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ZsuZsanna Raven
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10-10-2008 15:06
From: Esthezia Andel
Only in SL could a subject line like this be seen as normal.

Is the popcorn ready yet?


It amazes me that someone this new is all about buyin a penis. Back when I started, SL was all about creativity and exploring. Now it's "I need a penis, STAT!!"
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FD Spark
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10-10-2008 15:18
My first alt was born 2003 and I never wore one until over the last summer which only briefly and that was few months ago personally or even seriously attempted to do anything with pose balls but everyone is different.
The low point for me was giving 10k to a Escort and after that I decided after that
I wouldn't ever do it again and I haven't worn it since.
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LittleMe Jewell
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10-10-2008 15:30
From: ZsuZsanna Raven
It amazes me that someone this new is all about buyin a penis. Back when I started, SL was all about creativity and exploring. Now it's "I need a penis, STAT!!"
What? You mean SL is NOT all about sex?

Damnit, the media lied.
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ZsuZsanna Raven
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10-10-2008 15:39
From: LittleMe Jewell
What? You mean SL is NOT all about sex?

Damnit, the media lied.
:(



lol :D
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10-10-2008 15:48
From: ZsuZsanna Raven
It amazes me that someone this new is all about buyin a penis. Back when I started, SL was all about creativity and exploring. Now it's "I need a penis, STAT!!"


Maybe having a penis can make you explore more creatively?
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Tod69 Talamasca
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10-10-2008 16:03
From: Bella Posaner
Ok, no offence folks, but no matter how much I read it, hear about or even have the misfortune of seeing it, I can not for the life of me understand why people want to have cartoon sex. Maybe it's because I get plenty in RL.

I make no judgement, each to their own, but maybe someone could explain that one to me, I have long wondered about it?


Wondered that myself. But with the fiancee on the other side of the continent - for now- I can see a reason.

If we ever get Flexi-Sculpties, I will DEFINITELY start making some realistic Peni & Mammary Glands :)
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Aryan Genira
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10-10-2008 18:23
From: ZsuZsanna Raven
It amazes me that someone this new is all about buyin a penis. Back when I started, SL was all about creativity and exploring. Now it's "I need a penis, STAT!!"


Not everyone is same and that's why there is SL. having a penis is kinda exploration too, but thanks for your input on me instead on the topic.
Jig Chippewa
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10-11-2008 08:11
From: Bella Posaner
Ok, no offence folks, but no matter how much I read it, hear about or even have the misfortune of seeing it, I can not for the life of me understand why people want to have cartoon sex. Maybe it's because I get plenty in RL.

I make no judgement, each to their own, but maybe someone could explain that one to me, I have long wondered about it?


Well, of course it is a form of masturbation. But masturbating with another person makes it intimate and satisfying for both men and women (or same sex). It is not a selfish act at all. My own sl partner is really in his midsixties. I am approaching 30. My pleasure is heightened by knowing I am giving him pleasure without pressure. He needs this form of sexual activity.

Sex is not a "misfortune" even when it is observed accidentally. If it is two consenting adults it is a contact of the most intense kind. SL sex can be incredibly self-revealing and extremelly intimate. I think we are inventing relationships and exploring new opportunities for a beautiful thing.

For some of us (a very career-oriented or busy person like myself, for example) a SL partner is an opportunity to have some pleasure even when I dont have time to involve myself with a real partner. Again my sl partner is a busy man, always travelling like myself.

Sex and conversation go hand in hand for me. I don't urge you to try it, but I can assure you my orgasms are intense and my human "self" benefits. I hope that helps a bit :)
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Jig Chippewa
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10-11-2008 08:13
From: FD Spark
The low point for me was giving 10k to a Escort and after that I decided after that I wouldn't ever do it again and I haven't worn it since.


Thanks!
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Jig Chippewa
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10-11-2008 08:14
From: Pserendipity Daniels
I used to think a "mixed marriage" was a male and a female . . .

Pep (Maybe it is after all)


My own partner is a Satyr so I can really expect kids if pregnancy was possible!
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10-12-2008 16:48
From: Jig Chippewa
Well, of course it is a form of masturbation. But masturbating with another person makes it intimate and satisfying for both men and women (or same sex). It is not a selfish act at all. My own sl partner is really in his midsixties. I am approaching 30. My pleasure is heightened by knowing I am giving him pleasure without pressure. He needs this form of sexual activity.

Sex is not a "misfortune" even when it is observed accidentally. If it is two consenting adults it is a contact of the most intense kind. SL sex can be incredibly self-revealing and extremelly intimate. I think we are inventing relationships and exploring new opportunities for a beautiful thing.

For some of us (a very career-oriented or busy person like myself, for example) a SL partner is an opportunity to have some pleasure even when I dont have time to involve myself with a real partner. Again my sl partner is a busy man, always travelling like myself.

Sex and conversation go hand in hand for me. I don't urge you to try it, but I can assure you my orgasms are intense and my human "self" benefits. I hope that helps a bit :)


Thanks Jig and to those who have answered my question. I won't be trying it anytime soon Jig, I have a RL partner, don't think he'd approve somehow LOL.

Seems there are varying needs for those who indulge, I guess it's a personal thing for each individual. Each to their own, thanks everyone for helping me to understand :)
FD Spark
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10-12-2008 17:16
Everyone brings their own personal "Meat" self experiences, believes and morality or lack of morality to this subject even virtually.
For me it wasn't very intimate thing, it just felt like unhealthy compulsion
with people who didn't care very much about each other except for a fantasy.
It became annoying job after two months that didn't pay very well
and got boring very fast that made me feel worse about myself and reminded
me of unpleasant parts of my first life in that area.
Sex has never been pleasant subject in any of my lives.
And it not any different virtually.
What I saw was people out of control, just cruising, hopping on same or
different poses and moving on to next person, nothing else for hours
and hours of the day.
Personally what I observed and what it reminded me of bunch sex addicted Men and Women who literally spend hours participating in unhealthy out of control behavior
not based on a creative loving exchange, not even balance exchange of sexual
empowerment or intimacy but something very distorted and unhealthy.
They have the right to do that, maybe it wasn't for them unhealthy but for me it wasn't
healthy.
What I saw around this in SL personally made me feel bit sick, feel used
and out of control form of codependent people pleasing or hormonally charged stupidity
without any pleasure, fun or closeness.
I often felt too exposed or was concerned about emotionally harming
others and myself.
It just felt wrong personally.
Also I just don't like wearing attachments personally it just feels unnatural.
I didn't like the person FD became when he put his cruising gear personally
it just felt wrong.
I like being the platonic grumpy creative non-partner elf who just doesn't think about those things here personally but that is personal choice.
Personally with those who I bought penis for, and one's for myself and my alts
I hope it paid for lot of nice things for the creators but I personally I don't know
if I would have bought one if I had clue what the exploring would have led me too.
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10-12-2008 17:40
:: pretends to wonder what sort of 'exploring' gets done with a detachable penis ::
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Arielle Aristocrat
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10-12-2008 19:41
If it's with the right partner in SL, SL sex can feel VERY real.

It's one of those things that has to be experienced to be understood. Because I certainly would never have believed SL sex to be half as enjoyable as it is.

And, back to the OP's question, the REALASM penis is quite good. Not sure if it's under $700L though.

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FD Spark
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10-12-2008 19:44
Realasm is 800L when I got it, personally found it not as nice as Lotus in fact
next to the Lotus way to big, found it personally ugly especially with its dark ugly shadow lines and annoying to use the hud. And there no animation features with it.
Features with Lotus are better.
Realasm there were times the sculpty too forever to hatch and looked really
awful in high lag sex clubs.
Lotus rezzes faster, looks bit better and doesn't seem to stay forever in that ugly
egg shaped sculpty type of unhatched shape in laggy sex clubs like I experienced
with Realasm.
One way to ruin the mood I think is have one's penis look like ugly egg forever or look really badly textured sculpty.
Also with Realasm size one tends to have there penis show up in really weird places
during sex.
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