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What Defines a Forum Poster's Credibility?

Olympia Rebus
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06-21-2005 19:45
From: Forseti Svarog
i like chip and jonquille's posts.

Me too.
From: Forseti Svarog

Credibility points:
- be articulate
- be mature (don't cause or fall too easily into flame fests)
- be willing to listen, even if you don't change your mind
- have an independent mind and voice -- no one likes a sycophant (or a martyr)

humor goes a long way in my book too.

if you have well-thought-out ideas and actually attempt to *communicate* (i.e. two-way), then you've got credibility in my eyes.

I also try to give every avatar the benefit of the doubt on the alt issue until it becomes blatantly obvious.


Anther factor that contibutes to a poster's credability is how well they've read the post they're responding to. Some people skim a post and send a self-rightious "you idiot" response to a position that was never stated in the first place. (hmmm... maybe I beter reread the original post before hitting the reply button).
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06-21-2005 20:11
Frankly, I'm tired of forum posts about forum posts.
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06-21-2005 20:26
For me, it's pretty simple.. a "no BS" individual gains my respect, no matter how long they've played SL, whether they're an alt or not, and no matter how the majority feels about them. I have problems with people who try and tell everyone how to think and act, and I have problems with long drawn out posts from people who have far too much time on their hands.... you know the types. I don't care about a 15 paragraph essay on how land sales are effecting the SL economy or some such. I just skip over those, though. :)
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06-21-2005 20:55
From: Buster Peel
Frankly, I'm tired of forum posts about forum posts.


:D

Does seem to be the forum fashion, lately, doesn't it? Me, I read through a thread, I don't look at the names unless I have a strong reaction, positive or negative. Logos-driven, I suppose. And yes, I often stake out a position either between the two sides or way off to the left or right.

That way, no one usually bothers me, or bothers to read what I write.
Flavian Molinari
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06-21-2005 21:41
From: Jonquille Noir
  1. State your facts and opinions clearly without confusing the latter for the former.

  • Don't view every disagreement as a personal attack.
  • Don't play the perpetual victim role. No one respects a doormat, especially not a self-made doormat.
  • Don't presume to speak for anyone but yourself.
  • Don't tell other adults what's good for them or what they should want.



  • This is my sentiments exactly. I would post more often but usually somone has posted the same opinion first. I would guess that would give them credibility in my eyes. I also don't read post that are more than a couple of paragraphs long.
    Nolan Nash
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    06-21-2005 21:44
    Gains credibilty:

    - Those who can say "I was wrong".

    - Those who have the abilty to adjust their views, based upon the thoughts of others. I am not talking door mats here, just those who can say "hey, maybe just because I thought a thought, it doesn't make it 100% right."

    - Encouragers. Those who are always ready to offer support.

    - Good clowns. Those who can make people laugh, but not at the expense of others.

    - Diffusers. Those with the knack for entering a thread and diffusing the powderkeg, WITHOUT taking sides or showing bias.

    - Helpers. Those who will go to great length to help another player with a problem.

    - Fun thread starters. These folks give us all some much needed relief from the threads that are currently driving us crazy. They make up games, and the like.

    - Open source suppliers. This goes for many of the contributions of scripters in the script library, clothing artists (like Chip with his awesome free templates), etc. No, I don't think everything should be free, but basic scripts, and the like, are cool.

    - Pioneers. Those who come up with great new ideas that help all SLers when instituted (if instituted).

    - Empaths. Those who support and encourage someone who is obviously hurting.

    - Tutorial writers. Selfless folks who help 100s of people.


    Does not gain credibilty:

    - Expecting others to behave the same way you behave.

    - Admonitions "from on high", especially when they are directed at people defending themselves, and not the instigator.

    - Busy bodies. Those who are worried about what someone else builds (if it's within the ToS), other players sexual habits, etc. This type can be quite obsessive.

    - Ratings abusers. "You're getting negged in-world, because you disagreed with me on the forums." Bleh.

    - Backpeddlers. "Oh, that's not what I meant", when it obviously was.

    - Bad Clowns. Those whose humor is at the expense of others.

    - Obsessives. Those who simply can't participate in a thread without dragging non-related past or ongoing issues into their posts.

    - Professional Victims. Especially those who go about prodding people or groups, then become indignant when the response they get is anything short of "I agree with you 100%".

    - Sycophants. Sickening, and usually very resistant to being told that they are one.

    - Labelers. Those who feel an overwhelming urge to categorize everyone and everything. Insultive acronyms is a biggie.

    - Those who can never say "I was wrong", or "It was my fault". The worst example is when someone spouts off some accusation, based upon technology they don't grasp. To make things worse - when faced with irrefutable evidence to the contrary, they keep fighting, usually tossing out some red herrings to divert attention from the fact they were caught making uninformed accusations.

    - Wanna-be moderators. Highly annoying. It blows my mind when someone says, "if you don't like what so and so has to say, ignore them.", all the while not practicing what they preach. What I mean is, if they subscribe to that point of view, then they should be ignoring the person they are criticizing, if they are bothered enough that they feel need to admonish them.

    - Underdog cheerleaders. This is that person who will agree with anyone who they view as an underdog, for no other reason than that. This is common amongst those who view themselves as underdogs. Temporary sycophants, and those who are contrary for the sake of being contrary.

    - Envy monsters. Just go do it yourself. Nothing is accomplished by bitching that "so and so has a bigger slice of the pie". If one wants a bigger piece, go cut one, but be prepared, there are no free handouts. We all have the same tools at our disposal.

    - Volume monsters. Those who feel the need to respond to and usually critique and correct every post in a thread, with WAY too many words. It's irksome to say the least, to view clumps of 4 or 5 long posts in a row by the same poster, on multiple pages of a thread, usually telling others why their view is "right". I suppose they are the type who set out to "win" a thread.

    - Answer badgers. "I am still waiting." No one is required to give an answer. Especially if the question doesn't pertain to the person being badgered.

    - Those who say "it's a game!" or "it's not a game!", usually quite angrily. This type simply can't grasp the broadness of SL's appeal.

    - Single-minded, political battering rams. This type is why I generally steer around political or religious threads.

    - Sailor Mouth. Cannot have a disagreement without hurling cuss words. Loses ALL credibilty.
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    Jauani Wu
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    06-22-2005 02:22
    i tabulated everybodies credibility ranking - link
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    06-22-2005 03:27
    From: Nolan Nash
    - Those who can say "I was wrong".


    From: someone
    - Those who have the abilty to adjust their views, based upon the thoughts of others. I am not talking door mats here, just those who can say "hey, maybe just because I thought a thought, it doesn't make it 100% right."


    From: someone
    - Encouragers. Those who are always ready to offer support.


    From: someone
    - Good clowns. Those who can make people laugh, but not at the expense of others.


    From: someone
    - Defusers. Those with the knack for entering a thread and diffusing the powderkeg, WITHOUT taking sides or showing bias.


    From: someone
    - Helpers. Those who will go to great length to help another player with a problem.


    From: someone
    - Fun thread starters. These folks give us all some much needed relief from the threads that are currently driving us crazy. They make up games, and the like.


    From: someone
    - Open source suppliers. This goes for many of the contributions of scripters in the script library, clothing artists (like Chip with his awesome free templates), etc. No, I don't think everything should be free, but basic scripts, and the like, are cool.


    From: someone
    - Pioneers. Those who come up with great new ideas that help all SLers when instituted (if instituted).


    From: someone
    - Empaths. Those who support and encourage someone who is obviously hurting.


    From: someone
    - Tutorial writers. Selfless folks who help 100s of people.

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    Caliandris Pendragon
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    Donations less productive and beneficial
    06-22-2005 04:10
    From: blaze Spinnaker


    Sorry, someone who sells something and makes money from it in SL is far more productive and beneficial to secondlife then someone who donates their time.

    Donating time is not scaleable. Business models are.

    Hmmm...I am not sure how you work this one out Blaze...

    I have made very small amounts of money in SL, having donated my time in many projects and on many builds. My current project, the Pot Healers in Numbakulla, was built entirely with donated time. A whole sim, which includes a free game, free clothes, free prize objects, and, by common assent, a beautiful environment. I would like to know how that is less of a contribution than a sim which is mainly a shop or mainly a mall or mainly a club and mainly about making money?

    It is true that the commercial model is the one which predominates in SL, but there are a lot of people who are working towards a different model, who are trying to provide a better experience for fellow players, and I cannot see why you devalue that as worth any less than someone who is motivated by money.

    But then I would say that wouldn't I?
    Cali
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    06-22-2005 05:55
    From: Jauani Wu
    i tabulated everybodies credibility ranking - link



    WoW I'm in the top 10.

    Damn, use to be in top 5 before the Purge...

    :D
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    Colette Meiji
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    06-22-2005 06:17
    From: blaze Spinnaker
    Ah, ok, you're more speaking from a general "credibility marketing" sense? For example, if you were to work on a 'brand avatar', these are the things that you might do?

    Yes, that is a great conversation to have.

    - I think being female helps. Gives you a lot of credibility, strangely. All my ALTs are female, for example.

    - Posting a good looking picture of yourself in the Gallery helps. If people think you're "cool" in real life, they will follow you here.

    - Not selling any business items or creating any items or doing any business things in world that grief a lot of people. For example, land scanners are not helpful for credibility.

    - Generally being very very careful not to piss anyone vocal off, or if you must pointedly have to, make sure they are universally disliked. Even then, unwise, because their is a silent minority that happens to agree with a lot of things those people think.

    - Friends in high places do not help. People will get jealous and angry because of the favouritism. If are well liked by the Lindens - keep it to yourself!

    - Being super nice guy does not help, btw. Giving everything away for free, donating lots of time, etc - people just start to think you're a bit of a doormat. Be successful. *DO* something successful.

    - Though, caveat - be well known throughout SL. Give away one item that everyone knows about. Just don't go crazy.

    - Don't fall in with elitist groups, elitist IRC channels, elitist blogging sites, etc etc ad nauseum. I know, you think I harp on this one, but trust me .. there is a silent minority (and a rather vocal one) that thinks that's all utter crap.

    For me a good example is Starax, Kermit, Rathe and a bunch of others. There are a bunch of other people who would be on this list if they didn't make the mistake of falling in with the FIC.



    I have trouble with this post.

    Not becuase of of whether the information is factual or not.

    But becuase it is implying - specifically at the begining - creating a Persona of sorts, a "Brand Avatar"

    I have have a bit of information that may come as a COMPLETE surprise to some people -

    Some of the posters here are just being themselves.

    While I am supportive of people who role play in Second life - even the majority of the time - I really dont see a reason to carry that role play to the forums.

    But even if people do do that - please dont presume that the rest of us are.

    I speak my mind on the issues, I dont worry about myself in any sort of marketable sense - Im not a product. My credibilty and reputaion are whatever the sum total of how people feel about the things I say. I have no plan or specific agenda on that.

    I dont have any alts - the whole concept of having an Alt so you can manipulate their "brand" or reputation seems unsettling to me.
    Ingrid Ingersoll
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    06-22-2005 06:25
    From: blaze Spinnaker
    Anyone who expresses an opinion the majority agrees with loses all credibility in my eyes.


    That's a shame. You're probably writing off a lot of intelligent people and their opinions for no other reason than your own bias.
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    06-22-2005 06:39
    From: Hiro Pendragon

    <lots 'o pics>

    LOL! Its uncanny that several of the people in those pics you posted actually came to mind as I was writing!

    Are you sure you are not a Betazoid Hiro? :p
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    Cindy Claveau
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    06-22-2005 06:58
    From: Colette Meiji

    I have have a bit of information that may come as a COMPLETE surprise to some people -

    Some of the posters here are just being themselves.


    <3 Collette!

    Travis listed "-Prolific posters less than 30 days old are commonly assumed to be alts of older AV's." -- he could just as well have been talking about me. I'm not an alt, but I have had years of online experience and discussion groups. It's very familiar territory to me. I'm a type-o-holic. I'm also opinionated. All of that combined means that I waltzed in here in my first week and started posting -- I hope intelligently.

    (Caveat: I also tried to ease in gently and ask questions. Brand new folks have no business jumping all over issues they don't understand. )

    So the lesson to be drawn from this? That Generalizations are generally untrue.

    I'd like to add my own pet peeve to the list. If you want your post to be read, make it readable. Spelling errors happen to the best of us, but far more important is white space and punctuation. Breaking up your post with empty lines helps the readers' eyes along and means they're more likely to finish reading and actually understand. Run-on sentences are a plot by the acetaminophen industry to promote sales of aspirins. And massive abuse of exclamation points means you need to lay off the drama!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    That said, I didn't even know what the FIC was until a few days ago. Now I just have to figure out who they are so I know whether I want to join them or toilet paper their avies.

    :)
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    06-22-2005 07:03
    Every person that I have met thus far in the game who were among those accused as "FIC" have been rational, cheerful, helpful people.

    I cant help it if some people form opinions about others before actually talking to them.
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    06-22-2005 07:17
    From: blaze Spinnaker
    Anyone who expresses an opinion the majority agrees with loses all credibility in my eyes.

    So Blaze, you are in favor of killing anyone above the age of 50? The majority says this is wrong. Either you support killing people over 50 years old or you lose credibility in our eyes. ;)

    Seriously Blaze, that is one of the most silly statements ever. You cant have a generalized blanket statement for EVERY opinion.
    Blayze Raine
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    06-22-2005 07:20
    From: Cindy Claveau
    <3 Collette!

    Travis listed "-Prolific posters less than 30 days old are commonly assumed to be alts of older AV's." -- he could just as well have been talking about me. I'm not an alt, but I have had years of online experience and discussion groups. It's very familiar territory to me. I'm a type-o-holic. I'm also opinionated. All of that combined means that I waltzed in here in my first week and started posting -- I hope intelligently.

    (Caveat: I also tried to ease in gently and ask questions. Brand new folks have no business jumping all over issues they don't understand. )

    So the lesson to be drawn from this? That Generalizations are generally untrue.



    Same with me, Cindy.

    I have been in other online forums for quite a bit. Even though I have been here 6 months, I just lurked around here watching things and getting a feel for the atmosphere before I decided to do some head on posting.

    IMO, I think what loses credibility with me is the sympathy sisters. The ones that have nothing useful to post but will back up their friend, just because they are "their friend." This is usually the whole clique that will come and defend their friend giving no credence to the topic at hand. It also happens when the friend posts a new idea or new product, there is a rush to give the pats on the back regardless of the quality.
    Buster Peel
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    06-22-2005 07:37
    From: blaze Spinnaker
    Anyone who expresses an opinion the majority agrees with loses all credibility in my eyes.

    That's a leap from contrarian to cynic.

    In investing, doing the opposite of what everybody else is doing is usually a good idea in the long run. That isn't about credibility, that's just a simple way to capitalize on the tendency of free markets to overreact.

    When it comes to ideas, I suggest you think for yourself.

    Myself, I tend to have a low opinion of people who constantly say provocative things for the sake of being provocative.

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    06-22-2005 07:42
    From: Travis Lambert
    I think this is one of the first threads I've actually *started* in General - so be gentle, guys :D

    I'd like to share some of my observations about 'credibility' in the forums - I'm very curious to hear what you think of them, and whether I'm on-track, or off-base here. :)

    Note that all of these ideas aren't meant to be *justifiable* - just a possible charachterization of how we may perceive folks here:

    General Credibility on the forums:
    -Posters older than 1 year tend to get more 'assumed respect' than younger posters.
    -Prolific posters less than 30 days old are commonly assumed to be alts of older AV's.
    -Once an poster acheives sub-zero credibility, it is difficult to regain it, despite age
    -Posters with existing credibility can 'get away' with more than those that don't

    Things that increase credibility:
    -Donating one's time to enhance SL with a clear lack of personal benefit
    -Being clearly talented in one way or another (An expert)
    -Posting succinctly and intelligently
    -Being respectful of those who don't respect you
    -Respecting opinions that differ from your own (Disagreeing respectfully)
    -Being likeable

    Things that decrease credibility:
    -Posts that are chronically over 1 screen in length
    -Being combative in a disrespectful way
    -Chronic posts using immature language
    -Very bad grammar or spelling
    -Chronic overdramatization or personalization of issues
    -Being vocally supportive of a universally unsupported idea
    -Strongly denouncing Second Life
    -Holding an in-world reputation as a griefer
    -Doing things that appear to most as 'harmful' to Second Life
    -Posting as an Alt
    -Chronic sarcasm

    Neutral to credibility:
    -Being subtly supportive of a universally unsupported idea
    -Humor

    I'm not suggesting that any one of these items alone make a poster credible or not credible. What I am suggesting, is that one could consider credibilty in terms of a 'value' - that can rise or fall depending on the the SL age of the Poster, the content of their posts, and their contribution to our community.

    Thoughts? :)



    Consistency.
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    06-22-2005 07:45
    From: Catherine Cotton
    Consistency.



    Jesus I'm not credible, I think i'm the least consistent poster in the world.

    First I troll!, then I joke!, then I become serious!

    Maybe I have split personalities!
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    06-22-2005 07:53
    From: Cindy Claveau
    <3 Collette!
    ...

    So the lesson to be drawn from this? That Generalizations are generally untrue.
    ...

    That said, I didn't even know what the FIC was until a few days ago. Now I just have to figure out who they are so I know whether I want to join them or toilet paper their avies.
    :)


    Here Cindy is suggested reading for possible "FIC" sightings.

    Beta Members - Oldest of the Old

    :) :p
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    06-22-2005 07:53
    From: Willow Zander
    Jesus I'm not credible, I think i'm the least consistent poster in the world.

    First I troll!, then I joke!, then I become serious!

    Maybe I have split personalities!


    Naw..with my...and my bad spelling, and my trolling, and my only-funny-to-me humor, I think I have you beat on the sub-credible list.

    You have that whole lovable, squeezable thing going for you!
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    06-22-2005 07:55
    From: David Valentino
    Naw..with my...and my bad spelling, and my trolling, and my only-funny-to-me humor, I think I have you beat on the sub-credible list.

    You have that whole lovable, squeezable thing going for you!


    And you have the whole OMG I must get him into bed thing going for you ;)
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    06-22-2005 07:58
    What a great thread Travis! I thought I was scoring all aces until I saw Ulrika's input (I KNOW it's "a lot" and not "alot" but sometimes my fingers rebel against me!!! :( )

    Someone should combine all this input and create a Cosmopolitan-style Forum Cred test. Something like this:

    1. How do you describe people who disagree with you?
    a. Intellecual equals with different world views and perspectives (+10)
    b. Uneducated drones in dire need of your education (-5)
    c. Members of an acronym-rich conspiracy (-10)
    d. Hitler (-50)
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    06-22-2005 08:06
    From: Aimee Weber

    Someone should combine all this input and create a Cosmopolitan-style Forum Cred test. Something like this:

    1. How do you describe people who disagree with you?
    a. Intellecual equals with different world views and perspectives (+10)
    b. Uneducated drones in dire need of your education (-5)
    c. Members of an acronym-rich conspiracy (-10)
    d. Hitler (-50)


    Ha! Classic :D
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