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No Kids in the Main Grid: Redux

FlipperPA Peregrine
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06-10-2006 14:04
Expired gift cards still are limited in number, and 99% of minors don't have them. That's a pretty big percentage if you ask me! :)

I've been IM'd by two separate teens since this policy went into effect who had been moved to the teen grid then banned, while the other had left voluntarily, to say, "Hello, I'm back!". I used to take the time to AR this, as they had clearly gone out of their way to lie and break the rules and circumvent the age verification. I don't think I'm going to bother any more, as its not my job to policing this; its LL's, and given the amount of minors who are apparently around now (I'm not the only one seeing them), who the heck has the time to do LL's job for them?

Please reconsider, Linden Lab. We're already a grey-goo attack and a flood of minors down; stop the bleeding.

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Hiro Pendragon
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06-10-2006 14:19
From: FlipperPA Peregrine
Expired gift cards still are limited in number, and 99% of minors don't have them. That's a pretty big percentage if you ask me! :)

1% of say, 100,000, for example, is 1000 teens. I wouldn't be surprised if there were ebay auctions to buy them, too.


From: someone
I've been IM'd by two separate teens since this policy went into effect who had been moved to the teen grid then banned, while the other had left voluntarily, to say, "Hello, I'm back!". I used to take the time to AR this, as they had clearly gone out of their way to lie and break the rules and circumvent the age verification.

How, clearly?

From: someone
I don't think I'm going to bother any more, as its not my job to policing this;

By the TOS, it actually is your job, and all of ours; knowingly concealing a teen's age can (and should) result in action by LL. (So that they don't get sued.)

From: someone
Please reconsider, Linden Lab. We're already a grey-goo attack and a flood of minors down; stop the bleeding.


aye.
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06-10-2006 14:26
Hiro, I suppose I could use one or more of my alts as a backup / data-store for my work. A time-consuming task, but one that I could do given a few days. As for griefing, I'm not the griefing type though A Certain player might disagree on that one.
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Surreal Farber
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06-10-2006 14:29
There are indeed under 18 folks who are mature and responsible as well as over 18 folks who need a spanking and a time out. In a perfect world we could have a maturity filter, but since many of us live in a very litigious and paranoid and puritanical U.S., I don't want to have to risk the legal crap.

So Linden Labs, please pull your collective heads out of whatever place you'e stuck them. One rabid Congressman or fundie parents group and you can spend your investment $$ defending lawsuits while looking for new jobs.
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Jonquille Noir
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06-10-2006 14:39
Well said, Surreal. You've touched on the main reason why I don't want anyone under 18 in the main grid. Those kids have parents, and those parents have lawyers.

It has nothing to do with the maturity of the teen. I have a nephew who's far more mature than most adults I hang around with. He's a brilliant kid with a good head on his shoulders. He's a 2-time Honor Merit scholarship winner, has never succumbed to peer pressure to do anything stupid, (and gotten caught, I should say) and is an all around great kid. But he's got a mother who would freak the hell out if she found someone taking advantage of her son, and she'd sue the pants off the offender, or the company that allowed it to happen.

I, as an adult, do not want to have to censor my own actions in an 18+ environment out of fear that a kid and/or that kid's parents may be nearby. I don't want to be sued for anything, and I don't want LL to be sued for anything that may affect me and my enjoyment of SL or my ability to have my business here.

(And quite frankly, if I found out someone in SL was taking advantage of my nephew, whether he snuck in here or not, I would make it my sole purpose to make their SLs a living hell, provided I couldn't find them to do worse in RL.)

From: Surreal Farber
There are indeed under 18 folks who are mature and responsible as well as over 18 folks who need a spanking and a time out. In a perfect world we could have a maturity filter, but since many of us live in a very litigious and paranoid and puritanical U.S., I don't want to have to risk the legal crap.

So Linden Labs, please pull your collective heads out of whatever place you'e stuck them. One rabid Congressman or fundie parents group and you can spend your investment $$ defending lawsuits while looking for new jobs.
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Hiro Pendragon
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06-10-2006 14:42
From: Surreal Farber
There are ... over 18 folks who need a spanking and a time out.

:)

From: someone
So Linden Labs, please pull your collective heads out of whatever place you'e stuck them. One rabid Congressman or fundie parents group and you can spend your investment $$ defending lawsuits while looking for new jobs.

Assuming they are failing to do something about this and not telling us.

I'm going to give Linden Lab the benefit of the doubt, and say that they have a plan already, but aren't telling us. Assuming this is the case, I ask for Linden Lab to please make this publicly available so we are all sure that action is being taken to prevent minors from entering and staying on the main grid.

However, if Linden Lab really doesn't have this plan, then ditto what Surreal said.
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Seronis Zagato
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06-10-2006 14:43
The age requirements was a prim reason I started playing in SL rather than on some other online games. I personally know many teens twice as mature as half the other adults I know. And I've encouraged them to come to SL and play around, on the TEEN grid. If the teens are mature enough they're best left being good examples of the right way to act in their own servers.

I think the only age verification should be by credit card or paypal. And they should reinstate a nominal signup fee like they used to have. 10$ or 5$ either one would be fine with me. For the teens with empty 'gift cards' a nominal fee will make Alts an unprofitable idea.
Kyevan Thurston
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06-10-2006 15:50
Well, I personally care less about age, and more about maturity - and not just in SL either. Take cars with the "no young people in the front seat" stickers because of the airbags. Tall young people, short adults. That's physical and mesurable, and they still use age instead of a more proper mesure. I'm personally looking foward to something like OSMP getting to a usable state and/or Linden releaseing the SL server. One reason I like the web is that each site admin has to deal with their own site.

(And one company going in the red wouldn't kill the comunity :P)
FlipperPA Peregrine
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06-10-2006 15:50
From: Hiro Pendragon
How, clearly? By the TOS, it actually is your job, and all of ours; knowingly concealing a teen's age can (and should) result in action by LL. (So that they don't get sued.)

Circumventing by using a credit card that is not their own is clearly circumventing an age verification system. :)

Knowingly concealing would mean I have proof the two who IM'd me are teens; I don't have definitive proof that would stand up in court. Can you show me the part of the ToS where it says if I suspect an avatar may be a teen in SL, I must notify Linden Lab? All I see is this:

From: Terms of Service
2.2 You must be 13 years of age or older to access Second Life; minors over the age of 13 are only permitted in a separate area, which adults are generally prohibited from using. Linden Lab cannot absolutely control whether minors or adults gain unauthorized access to the Service.

You must be at least 13 years of age to participate in the Service. Users under the age of 18 are prohibited from accessing the Service other than in the area designated by Linden Lab for use by users from 13 through 17 years of age (the "Teen Area";). Users age 18 and older are prohibited from accessing the Teen Area. Any user age 18 and older who gains unauthorized access to the Teen Area is in breach of this Agreement and may face immediate termination of any or all Accounts held by such user for any area of the Service.

By accepting this agreement in connection with an Account outside the Teen Area, you represent that you are an adult 18 years of age or older. By accepting this agreement in connection with an Account for use in the Teen Area, you represent that (i) you are at least 13 years of age and less than 18 years of age; (ii) you have read and accept this Agreement; (iii) your parent or legal guardian has consented to you having an Account for use of the Teen Area and participating in the Service, and to providing your personal information for your Account; and (iv) your parent or legal guardian has read and accepted this Agreement.

Linden Lab cannot absolutely control whether minors gain access to the Service other than the Teen Area, and makes no representation that users outside the Teen Area are not minors. Linden Lab cannot absolutely control whether adults gain access to the Teen Area of the Service, and makes no representation that users inside the Teen Area are not adults. Adult employees, contractors and partners of Linden Lab regularly conduct their work in the Teen Area. Linden Lab cannot ensure that other users will not provide Content or access to Content that parents or guardians may find inappropriate or that any user may find objectionable.


From: Community Standards
Reporting Abuse
Residents should report violations of the Community Standards using the Abuse Reporter tool located under the Help menu in the in-world tool bar. Every Abuse Report is individually investigated, and the identity of the reporter is kept strictly confidential. If you need immediate assistance, in-world Liaisons may be available to help. Look for Residents with the last name Linden.

"Should", not "must"... and definitely not "you'll get in trouble unless you decide to Abuse Report a ToS violation".

For all I know, the avatars could be age-playing. But rather than reporting it for further Linden investigation, I may now choose not to fill out an Abuse Report. Nowhere in the ToS does it state that you must ever fill out an Abuse Report; its voluntary. My point being here, that I think it kind of sucks that LL is saying, "Well, since some minors got on the grid anyway, and we relied on Live Help / Mentors / good citizens to weed out the few, we're going to forego that and open the floodgates to help improve our bottom line, now relying on the same good citizens / volunteers to be a police force." That really sucks. I don't think it was LL's intention, but that's how its playing out.

Regards,

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crucial Armitage
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06-10-2006 16:18
From: Surreal Farber
There are indeed under 18 folks who are mature and responsible as well as over 18 folks who need a spanking and a time out. In a perfect world we could have a maturity filter, but since many of us live in a very litigious and paranoid and puritanical U.S., I don't want to have to risk the legal crap.

So Linden Labs, please pull your collective heads out of whatever place you'e stuck them. One rabid Congressman or fundie parents group and you can spend your investment $$ defending lawsuits while looking for new jobs.



THIS is the real issue here put aside all the reasons why teens and greafers would effect the world.

lets say 10 year old johnny who is smart enough to fill out all the information and gets in world. makes it through orientation island and the welcome area.
Then little johnny finds him self watching 2 aves having graphic sex with very XXX rated pictures on the wall. or he visits the XXX video place and figures out how to watch one of the very XXX videos they rent. This would be a travesty in and of it self.

now lets say mommy walks up behind Johnny while hes watching aves having sex or hes watching that video.
now mommy is a very Internet and computer savvy women she immediately begins screen capturing everything johnny is watching.
then burns it on to a DVD and then drops it off at her very expensive lawyers office

this situation could spell the end of second life as we know it.
milady Guillaume
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06-10-2006 16:21
From: crucial Armitage
...now lets say mommy walks up behind Johnny while hes watching aves having sex or hes watching that video.
now mommy is a very Internet and computer savvy women she immediately begins screen capturing everything johnny is watching.
then burns it on to a DVD and then drops it off at her very expensive lawyers office

this situation could spell the end of second life as we know it.


Would mommy be investigated for allowing her 10 year old access to this kind of material?
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06-10-2006 16:24
From: milady Guillaume
Would mommy be investigated for allowing her 10 year old access to this kind of material?


Not when that material supposedly age-verifies.
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crucial Armitage
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06-10-2006 16:31
From: milady Guillaume
Would mommy be investigated for allowing her 10 year old access to this kind of material?



for arguments sake
assume she stopped it when she came in to check on what little johnny was doing.


what LL is doing here by removing any kind of age verification is knowingly giving ANYONE EASY access to mature themed material. regardless of there age.
crucial Armitage
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06-10-2006 16:37
I think what anyone who believes removing age restrictions a bad thing because in essence that's what they have done should send a letter to [email]philip@lindenlab.com[/email] expressing there concerns.
Einsman Schlegel
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06-10-2006 16:52
Last time I checked, I had to be 18 to beable to watch a porn movie. When did this change?
crucial Armitage
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06-10-2006 16:56
From: Einsman Schlegel
Last time I checked, I had to be 18 to beable to watch a porn movie. When did this change?


It did not change but those kinds of things are available in second life and the movie was just an example. There is plenty of other kinds of mature themed material in SL that would be just as bad and Easily accessible by any one.
and regardless of my examples i gave witch were on the extreme side this is still a very real possibility.
Kyevan Thurston
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06-10-2006 18:14
From: crucial Armitage
It did not change but those kinds of things are available in second life and the movie was just an example. There is plenty of other kinds of mature themed material in SL that would be just as bad and Easily accessible by any one.
and regardless of my examples i gave witch were on the extreme side this is still a very real possibility.

Not all of SL is porn, though. Heck, I wouldn't even say MOST of it is. I've only seen one or two areas dedicated to it, and then a few areas where a small portion of it COULD be adult, but also had other things going on.
I'd go so far as to say that, for the majority of teens, I'm more worried about them developing gambling habits.
crucial Armitage
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06-10-2006 19:09
From: Kyevan Thurston
Not all of SL is porn, though. Heck, I wouldn't even say MOST of it is. I've only seen one or two areas dedicated to it, and then a few areas where a small portion of it COULD be adult, but also had other things going on.
I'd go so far as to say that, for the majority of teens, I'm more worried about them developing gambling habits.



Indeed most of second life it not porn but there is a great deal of second life that is considered mature where just about anything can show up at any time.
for instance my shop in gama is in a mature rated sim most of the sim is very nice and really very pg looking but there is a shop with very mature content in it. There is nothing wrong with that in and of it self but should a child who has gained access to second life and just happen to walk in to that shop they would be subjected to very mature content.

I find this very very unacceptable.

due to the fact that there is absolutely no age verification at all now when registering for second life there stands a very real possibility that this could happen.

I am positive that LL does not condone this in the least little bit, but with out any age verification they have opened the way for children to access the mature content of second life.

I am very sincere about this i am not trying to have an argument i am merely stating that there is mature content in second life that should never be viewed by children.
also I'm not saying that even with age checks children could not get in to SL but with out any kind of age checks at all it makes it a lot easier for any one to get in to second life regardless of there age.
Cocoanut Cookie
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06-10-2006 19:41
I agree with Surreal. Very well put.

Whoever said, what is the sense of banning anyone now poses a good question. I would say that the only people that banning will work on are the good people in the first place.

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06-10-2006 20:08
I would like to see a safe way to merge both grids. As being young myself (almost 20) it would be nice to have some more people around my age on the main grid...17-21 is the age group I hang out with in RL so why not SL. There are a lot of older people on the main grid, and while there is a good number of younger residents I still find the majority of SL being impacted by the older generation. I think the younger generation also have something to contribute, such as hipper styles, new ideas, etc. Just my two cents :)
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06-10-2006 22:27
From: FlipperPA Peregrine
Circumventing by using a credit card that is not their own is clearly circumventing an age verification system. :)

Knowingly concealing would mean I have proof the two who IM'd me are teens; I don't have definitive proof that would stand up in court. Can you show me the part of the ToS where it says if I suspect an avatar may be a teen in SL, I must notify Linden Lab? All I see is this:




"Should", not "must"... and definitely not "you'll get in trouble unless you decide to Abuse Report a ToS violation".

For all I know, the avatars could be age-playing. But rather than reporting it for further Linden investigation, I may now choose not to fill out an Abuse Report. Nowhere in the ToS does it state that you must ever fill out an Abuse Report; its voluntary. My point being here, that I think it kind of sucks that LL is saying, "Well, since some minors got on the grid anyway, and we relied on Live Help / Mentors / good citizens to weed out the few, we're going to forego that and open the floodgates to help improve our bottom line, now relying on the same good citizens / volunteers to be a police force." That really sucks. I don't think it was LL's intention, but that's how its playing out.

Regards,

-Flip


You spoke my mind. Additionally, I tend to try to understand the actions of LL in terms of what I've seen in my own work environment. I keep thinking that they've had an efficiency team come in to look at their processes and have been provided with a list of responsibilities which can be transferred to the unpaid pool of volunteers who continue to man customer support. Teachers, Live Help, ResMods,...the list goes on and on. Now you add policing the grid for minors. Make it everyone's responsibility instead of the paid staff! Yea, that's the ticket!
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Kendra Bancroft
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06-11-2006 08:34
From: Dianne Mechanique
I think this sort of is their plan in a way. The only real alternative to the sewer that they are turning the main grid into is the private-run estates at this point.

The main grid could be "taken back" however though initiatives like self-government. Neualtenburg (the original one that is about to re-emerge Phoenix-like in the next few weeks :)), is a place of law and of sanity.

We organise ourselves as our own community and have rules against underage players, public displays of pornography etc. and more to the point WE ENFORCE THOSE RULES. Other communities do the same thing. If you want to live in a community where greifers get punished and teens are banished and every building doesn't have a giant porno ad on the side, you have to create that community. (or move to Neualtenburg :)).

LL is clearly just giving up.

The only recourse we have is such self organisation. The (non-organised) sections of the main grid are doomed to remain the cess-pool the rest of the internet has become.



The original Neualtenburg was on the main grid, and located in the Anzere Sim.

What you call "Neualtenburg" is a retreat to a private Sim.

The Official Neualtenburg (Port Neualtenburg) is back on the main grid (in the Funadama Sim), where it has always belonged, and where it continues it's experiments in developing a workable model for cooperative based comunity, as opposed to the typical model of a land rental establishment with a predilection for bureaocracy added on.

Not sure how your private Sim Community is going to save the main grid from anything.
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06-11-2006 08:53
Lindens have left the building.
Leah Salome
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06-11-2006 09:20
I think that under 18's should definatley not be allowed on the game, they should stick to SL Teens. I think they should up the age to 21 and really clamp down on it.

Im a mother, and I know that kids will try loads of snaeky ways to get to see adult content, but its adult for a reason, and we need to protect not only ourselves from being prosecuted, but also the children, from peadophiles and the like.

I have played SL for a year now, and im shocked at half the sick content I have come across, something i would not want any children to see. There's men playing women AV's cybering with other men and women without telling them that their really men, theres people getting scripted morgues into necrophilia, theres people roleplaying impailements, excecutions, gang rapes, Slavery... And while us adults can decide to stay away from that, is it something we want our childrens exposed to?

Now I dont know about you, but i dont want children, male or female, to be able to get to play on the main grid, and unknowingly have cyber sex with a 50 yr old man/woman. Whilst I myself would do everything possibe to stop that, Lindens should be doing the same.

Now theres different ages of consent etc... in different countries, so 21 is the safest bet. And I think that Lindens should put forth a statement of the measures they are going to to prevent children playing the main game, in order to give us residents, paying customers, some reassurance in their product.
Kyevan Thurston
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06-11-2006 09:41
From: Leah Salome
I have played SL for a year now, and im shocked at half the sick content I have come across, something i would not want any children to see. There's men playing women AV's cybering with other men and women without telling them that their really men, theres people getting scripted morgues into necrophilia, theres people roleplaying impailements, excecutions, gang rapes, Slavery... And while us adults can decide to stay away from that, is it something we want our childrens exposed to?

You obviously haven't been on the net buch beyond that - that sort of thing is everywhere. I agree that I don't want children seeing it, but maybe parents should take responsibility? You know, like they are supposed to?
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