Prior to SecondLife, I used to participate in numerous other and older virtual world systems.
Somehow I've always ended up joining these groups that tried to come up with purposals or talk with the company about possible improvements to the platform.
In all of these times, i've always faced one constant problem: I am an Israeli, who lives in Israel. As result, my timezone (which can be concidered to be europian) was very inconvenient for meetings: To show up, I had to show up at 3am and stick around until about 5am - on a weekly basis.
Did I complain? Not really. I showed up anyway, when I could. They knew what I had to go trough to show up, but being a small factor of the user population, there was nothing much they or I could do.
This is just how things are going to be on an American ran system. The opposite would happen if LindenLab was stationed in Germany - the American minority would have had to stay up at 3am and show up half asleep, and there would be not much you can do.
LordFly did not do anything wrong. Stop poking him.