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Escorting and Stripping in SL
Lear Cale
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Join date: 22 Aug 2007
Posts: 3,569
11-19-2008 14:01
From: Lindal Kidd
LOL. That reminds me of the guys who boast, "I never paid for it in my life!"

Your choice, of course...but have you asked yourself why you feel this way? I mean, if you ask someone for SL sex (or web sex in general, for that matter) you are asking for some of their time, their creativity and their undivided attention.

Isn't that worth something? Maybe you want to find someone for whom payment is their own pleasure and satisfaction. That's fine, and they are out there to be found. Other people prefer money...
Absolutely. However, it would be wasted money on my part. What turns me on is turning someone else on. If they're getting paid for it, I'd have a hard time convincing myself they're not just doing it for the lindens, and that would rob the fun.

When I engage in slex, I want my partner to be doing it for the simple reason that they're enjoying it. I realize that's not always the case, but as long as I *think* it's the case, well, I'm good! :D
Pserendipity Daniels
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Join date: 21 Dec 2006
Posts: 8,839
11-19-2008 14:10
From: Lindal Kidd
LOL. That reminds me of the guys who boast, "I never paid for it in my life!"

Your choice, of course...but have you asked yourself why you feel this way? I mean, if you ask someone for SL sex (or web sex in general, for that matter) you are asking for some of their time, their creativity and their undivided attention.

Isn't that worth something? Maybe you want to find someone for whom payment is their own pleasure and satisfaction. That's fine, and they are out there to be found. Other people prefer money...

I want someone to want me for me, not for my money.

Pep (Made that mistake with my rl wife)
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