fair game until they can get a job ;)

/me waits for the teengrid refugee to ask about lemonade stands
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08-25-2006 13:49
From: Vares Solvang
So explain the difference. If you can.

Frankly I don't think you can come up with a logical explaination.

And frankly, you're starting to remind me of Kevn, and nothing anyone says about the subject will deter you from saying the same thing over and over again.

You conveniently ignored MY post on the subject because I gave reasons--you just want to vent and troll. Either listen to people's arguments or STFU!
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08-25-2006 13:52
From: Ledje Gorky
It doesnt really matter if that 2 day old embryo feels anything or is a conscious being.

What happens when you kill it is taking away every potential that embryo may have.


So destroying a virus that is killing you is wrong? Stomping on the spider that just bit you? Should we pass a law banning killing ANY cell of any type anywhere because of the potential that cell may have? Or are we making the god like decision that some cells are worth far far more than others? If I had to sacrifice one child to save 5 people, I'd do it in an instant. We have passed laws protecting cells that do not have consciousness, so that we can watch people die of horrific diseases that those cells could have prevented.
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08-25-2006 13:56
From: Vares Solvang
From: Zuzu Fassbinder
Because I do not think it is possible to have a rational discussion with a person who can not understand the difference between a 10 year old child and a second trimester fetus.

So explain the difference. If you can.

Frankly I don't think you can come up with a logical explaination.

Oddly, even before you posted there were answers.
From: Billybob Goodliffe
the only difference is 10 years

From: Coyote Momiji
And a flaming crapload of neurological and physical development, not to mention the ability to live outside the womb. ;)



But I think you were trolling for an answer to this question:
From: Vares Solvang
Can someone explain to me the difference between killing your FETUS six months before it's born and killing your baby six months after it's born?

The end result is the same, so why is one ok and the other bad?

First: I fixed a typo in your post above.

Second: both are bad, but only one is okay.
A common misconception is that those who oppose an abortion ban want people to have abortions. I have never met anyone who wants people to have abortions.

So back to the question: why is it okay in one case?
When a woman is pregnant it is her burden to care for the fetus and there is only a limited amount of things that others can do to help her. If this is a pregnancy she does not want there is only one way to remove the fetus from her (at least until viability is reached). Even once viability is reached forcing a premature birth could have legal implications and I'm not sure how availabe that alternative is. Certainly I doubt a doctor would induce labor at the very start of the third trimester, although closer to full term it is something that I've heard people talking about. Once a child is born there are many safe and legal ways to remove it from the mother without causing the death of the child.

Why is it okay in one case and not the other? In short its because in one case there is no other technique available to remove it from the mother, at least to my knowlege.
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08-25-2006 14:06
From: Zuzu Fassbinder

But I think you were trolling for an answer to this question:


She certainly was. That's why I posted the silly "Beautiful Beasley! Lee press-on pants. Warning Will Robinson, my arms are flailing wildly. Troll bait! Troll bait!" The only error I had in the post was using the word "warning" instead of "danger". :)

We were talking about the morning after pill and she suddenly turns it into Roe vs. Wade, but in a Kevn sort of way.
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08-25-2006 14:30
From: Fmeh Tagore
We were talking about the morning after pill and she suddenly turns it into Roe vs. Wade, but in a Kevn sort of way.

No, the OP was talking about restricting late term abortions.
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08-25-2006 14:37
From: Zuzu Fassbinder
No, the OP was talking about restricting late term abortions.

And talking about the morning after pill as the reason.
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08-25-2006 14:40
From: Zuzu Fassbinder
Oddly, even before you posted there were answers.




But I think you were trolling for an answer to this question:

First: I fixed a typo in your post above.

Second: both are bad, but only one is okay.
A common misconception is that those who oppose an abortion ban want people to have abortions. I have never met anyone who wants people to have abortions.

So back to the question: why is it okay in one case?
When a woman is pregnant it is her burden to care for the fetus and there is only a limited amount of things that others can do to help her. If this is a pregnancy she does not want there is only one way to remove the fetus from her (at least until viability is reached). Even once viability is reached forcing a premature birth could have legal implications and I'm not sure how availabe that alternative is. Certainly I doubt a doctor would induce labor at the very start of the third trimester, although closer to full term it is something that I've heard people talking about. Once a child is born there are many safe and legal ways to remove it from the mother without causing the death of the child.

Why is it okay in one case and not the other? In short its because in one case there is no other technique available to remove it from the mother, at least to my knowlege.

I think you mistook my post as something it wasn't

my "the only difference is 10 years" actually supports Vares some. I was in a semi-joking manner showing that the only difference between a fetus and a child is time. Both are children.
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08-25-2006 14:53
From: Zuzu Fassbinder
Oddly, even before you posted there were answers.




But I think you were trolling for an answer to this question:

First: I fixed a typo in your post above.

Second: both are bad, but only one is okay.
A common misconception is that those who oppose an abortion ban want people to have abortions. I have never met anyone who wants people to have abortions.

So back to the question: why is it okay in one case?
When a woman is pregnant it is her burden to care for the fetus and there is only a limited amount of things that others can do to help her. If this is a pregnancy she does not want there is only one way to remove the fetus from her (at least until viability is reached). Even once viability is reached forcing a premature birth could have legal implications and I'm not sure how availabe that alternative is. Certainly I doubt a doctor would induce labor at the very start of the third trimester, although closer to full term it is something that I've heard people talking about. Once a child is born there are many safe and legal ways to remove it from the mother without causing the death of the child.

Why is it okay in one case and not the other? In short its because in one case there is no other technique available to remove it from the mother, at least to my knowlege.


Why do you feel it necessary to be derogatory with your answer? Do you think that helps to prove your point in any way?

I understand the logic of what you and Chip are saying. But everyone keeps using words like “about” and “around”. You can't write laws with those kinds of words. What I am saying is that you need to pick a specific time point and then give a logical and scientifically valid reason for choosing that time point.

Otherwise you are just picking an arbitrary time at random.

So I am asking if you can tell me when, exactly, should the cut off time be and what are the reasons to pick that specific time?

It's not trolling, it's a legitimate question that is relevant to the topic at hand.
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08-25-2006 15:44
From: Uma Bauhaus
The State has no place mandating what people do with their bodies and instead should focus on providing education and subsidized birth control.


And yet...

From: Uma Bauhaus
surgical abortion up to the end of the second trimester, and surgical abortion in the third trimester in the event the mother's life is at risk.


Why not surgical abortions for all?
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08-25-2006 15:51
From: Vares Solvang
Why do you feel it necessary to be derogatory with your answer? Do you think that helps to prove your point in any way?

Simply responding in kind. Or do you think that
From: Vares Solvang
So explain the difference. If you can.
Frankly I don't think you can come up with a logical explaination.

is not condescending? Do you think that it helps to prove your point in any way?

From: Vares Solvang
I understand the logic of what you and Chip are saying. But everyone keeps using words like “about” and “around”. You can't write laws with those kinds of words. What I am saying is that you need to pick a specific time point and then give a logical and scientifically valid reason for choosing that time point.

Otherwise you are just picking an arbitrary time at random.

So I am asking if you can tell me when, exactly, should the cut off time be and what are the reasons to pick that specific time?

It's not trolling, it's a legitimate question that is relevant to the topic at hand.

Why do you have a problem with words like “about” and “around”? It is the nature of things, because there is no cut and dry boundary. You are correct that you can't legistate to something like that, which is why it is neccesary to slect a *somewhat* arbitrary, but specific time. Of course, depending on your goals it isn't entirely arbitarary, because you have to choose it with a specific goal in mind.

For example:
You might say "no abortions after the start of the third trimester because some fetus are able to survive outside the womb at that point." Not all are, so by the viability argument it should be ok to abort at that point. Similarly you could choose a later date, but at that point you could allow some potentially viable fetus to be aborted. The exact choice becomes a trade-off between erring to aborting a viable fetus and denying abortion of a non-viable fetus. In a way it is arbitrary, since you have to choose which side to err toward, but it is also done in a scientifically valid way.

Perhaps the simplest cut-off to choose is birth, it eliminates the guesswork about determination of the conception date.

You can always argue the "but what about 1 second beyond the cutoff", however that argument is disingenuous because it ignores the reasons for the choice of the cutoff date and fails to understand the reasons for it (i.e. practicality).
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08-25-2006 16:03
From: Vares Solvang
The “my body, my choice” argument doesn't hold up. Logically it just doesn't work. It's not like we are talking about breast implants here. It's not just your body in question. The baby has a body as well. Following your logic it should be ok for a mother to kill her 10 year old child any time she likes. After all, under your definition it's her body so it's her choice.

No logic in this statement at all.


And here I was thinking you were the one not making any logical sense. :rolleyes:

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08-25-2006 17:06
From: Vares Solvang
.....

So I am asking if you can tell me when, exactly, should the cut off time be and what are the reasons to pick that specific time?

.......

Conception. Because it would be killing a human being after that time.
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08-25-2006 19:10
From: Kevn Klein
Conception. Because it would be killing a human being after that time.

It's more like a parasite than a human being right after conception. But, to each his own. You don't want an abortion - don't have one.
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