I voted "I only come here to cyber." cause the option was there.
yes, I couldn't pass it up myself.
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Summer Carmichael
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08-08-2006 15:03
I voted "I only come here to cyber." cause the option was there. yes, I couldn't pass it up myself. _____________________
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VolatileWhimsy Bu
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08-08-2006 15:05
its cause your an unverified.. we expect nothing less
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Savonah Madonna
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08-08-2006 15:07
I voted for I only come here to cybor becuase I didn't think it would have a lot of votes and felt sorry for that catagory.
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Zoe Llewelyn
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08-08-2006 15:09
I pretty much echo Cindy...as usual she is posting much of what I might have said.
Humans are sexual creatures by nature. Those a bunch of humans into a social situation day in and day out, sex will invariably be involved in some way eventually. But...there is a helluva lot more to SL than sex. Anyone saying otherwise is pretty blind. Personally, sex isn't that big a part of my life in SL. Part of that may be that I suffer from sever chronic depression which has totally stolen my sex drive in RL. But in truth I am more a flirty, cuddling type gal anyway. Now...ask me how important hugginga nd cuddling are to my SL, and the answer would be: Majorly! _____________________
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Circe Timtam
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08-08-2006 15:14
I've had a lot of trouble finding places that suit me because whenever I type in a search it's constantly sex. Nothing against it I just don't find virtual sex to my taste, great if it works for others. I've had some attention from ladys in the game which I still question if that represented their counterpart. i have to wonder what you are searching for as i rarely find sexual things when i do a search... |
Yiffy Yaffle
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08-08-2006 15:24
The last time i did anything close to it was like a1 1/2 months ago and it was with my mate. And I'm a furry.
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Rita Hainsworth
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08-08-2006 15:38
...when the guy took his pants off, i took one look, and ran!
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Damanios Thetan
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08-08-2006 15:59
The last time I cybered, I was fully clothed, and working on debugging the scripts inside the sitballs. Does that count?
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Summer Carmichael
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08-08-2006 16:23
its cause your an unverified.. we expect nothing less ![]() Do you have any idea how long I am going to have to camp for some sensor nipples !! C'mon people get your bumbags today!! _____________________
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Carlos Cameron
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Usual responses
08-08-2006 16:35
What is it, the only people who responded here the only ones who don't engage in cyber sex? While I didn't read every single response I did read many and skimmed thru' a few others.
It never fails. Seems whenever sex in sl is mentioned, the only ones who usually respond say they don't do it. Ewww that's nasty!!!!! Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying anyone is lying, but it's hard not to usually see this trend. Cyber sex, phone sex or any kind of sex is nothing but a way of life. And many times those who condemn it are it's worse offenders. |
Jack Belvedere
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08-08-2006 17:06
SL right now holds two major types of populations. There are the content creators and there are the sex fiends. And the Sex Fiend Content Creators! ![]() _____________________
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Maxine Maxwell
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08-08-2006 17:39
What is it, the only people who responded here the only ones who don't engage in cyber sex? While I didn't read every single response I did read many and skimmed thru' a few others. It never fails. Seems whenever sex in sl is mentioned, the only ones who usually respond say they don't do it. Ewww that's nasty!!!!! Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying anyone is lying, but it's hard not to usually see this trend. Cyber sex, phone sex or any kind of sex is nothing but a way of life. And many times those who condemn it are it's worse offenders. You left out the obligatory condesending: "But if other people want do it, I have no problem with it" (if they like that sort of pathetic, stupid, disgusting thing, of course) ![]() |
Dellybean North
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08-08-2006 18:42
If all the sex animations stopped working tomorrow it wouldn't trouble me overly.... now.. dancing.. if the salsa/waltz/ballroom etc stop working.. OMG NO!!
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Ashley Raine
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hmm
08-08-2006 19:10
*nods* I reckon that the "only cyber here to come" are more likely to be represented here. /carry on humour. *Wonders if cyber is accepted for reduced rent* OR... how about pics of cartoon boobs? That MUST count for something, eh?! /keep carrying on the humor... LOL |
Miriel Enfield
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08-08-2006 19:32
Humans are sexual creatures by nature. Not to single you out, Zoe, but I'm seeing this sentiment being batted around in the thread, and I want to note that not every human is a sexual creature. Some people are asexual (like me!). As for the question, I did try cyber once, for emotional, rather than sexual reasons. It was one of the dumber things I've done in my time here. _____________________
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Jinx Nordberg
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08-08-2006 21:08
A while back I tried sex in SL just for a giggle, and was shocked by how involved I got in it and how intense it was. I thought it would just be watching a couple of cartoon characters doing naughty things on the screen. I didn't expect to feel like I was actually a part of it!
The experience sobered me a bit and I've been hesitant to try it again, though I would probably do it again sometime with the right person. _____________________
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Aliasi Stonebender
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08-08-2006 22:33
Not to single you out, Zoe, but I'm seeing this sentiment being batted around in the thread, and I want to note that not every human is a sexual creature. Some people are asexual (like me!). It is, however, the standard. Much like saying "humans are bipedal" does not mean I am excluding every amputee and disabled person. _____________________
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Josie McGann
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08-08-2006 22:49
Interesting......
SL is awash in sexual content. You actually have to put some effort into finding clothing thats not sexually evocative. Some of the most lucrative businesses specialise in sexual content..... But going by the responses to this thread, no one is really doing anything.......... We've all been hoodwinked ! *not* Maybe the poll should be a 2-parter. One set of responses for Mains & another for those Alts out there......... ![]() _____________________
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Usagi Musashi
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08-08-2006 23:29
WOW it might be more then LLabs cares to believe
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Crissaegrim Clutterbuck
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08-09-2006 01:46
You can have sex in SL?
Would that be Bill Clinton Sextm? Videodrome Sex? I just like to watch sex? Or did I miss some more participatory feature in some recent patch? After all, in countless threads we've agree it's just pisexsells, right? |
Haenara Cushing
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08-09-2006 05:23
I've done some research into the sex industry in the past for a project a friend was working on that might have gone somewhere. It didn't but I learned just how big it is. Far far bigger than most people realise.
Sex drove the internet. Sex sites are always the first to embrace new technologies and prove them. However, if you look around, the level of interactive choices available is seriously limited. Mostly it's flash 'games' that disappoint in a matter of seconds or minutes. SL offers real interactive opportunities and for that reason I would place a very large wager that there's a lot more of going on than this poll indicates, and that it will only increase as the user base expands from the early demographic of people who really were into having a second life and not just a sex-life! As the graphics quality of these environments increases so does the appeal. How much easier and risk free is it than hiring an escort!? Photoquality, interactive, animated, ANONYMOUS sex, with the edge of knowing there's actually another person at the other end... it's the providers' and users' dreams come true. And those users could not care less who that other person is (beyond moral and legal issues). Why'd you think there's so many of those phone lines advertised in so many magazines? They're mostly voiced by pensioners and the users don't care! One day, if not already, some of the big syndicates that run most of these websites, phonelines etc will set up shop in the game. A few harcore coders employed fulltime to create stuff, hordes of pensioners and low-paid 'escorts' from the far east, russian states etc... The profit potential is there if the userbase grows enough. There is an undertone to this that some may pick up on. If they do I'll nod my head, but I'm not opening the can of worms... |
Ordinal Malaprop
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08-09-2006 05:27
Interesting...... SL is awash in sexual content. You actually have to put some effort into finding clothing thats not sexually evocative. Some of the most lucrative businesses specialise in sexual content..... But going by the responses to this thread, no one is really doing anything.......... We've all been hoodwinked ! *not* Maybe the poll should be a 2-parter. One set of responses for Mains & another for those Alts out there......... ![]() I suspect that the people having lots of sex in SL aren't sitting here in the forums answering stupid polls. They're in SL. Having sex. |
Alanna Sterling
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As an escort...
08-09-2006 05:32
Someone in another thread said LL is "running a porn site." The sex industry is definitely more widespread in SL than RL, but is it the main draw here? Do you think most people in SL cyber? Regularly? Personally, it doesn't work for me; I've explored it, and I just don't respond that way in this environment. I have friends in the sex industry, BDSM culture, ageplayers and yiffers, as well as friends who, like me, don't cyber at all. I know it's not part of everyone's SL, and it seems to get overstated in the forums, but how big is it (pun intended)? ...I rely on sex to make my lindens. It's a decent living, as I have a lot of fun with it. Even so, it's maybe a 1/4 of my time spent online. The rest is shopping, dancing, chatting, shopping, shopping, did I mention shopping? |
Marla Truss
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08-09-2006 06:59
A while back I tried sex in SL just for a giggle, and was shocked by how involved I got in it and how intense it was. I thought it would just be watching a couple of cartoon characters doing naughty things on the screen. I didn't expect to feel like I was actually a part of it! The experience sobered me a bit and I've been hesitant to try it again, though I would probably do it again sometime with the right person. One of the things that fascinates me is the power of Second Life to create complex emotion, including sexual emotion. We are not talking about silly cartoons anymore, but rich complex human feelings. The implications going into the future are both inviting and scary. _____________________
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Tanaquil Karuna
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08-09-2006 07:19
I've never cybered in SL, and I have no plans of doing it. I did try it in another game, years ago, within a role-playing frame, but it's just not my thing. Why go to a virtual world to have virtual sex when I can have real sex with my real man in the real world... heh. (And no, that's not the kind of things that can be better on the paper than for real - not for me, at least
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