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How many % of women in SL are men?

Nolan Nash
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12-06-2005 23:47
Don't forget us egg-laying mammals who roleplay katydids.
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Ezequal Torgeson
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12-07-2005 00:38
And this is generally where I keep my mouth shut because I ride the minority train of having the mindset of a 50+ year old grumpy conservative, albeit being only 20 and in college ;)
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Llewelyn Mistral
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12-07-2005 00:44
From: Kolya Seifert

Perhaps there are lots of men in SL who use female avatars because it makes it easier to get hired, or easier to sell your stuff.


Or perhaps because of the amount of clothes and hair and avatar stuff made primarily for women... I was shopping for prim hair for a new head I put together yesterday and today and probably 95% of what I saw was made for women. I don't go clothes shopping much, but I also remember someone else commenting that mostly all he found was unisex or women's clothing, and it was a pain for him to find any male-specific clothes.
Jessika Klein
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12-07-2005 01:21
you could ask the females like ummm names of hose lol umm
name 5 different tampon brands rofl or something rofl
surely mind quiz see if thats a female. lol but usualy really broad shoulders is some significance and personality you can sometime tell, or you could say i heard you was a male and see if they freak out. if not then there prolly really female rofl. ok im warped but hey worth a shot lol
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12-07-2005 01:26
From: Ezequal Torgeson
And this is generally where I keep my mouth shut because I ride the minority train of having the mindset of a 50+ year old grumpy conservative, albeit being only 20 and in college ;)

lol perfect. somehing that would be prooven :P good try though ! lol
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Richie Waves
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12-07-2005 01:38
How about..who gives a crap wat gender the people are... its all text and graphics anyways...
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Willow Zander
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12-07-2005 01:42
From: Richie Waves
How about..who gives a crap wat gender the people are... its all text and graphics anyways...


Aww c'mon Richie, thats a bit unfair, you wouldn't like it if you "fell" for a girl/boy and they turned out to be the other gender, and you weren't that way inclined.

Sure your feelings are about the PERSON, not the gender, but I don't think thats the problem, I think its the misleading that get to ppl.

Personally i'd do either :D
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Nolan Nash
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12-07-2005 01:46
From: Willow Zander
Aww c'mon Richie, thats a bit unfair, you wouldn't like it if you "fell" for a girl/boy and they turned out to be the other gender, and you weren't that way inclined.
Oh no, not THAT again! :p

Careful, you might get ripped on someone's blog like I did for speaking about that. :confused:
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Torley Linden
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12-07-2005 01:54
There was a great t-shirt I got awhile ago in SL, it said something like:

YOUR GIRLFRIEND IS A MAN
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Nolan Nash
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12-07-2005 01:58
From: Torley Torgeson
There was a great t-shirt I got awhile ago in SL, it said something like:

YOUR GIRLFRIEND IS A MAN
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Oh my, Ferran gave me a few like that, albeit a little more bawdy!

Like, "If you like my tits, you'll love my balls!"

:D
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12-07-2005 01:59
From: Nolan Nash
Oh my, Ferran gave me a few like that, albeit a little more bawdy!

Like, "If you like my tits, you'll love my balls!"

:D


RUR RUR RUR

That reminds me of a few of my ladyboy friends back in Thailand!
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12-07-2005 02:03
From: Dianne Mechanique
I think you're right Flip.

I also know a few women playing men in SL and none of them are doing it for sex. It's more about role playing or indeed "hiding" from sexual situations, because they dont want to be bothered.


Actually.. I am personaly aware of a woman who's playing a homosexual man in SL.. and she does get into sexual situations, quite abit.

Honestly, it always amuse me how men playing women is always perceived as more controversial then women playing men. ;)
Nolan Nash
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12-07-2005 02:12
From: CrystalShard Foo
Actually.. I am personaly aware of a woman who's playing a homosexual man in SL.. and she does get into sexual situations, quite abit.

Honestly, it always amuse me how men playing women is always perceived as more controversial then women playing men. ;)

The shackles of yesteryear are still upon us to some extent I suppose. :confused:
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Issarlk Chatnoir
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12-07-2005 02:23
Here's a rule of thumb ; if we consider that :
homosexuality or bisexuality is less common than heterosexuality, and that there are fewer RL women in SL than RL men then:

- a lesbian women in SL -> very high risk of being a guy
- a bisexual woman in SL -> high risk of being a guy
- an heterosexual woman in SL -> medium risk of being a guy, but if it is then maybe he is homosexual (which maybe be yuckier to some and make the crying in the shower session longer :) )

- an homosexual guy in SL -> medium risk of being a woman (women are not into sex that much and so, few will make the effort of playing a gay man)
- a bisexual guy in SL -> low risk of being a woman.
- an heterosexual guy in SL -> lowest risk (but same thing ; may be a lesbian)


Conclusion: go buy a self sex animation and have your AV play with him/herself , it's the only safe thing :)
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Willow Zander
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12-07-2005 02:24
In my experience, its ALL about the size of the shoulders.
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12-07-2005 02:25
From: Willow Zander
In my experience, its ALL about the size of the shoulders.


We've been through this one before! ;)
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12-07-2005 02:27
From: Torley Torgeson
We've been through this one before! ;)

Damn, sorry, I thought the whole point of the forums was go to over the same subject again and again?

Have I been getting it wrong ALL this time?
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12-07-2005 02:28
From: Willow Zander
Damn, sorry, I thought the whole point of the forums was go to over the same subject again and again?

Have I been getting it wrong ALL this time?


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12-07-2005 02:30
*lollerskatez away*
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12-07-2005 02:34
Serious question: this is Second Life. Where are our intersexuals?
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12-07-2005 02:37
From: Issarlk Chatnoir
Conclusion: go buy a self sex animation and have your AV play with him/herself , it's the only safe thing :)


My own conclusion would simply be that if you actually care about gender to the point you'd be disgusted after having text sex with the wrong one, you shouldn't be doing it at all in the first place.

We have had such a range of comments whenever the subject has arisen. It seems to me from the comments we often see that a lot of people equate it exactly to real sex - to the point they can't even differentiate between a real 'sex crime' (on their own moral compass, of course) and ... well, texting. I think it'd be a far more interesting and revealing subject to find out people's views on 'what cybering means to them' and where those uncrossable lines are drawn than endlessly rehashing the "ZOMGZ MEN ARE PLAYING WOMEN!" thing every other week. ;)

IMO, if a guy finds out the girl he just cybered is a guy, and even if they lied when asked outright... he still didn't just turn gay. Honest. I'm certainly not saying you don't have the right to be offended, but at the end of the day... it's just text!
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12-07-2005 02:56
From: Torley Torgeson
Serious question: this is Second Life. Where are our intersexuals?


What is an intersexual?
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Willow Zander
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12-07-2005 02:57
From: Issarlk Chatnoir
What is an intersexual?


An intersexual or intersex person (or animal of any unisexual species) is one who is born with genitalia and/or secondary sexual characteristics determined as neither exclusively male nor female, or which combine features of the male and female sexes. (The terms hermaphrodite and pseudohermaphrodite, which have been used in the past, are now considered pejorative and inaccurate and are no longer used to refer to an intersexual person.) Sometimes the phrase "ambiguous genitalia" is used.

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Kris Ritter
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12-07-2005 02:58
From: Issarlk Chatnoir
What is an intersexual?


Apparently it's not particularly pc to use the term hermaphrodite any more :)

Edit: offs Willow! There ya go, showing me up. Again. 10 seconds quicker. Again.
Starax Statosky
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12-07-2005 03:12
From: Kris Ritter
Honest. I'm certainly not saying you don't have the right to be offended, but at the end of the day... it's just text!


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