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Rusty Satyr
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06-21-2007 18:46
From: Xylo Quisling The above poster seems, as many, unnecessarily unkind. I suppose that's not exactly spectacular - all over the internet the hostile way seems to be favoured by a large percentage of posters. It's pointless wishing it weren't so, of course. I suppose it's a lack of sympathy. If something as trivial as an undisciplined child or a few catty forum comments is enough to get people to throw a "Goodbye everyone" fit... my first reaction is to suggest that they need to develop a thicker skin. Terrible things happen all the time. We can surrender and hide from them... we can ignore them as inconsequential or we can fight them head on. Not that I think that last case will make any difference on ANY forum or in ANY virtual world. There is no shortage of griefers that will resort to any tasteless tactic to evoke a reaction. Besides what else can you say to someone who has, supposedly, already left, having dropped their goodbye-ultimatum.
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Peggy Paperdoll
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06-21-2007 18:56
From: Chris Norse Peggy why resort to personal insults? Why result to insulting someone's intelligence? You certainly insulted mine. Changing the subject to suit your argument is insulting to anyone wanting to discuss the topic presented. Get it now? But there might be a level of hope for you......you at least read and understood the context of my statement. I'm done with you..........have to deal with people like you in real life in my line of work. I won't deal with people like you here.
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Chris Norse
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06-21-2007 19:11
From: Peggy Paperdoll Why result to insulting someone's intelligence? You certainly insulted mine.
Changing the subject to suit your argument is insulting to anyone wanting to discuss the topic presented.
Get it now?
But there might be a level of hope for you......you at least read and understood the context of my statement.
I'm done with you..........have to deal with people like you in real life in my line of work. I won't deal with people like you here. Then I wish you good night.
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Cocoanut Koala
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06-21-2007 21:23
From: Francesca Alva Today was the final straw. A request by someone for help with removing a Nazi display from near his parcel was met with ridicule and finally locked by Strife Onizuka - not because it was off-topic but because it broke Forum rules on displaying Nazi symbols. Did she even bother to read the thread? I really don't know because she hasn't replied to the PM I sent her. She has referred it to Linden Review - well good - perhaps they will point out to her that her reason for closing it was nonsense, given the thread content. She could simply have removed the picture. Another forum member used the locked thread for a bit of grandstanding. His opening post on a subject that has been done to death contained inaccuracies - note I say inaccuracies, not an opinion with which I disagree - in fact I did agree with much of what he posted. I clearly offended him by pointing out 1) that the thread to which he referred had not been locked because it had gone off-topic. I strongly suspect he knew that anyway; 2) that he had attributed a quotation to the wrong person. Although he replied to every other person that posted, he ignored me. Petty (of me) you may think, but I have to confess that ever since I was attacked by someone in the Forum a few months ago, I've held back from posting anything serious. I am sick, housebound and in constant pain in RL - I don't need more grief in the virtual world. I have just logged on to find that my post telling everyone that the Nazi items had been removed in world had evoked the ire of one of our great libertarians. Someone should tell him that the price of eternal freedom is eternal vigilance. I am a Jew. I am offended by the glorification of the Nazi regime and I told him so. I see he has responded, but I have not read his post nor that of the person who told him he had struck "Forum Gold" with his dig at me. She has also responded. Call me a coward but I really can't cope with any more cruelty or any cheap shots - and there is a great deal of both in these forums. There is a great deal of fun and wisdom too, and I shall miss that, and I shall miss so many of you, but I'm going. This isn't like Sinatra's retirement - I shan't creep back in a couple of weeks. I looked to see if there were some way to unsubscribe, but regrettably not. Doubtless this post will provoke a great deal of mirth and mockery - and it will run and run and go way off-topic, but somehow I don't think Strife will be closing it any time soon. Except of course I used the word Nazi - hmm good job I'm going before I'm banned. Let me leave you with this posting, made earlier today (not by me, I hasten to add). I'm sure the poster thinks of himself as tolerant. I agree - if tolerant means "I'm all right Jack so the world can screw itself". Didn't read the original thread (and can't find it now), and didn't plow through all of this thread beyond the first couple of responses, but I wanted to let you know that I agree with you. Nazi and anti-semitic paraphernalia are against the TOS as intolerant, as well they should be. I would hope LL would always maintain that standard, as there are many people who would have no desire to share a world with such. Ditto with racist and hate speech, and other forms of intolerance. LL can either uphold these standards as they are supposed to (and certainly not punish those residents trying to uphold them) or give them up; announce same; and lose good people who wouldn't want to be an an anti-semitic place, much less give LL any money to be here. I'm putting this all very mildly, by the way. coco
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Rusty Satyr
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06-21-2007 22:22
From: Cocoanut Koala LL can either uphold these standards as they are supposed to (and certainly not punish those residents trying to uphold them) or give them up; announce same; and lose good people who wouldn't want to be an an anti-semitic place, much less give LL any money to be here.
Obviously, LL can't enforce as they're supposed to... too many AR's too few people, and they've a budget to watch. So they should give up and wave bye bye to the Jewish residents? Shame there's no middle ground there.
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Broken Xeno
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06-21-2007 22:26
I love how easily people can get offended by things, but if you turn around and try to take something of theirs away, it never ceases to amaze how quick they are to react.
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Peggy Paperdoll
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06-21-2007 22:46
It's not a matter of being "easily offended"...........or "thin skinned". It's a matter of common decency. It may amaze you or others how quickly some will respond to having something "taken away"..........but it falls to amaze you when someone raises a question about common decency?
Broadly offensive discussions amaze me.........how someone with any amount of common knowledge of human beings can not know what is "broadly offensive". Hate speach, or anything as hateful and a symbol of Nazism is very "broadly offensive". If it's not to you then maybe you need to check your reality meter. It needs resetting.
BTW.............I'm not a Jew either.
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Broken Xeno
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06-21-2007 22:58
From: Peggy Paperdoll It's not a matter of being "easily offended"...........or "thin skinned". It's a matter of common decency. It may amaze you or others how quickly some will respond to having something "taken away"..........but it falls to amaze you when someone raises a question about common decency?
Broadly offensive discussions amaze me.........how someone with any amount of common knowledge of human beings can not know what is "broadly offensive". Hate speach, or anything as hateful and a symbol of Nazism is very "broadly offensive". If it's not to you then maybe you need to check your reality meter. It needs resetting.
BTW.............I'm not a Jew either. I never said I didn't believe that things like Nazi propaganda should or should not be allowed in Second Life. I don't advocate hate, I definitely do not defend pedophilia, virtual or otherwise. I could give f**k all if they are adults in real life. It's still sick to me. But just like I'd never want someone coming onto MY land and telling me what I can or cannot do, I'll never do that to them. Yes, it's pretty shit when you have neighbors who do that sort of thing, and I've had some pretty bad ones myself. And even politely asked them to remove the offensive material, if they'd be so kind. But at the end of the day, we all want to be free in our second life, and it's full of huge areas of gray where to one person this is offensive, but to another person it's not. The only one who can define what is offensive to you is you, what you perceive is what is real to you. Right, wrong, or indifferent, it doesn't matter, no two people will ever agree 100 percent on an issue. We all have a mute button, and we all have a teleport feature, last I checked, when it works. If a place in Second Life is that horrible to you, maybe you should go somewhere else. There's thousands of places you could go. And if that one place is just so annoying that you really can't get over it, then maybe it really is time to quit.
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Matteo Harris
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06-21-2007 23:18
From 1939 to 1945, 55 million people died. Because of a country using the swasitka as its symbol. Maybe we should still be remembering all those that died and risked there lives.
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Wilhelm Neumann
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06-21-2007 23:36
From: Cocoanut Koala Didn't read the original thread (and can't find it now), and didn't plow through all of this thread beyond the first couple of responses, but I wanted to let you know that I agree with you.
coco the photo was a flag with a swastika and hitler beside it with the salute wearing his uniform also with the swastika it was obvious what it was along with the name of the group "nazi" i read it because people in this thread were making a fuss of the meaning of the swastika lol so i searched it down. This is not an issue of her being mistaken at what she was looking at.. it was obvious what was on the postet and the group name on the poster made it even more obvious.
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Aleister Montgomery
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06-21-2007 23:57
From: Cocoanut Koala Nazi and anti-semitic paraphernalia are against the TOS as intolerant, as well they should be. I would hope LL would always maintain that standard, as there are many people who would have no desire to share a world with such.
Ditto with racist and hate speech, and other forms of intolerance.
LL can either uphold these standards as they are supposed to (and certainly not punish those residents trying to uphold them) or give them up; announce same; and lose good people who wouldn't want to be an an anti-semitic place, much less give LL any money to be here. Ehm... you don't realize the tiny contradiction in there? Any form of intolerance is against the TOS. For this reason, everyone is free to be intolerant about the following things [insert list of bad words and evil symbols here]. If someone walks up to you and utters hateful speech and insults, it's a different situation and counts as harrassment. But how can you claim to be against intolerance and want to forbid people to put up symbols on their property? Be it a pentagram (satanism! the ultimate evil), a confederate flag (slavery!), a crucifix (nothing says "intolerance" more clearly), a South African flag (racism!) or a swastika. And what about the North American flag? Does it stand for intolerance against and murder of native Americans? It's just a symbol. Nazi paraphernalia could simply be put up to make historical reenactment roleplay more realistic. If movies can be produced about this part of history, why should it be forbidden to roleplay it? There are countless computer games about World War II, and perfectly tolerant and open-minded people enjoy playing the bad guys in computer games. The evil warlock, the mafia hitman, ninja assassin, sith lord, ravenous alien, whatever. Even if the people behind this group and the questionable content are indeed Nazis - so what? There's no law against being a close-minded moron, as long as they don't start to harrass or phyically injure people. Baptists parade the streets with "God hates fags" transparents, and the more they are in the public eye, the better we can watch them, and the more apparent and appalling are their hateful ideas. Let's not add the thrill of the forbidden and the attraction of secret societies. Only if their full agenda is openly visible, it's possible to judge them as what they are. Completely outlawing certain bodies of thought in order to prevent the human mind being exposed to them is not only an insult of the human intellect, but also achieves the exact opposite. As an atheist, I'm not allowed by German law to publically speak against the Church. I can point out the flaws of religion in a philosophical discussion, but as soon as I openly criticize a religious organization I could end up in jail. Simply because people feel so strongly about their superstitious beliefs that speaking against it is deemed a "disturbance of the public peace". One German politician (right-wing muddlehead Edmund Stoiber), defending this old law, pointed to the outrage caused by the harmless Mohammed cartoons to show the possible effects of hurting someone's religious feelings. He wanted such cartoons to be a criminal offense. That's where we get when we try to enforce political correctness by limiting free speech.
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Morwen Bunin
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06-22-2007 00:09
As an atheist I am allowed to speak up against the church (ANY church) as long it not done in a discriminating or insulting way...
There are indeed no laws against being a moron, but there are laws here that forbid discrimination on race, religion, sexual preference and so on. And in my opinion, it is good this way...
Morwen.
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Aleister Montgomery
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06-22-2007 00:13
From: Har Fairweather Carl Jung, the psychologist, had quite a bit to say about all this - that some symbols are inherent in the human unconscious and would appear spontaneously when the situation was right. *Coughs* that's why, while I think highly of neurologists, I often shake my head about psychologists. Psychology is surely an interesting field of study, but without some knowledge of the biological background it tends to breed a lot of new age mysticism.
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Aleister Montgomery
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06-22-2007 00:26
From: Morwen Bunin As an atheist I am allowed to speak up against the church (ANY church) as long it not done in a discriminating or insulting way... Well, I assume you live in the USA. Where displaying a swastika is perfectly legal too. As well as owning and reading every book that was ever written. All these things are a bit different in Germany. The danish Mohammed cartoons were already deemed discriminating and insulting by the political right wing. From: Morwen Bunin There are indeed no laws against being a moron, but there are laws here that forbid discrimination on race, religion, sexual preference and so on. And in my opinion, it is good this way...
Morwen. Of course it is a good way, if someone directly discriminates in a hurtful way against a person. But one can hardly forbid people to utter their thoughts or to write them down. And calling a flag or a poster, a mere symbol even, discrimination against others... well, that's a bit far off. The crucifix is also a symbol of discrimination for me, but that's just my personal opinion and I wouldn't want this symbol of pain, suffering, close-mindedness and oppression to be outlawed.
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bilbo99 Emu
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Francesca!!
06-22-2007 00:45
I only just heard about this thread last night at the Forum Cartel party. Francesca please, if you're reading this, please don't go. When I left the party, my RL fiancee was upset I'd spent time with people I share the day with. We went to a SL planetarium and floated among the planets, just the two of us, soaking in an ever-changing sky and some wonderful sounds. Please don't get hemmed in by others interpretations of intolerance or freedom. The SecondLife world is huge. It's big enough for a hundred Utopias. What's around the corner? You'll never know if you don't look.
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Morwen Bunin
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06-22-2007 01:08
From: Aleister Montgomery Well, I assume you live in the USA. Where displaying a swastika is perfectly legal too. Ermm... no, I am Dutch  Morwen.
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Strife Onizuka
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06-22-2007 01:35
From: Francesca Alva I really don't know because she hasn't replied to the PM I sent her. Could you send the PM again, I haven't received anything from you. It looks like you haven't enabled PMs for your forum account. There were several reasons for closing the thread, of which I listed only two. It was also my hope that in the process of reviewing the thread they would delete said imagery from in world too. The thread has not been reviewed as of yet. 1) it was off topic 2) private discussion 3) dispute resolution I don't know which other threads you speak of. I'm going to move this thread because it is off-topic for this forum. ---- The anti-nazi rule goes back before I joined SL, it isn't new, I think it was penned in response to an increase of griefers from that WWII MMO that died; that or not wanting create a hindrance for players from mainland European countries.
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bilbo99 Emu
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06-22-2007 01:37
From: Morwen Bunin Ermm... no, I am Dutch  Morwen. .. and an excellent dancer 
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Broccoli Curry
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06-22-2007 01:38
From: Aleister Montgomery Baptists parade the streets with "God hates fags" Just a small correction here, you're talking about one particular church that happens to call itself a Baptist church, which doesn't generally reflect on Baptists, or the Christian Church worldwide. You're painting with a very broad, and inaccurate, brush there. Context can change everything in a simple statement. Broccoli
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Chris Norse
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06-22-2007 02:55
From: Matteo Harris From 1939 to 1945, 55 million people died. Because of a country using the swasitka as its symbol. Maybe we should still be remembering all those that died and risked there lives. If we are looking at death figures, are we going to bring up all those murdered in the pursuit of the "International Brotherhood of Man"? You know by all the various communist governments. People parade around with pictures of Che on their chests, the man was a murderer and tortured those who opposed him. Are we to ban his picture?
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Chris Norse
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06-22-2007 03:01
From: bilbo99 Emu I only just heard about this thread last night at the Forum Cartel party. Francesca please, if you're reading this, please don't go. When I left the party, my RL fiancee was upset I'd spent time with people I share the day with. We went to a SL planetarium and floated among the planets, just the two of us, soaking in an ever-changing sky and some wonderful sounds. Please don't get hemmed in by others interpretations of intolerance or freedom. The SecondLife world is huge. It's big enough for a hundred Utopias. What's around the corner? You'll never know if you don't look. Bilbo, I am sorry your RL was upset with you. The goal of the group is to meet in world while leaving our forum disagreements behind. I too am sorry Francesca left. But I will always defend freedom. You must remember, my ancestors were kicked out of both Britain and Ireland for being damned disagreeable. 
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Zen Zeddmore
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06-22-2007 05:09
A symbol is a tool, a tool for communication. Most tools and symbols are amenable to being repurposed.
The swatika to me now represents how a gross misinterpretation of Darwin's principles of evolution can be utilized to accomodate some people's greed for power and control.
It reminds me how (if they'd been sucsessfull in eliminating all but the arian race) that the resulting limited gene pool would likly see them off as well.
So for me it is a powerfull reminder of the need for diversity, tolerance, and casting bigotry aside.
Because I/we too can repurpose a tool to suit our needs.
It is not the tool that exhibits our shortcomings, but how we use it.
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Brenda Connolly
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06-22-2007 05:53
From: Aleister Montgomery Ehm... you don't realize the tiny contradiction in there? Any form of intolerance is against the TOS. For this reason, everyone is free to be intolerant about the following things [insert list of bad words and evil symbols here].
If someone walks up to you and utters hateful speech and insults, it's a different situation and counts as harrassment. But how can you claim to be against intolerance and want to forbid people to put up symbols on their property? Be it a pentagram (satanism! the ultimate evil), a confederate flag (slavery!), a crucifix (nothing says "intolerance" more clearly), a South African flag (racism!) or a swastika. And what about the North American flag? Does it stand for intolerance against and murder of native Americans? It's just a symbol.
. Uhm are you referring to The Stars and Stripes, in this reference? Or did someone issue a North Americam Flag, I'm not aware of?  (I'm teasing, I'm pretty sure I know what you mean, and I agree). Otherwise excellent points. We can add a hundred more. To many Christians, the Star of David would be offensive. Half of Ireland may fin the Union jJck Offensive, Half may find the Tri Colr offensive, Koreans fond the Rising Sun ofensive, Eastern Europeans find the Soviet Hammer and Sickle offensive........ Words and symbols only have as much power as we give them. I believe the more we allow these groups to spew their venom, the less credible they become. Muzzling them gives them a Mystique a lot of times, a Counter Cultute Aura that attracts directionless people. I am of the "Sticks and Stones' mind, nothing you say or show me can cause any harm, only actions can affect me. I was not aware that Nazi Symbolism is specifically against the TOS. If this is the case then the OP was absolutely within her rights to take action, and kudos for whoever took the necessary action. I regret anythin I said to make her leave, and I would hope she would reconsider, she was thoughtful poster in my opinion.
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Kitty Barnett
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06-22-2007 06:43
From: Strife Onizuka The anti-nazi rule goes back before I joined SL, it isn't new, I think it was penned in response to an increase of griefers from that WWII MMO that died; that or not wanting create a hindrance for players from mainland European countries. Many European countries have laws against hate speech, so I'd think it's more about legal liability to continue to conduct business in those countries. If LL wouldn't actively censor hate speech, it would face the same fate that Google did which forced it apply censoring to its results.
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Aleister Montgomery
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06-22-2007 19:10
From: Broccoli Curry Just a small correction here, you're talking about one particular church that happens to call itself a Baptist church, which doesn't generally reflect on Baptists, or the Christian Church worldwide. You're painting with a very broad, and inaccurate, brush there.
Context can change everything in a simple statement.
Broccoli You mean, other Baptists don't think that their god hates / utterly dislikes homosexuals? They wouldn't offend homosexuals by calling them sinners? And they don't raise their children in the same intolerant mindset? They removed Leviticus 20:13 (god's order to kill all homosexuals) as well as Paul's hate speech from their Bible? Anyway, I do tolerate all Baptists even if some of them publically speak their minds in ways that I don't agree with. That was my point. In the same way, I tolerate neo-Nazis as long as they don't try to beat me or others to a pulp or to overtake the government. Btw, I'm pretty sure they don't all share the same agenda too, but are, as any other group, judged by those who shout loudest. They'll also be judged by their written agenda (or holy book).
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