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Is the word "sexy" considered offensive or inappropriate?

Robot Foxley
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06-27-2009 19:10
Wow, people that complain about this stuff are probably part of the problem with the "Disneyfication" of Second Life. As others have stated, it's super common in all sorts of media. These same people are probably overbearing parents and religious nut-jobs.

You know which animation I could see a legitimate complaint about? I don't know its name, but it involves contorting your avatar into an orally self pleasing position while a sound clip of cookie monster eating is played.

Even though I thought it was hilarious when I first saw/heard it. lol
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06-27-2009 19:20
From: Robot Foxley

You know which animation I could see a legitimate complaint about? I don't know its name, but it involves contorting your avatar into an orally self pleasing position while a sound clip of cookie monster eating is played.


I use that animation when I am a Neko.
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06-27-2009 19:20
From: Jig Chippewa
Seriously people, what century are some of the SL users living in?
Well, there is that huge, huge Caledon area that Desmond has set up.

:D
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06-27-2009 19:22
From: LittleMe Jewell
Well, there is that huge, huge Caledon area that Desmond has set up.

:D


Yeah but its kinda Victorian and THEY were into body piercing in a huge way. Penis rings and nipple studs. Those Vics were one crazy mixed-up crowd. It was all that laudanum they were on.
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Darien Caldwell
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06-27-2009 19:34
I can't think of any instance where the word Sexy is offensive or in appropriate.

Except maybe when talking about your own mom. :P

Ignore them.
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06-27-2009 19:38
From: Francis Chung

However, if it turns out that I've been inadvertently offending people for years, perhaps I should consider revising the documentation.

What do you think?
I don't think you should change one word.
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06-27-2009 19:39
From: Darien Caldwell
I can't think of any instance where the word Sexy is offensive or in appropriate.

Except maybe when talking about your own mom. :P

Ignore them.


I think my Mum is sexy. Men do anyway (and women like me I guess). She wears sexy clothes and looks sexy. She hasnt got to the granny stage but she's sexy.
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06-27-2009 19:41
From: Francis Chung
However, if it turns out that I've been inadvertently offending people for years, perhaps I should consider revising the documentation.

What do you think?


I would go before Congress when McCarthy questions you and have a damned good lawyer.
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06-27-2009 19:41
From: Dune Enzo

I may be a dissenting voice here but what is usually considered a sexy walk in SL, I find convulsively hilarious. If any woman I knew in RL walked like that I'd take her to the vet to be put down - it's clear there's major spinal cord damage. It's so fake and exaggerated as to be laughable.
Take it up with the publishers of Poser. It was one of the default walk animations in Poser, which is why it got uploaded several skillion times under that name.
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Nic Writer
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06-27-2009 19:49
What? Please tell me the person who told you that wasn't serious.

Another data point here chiming in that I do not find 'sexy' offensive, especially when used to denote an animation named that in documentation for an animation overrider.

I do find the sexy_walk animation exaggerated and slightly silly, at least for me, but it is miles ahead of the LL duckwalk.
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06-27-2009 19:54
Can I say BUM one last time?

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eee by gum, I needed that!
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06-27-2009 20:13
From: Dune Enzo
If any woman I knew in RL walked like that I'd take her to the vet to be put down - it's clear there's major spinal cord damage. It's so fake and exaggerated as to be laughable.


Oh and why would you take a human woman to an animal doctor? Are you saying we're all on the par of house pets?

:P
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06-27-2009 21:31
i find that old diagonal sexy walk pretty offensive!
im glad my frani didnt come with that.
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06-27-2009 21:44
Get used to it. It's part of the More Predictable SL Experience
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06-27-2009 21:49
Is idiocy an ARable offense?
Good grief- they need a life- forget them - then walk away all sexy like ;)
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Damien1 Thorne
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06-27-2009 21:55
wait a minute...

sexy implies...

sex...

there's sex in SL? :confused:
MoiselleErin Teardrop
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06-27-2009 22:32
"Sexy" is a strong but not profane adjective. I would not dream that anyone would find it offensive. It doesn't bother me personally

I mean just how sensitive are some people that a word like "Sexy" is going to offend?
No matter what the word, someone is going to be bothered by it. There is *no* pleasing some people.
Oh wait, I said "pleasing", is that offensive? Is there too much an innuendo? HAR HAR HAR

From: Weston Graves
Not broadly offensive no. I hear it 24 hours a day on television -- or at least I WOULD if I watched TV. People offended by this word would do well to stay in their village and not access the wider world.

Funny yet true
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06-27-2009 23:20
in context, the word describes what is trying to be achieved (plus the whole blame it on poser thing), so your customer is a twit

I do find it funny that most female walks are titled "sexy", but there isn't even an equivalent "studly" (or whatever) walk for guys.... illustrating that women are considered primarily on their sexual attributes, whereas men are often not (yet who has sex on the brain more often, and in wider sometimes more bizarre contexts?)

From: Darien Caldwell
Except maybe when talking about your own mom. :P

ya know, I just have to... http://www.hulu.com/watch/72434/saturday-night-live-digital-short-motherlover-censored

PS victorians invented kink... it was never about what you can or can't do, but in what context you did it ;)

PPS All hail the original hero of SL, That saved us from duckwalking in a most stylish way. You're still one of my original scripting heroes Francis =)
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Ephraim Kappler
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06-27-2009 23:44
The OP might have any number of reasons to revise her celebrated remedy for duckwalking but I think it's fair to say this cannot be one of them.
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06-27-2009 23:48
It's hard to believe the commenter was serious.
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06-28-2009 00:44
From: Francis Chung
Hi everyone

A little while back, I wrote an open-source animation overrider that's become somewhat popular. I recently received a complaint because it uses the word "sexy" in the documentation, and someone found it offensive.


I would abuse report the person complaining for violating #1 of the "community standards" (intolerance), and for generally being too stupid to be allowed near any kind of complicated machinery (like, a box of matches).
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06-28-2009 02:05
I'm bringing sexy back.
Jig Chippewa
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06-28-2009 04:53
YEAH!

I might add ...

You see these shackles
Baby I'm your slave
I'll let you whip me if I misbehave
It's just that no one makes me feel this way ...

Uh-huh.
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06-28-2009 07:30
I want sexy front, too.

And sideways.
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