From: Yumi Murakami
So you would rather that a real child has to actually get hurt before a paedophile can be caught, because until then they have done nothing wrong?
Would you rather that a person is hit by a car before a car owner is caught, because until then car owners have done nothing wrong?
It works with everything that can possibly be dangerous. You can't punish a person before they commit a crime, no matter for what reason. It would be madness to forbid cars and even punish car owners because there are traffic accidents. Yes, the traffic accidents are sad, and by allowing people to own cars we allow for other people getting killed. But all we can do is to enforce traffic laws and punish people when an accident did happen. Any further control creates a world that is not worth living in for anyone.
From: Yumi Murakami
Well, if they can control their feelings, then they can control them to do without computer-generated images too, surely?
Some heterosexual men rape women. It's a known fact. Some control their feelings by jerking off to porn movies, or engaging in virtual sex, or visiting prostitutes. Outlaw all of these alternative options, and the number of rapes might increase.
Always insert another group of people, preferably a majority, to see if a statement can hold up.
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From: Katier Reitveld
In RL ageplay involves two ADULT 'avatars' - as such is the enjoyment (for them) of dressing up and having sexual activities wearing baby clothing. It's strange but innocent as both 'avatars' are adult in shape.
And if one of them happens to be a midget? Sorry, but it's the physical age that counts. The physical, legal age of any avatar is the age of the person behind the keyboard.
From: Katier Reitveld
*sigh* - Having sex with a minor is ILLEGAL IN RL... pretending to be raped in RL IS NOT...
And having sex with an adult pretending to be a minor is also not illegal in RL. It's the same as having sex with a person pretending to be raped. Both are adults, it's consentual sex, so what?
From: Katier Reitveld
Therefore someone pretending to be raped in SL is likely to do the same in RL.. nothing wrong there..
And pretending to have sex in SL is not the same as having sex in RL. Nonetheless I'm even against virtual sex with a minor. But as long as both persons are adults (27 and 54 years in case of the two banned residents, for crying out loud), I don't care what their virtual costumes look like. That's what an avatar is: a costume.
From: Katier Reitveld
Sexual Ageplay is something that's in my eyes and the eyes of the majority of the community something that's innapropriate.
Well, luckily for all of us, probably even for you, things aren't outlawed because the majority finds them inappropriate. There was a time when rock music was deemed inappropriate by the majority. And sex before marriage. And scratching your ear at the dinner table. Even today, most people think that being gay is inappropriate. Or, in case of the USA, that being an atheist is inappropriate.
We are all likely part of a minority with some of our tastes, be it clothing, hairstyle, food, music or whatever. Before you demand to outlaw an action, ask yourself: Is anyone harmed by it? Is anyone harmed when two adult persons have virtual sex? I don't think so. "It could lead to RL crimes" is a common argument... Some say that gays are also likely to abuse children. Or BDSM lifestylers. Or people of a certain culture or skin color, whatever people happen to dislike and fail to understand.