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Lord Sullivan
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04-08-2009 06:14
LOL but not that fat or stupid 
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Briana Dawson
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04-08-2009 06:19
From: Lord Sullivan LOL but not that fat or stupid it is all i could think of when you said you sat in your boxers and played...  Played SL that is.  |
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Lord Sullivan
DTC at all times :)
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04-08-2009 07:54
From: Briana Dawson it is all i could think of when you said you sat in your boxers and played... Played SL that is. LOL
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Naz Fride
21st Century Faux
Join date: 8 May 2007
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04-08-2009 07:56
When I first started SL one month shy of two years ago, I never had any intention of establish any serious romantic relationship, but very soon I met someone with whom I had such an intense bond that both of us found ourselves falling into somehting very much like love, despite our best efforts and intentions. It must not have been a bad thing, because we stayed together almost a year, and the causes of it ending when it did don't prevent us from still being very close to this day. A few weeks after that relationship ended, I found that a person who I already knew and I were falling in love, so we partnered and have been together 11 months now and is going strong. So my Second Life has mostly been consumed by two long-term (for SL) partnerships.
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Pserendipity Daniels
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Join date: 21 Dec 2006
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04-08-2009 08:16
From: Virtually Monday I'm into trees this week.  One of my alts role plays trees . . . Pep ( . . . and is very disappointed that you didn't call)
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Blu Cazalet
SL 2 RL? CROSSING BORDERS
Join date: 28 Jul 2007
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04-08-2009 21:35
Let's see....since joining SL, I have gotten a RL divorce (although we still remain good friends, even still living in the same house), met a man from Holland...I am in the USA, started a SL relationship with him, marrying him in SL....met him in RL when he came to visit....got engaged after a yr and a half long SL relationship with him, went to Holland to visit him...he came back for another visit and I am going back there in August. Met his entire family and friends, and he's met mine. He is immigrating to the US where we will be married in RL. AND...started a group in SL for people like us.
-Blu- (Takes a deep breath)
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Eddie Reiner
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Join date: 30 Oct 2006
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Relationships in Both SL and RL
04-24-2009 22:20
nothing
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Pserendipity Daniels
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Join date: 21 Dec 2006
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04-24-2009 23:14
From: Eddie Reiner After reading some things about SL and it Relationships and the Damage left behind. Some people that reply can't even talk about it. Cant explane it and the only way you will know how it feels well you need to Fall in love with some one in RL to the point you would give you life in a Sec. for them and then have that taken away from you, at that point you might come close to that feeling. My relationship in RL was also almost lost but thank god its still stong. Many of you will Blow this off and not think about it and thats your option. For the ones reading this in a SL Relationship and have a RL Relationship and your Other Haft say they dont care THEY DO CARE! The feeling that they can't make there better haft Happy that they need to get it on-line and its killing them inside. For the other Haft that Has a SL Relationship and a RL Relationship and the RL other does not know. Well when that person finds out and they will. They will be Crused more then you could ever beleve. I know for my Self I would reather die then to do that to anyone
I dont want to type all bad things about SL relationships. There are good relationships made in SL and for them people. I am Happy for you !
But to the person reading this that has relationships in both SL and RL and Married you must know Male or Female the other will pay a price for your Actions and if you are ok
with that. I dont haft to tell you. You know. Let them know the Truth its better to hear it from you then the PC.
Back to the Happy relationships in SL ROCK ON !!! HAVE FUN Life is to short not to !!
P.S. I am not a really good typer lol but you know that to by now Another post that would tend to confirm my belief that something in the human genetic makeup prevents us having both emotions and intelligence. Pep (A Friday necropost from a troll? Is that why it was ignored?)
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Ephraim Kappler
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04-24-2009 23:41
No. Seems like a valid opinion to me.
Seeing as you raised the subject of trolling, Pep, are you concerned someone might steal your thunder?
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Pserendipity Daniels
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04-24-2009 23:48
From: Ephraim Kappler No. Seems like a valid opinion to me.
Seeing as you raised the subject of trolling, Pep, are you concerned someone might steal your thunder? There's an opinion expressed in there? Pep (tries to read it again)
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Colette Meiji
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04-25-2009 05:10
From: Pserendipity Daniels There's an opinion expressed in there?
Pep (tries to read it again) Looks like it to me. Maybe if you break it down into phrases and sound the words out. Its okay Pep you'll get there, we all have confidence in you. ---------------------- Also since when is 16 days out considered "Necro-posting" around here? |
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Pserendipity Daniels
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04-25-2009 06:40
From: Colette Meiji Looks like it to me.
Maybe if you break it down into phrases and sound the words out.
Its okay Pep you'll get there, we all have confidence in you.
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Also since when is 16 days out considered "Necro-posting" around here? I'd haft to haft haft a brain to haft to read it again. Pep (I'm saving up for the partial lobotomy to be like everyone else) PS I consider it necro-posting when you have to dig 16 pages back into history to extract the thread.
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Void Singer
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04-25-2009 07:18
From: Pserendipity Daniels Another post that would tend to confirm my belief that something in the human genetic makeup prevents us DISPLAYING both emotions and intelligence AT ONCE. fixed, because the previous was falsifiable.
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Pserendipity Daniels
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04-25-2009 07:29
From: Void Singer fixed, because the previous was falsifiable. I concur with your clarification.  Pep (Depends on the time of the month for some, I believe) PS Werewolves, I mean 
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Treasure Ballinger
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04-25-2009 10:37
From: Briana Dawson Except when it comes to man parts. Depends.........big brain power can overcome many other smaller parts and is far more interesting. |
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LittleMe Jewell
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04-25-2009 10:44
From: Pserendipity Daniels .... something in the human genetic makeup prevents us having both emotions and intelligence. I can prove this theory wrong, though I will admit to my intellect sometimes getting in the way of my emotions. From: Pserendipity Daniels (A Friday necropost from a troll? Is that why it was ignored?) I think very few of us would actually consider this one a necropost since the thread is only a tad over two weeks old.
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Sredni Eel
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04-25-2009 13:39
From: Virtually Monday I know, it's twice my age! At least you know it'll always have wood for you.
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Bree Giffen
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Join date: 22 Jun 2006
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04-26-2009 00:03
From: Blu Cazalet Let's see....since joining SL, I have gotten a RL divorce (although we still remain good friends, even still living in the same house), met a man from Holland...I am in the USA, started a SL relationship with him, marrying him in SL....met him in RL when he came to visit....got engaged after a yr and a half long SL relationship with him, went to Holland to visit him...he came back for another visit and I am going back there in August. Met his entire family and friends, and he's met mine. He is immigrating to the US where we will be married in RL. AND...started a group in SL for people like us.
-Blu- (Takes a deep breath) wow. Congrats Blu. That part about being in the same house with your ex is kind of amazing too. |
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Blu Cazalet
SL 2 RL? CROSSING BORDERS
Join date: 28 Jul 2007
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04-26-2009 11:29
From: Bree Giffen wow. Congrats Blu. That part about being in the same house with your ex is kind of amazing too. I know...we get along great. Of course have different bedrooms. lol. My fiance bought me a Harley, my ex is making adjustments on it for me...ie, lowering it, changing out the handlebars. They even met in Feb. Yeah...it was a bit awkward for everyone, even my adult kids, but we managed. My ex and I get along better as friends than we did when we were married. He even said he would like to come to our wedding! People keep telling me I should write a book about how to divorce without killing each other! -Blu-(who never does anything "normally" or in an expected way)
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Duane Coakes
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Join date: 18 Jun 2007
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04-26-2009 11:46
Let me add my 50 cents here....
I'm Blu's hubby in SL and her hub to be in RL and I think what it comes down to with SL relationships is that you can be perfectly happy that way but the question whether you would like your partner in RL too will always be hunting you in the back of your mind.And you won't know that untill you actually meet that person in RL.
And as for the tree lover,I hope you will one day branch out and have little twigs of your own.............
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LittleMe Jewell
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Join date: 8 Oct 2007
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04-26-2009 11:51
From: Blu Cazalet ... I have gotten a RL divorce (although we still remain good friends, even still living in the same house).... Wow. And people sometimes think I am crazy for still being really good friends with my ex - we have keys to each others' houses, he came to the wedding with my current husband, we go to summer parties at each others houses, he borrows tools from my husband, and him and my husband are pretty good friends -- and ditto for the guy that I dated for 3 years between those two. Now I will acknowledge that if we had not had children that we needed to think of, there might not have been that sort of friendship after the divorce, just because it would not have been near as necessary. But, I still managed that friendship with the very serious ex-boyfriend, so who knows. Nice to know there are others out there that can handle this sort of thing.
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Void Singer
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04-26-2009 20:03
it's not a necropost, but there is another name that applies... dumpster diving!
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Clarissa Lowell
Gone. G'bye.
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04-26-2009 20:46
From: Blu Cazalet I know...we get along great. Of course have different bedrooms. lol. My fiance bought me a Harley, my ex is making adjustments on it for me...ie, lowering it, changing out the handlebars. *psst...check the brakes* Kidding. Congrats to you and Duane. And to the three of you for getting along/being realists about the situation I guess. @ Duane - for some it's hard to see this but, not everyone approaches SL the same way. Some people are quite content not to plan, wonder, or hope for a RL meeting. Some, in fact, plan, wonder, and hope it never happens. Not everyone approaches SL as a gateway to something RL. There are many other approaches and uses for it. That includes people who have or wish to have any sort of relationships (including friendships) in Second Life. For some people it (Second Life) lives up to its title more than for others. |
