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Am I being greifed? I need help, AV account is unsuable right now...

Danielle Harrop
Jus' lil ole me
Join date: 2 Mar 2007
Posts: 410
05-04-2008 21:26
I am getting messages to my character from an object owned by "someone" who's name I cannot post for fear of naming names. The object spams me with random numbers, from a randomly numbered Linden.

like this:

84538938475734838 Linden: 10985798750478405928703948750924875029847520498752098347502984

and it's in green text. Help me now.. I've AR'd them, but I cannot use my SL account, and this will surely put me out of business. Help?

I've filed an AR.
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Dakota Tebaldi
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05-04-2008 21:28
Yes, your case seems to share some characteristics with a known griefer attack that took place a few hours ago.
Isabeau Imako
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Join date: 13 Sep 2007
Posts: 2,335
05-04-2008 21:30
What do you mean you can't use your account? You can't log on?
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Danielle Harrop
Jus' lil ole me
Join date: 2 Mar 2007
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05-04-2008 21:36
If I log in, my chat is spammed with that green text, I'm in live help now. Kudos to Sejong, who is being most helpful in live chat :)
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Oryx Tempel
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Join date: 8 Nov 2006
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05-04-2008 21:38
I just got griefed in Loepa by huge prim boxes. Seems to be going around today. I had fun returning all the boxes to that person's inventory and AR'ing him/her. *grins evilly*
Isabeau Imako
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05-04-2008 21:41
Yay!
(Sajong speaks Korean and looks like this)
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Just remember what my dear Grammy always says: "F**k 'em!"
Danielle Harrop
Jus' lil ole me
Join date: 2 Mar 2007
Posts: 410
05-04-2008 21:45
yummy! really? I'll have to call him back in a minute, cause he restared the region, but I'm still getting spammed and he wants me to turn off IM to email..which I fear will really hurt my business :(
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Macphisto Angelus
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05-04-2008 21:51
From: Oryx Tempel
I just got griefed in Loepa by huge prim boxes. Seems to be going around today. I had fun returning all the boxes to that person's inventory and AR'ing him/her. *grins evilly*


Oryx.. give the attack it's proper respect.
Those are called "The big black boxes of doom". You have to raise your fist in the air and wave it when you say that too. You know.. for effect.
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Pocket Pfeffer
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Join date: 19 May 2007
Posts: 586
05-04-2008 21:53
Well, whatever Sejong looks like......I'll be forever grateful to him....because he's just given me a fantastic rezz-day pressie :D

He must be a very busy man right now, because I've just talked to him via 'live-chat' also, and when I logged back in, my hud along with all of my no-copy animations...were back in my inventory..... :)

Danielle, I'm sorry to hear that you're being griefed in this way, it must be very upsetting for you and I hope you get it sorted soon.....
Isabeau Imako
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05-04-2008 21:55
From: Danielle Harrop
yummy! really? I'll have to call him back in a minute, cause he restared the region, but I'm still getting spammed and he wants me to turn off IM to email..which I fear will really hurt my business :(


Oh no! Maybe you can tell your customers to send notecards for the time being, (in your profile). I hope it's only temporary.
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Danielle Harrop
Jus' lil ole me
Join date: 2 Mar 2007
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05-04-2008 21:57
It is very, very upsetting to me, because I've done nothing to anyone. I"m a loner...and I live and let live.


I've turned off email to IM, and still getting spammed from SL. This is unacceptable. Someone wants me out of SL, and I dunno why.


You know, I dont need this. I have a son just diagnosed with autism, and 8 year old daughter who's discovering lying, a 15 year old daughter who's starting college, and a husband who's changing jobs, in denail about the son's autism, and my health isn't good.

What the *** did I ever do to deserve this...not a GD thing.
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Macphisto Angelus
JAFO
Join date: 21 Oct 2004
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05-04-2008 22:00
Danielle they are doing it to tons of people. I don't think they are targeting you personaly, they are just ***holes who use a system to grab your avie Key and that is how they get your name. I am truly sorry to hear about the stress in your life. SL should be without this crap so you can relax some.

I hope it gets resolved for you soon. Hang in there.
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Sansarya Caligari
BLEH!
Join date: 25 Apr 2005
Posts: 1,206
05-04-2008 22:06
Danielle,
Try to find the object spamming you or at least the name of the object, then type it in the "Mute" list under "View" at the top of the screen. Mute the object, then log out. Log back in, then Unmute it. This worked for me and my husband when our email was spammed by their object two weeks ago.
Danielle Harrop
Jus' lil ole me
Join date: 2 Mar 2007
Posts: 410
05-04-2008 22:16
it would be easy if it was one object, but it seems the object changes its name every time it sends a message...I have the whole transcript in my spam filter. So unless I can ban at least 60 objects a second with a random number generator, I aint doin more than just typing a lot for nothing. It is also changing locations now.
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Sansarya Caligari
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05-04-2008 22:28
I'm sorry, that sucks Danielle. The group seems to be stepping up their griefing methods. There's a JIRA on one of their methods, someone at the Lab is working on it, but doesn't help much right now. :(

http://jira.secondlife.com/browse/VWR-3558
Rhaorth Antonelli
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Join date: 15 Apr 2006
Posts: 7,425
05-04-2008 23:14
I doubt they are targeting you specifically
everyone in SL has a story about stress in RL, and I would say the majority get griefed and say exactly the same thing you did, why me?

Why you? Because you play secondlife, that is all it takes.

I hope you get it cleared out, Sejong will do his best to help as much as he can.
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Morpheus Linden: But then I change avs pretty often too, so often, I look nothing like my avatar. :)


They are taking away the forums... it could be worse, they could be taking away the forums AND Second Life...
Danielle Harrop
Jus' lil ole me
Join date: 2 Mar 2007
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05-04-2008 23:22
follow up, yet again, they got my email from my profile...hope this doesn't kill what lil business I had, but anyway...griefed at the rate of 500 emails a minute at least on 2 email addresses.


Sejong? he's very calm and nice and polite, and kept me calm through our hour of conversation. and Elle was very helpful too. SL live chat is very, very helpful and comforting. Without "going there" withe me, they were very concerned, asked good questions, and gave good answers.

but still, feels very personal, and after the day I had RL....SL is supposed to be fun.

never did nothing to no one.

never asked for much.

I stood up for someone's right to say their opinions. And that's why I got greifed.

Free speech. I guess it only counts for those...well...I dunno...anyway...just prooves to me that the world is a sucky place.
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Macphisto Angelus
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05-04-2008 23:26
You had your email address in your profile? Or they have a way to get it through our profiles?
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Rhaorth Antonelli
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Posts: 7,425
05-04-2008 23:27
From: Danielle Harrop


I stood up for someone's right to say their opinions. And that's why I got greifed.


I am guessing from this statement you now know who is doing it and getting it cleared up?
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They are taking away the forums... it could be worse, they could be taking away the forums AND Second Life...
3Ring Binder
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Join date: 8 Mar 2007
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05-04-2008 23:30
Danielle, can you get a new email addy and NOT put it in your profile for the time being? put it in a notecard in objects you sell.

as for RL, you don't even know the gift you've been handed. autism is not a scary, evil curse, nor a disease. it just is a way of life. and when you learn the skills that come with being the parent of a special needs child, you'll be ever so grateful for the experience, and blessing.

i know it seems a dark cloud now, you wait and see. pride will take command soon enough. i don't know why in the world your husband would turn his back on it. it's not like you have a choice, or that he's a failure or anything. 1-500 children are diagnosed with autism currently, and i expect that number to become even greater (say 1-400) within just a few short years. there are plenty of programs, even public school, that have all sorts of helps and tips and actual systems set up to teach you how to teach him to transition. it could be worse - he could've been born missing limbs or have CP or even downes syndrome.... or worse, be ED. :eek: count your lucky stars it's a manageable condition.

it'll be okay after the initial hard work of learning the ropes is behind you. best of luck. =D
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Danielle Harrop
Jus' lil ole me
Join date: 2 Mar 2007
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05-04-2008 23:40
My main email was in the SL support thing as my contact, and I had IM's to email, but then I had my business email in my profile...they nailed both. Even after 2 times blacklisting the objects in sl, and banning the owner, they're still flooding my email addresses..both of them.

and 3...oh, oh my god, I know...I passed into acceptance when he (monkey boy) was bout 15 months...but hubby, it's so hard for guys, all he can say is "idiot son"...if he had been a girl child itwouldn't be as bad....my son, he's amazing, he's very intelligent, he just sees the world so differently.....a shame the world won't see him for what he is...only for what he is not.but ...anyway, 3..thanks...really :) today just wasn't the day to greif me...

and I gotta get up r/l in 4 hours and do it all over again.

Greifer boy needs to get outta his momma's basement and find a real life
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3Ring Binder
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05-04-2008 23:45
autism does not equal idiot. your husband is an idiot if he treats his own child like that. that makes me MAD that he would say that about a baby, especially his own child. i'd kick him right in the groin if i heard him say it around me! :mad: that's only going to make things worse for everyone, and he's a fool for being closed-minded and unsupportive. shoot, depending on the level he is on the spectrum, he might grow up to be a tremendoudly productive adult. one track minds = success in the workplace! ;)

now, go get some new emails and get some sleep.
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Danielle Harrop
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05-05-2008 00:13
He's only a man, it's hard for men to accept their son as anything less than perfect. Especially a man who grew up without a father. I don't make excuses.

This greifing was because I said on SLX forums that someone had a right to her opinion, whether or not it was the popular one.

Now I'm a target. Squashing free speech is not noble, it's ignorant. Squashing human rights is not cool and sexy, it's stupid and childish.

Please, if you get greifed, report it. report it everywhere you can.

Second Life is supposed to be fun. It isn't very fun right now.
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Rhaorth Antonelli
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05-05-2008 00:57
dani I wish I could help but alas I can not
I do not really understand autism but I sure can relate to the child that has learned the art of lies....
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3Ring Binder
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05-05-2008 06:53
From: Danielle Harrop
He's only a man, it's hard for men to accept their son as anything less than perfect. Especially a man who grew up without a father. I don't make excuses.

you DO make excuses.

he is not the only man with a sordid, twisted, dysfunctional or traumatic background and problem. i have seen much worse act much better. all the men i know with sepcial needs kids are stepping up to the plate and not only not belittling their precious child, but loving them unconditionally and doing everything in their power to make the lives of their child and families better. sorry you married such a loser. it should not be like that.
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